Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

one thing i noticed about a raggedy female is most women can project a normal aura even if their shyt is falling apart. chicks get their hair done and keep their clothes up regardless of how things are going. they'll skip out on bills for this shyt just to maintain an image of having it together.

as a man its easy to be deceived by a woman that appears normal but is actually a walking calamity. i mean life totally fukked up from job to credit to kids to all that.

in the past i've let p*ssy blind me and dealt with raggedy females, none with kids but i'm talking like you find out a chick ain't got a job but at that point you hitting it so its like whatever.

the way i'm feeling now its like even a jumpoff needs to bring something to the table. i got my own apartment, a decent job, a car, and no kids. if a chick can't match me step for step in life she's getting cut off the instant i find out something is coming up short.

another thing i noticed is women will try to get you to buy into her image of who she is which is usually a delusion. they flat out overlook their own flaws, look at the amount of nikkas that's trying to get at them and use that as stock in themselves. take fukked up things about themselves and try to re-frame it or turn it into a badge of honor (thick instead of chunky, single mom ect) you really gotta look at them hard through your own eyes and filter out anything they tell you about themselves. even if you gotta get a sheet of paper and list all her positives and negatives.

Some feminist is going to take you out breh for preaching that gospel.

I always say chicks can't tell the guys who just want to smash them from the guys who actually want commitment.

To their minds it's all the same. I'll bring up one of my good friends who is now a single mom her mind was warped as well thinking she was all that and had so many guy friends and thought she was the ish. Then she got knocked up and gave birth, every time I talk to her she whines how none of her friends talk to her anymore, how the only time guys talk to her now is because they want sex and I'm like

 

[MikelArteta]

Do yourself a favor brehs..Avoid chicks with Daddy issues..Those are the type of chicks who don't love themselves..There will never be enough love you can give to a woman if she doesn't love herself first

I agree, avoid avoid avoid. Most of these chicks are major sluts first off can't maintain a decent relationship with a man, and continue to look for love in the wrong places. These chicks need therapy

 

[Ohene]

yea my ex had daddy issues but none of it transpired into our short live relationship ...

*sigh* i miss her

 

[MikelArteta]

I just dealt with the baddest bytch I've ever had in my life... all sorts of dudes hollering and simping like crazy.

Daddy issues, fukked up background, her ex cheated and beat her...

She asked me why am I so calm? You're not like all these other dudes... then the bullshyt started. All sorts of tests and accusations of having a girl... She fake dumped me on a thursday, regretted it 3 hours later... I went home, thought about that shyt over the weekend and ended it on monday. I'm not even going to try to decipher her thoughts but if that was some sort of test to gauge me cuz Im different than all those chumps that shyt wasnt cool...

I aint gon lie, I miss the shyt out of her

Run
Take it from me not worth it, even me te calmest dude the stress the aggravation.

Women like these no matter how hot they are, are poison. No man can put up with that bs not even simps, chicks like these get married 5-6 times like Liz Taylor, chicks like these are like Kim kardashians they bring stress drama, to your life.

Take it from me I'm a man who has dated models, I'm at the point in my life where I don't want to deal with that maintenance anymore, I'm fine messing with corollas and civics now instead of audis and lexuses


What you miss is the vagina the sex the head, you don't miss spending time with her.

 

[winb83]

I guess the advice I would give is to not sleep with every women who throws the p*ssy at you. In these times with all the diseases out here take your time and know the girl a little before you sleep with her. try to master you urges

guess what I'm saying is don't trust a big butt and a smile

You could take 5 weeks to get to know a woman and it still won't tell you she's HIV positive. If you aren't gonna make her get tested before you have sex then its irrelevant. Men act like a woman sleeping with a lot of men is a big deal. It doesn't matter how many guys she slept with what matters is does she have something. You could fukk a chick that's been with one man and has something or that's fukked 200 and is std free.

 

[winb83]

Some feminist is going to take you out breh for preaching that gospel.

I always say chicks can't tell the guys who just want to smash them from the guys who actually want commitment.

To their minds it's all the same. I'll bring up one of my good friends who is now a single mom her mind was warped as well thinking she was all that and had so many guy friends and thought she was the ish. Then she got knocked up and gave birth, every time I talk to her she whines how none of her friends talk to her anymore, how the only time guys talk to her now is because they want sex and I'm like

Men typically aren't as deceptive as women because they aren't as perceptive. A dusty nikka will usually show through right away. These women aren't being fooled they're dealing with men based off entertainment value. Women are entertained by drama and bs, that's why they watch all these VH1 reality shows about hoodrats and nonsense.Women care more about appearances then men anyway.

 

[Nintendough]

Do yourself a favor brehs..Avoid chicks with Daddy issues..Those are the type of chicks who don't love themselves..There will never be enough love you can give to a woman if she doesn't love herself first

It can be a rough experience with these types. Try dating a self-proclaimed feminist with daddy issues.

 

[MikelArteta]

yea my ex had daddy issues but none of it transpired into our short live relationship ...

*sigh* i miss her

Why do you miss her?

 

[Ohene]

: :

Why do you miss her?

we never fukked if thats what youre thinking because she went to York, I went to Mac and the period that we were together we didnt have a chance too but it was gonna happen during reading week Broke up about a month before that.

The chemistry between us was just something beautiful. I had never really felt that way towards a girl before . I was all books during school and the hussies werent gonna side track me.


But yea...simply overall:

her beauty
her personality
our chemistry
her talent in painting

she was supposed to be the one breh. its a shame she had to blow shyt outta proportion. Now shes my number one source of motivation in this life . Her and everryone else who has ever transgressed me. I'm finna transfer to Ivey and land a job at an I-Bank once I'm done this internship. I think I'm really gonna do it.

nikkas at Ivey making 30K in a summer working for Barclays, Credit Suisse-LA and shyt 22K a year though of tuition for two years But its worth it.

 

[Seth Brundle]

how old is this shorty?

27. But the perfect mix between successful career-wise and shy with dudes.

And built.

 

[MikelArteta]

I think as man to succeed you have to have a lot of self work and confidence.

Unlike women you will rarely if ever get approached and picked up, even though most
Men who holler at women just want to get laid, it gives them confidence and self worth as a man you hve to gain that on your own.

As a man you can do everything right, Be faithful not a simp not cheat, be loving and
Still be frustrated at the losses you take.

Even ugly fat girls have options, not saying their all
Good options but their options none the less. Well as a guy you can look good be smart have money and still get no play and then you wonder hats wrong with me. Stop that perception.


Women base everything on the attn they get, I always remember this chick I was messing with saying she hated when guys approached her but of guys never did she would hate it to

As a man you shouldnt worry, stay steadfast stay strong , time is the great equalizer

 

[twan83]

Man Im not even sure how much longer im gonna be dealing with her shyt yall

There are things that happen behind closed doors i rather not say but im really unhappy where im at in this relationship.

Feel like she is draining the shyt outta me like a damn leech instead of being happy that im a father again which i am im more upset exhausted with the damn wife and her shyt

just keeping it 100 with yall

 

[MikelArteta]

Man Im not even sure how much longer im gonna be dealing with her shyt yall

There are things that happen behind closed doors i rather not say but im really unhappy where im at in this relationship.

Feel like she is draining the shyt outta me like a damn leech instead of being happy that im a father again which i am im more upset exhausted with the damn wife and her shyt

just keeping it 100 with yall

your wife or baby moms?

 

[twan83]

your wife or baby moms?

i dont talk to baby moms
talking bout wife

 

[MikelArteta]

i dont talk to baby moms
talking bout wife

all i can say is counselling breh