Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Shameonyou
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Church.
I'm divorced. This broad I'm messing with now, we're seeing what happens because we have a good time together. Nothing more. Ever since that conversation (because I like to be clear about expectations and communicate them) she's been "playing hard to get".
I don't think she understands that a divorced dude knows what he wants, and she doesn't need to bother with the fukkery. If it keeps up, I'm just gonna peace myself out.
Part of it is probably to do with her not wanting to scare me off with commitment, or something. I'm living life one day at a time. I'm a 'hit the puzz and see what's up' type of fellow.
The irony for this young lady is that this response of hers - to my last clear communique - is making me less likely to air my thoughts and desires and expectations altogether. And then she loses.
how old is this shorty?
Here's a project for you.
Elaborate on what you just said, plz.
I have a pair of lincolns for your comment as well but want your thoughts.
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They actually have a message board dedicated to these women trying to catch 'ballers.
Discussion Forum - Baller Alert.com
There are a lot of women in the world and a lot of different types of men. You're only gonna vibe with the women who are into men like yourself. Considering the large number of women out there if you're a regular dude that's gonna be a relatively low number of the total out there. To those women you can be all they want to the rest of the woman out there they aren't your concern.
lots of guys step out here with their egos. They want every woman to want them. They're not out here trying to target the type of woman that would be into them they're trying to make any woman fall for them. Some call it having game.
its not about making any woman fall for you its about knowing your target audience that likes guys like you and focusing on that.
if you aren't an a$$hole and you meet a woman that's into that sort of guy you just move on. I think NAS put it best; I got no game its just some bytches understand my story. Notice he said some not all or even most.
during work i was walking to a local store to get some snacks...or some milk whatever....and this girl at the donut shop beside it that I see sometimes pulled this same kinda shyt. she was sitting down and as soon as i booked it i wanted to turn around and sit beside her but that woulda felt too forced to me. I always knew she was feeling me too. Hopefully I find myself in a suitable situation where I can comfortably holla at her. I always be seeing her when shes working though. bet it wont happen though
especially with school round the corner nice little serbian looking chick. puty pink lips. slender body, and a thin waist.
one thing i noticed about a raggedy female is most women can project a normal aura even if their shyt is falling apart. chicks get their hair done and keep their clothes up regardless of how things are going. they'll skip out on bills for this shyt just to maintain an image of having it together.
as a man its easy to be deceived by a woman that appears normal but is actually a walking calamity. i mean life totally fukked up from job to credit to kids to all that.
in the past i've let p*ssy blind me and dealt with raggedy females, none with kids but i'm talking like you find out a chick ain't got a job but at that point you hitting it so its like whatever.
the way i'm feeling now its like even a jumpoff needs to bring something to the table. i got my own apartment, a decent job, a car, and no kids. if a chick can't match me step for step in life she's getting cut off the instant i find out something is coming up short.
another thing i noticed is women will try to get you to buy into her image of who she is which is usually a delusion. they flat out overlook their own flaws, look at the amount of nikkas that's trying to get at them and use that as stock in themselves. take fukked up things about themselves and try to re-frame it or turn it into a badge of honor (thick instead of chunky, single mom ect) you really gotta look at them hard through your own eyes and filter out anything they tell you about themselves. even if you gotta get a sheet of paper and list all her positives and negatives.
as a man its easy to be deceived by a woman that appears normal but is actually a walking calamity. i mean life totally fukked up from job to credit to kids to all that.
in the past i've let p*ssy blind me and dealt with raggedy females, none with kids but i'm talking like you find out a chick ain't got a job but at that point you hitting it so its like whatever.
the way i'm feeling now its like even a jumpoff needs to bring something to the table. i got my own apartment, a decent job, a car, and no kids. if a chick can't match me step for step in life she's getting cut off the instant i find out something is coming up short.
another thing i noticed is women will try to get you to buy into her image of who she is which is usually a delusion. they flat out overlook their own flaws, look at the amount of nikkas that's trying to get at them and use that as stock in themselves. take fukked up things about themselves and try to re-frame it or turn it into a badge of honor (thick instead of chunky, single mom ect) you really gotta look at them hard through your own eyes and filter out anything they tell you about themselves. even if you gotta get a sheet of paper and list all her positives and negatives.
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Tony_Siegel
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Raisins (Season 7, Episode 14) - Full Episode Player - South Park Studios
For all the south park heads, mad gems are dropped on this one. Loads of output from this thread are mirrored in this episode.
Do yourself a favor brehs..Avoid chicks with Daddy issues..Those are the type of chicks who don't love themselves..There will never be enough love you can give to a woman if she doesn't love herself first
I guess the advice I would give is to not sleep with every women who throws the p*ssy at you. In these times with all the diseases out here take your time and know the girl a little before you sleep with her. try to master you urges
guess what I'm saying is don't trust a big butt and a smile
guess what I'm saying is don't trust a big butt and a smile
Do yourself a favor brehs..Avoid chicks with Daddy issues..Those are the type of chicks who don't love themselves..There will never be enough love you can give to a woman if she doesn't love herself first
I just dealt with the baddest bytch I've ever had in my life... all sorts of dudes hollering and simping like crazy.
Daddy issues, fukked up background, her ex cheated and beat her...
She asked me why am I so calm? You're not like all these other dudes... then the bullshyt started. All sorts of tests and accusations of having a girl... She fake dumped me on a thursday, regretted it 3 hours later... I went home, thought about that shyt over the weekend and ended it on monday. I'm not even going to try to decipher her thoughts but if that was some sort of test to gauge me cuz Im different than all those chumps that shyt wasnt cool...
I aint gon lie, I miss the shyt out of her
I think its better to not get attached until you've assessed her character. That way you don't miss a person that's likely to be dead weight in your life and or bring chaos into it.
I just dealt with the baddest bytch I've ever had in my life... all sorts of dudes hollering and simping like crazy.
Daddy issues, fukked up background, her ex cheated and beat her...
She asked me why am I so calm? You're not like all these other dudes... then the bullshyt started. All sorts of tests and accusations of having a girl... She fake dumped me on a thursday, regretted it 3 hours later... I went home, thought about that shyt over the weekend and ended it on monday. I'm not even going to try to decipher her thoughts but if that was some sort of test to gauge me cuz Im different than all those chumps that shyt wasnt cool...
I aint gon lie, I miss the shyt out of her
Some feminist is going to take you out breh for preaching that gospel.
I always say chicks can't tell the guys who just want to smash them from the guys who actually want commitment.
To their minds it's all the same. I'll bring up one of my good friends who is now a single mom her mind was warped as well thinking she was all that and had so many guy friends and thought she was the ish. Then she got knocked up and gave birth, every time I talk to her she whines how none of her friends talk to her anymore, how the only time guys talk to her now is because they want sex and I'm like
