Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Being single as a male is pretty good. For beings born to be independent, living your life your way comes naturally. For me, it's going surfing on weekends, hitting the boxing gym, finding time to write, pursuing side businesses, hanging out with a few folks I'm close to. Everyone defines it their own way. Whether it's watching the game or learning something new, it is defined just as much as what it's not-- being dragged along to go shopping, listening to the tenth time about how this girl from work is trying to "destroy" her
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The way you know male singledom is great is every married guy seems to acknowledge it. My married friends always confess during drinks that they wish they were single again and could see different girls, live their own life. I recommend single life to all my married male friends
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Female Singledom: Woman- getting Pumped and Dumped throughout her 20's --> "Broken Woman"Now, let's look at female singledom. Women want different things out of life. Generally, they don't want to hop in a different guy's bed every month. Men have the wonderful God given trait of being able to disentangle sex and love. Women can't. Women are confused by feminism's dictates that they should be like men and the free expression of their sexuality somehow is empowering. How do I know they're confused? My female friends for one thing (I had more when I was blue pill). Here's what happens. Given their hypergamous instinct and feminist encouragement, women "never settle" and are increasingly ambitious about mate selection. As a result, women today try going for guys out of their league. The results are hilarious and predictable. I talk to my female friend about her going to a party, she's excited. She comes home deflated and talks to me the next day, saying how upset she is. Some guy banged her and then walked out of the room as if nothing happened. She kept trying to hunt him down during the party and understand what came next? LOL. Take another friend: she changed her facebook status to "It's complicated". She tweeted about how "It's so exciting when a guy calls you first thing in the morning". Two weeks later she's posting quotes about how you can't trust people
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Women are idiots. This is the life of a 20-something woman- running into one brick wall after another. Women use sex to try to lure an alpha into a relationship, get pumped and dumped, but develop feelings. These feelings cause them to humilliate themselves texting the guy and trying to get his attention again. This by the way is obvious to everyone observing who can't help but be disgusted by this pathetic **** show. And this repeats over and over.

Women are not "playing the field". They are getting playedA woman is not playing the field. She is being played. She, out of desperation, tries to make something proud of her 'notch count', but it's actually a failure tally. It represents all the times she failed to lure an alpha into a relationship by spreading her legs (they sadly try to pass the 'notch count' as a positive thing to hide the humiliation). The consequence of this failure tally is that her mind has been fractured. Whereas a woman sees love and sex as largely connected, her inability to convert sex into love causes her giving up on love (and largely giving up on sex). Enter the 30s you have a broken woman who no longer truly can love and doesn't truly want sex -- what she needs now is stability and someone who can help her with her one final goal in life- to have kids. Now gentleman, think if you really want to end up with someone like this. To me, the issue isn't that she's been a receptacle for male ejaculate or a carrier of STDS, it's the trauma of living a life women weren't meant to lead - and the emotional fallout from the predictable failure of her ridiculous mating strategy. That emotional fallout creates a broken woman- someone who is fearful, paranoid, ready to lash out at any perceived mistreatment/cheating, unable to truly love and feel, someone who has learned to hate sex and feel shame because of it (because they used sex in the wrong way, to predictably negative consequences).

Check the ResumeThis is why I say if you're MGTOW in your 30s or later, who is still open to a relationship, check the woman's resume. Her resume is her love life in her 20s. If her 20s were largely single, that's a red flag. While men can focus on their careers and play the field in a way that's healthy, a woman single in her 20s likely hamstered it 24-7. What is ideal is a woman who has been in a few long-term relationships; that's not saying she's gold, but relatively speaking, it's ideal. The amount of baggage that a 'broken woman' who spent her 20s single has is enormous. This is the woman who raids your phone for text messages, and then screams you can't blame her "because she's been hurt before". I am not your shrink, nor do I intend to be on the receiving end of the fallout of your psychological trauma. A woman in her 30s has a lot to prove in terms of showing that she has something to offer besides baggage.

Failed women, age 30+, who lived by feminism may want to turn on itSingledom strengthens a man; he is in his natural element. Sex is not an issue with hook-ups, friends with benefits, escorts, etc. Female singledom takes a toll on women. They become worse people as a result. A woman loses her looks in her early 30s, while a man is often considered attractive into his 60s. Barring marriage, a woman can expect a pointless life of spinsterdom and cat feedings. For men, singledom is a beautiful way of life to the very end.

If you want to compare male and female singledom using public examples: consider George Clooney and Jennifer Aniston. One has lived an incredible life with acting and directing credentials, and a string of gorgeous women. Aniston has lived alone much of the time, and has ended up sleepwalking out of depression.

When these hollow, value-less 30-something+women wonder where life went wrong, they may want to turn on feminism rather than embrace it. It has led them astray, deprived them of love, and caused them to miss out on finding the best mate during their prime.

Meanwhile, I'm off to Cabo next month, and am loving my hapa escort with c-cups. LOL. 0 stress and a good job. Life is good.
 

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its always funny comparing the things that lead to a guys attn and win him over (baking cupcakes, taking an interest in the Eagles game thats on, helping prepare for an interview, pencils in this case etc.) to the things that lead to a female's attn (cars, jewelry, clothing, status, money etc.)

the scales are lopsided brehs


not all women are like that, my woman goes crazy when i stop by her work to bring her a salad or ice cream
 

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its always funny comparing the things that lead to a guys attn and win him over (baking cupcakes, taking an interest in the Eagles game thats on, helping prepare for an interview, pencils in this case etc.) to the things that lead to a female's attn (cars, jewelry, clothing, status, money etc.)

the scales are lopsided brehs

Men are the real romantics. A loving gesture can win a mans heart. A chick on the other hand...she's gonna need diamonds :mjpls:
 

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http://www.scarymommy.com/confessions/

"Spent the eve sexting my love while sitting next to H on the couch. I feel so guilty for loving another man while H is trying to be better, but I can't turn my feelings off like a switch."

"I have cried while having sex with H more than once because he wasn't someone else."

"I have my H enter me from the back because I told him my uterus is tipped and his penis is too big for comfortable missionary. Actually it because I don't want to look at him while I am imaging my crush loving me."

"I'm leaving my husband tomorrow I worked so hard to be a family i can't do it anymore"

"SO would be so devastated if he knew I slept with/have feelings for someone pursuing me for over a year. I should feel guilty. Why don't I?"
 

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Haven't posted in this thread in a min but I haven't been women hunting in a while. Got tired of trying so now i'm taking the age old advice of waiting until someone comes along how ever long that may be :manny:

it's not really "waiting", its just living your life without making women the core of it. Doign what you want to do, dressing how you want to dress without thinking will a woman find this cool or attractive. Just being you. Like I said I'd rather just sit back and live my life for me if a woman happens to show up cool if not no stress
 

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In many professional sport leagues small market teams are quote unquote feeder systems for big market teams. Basically they develop players, go through the trials, tribulations, struggles, give them opportunities, or take chances on the fixer uppers and head cases then watch as they bolt to greener pastures when they are at their “peak”.

I can think back to when I had that Miami Marlins, Milwaukee Bucks, Wigan Athletic small market mentality in relationships dealing with broken individuals. The famed white knight nice guy persona, taking on the head cases and those who have not reached their potential yet. In essence fixing the swing, lowering the era (of emotional instability), went through the .225 batting average years, basically becoming a life coach mechanic diagnosing the issues and fixing.

While there is nothing wrong with giving advice, helping out others and motivating. The days of committing to the fixer uppers and putting my time and energy into them is over, as I always say know your self worth and what you deserve…You are valuable like the Yankees!!!!
 

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"Spent the eve sexting my love while sitting next to H on the couch. I feel so guilty for loving another man while H is trying to be better, but I can't turn my feelings off like a switch."

"I have cried while having sex with H more than once because he wasn't someone else."

"I have my H enter me from the back because I told him my uterus is tipped and his penis is too big for comfortable missionary. Actually it because I don't want to look at him while I am imaging my crush loving me."

"I'm leaving my husband tomorrow I worked so hard to be a family i can't do it anymore"

"SO would be so devastated if he knew I slept with/have feelings for someone pursuing me for over a year. I should feel guilty. Why don't I?"

:why::snoop:
 

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it's not really "waiting", its just living your life without making women the core of it. Doign what you want to do, dressing how you want to dress without thinking will a woman find this cool or attractive. Just being you. Like I said I'd rather just sit back and live my life for me if a woman happens to show up cool if not no stress

Yeah this. And @Meet The Sniper fukk you you bytch ass nikka. I wish u were here right now so I can kill you fakkit and chop u into pieces and feed you to my dog bytch
 
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