Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:ehh: touche. I actually dont hate on dudes getting escort for reasons that relate to what we said earlier. it aint worth it to go through all the hoops and shyt to get the p*ssy.

pay for the p*ssy and be done with it if the price is fair i guess :manny:

If all I cared about was puzzy i'd do it as well.

Girls are cleaner, no emotional connection, don't got to worry about pregnancies, or them hitting you up after.
 

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@Asantehene

I'ma touch on it in more detail but what you said about nba 2k15 isn't it just like the dating game, you date a chick play the game then it ends, next chick may have more polished graphics in the looks department upgraded in certain areas you play that game nba 2k13 and now that is damn the best basketball game I ever played and rinse and repeat, in the end you are playing the same damn game, entertained for awhile and rinse and repeat

I'm sick of games!!!
 

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Growing up it was a yearly ritual to purchase the latest football game Madden on its release date. I would eagerly await the chance to pay my $50-70 dollars and would spend so much time immersed in the game. However as I got older and realize it's basically the exact same game every single year with just updated rosters, a few enhancements, and a new cover. In essence it was basically the same script again and again, the euphoria in the beginning, wow what a experience and then the high dies down. I soon realized why I'm I wasting my time and money on the same thing over and over again, what is the reward, What I'm I getting out of this? Entertainment? blah let me just super sim and finish this game............

Just like being in the dating game, it literally feels like you have played this game before. You eagerly await the date, and spend your time and sometimes money and immerse yourself in a individual, Maybe this person is a little more attractive ala a new cover, a little more successful in different areas ala upgrades.......In essence it was basically the same script again and again, the euphoria in the beginning, wow what a experience and then the high dies down. I soon realized why I'm I wasting my time and money on the same thing over and over again, what is the reward, What I'm I getting out of this? Entertainment? I remember being on dates when I was in the game and I just wanted to super sim and get the hell out of there...rinse and repeat.........

I am done with games!!!
 
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All I'm saying theres gotta be more to life than that, I'm back to writing like a nikka locked up in pc and I bought like 4 books off amazon. Also thinking of taking a creative writing course and looking for a new job. Bout to renew my passport and hit up a spot in the world I've never been before maybe seattle or something.

I'm just sick of the same ol ish that I've been doing the past 10-14 years, these thots ain't going to fulfil anything in my life, and I'm no knight going to fight hundred other nikkaz to spend 40 bucks at the keg

Realistically, when you think about all the effort you put in, you see that it hasn't led anywhere or amounted to anything. That's why I warn these brothas out here to not waste too much time on that PUA stuff. Yeah, you may get a few more loose women here and there, but when it's said and done, they will be memories just like all the rest. You won't find the woman that's really for you doing that PUA nonsense because the real you has to come out eventually.

When it's said and done, the reason everything is so screwed up is just the culture. We, as men, have been trying to compensate for a wicked and backwards culture, and as we're finding out, no matter what we do, the only thing that happens is that the woman might be entertained a little longer before she disappears.
There was actually a point where a woman was a complement to your life because she was reared to do so. She was taught to respect her man's leadership, to cook, to clean, etc. She was raised and believed that was her duty. Now, due to feminism, she was taught the complete opposite. Now, it's disrespectful to cook, clean or listen to your man, hence you have so few women who do so. Older culture didn't have so many thirst traps. There wasn't facebook, instagram, 10 million dating sites, etc., where hundreds of men can send her messages and attention daily. Also, having kids out of wedlock was looked at as unacceptable. Now we have feminists groups screaming at 'stop the slut-shaming' and celebrating 'sexual liberation'. Hence, we have women that have little to no skills when it comes to home-making, and due to the sexually liberated culture, she's already experienced a ton of dudes. Also, due to the thirst traps, she has a constant flood of attention from dudes, so if she sees something she really likes, well, you might get her 'busy' side. Thus, being in that situation where you meet your 'high school sweetheart', and both of you experience life together is almost nonexistent for most people.

What most dudes will get is a brief slice of time at the transient woman who enjoys their company for a little while before moving onto her next thrill aka dude who presents something different than they did. Hence, we can try all of these tricks and tactics to try to keep her attention focused, but all of the effort isn't worth it, and more times than not, she will eventually get sick of that too. There are only a few women out there still who are of the mind to want to do something that's conducive towards building towards the long- term. This is why we all told the dude who was thinking about stepping back into the field even though he has a solid woman to cut it out. There is very little out here. If you found your gem, you better hold on.

Ultimately, I find my time and effort much better spent focused on things that actually provide a real return when you invest time in it like learning new skills, chilling with friends, getting closer with God, etc. Realistically, where are all of those women you've chopped it up with in the past? That you spent all that time, dinners, conversations, etc., with? Nothing but a memory. This is why it's important to enjoy the company of a woman, but never build your life around her. As soon as she's gone, all the benefits she came with, which is growing increasingly smaller in this day and age, are also gone.
 

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Realistically, when you think about all the effort you put in, you see that it hasn't led anywhere or amounted to anything. That's why I warn these brothas out here to not waste too much time on that PUA stuff. Yeah, you may get a few more loose women here and there, but when it's said and done, they will be memories just like all the rest. You won't find the woman that's really for you doing that PUA nonsense because the real you has to come out eventually.

When it's said and done, the reason everything is so screwed up is just the culture. We, as men, have been trying to compensate for a wicked and backwards culture, and as we're finding out, no matter what we do, the only thing that happens is that the woman might be entertained a little longer before she disappears.
There was actually a point where a woman was a complement to your life because she was reared to do so. She was taught to respect her man's leadership, to cook, to clean, etc. She was raised and believed that was her duty. Now, due to feminism, she was taught the complete opposite. Now, it's disrespectful to cook, clean or listen to your man, hence you have so few women who do so. Older culture didn't have so many thirst traps. There wasn't facebook, instagram, 10 million dating sites, etc., where hundreds of men can send her messages and attention daily. Also, having kids out of wedlock was looked at as unacceptable. Now we have feminists groups screaming at 'stop the slut-shaming' and celebrating 'sexual liberation'. Hence, we have women that have little to no skills when it comes to home-making, and due to the sexually liberated culture, she's already experienced a ton of dudes. Also, due to the thirst traps, she has a constant flood of attention from dudes, so if she sees something she really likes, well, you might get her 'busy' side. Thus, being in that situation where you meet your 'high school sweetheart', and both of you experience life together is almost nonexistent for most people.

What most dudes will get is a brief slice of time at the transient woman who enjoys their company for a little while before moving onto her next thrill aka dude who presents something different than they did. Hence, we can try all of these tricks and tactics to try to keep her attention focused, but all of the effort isn't worth it, and more times than not, she will eventually get sick of that too. There are only a few women out there still who are of the mind to want to do something that's conducive towards building towards the long- term. This is why we all told the dude who was thinking about stepping back into the field even though he has a solid woman to cut it out. There is very little out here. If you found your gem, you better hold on.

Ultimately, I find my time and effort much better spent focused on things that actually provide a real return when you invest time in it like learning new skills, chilling with friends, getting closer with God, etc. Realistically, where are all of those women you've chopped it up with in the past? That you spent all that time, dinners, conversations, etc., with? Nothing but a memory. This is why it's important to enjoy the company of a woman, but never build your life around her. As soon as she's gone, all the benefits she came with, which is growing increasingly smaller in this day and age, are also gone.

:wow:

All that pua bs is worthless, a bunch of games and tactics for what vagina?

And I agree what is the reward out there for a man? your not even guaranteed loyalty not love, these chicks ain't closing down their instagram if you get exclusive. I literally sat back and thought what is the reward, daps from brehs that you have a dime on your arm? sex? companionship? your right there is no enriching, many women don't add to your life they subtract, your time, your money, your resources.

If I work hard at work, achieve all the goals set out for me, my reward at the end of the year is a bonus and maybe a promotion, maybe a raise.

I can look back in relationships where I sacrificed my time, was loyal and committed and treated my girl with respect and adoration and all I got was shafted, disrespected, and cheated on. NO REWARD.

It's true, I can think back to all the beautiful women in my life, all the ladies I went out on dates with, the words they told me, the things they did etc., women I loved, women who told me they loved me but where are they now? With some other dude probably.

There are only a few righteous humble women out there not indoctrinated by the spoils of society.

Having a great woman by your side is great and a great felling, but I'd rather have no one than most of these raggedy chicks out there.
 
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The older chick might be trying to earn her spot. Got my court officer test in the am she got me pencils. The pencils brehs



It's the little things in life :mjcry:
its always funny comparing the things that lead to a guys attn and win him over (baking cupcakes, taking an interest in the Eagles game thats on, helping prepare for an interview, pencils in this case etc.) to the things that lead to a female's attn (cars, jewelry, clothing, status, money etc.)

the scales are lopsided brehs
 

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So the girl I been talkin bout in this thread

I brought her back to the crib..

Didn't tell me she was on her rag until my hands were on her naval..

I wasn't havin it tho.. Through a towel down n beat her shyt in!!

th


Your obviously just not gonna listen to us...

Your just setting yaself up breh:leostare:
 
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