Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

This is the simple truth .. every guy gets down and over thinks when a girl rejects them... you just have to break out of this mentality .. there are guys at my work who are ALWAYS hitting on the girls and get rejected daily but they just don't give a fukk.. rejection should be second nature.. you have to get rejected and you will ..

It's like riding a bicycle.. Think back as a kid.. when you fell of the bicycle and hurt yourself, you would cry and be hesitant to try again. You would get scared and put your bike away but then something would drag you back so you can try again. And so you would give it another try, but this time the pain wasn't as bad and you were a better rider and you liked it... And this continued till you were able to ride without falling.

You just have to keep practicing. Get rejected..and then get rejected 50 times more. Know the pain and accustom yourself to it. Eventually you wouldn't even think twice when a girl rejected you cause like reincarr said, you are the prize.. girls should be happy to be with you and not the other way around.

man i get older I don't even worry anymore. There are literally so much women out there, I could hop on tinder and find 10 hot women in less than 5 minutes that are single that live less than 20 minutes frm me and match with like 4 or 5. If a chick is not interested in me well thanks for leetting me know and not wasting my time no tears will be shed, i've been engaged, ive been with drs, lawyers, models its nothing to me

 

[Brandsdale]

I recently have been fukkin with this one chic who's in an "open relationship" (finger gesture) but has been the greatest bust yet. I met her off tinder thinking all was well. We would have some intriguing conversations about sex since its what she likes to talk about. Would send me snapchats every now and then and one day I capitalized and got her to my crib in the day-time while everyone was at work and i had my day off. Had her in my bed cuddling, and me trying to fukk from subtle fingering, titty caressing etc but she didn't want to have sex the first time we meet, didn't wanna seem like a hoe, but whatevs I respect it

next couple weeks communication was still good but yet bytch kept flopping on me until one day she was suppose to come over again finally and bring a friend which I would then sub in my best friend and let him gets some play-time as well

long story short, she flops again and one day she hits me up and we talk and I inquire about her trying to fukk but yet she responds that she would WANT to have me on her roster and loves my physique but shes not trying to fukk anyone right now due to personal issues (finger gesture) and to make matters worse she would comment that I dont eat p*ssy and I should given the chance to be her frequent partner

til this day I'm here watching MNF thinking, why mess around with me and send snapchats?
Isn't the point of having an open relationship to have fun and sex with other people?


side-note: the day she came over I got blue balls

 

[Grams]

Some of the "you are the prize" rhetoric in here: what if you some bum boring nikka? :lallana:

 

[karim]

I recently have been fukkin with this one chic who's in an "open relationship" (finger gesture) but has been the greatest bust yet. I met her off tinder thinking all was well. We would have some intriguing conversations about sex since its what she likes to talk about. Would send me snapchats every now and then and one day I capitalized and got her to my crib in the day-time while everyone was at work and i had my day off. Had her in my bed cuddling, and me trying to fukk from subtle fingering, titty caressing etc but she didn't want to have sex the first time we meet, didn't wanna seem like a hoe, but whatevs I respect it

next couple weeks communication was still good but yet bytch kept flopping on me until one day she was suppose to come over again finally and bring a friend which I would then sub in my best friend and let him gets some play-time as well

long story short, she flops again and one day she hits me up and we talk and I inquire about her trying to fukk but yet she responds that she would WANT to have me on her roster and loves my physique but shes not trying to fukk anyone right now due to personal issues (finger gesture) and to make matters worse she would comment that I dont eat p*ssy and I should given the chance to be her frequent partner

til this day I'm here watching MNF thinking, why mess around with me and send snapchats?
Isn't the point of having an open relationship to have fun and sex with other people?


side-note: the day she came over I got blue balls

you were clearly dealing with an attention whore breh. you should have send her to the bushes the moment she started acting funny

 

[Turbulent]

Some of the "you are the prize" rhetoric in here: what if you some bum boring nikka? :lallana:

Spoiler

 

[Turbulent]

I recently have been fukkin with this one chic who's in an "open relationship" (finger gesture) but has been the greatest bust yet. I met her off tinder thinking all was well. We would have some intriguing conversations about sex since its what she likes to talk about. Would send me snapchats every now and then and one day I capitalized and got her to my crib in the day-time while everyone was at work and i had my day off. Had her in my bed cuddling, and me trying to fukk from subtle fingering, titty caressing etc but she didn't want to have sex the first time we meet, didn't wanna seem like a hoe, but whatevs I respect it

next couple weeks communication was still good but yet bytch kept flopping on me until one day she was suppose to come over again finally and bring a friend which I would then sub in my best friend and let him gets some play-time as well

long story short, she flops again and one day she hits me up and we talk and I inquire about her trying to fukk but yet she responds that she would WANT to have me on her roster and loves my physique but shes not trying to fukk anyone right now due to personal issues (finger gesture) and to make matters worse she would comment that I dont eat p*ssy and I should given the chance to be her frequent partner

til this day I'm here watching MNF thinking, why mess around with me and send snapchats?
Isn't the point of having an open relationship to have fun and sex with other people?


side-note: the day she came over I got blue balls

see the audacity? she saw the thirst and is treating you accordingly. you should have cut her off as soon as she started flopping on you. matter of fact, after the first meet when she fronted you should have given her enough space to let her set up the next meet.

 

[MikelArteta]

Some of the "you are the prize" rhetoric in here: what if you some bum boring nikka? :lallana:

like bum nikkaz aren't dating or in relationships?

boring? hell i'm prob the most "boring person" on here, I don't club, drink, womanize, my two passions are photography and writing. I'd rather sit home and watch football than to be at a bar or whatever. If a woman likes you none of that matter, even if you are a bum she will motivate you to be better.

 

[Grams]

Spoiler

like bum nikkaz aren't dating or in relationships?

boring? hell i'm prob the most "boring person" on here, I don't club, drink, womanize, my two passions are photography and writing. I'd rather sit home and watch football than to be at a bar or whatever. If a woman likes you none of that matter, even if you are a bum she will motivate you to be better.

So where's the prize in that

 

[kevm3]

Some of the "you are the prize" rhetoric in here: what if you some bum boring nikka? :lallana:

Then step your game up... dress better, get out more and enjoy yourself.

 

[BrehWyatt]

like bum nikkaz aren't dating or in relationships?

boring? hell i'm prob the most "boring person" on here, I don't club, drink, womanize, my two passions are photography and writing. I'd rather sit home and watch football than to be at a bar or whatever. If a woman likes you none of that matter, even if you are a bum she will motivate you to be better.

There's nothing boring about either of these passions if you're good at them. But he's dead on in this post. It doesn't matter who you are or what you do if a woman's checking for you. She'll find the shyt endearing.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

It's nice to see I'm not the only "boring" person on here.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Nah, I'd be considered by most to be "boring" but I like what I like, and I fukks with whatever I fukks with.

People who'll fukk with you will fukk with you regardless, and there won't be any compromising. Remember that.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

So I work with this girl right.. Been talking to her since June.. I finally smashed her about a week ago (week ago lol)... So here's my situation


We ended up fukking n both got hickeys are our neck (immature I know but fuk it)... So I tell her to keep shyt on the low at work n not tell anyone..

So obviously people at work notice the neck marks n getting to asking her.. She tells this one bytch at work that it wasn't me that left the marks on her neck but one of the drivers she "was" talking to.. Low key the shyt made me mad like why are you using this dude as the one to say he left the marks on u, but I let the shyt slide


So today I text her at work n we were joking around n I got to sayin I owe her... She says yeah u owe me some money

So I say oh is your pimp gonna come up to work

She says he already was, the truck driver!! (The same one that she told people left the mark on her neck)


So I say okay go text his ass

She says "did you see his fine ass"

I say again go text his ass

She says "oh Already am"

So I say okay coo

Then she hits me with "u mad lol smh"




So I pieced it altogether.. Why would she randomly claim this guy put the marks on her neck.. U know why? Because she's prolly messing with him on the side n wen he came in she didn't want people saying shyt to him about her neck being marked up n if they already think it's him then they won't say shyt to him..


Am I being played.. I mean I already got the p*ssy so I'm coo.. But I don't wanna get in my feelings with this bytch for no reason...

 

[BrehWyatt]

So I work with this girl right.. Been talking to her since June.. I finally smashed her about a week ago (week ago lol)... So here's my situation


We ended up fukking n both got hickeys are our neck (immature I know but fuk it)... So I tell her to keep shyt on the low at work n not tell anyone..

So obviously people at work notice the neck marks n getting to asking her.. She tells this one bytch at work that it wasn't me that left the marks on her neck but one of the drivers she "was" talking to.. Low key the shyt made me mad like why are you using this dude as the one to say he left the marks on u, but I let the shyt slide


So today I text her at work n we were joking around n I got to sayin I owe her... She says yeah u owe me some money

So I say oh is your pimp gonna come up to work

She says he already was, the truck driver!! (The same one that she told people left the mark on her neck)


So I say okay go text his ass

She says "did you see his fine ass"

I say again go text his ass

She says "oh Already am"

So I say okay coo

Then she hits me with "u mad lol smh"




So I pieced it altogether.. Why would she randomly claim this guy put the marks on her neck.. U know why? Because she's prolly messing with him on the side n wen he came in she didn't want people saying shyt to him about her neck being marked up n if they already think it's him then they won't say shyt to him..


Am I being played.. I mean I already got the p*ssy so I'm coo.. But I don't wanna get in my feelings with this bytch for no reason...

Unless you're trying to cuff, you've gotten all that you're after in this transaction. On to the next one.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Unless you're trying to cuff, you've gotten all that you're after in this transaction. On to the next one.

That's the thing...

I was thinking of cuffing..


My one buddy is on the side of fukk her a few more times


My other buddy is on the other side n thinks I'm waaaay over reacting n need to chill n keep doing what I do with her