Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She's bored, so she finally decides to entertain your text.. There isn't a woman on earth that is awful at texting, don't buy that bullshyt :laugh:.. Don't reply, charge her to the game because two things will happen.. She's either going to go hard to gain your attention back, or she's going to go off somewhere and leave you alone for good. You win in both scenarios because YOU are now in charge.

bruh, i kno right? :laff::laff::laff:

i deleted the text anyways. :camby:

but my whole thing is, by ignoring her...doesn't that show that i'm bothered? Ye what she did was disrespectful and she doesn't deserve shyt from me...but i wanna come off as the bigger man.

She ain't gonna come after me and if she even attempts to entertain a convo with me....i'mma shut that down real quick. :ufdup:If me ignoring her text won't do it, then my body language and actions will.
 

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breh who gives a fukk if you sound sensitive or hurt? :ufdup:
Youre only trying to seem indifferent because youre hoping that she will wonder why you dont care and start pursuing you on a greater level. :ufdup:

I wasnt born yesterday.

If you were really done you wouldnt care about what she thinks about you because at this point she ceases to excist . Stop playing the game on All-Pro and go up to All-Madden :ufdup:

fukk it, you right breh. :whew:

you and @Atlrocafella :ohlawd:

good lookin out brothas. @Emperor_ReinScarf too. And to the others who i @'d that will prolly say the same :salute:
 

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fukk it, you right breh. :whew:

you and @Atlrocafella :ohlawd:

good lookin out brothas. @Emperor_ReinScarf too. And to the others who i @'d that will prolly say the same :salute:
I'm only saying it cause I've been there before. And as a former psych minor I know how our minds work. Thats the only reason I can acknowledge that I've been there before because I'll literally be mid action and catch what I'm doing.
 

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It doesn't matter what you and I think about a "Bio clock". shyt is proven by SCIENCE. Plus girls start to freak out in their late 20's because they feel that shyt. I'm only speaking from experience. It's not like I'm trippin about age but when you start talking to girls in their early 30's and you see the fear in their eyes about not being able to have kids it becomes something you're aware of as well. I got homegirls I went to school with seriously considering freezing their eggs. Once again, this aint my concern I'm just reporting from the field breh.

girls do, hell go to any dating site girls 27-30
"had their fun"
"want to settle down"

with long term etc.

girls younger
"still like to have fun, party with the ladies"
"vegas"
bla bla

Women know as they get older the looks stop, fertility isn't as high, many of their friends are getting married themselves, its now time to find Mr. right

I've been on dates with older women and you can tell right off the bat they want commitment :kony:
 

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:dwillhuh:

It doesn't matter what you and I think about a "Bio clock". shyt is proven by SCIENCE. Plus girls start to freak out in their late 20's because they feel that shyt. I'm only speaking from experience. It's not like I'm trippin about age but when you start talking to girls in their early 30's and you see the fear in their eyes about not being able to have kids it becomes something you're aware of as well. I got homegirls I went to school with seriously considering freezing their eggs. Once again, this aint my concern I'm just reporting from the field breh.
yup. i was kicking it with my ex weeks ago and she was even asking when I'd wanna get married. I said 28 minimum...probably early 30s if I ever wanted to get married (the girl would have to be a 5 star Lebron Caliber prospect anyways) and even she acknowledge it on some, "isnt that so late? do you plan on having kids before marriage or with a younger girl? etc etc".

It's real. Propaganda or not these girls feel it
 

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She's bored, so she finally decides to entertain your text.. There isn't a woman on earth that is awful at texting, don't buy that bullshyt :laugh:.. Don't reply, charge her to the game because two things will happen.. She's either going to go hard to gain your attention back, or she's going to go off somewhere and leave you alone for good. You win in both scenarios because YOU are now in charge.

yep

thing is she will keep messaging, I know how owmen work. Women want "closure", because they have a vagina they think they can disrespect men and have men keep running back to them because they are so used to it, it bothers them to the core when they cant trap a guy due to them having a vagina.

It's why if a woman becomes distant with you and you become distant and don't be like "hey", or crack or be like I haven't heard form you in a while etc. she'll message not that she wants to talk to you or anything, just to make sure she still "has you" somewhat.
 

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yup. i was kicking it with my ex weeks ago and she was even asking when I'd wanna get married. I said 28 minimum...probably early 30s if I ever wanted to get married (the girl would have to be a 5 star Lebron Caliber prospect anyways) and even she acknowledge it on some, "isnt that so late? do you plan on having kids before marriage or with a younger girl? etc etc".

It's real. Propaganda or not these girls feel it

28 is young still in my mind. I'm 29, if I get married it won't be till like im 35, even if my kids are 20 I'll just be 55 (God Willing).

I look at my sister only a year and a half older than me with 3 kids and she can't do anything, can't travel, just stays home etc., even though my brotehr in law has a good paying 6 figure job, its still hectic with 3 kids and all that.

PLus I just don't want to marry for the sake of it why I don't like putting a age range on it. Marriage is literally the biggest decision you will ever make in life and I wont be that nikka marrying twice etc.
 

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yep

thing is she will keep messaging, I know how owmen work. Women want "closure", because they have a vagina they think they can disrespect men and have men keep running back to them because they are so used to it, it bothers them to the core when they cant trap a guy due to them having a vagina.

It's why if a woman becomes distant with you and you become distant and don't be like "hey", or crack or be like I haven't heard form you in a while etc. she'll message not that she wants to talk to you or anything, just to make sure she still "has you" somewhat.

she won't message me back fam.

it ain't like we dated or i simped for her. I only spoke to her maybe 2x in class and that's it. I think she'll get the message and not bother me.
 

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23 y/o 5'7, 175, chick off tinder. engineering major at my school

she thinks im cute, handsome etc. interesting and intriguing and wants to get to know me, have conversations and shyt. nerdy black chick, i'd say a 6 in looks department.

she plays video games, loves car, she can cook, and says she has a genuine interest in me and "cares about me a little".

she wants to fukk too, already got the nudes, and them breasts are beautiful. offered to go get tested for me on her own accord. she also uses when we not "if we". and she mentioned wanting to sit on my face. :wow:

red flag: a 1 yr old daughter.

thoughts?

me im like :lupe: :patrice: :leostare: and :noah: (dem titties :drool:) :no: all combined in one.
 
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23 y/o chick off tinder. engineering major at my school

she thinks im cute, handsome etc. interesting and intriguing and wants to get to know me, have conversations and shyt. nerdy black chick, i'd say a 6 in looks department.

she plays video games, loves car, she can cook, and says she has a genuine interest in me and "cares about me a little".

she wants to fukk too, already got the nudes, and them breasts are beautiful. offered to go get tested for me on her own accord. she also uses when we not "if we". and she mentioned wanting to sit on my face. :wow:

red flag: a 1 yr old daughter.

thoughts?

me im like :lupe: :patrice: :leostare: and :noah: (dem titties :drool:) :no: all combined in one.

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tis indeed a red flag.
 

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She's bored, so she finally decides to entertain your text.. There isn't a woman on earth that is awful at texting, don't buy that bullshyt :laugh:.. Don't reply, charge her to the game because two things will happen.. She's either going to go hard to gain your attention back, or she's going to go off somewhere and leave you alone for good. You win in both scenarios because YOU are now in charge.
:laff:

It's going on 4 weeks with this chick I used to mess with telling me she'll call me back. Shorty NEVER hit me back. What make matters worse is she came to my house several times between now and the last time we spoke(She's friend with my EX who lives here unfortunately) and she never bothered to hit me up or even come see me upstairs.

These chicks ain't slick. I swear if she ever call me and I pick up I'm blamming the phone on her.
 
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whats app shows yoru last seen, these chicks think we are stupid.

I've been there a few weks ago ignored for a week due to being busy, but she could change her instagram/fb profile pic

In all honesty I wouldn't reply then again I'm hardcore, but once a chick has downgraded me into when i'm bored i'll see what this nikka is up to status, its bushes. I don't need text buddies
:myman:
Real talk i got this girls # barely a week ago, she hit me up
her: Hey
-what up, what u up 2?
her: nothin bored, u?
-:childplease::camby:
 

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It's going on 4 weeks with this chick I used to mess with telling me she'll call me back. Shorty NEVER hit me back. What make matters worse is she came to my house several times between now and the last time we spoke(She's friend with my EX who lives here unfortunately) and she never bothered to hit me up or even come see me upstairs.

These chicks ain't slick. I swear if she ever call me and I pick up I'm blamming the phone on her.


:patrice: She prolly won't be.

You're just in a tough living situation. And being around her daily isn't gonna help it at all.
 
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