Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

a lot of women are getting just plain weird lately. you all are going to have to sit down and be honest with yourselves with whats going on today, and understand that just because they look good, are cool to talk to at first, and seem to have everything in their lives/careers in order, that they could still be extremely messed up. aside from a touch of over competitiveness, insecurity, jealousy, biological clocks, and confusion as to her role in society, a lot of women are just not playing with a full deck.


they want nothing more than to look the part, but have no idea how to actually play the part


most women want to have a man, but have no idea how to keep him. they want to be the talk of all their friends, but want it so bad that they want to be the envy of their friends. they want the man that everyone else wants, then get surprised when hes not exclusive with her. they want it so that men have to approach them, but they want to put in a law against "thirsty" men who are in the street addressing them. they want the respect that a lady and a good girl should have, but want to be the "bad bytch." they want the same pay as all men get, but they dont want the dangerous jobs or to work the same hours as men. they want to be seen as equals, but they want to be treated by us and seen as special. they want the ever lasting love and grand spectacle of marriage, but not the monogamy (whenever it gets "boring" or the tingles are gone its time to leave and file those divorce papers to cash in.) they want children, but not the childs father in their lives (I should say they dont want him around always as a qualifier, as theyre open to fukking on occasions, also theyll want the money regardless if youre given the time to see your child).


when you realize that all of the things that women really want, they have no idea how to get, then you see where the source of all this insanity comes from. the things that mean something in life, and would genuinely make women and men happy, satisfied, and doing what ultimately pays off in the long run, can only happen with the dedication of like- minded individuals. you cant have an ulterior motive when dealing with a woman, and she cant have one with her man. when a woman doesnt act her role in accordance to what she says she wants, then you have no business even talking to that person. youre only looking for drama.

 

[CrossBones]

thats just part 1. when you can see all of wickedness, the deception lying in front of you and whats going on in our society, you have to then take all of that, flip it around, and see how any of that could reflect on you, your point of views, and your past choices. what happened and how do you correct yourself? step your game up in everything, and be fully aware of what your role is going to be. in order to stay ahead of the game you need to be vigilant. regardless of her job and looks, she needs to be down for you.


her character and what she adds to your life is all that counts. you need to know when a woman is poison, and when she is fronting. you also need to see when she is following your lead and respects your strength. if you can take it so far in adding to the pot and her life, does she do the same?



but nobody wants to work for the long term anymore, or see the bigger picture. its all about me me me, and if Im not doing so great right now, its all wrong. those instagram filters and thoe fronting ass couples are everywhere now. people are in too much of a hurry, and are quick to quit following their right path. a lot of peoples motives are to only look the part. so everything that could really mean something is either rushed or only taken at a face value. so many things people are doing today, are all either done for a quick fukk or a come up.



no one sees the dedication that a working unit, or a family is supposed to take. there are too many opposites trying to move in too many directions at once. too many players mad at these women that the game turned out. too many thots mad theyre incredibly lonely and that nobody will take them for more than a fukk. too many kids having to understand that his own family cant get together and stay as one.




everyone wants to do so much in order to look like theyre doing great, but nobody is understanding the agreements, and reciprocation it takes to make a real man and woman relationship to work well. if you dont know where you stand, then dont try to add someone else into the mix. and if you dont want something long lasting, then be real with your girl. you cant go wrong being real, all you do is correct the mistakes. look at the world, look at where you should stand, and only deal with those who are alike and keeping it real with you.

 

[Mike Ock]

Also, I move to LA at the top of the month. Would you guys be interested if I did a "New approach every day for a month" segment?

Just be you. You're naturally see what works and what kinda chiks you attract.

 

[aboss4real24]

lotta socially awkward nikkas up in here

 

[Brandeezy]

lotta socially awkward nikkas up in here

Yuuup

 

[kevm3]

a lot of women are getting just plain weird lately. you all are going to have to sit down and be honest with yourselves with whats going on today, and understand that just because they look good, are cool to talk to at first, and seem to have everything in their lives/careers in order, that they could still be extremely messed up. aside from a touch of over competitiveness, insecurity, jealousy, biological clocks, and confusion as to her role in society, a lot of women are just not playing with a full deck.


they want nothing more than to look the part, but have no idea how to actually play the part


most women want to have a man, but have no idea how to keep him. they want to be the talk of all their friends, but want it so bad that they want to be the envy of their friends. they want the man that everyone else wants, then get surprised when hes not exclusive with her. they want it so that men have to approach them, but they want to put in a law against "thirsty" men who are in the street addressing them. they want the respect that a lady and a good girl should have, but want to be the "bad bytch." they want the same pay as all men get, but they dont want the dangerous jobs or to work the same hours as men. they want to be seen as equals, but they want to be treated by us and seen as special. they want the ever lasting love and grand spectacle of marriage, but not the monogamy (whenever it gets "boring" or the tingles are gone its time to leave and file those divorce papers to cash in.) they want children, but not the childs father in their lives (I should say they dont want him around always as a qualifier, as theyre open to fukking on occasions, also theyll want the money regardless if youre given the time to see your child).


when you realize that all of the things that women really want, they have no idea how to get, then you see where the source of all this insanity comes from. the things that mean something in life, and would genuinely make women and men happy, satisfied, and doing what ultimately pays off in the long run, can only happen with the dedication of like- minded individuals. you cant have an ulterior motive when dealing with a woman, and she cant have one with her man. when a woman doesnt act her role in accordance to what she says she wants, then you have no business even talking to that person. youre only looking for drama.

Feminism is utterly warping the minds of these women and their male feminist cosigners are enabling this. Women will cry about men not giving enough compliments and attention and not being 'man enough' to approach them as soon as all of the attention drives up because of the cries of 'street harrassment'.

 

[EQ.]

Feminism is utterly warping the minds of these women and their male feminist cosigners are enabling this. Women will cry about men not giving enough compliments and attention and not being 'man enough' to approach them as soon as all of the attention drives up because of the cries of 'street harrassment'.

The buzzword phrases will be " Where are all the real men at who are not afraid of approaching women?" or " Why are there so many gay men out here? I mean i'm an attractive woman, yet i get no attention?"

For the longest time, the idea of a zombie virus or cataclysm event fascinated me. Said event would cripple the economy and make us return to our less than modern ways. Not because i am a nihilist but in that moment the value of man will skyrocket . Sadly, it is going to take something that severe for things to change.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Also, I move to LA at the top of the month. Would you guys be interested if I did a "New approach every day for a month" segment?

I plan on doing this starting in january but im move it to february ...but my way of doing the approaches is going to be a little bit different . I wanna take the thread in a different direction ....i might pm/dm you on what ive been working on.

 

[Bless't]

Feminism is utterly warping the minds of these women and their male feminist cosigners are enabling this. Women will cry about men not giving enough compliments and attention and not being 'man enough' to approach them as soon as all of the attention drives up because of the cries of 'street harrassment'.

And its just going to keep getting worse and worse. I have love for all my fellow dudes in here but sometimes you just have to flip the script and actually be that "a$$hole". Until you find "the one", which may actually never happen, you should concentrate on yourself. Like emp and kev have said in this thread. Be as selfish as you want to be. They're doing the same.

Have a good judge of character so you realize when you do find someone who is genuinely cool to spend time with and develop and build with them. But until that person arrives in your life... use women. I dont care how that sounds. You want a girl to come over to smoke with and chop it up with, cool. You want a girl to come over to drain your nuts, cool. You want someone you can bring to a company christmas party, cool. They are doing the same by dating multiple guys, so why not just take the power of their indifference towards you and just flip it around.

Not every girl is going to be cold, not every girl will be sweet, etc. Its case by case. If you can truly be a good judge of character then you can ultimately come out on top and not have them play with your emotions. Just my two cents.

 

[Mr. Negative]

I'm not dissing, I was checking into something else and found the parallels interesting.

The Hare Psychopathy Checklist – Revised

1. GLIB and SUPERFICIAL CHARM — The tendency to be smooth, engaging, charming, slick, and verbally facile. Psychopathic charm is not in the least shy, self-conscious, or afraid to say anything. A psychopath never gets tongue-tied. They have freed themselves from the social conventions about taking turns in talking, for example.
2. GRANDIOSE SELF-WORTH — A grossly inflated view of one’s abilities and self-worth, self-assured, opinionated, cocky, a braggart. Psychopaths are arrogant people who believe they are superior human beings.
3. NEED FOR STIMULATION or PRONENESS TO BOREDOM — An excessive need for novel, thrilling, and exciting stimulation; taking chances and doing things that are risky. Psychopaths often have low self-discipline in carrying tasks through to completion because they get bored easily. They fail to work at the same job for any length of time, for example, or to finish tasks that they consider dull or routine.
4. PATHOLOGICAL LYING — Can be moderate or high; in moderate form, they will be shrewd, crafty, cunning, sly, and clever; in extreme form, they will be deceptive, deceitful, underhanded, unscrupulous, manipulative, and dishonest.
5. CONNING AND MANIPULATIVENESS — The use of deceit and deception to cheat, con, or defraud others for personal gain; distinguished from Item #4 in the degree to which exploitation and callous ruthlessness is present, as reflected in a lack of concern for the feelings and suffering of one’s victims.
6. LACK OF REMORSE OR GUILT — A lack of feelings or concern for the losses, pain, and suffering of victims; a tendency to be unconcerned, dispassionate, cold-hearted, and non-empathic. This item is usually demonstrated by a disdain for one’s victims.
7. SHALLOW AFFECT — Emotional poverty or a limited range or depth of feelings; interpersonal coldness in spite of signs of open gregariousness.
8. CALLOUSNESS and LACK OF EMPATHY — A lack of feelings toward people in general; cold, contemptuous, inconsiderate, and tactless.
9. PARASITIC LIFESTYLE — An intentional, manipulative, selfish, and exploitative financial dependence on others as reflected in a lack of motivation, low self-discipline, and inability to begin or complete responsibilities.
10. POOR BEHAVIORAL CONTROLS — Expressions of irritability, annoyance, impatience, threats, aggression, and verbal abuse; inadequate control of anger and temper; acting hastily.
11. PROMISCUOUS SEXUAL BEHAVIOR — A variety of brief, superficial relations, numerous affairs, and an indiscriminate selection of sexual partners; the maintenance of several relationships at the same time; a history of attempts to sexually coerce others into sexual activity or taking great pride at discussing sexual exploits or conquests.
12. EARLY BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS — A variety of behaviors prior to age 13, including lying, theft, cheating, vandalism, bullying, sexual activity, fire-setting, glue-sniffing, alcohol use, and running away from home.
13. LACK OF REALISTIC, LONG-TERM GOALS — An inability or persistent failure to develop and execute long-term plans and goals; a nomadic existence, aimless, lacking direction in life.
14. IMPULSIVITY — The occurrence of behaviors that are unpremeditated and lack reflection or planning; inability to resist temptation, frustrations, and urges; a lack of deliberation without considering the consequences; foolhardy, rash, unpredictable, erratic, and reckless.
15. IRRESPONSIBILITY — Repeated failure to fulfill or honor obligations and commitments; such as not paying bills, defaulting on loans, performing sloppy work, being absent or late to work, failing to honor contractual agreements.
16. FAILURE TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR OWN ACTIONS — A failure to accept responsibility for one’s actions reflected in low conscientiousness, an absence of dutifulness, antagonistic manipulation, denial of responsibility, and an effort to manipulate others through this denial.
17. MANY SHORT-TERM MARITAL RELATIONSHIPS — A lack of commitment to a long-term relationship reflected in inconsistent, undependable, and unreliable commitments in life, including marital.
18. JUVENILE DELINQUENCY — Behavior problems between the ages of 13-18; mostly behaviors that are crimes or clearly involve aspects of antagonism, exploitation, aggression, manipulation, or a callous, ruthless tough-mindedness.
19. REVOCATION OF CONDITION RELEASE — A revocation of probation or other conditional release due to technical violations, such as carelessness, low deliberation, or failing to appear.
20. CRIMINAL VERSATILITY — A diversity of types of criminal offenses, regardless if the person has been arrested or convicted for them; taking great pride at getting away with crimes.The word psychopath can be replaced with the word sociopath throughout this page. The meaning is very similar, if not the same.

scary, right.

 

[MikelArteta]

What's funny in life is when you mess with a girl your not attracted to or feeling

I remember when I cavorted with a chick who was nice but she wasn't a looker to what I usually mess with it. I didn't care what she did, shed try and make me jealous or drop remarks of all these other guys into her and I'd be like , i barely revealed anything to her was just a mystery that couksnt be solved because I didn't care. Cutting her of was easy as hell


But when I messed with a girl I was attracted to, I wanted to know what she was doing, is get jealous when she mentioned other men, I kept opening up my heart , I wanted to hear from her and talk to her all the time no other chick was on my mind.

Its the same for girls when they are into guys If they find you attractive and are feeling you then you are b, if not you are a.

 

[kevm3]

What's funny in life is when you mess with a girl your not attracted to or feeling

I remember when I cavorted with a chick who was nice but she wasn't a looker to what I usually mess with it. I didn't care what she did, shed try and make me jealous or drop remarks of all these other guys into her and I'd be like , i barely revealed anything to her was just a mystery that couksnt be solved because I didn't care. Cutting her of was easy as hell


But when I messed with a girl I was attracted to, I wanted to know what she was doing, is get jealous when she mentioned other men, I kept opening up my heart , I wanted to hear from her and talk to her all the time no other chick was on my mind.

Its the same for girls when they are into guys If they find you attractive and are feeling you then you are b, if not you are a.

Women that are into you aren't hard to get a hold of at all. It's only when they think you are trivial do they do things like ignore texts or calls... and very few of these women actually have manners these days, so they don't even attempt to give an explanation. They just cut you off without a word. That's why in the story with the woman who dumped the guy with the inheritance, I can respect him just shutting down the lanes of communication. Women want to discard you at their leisure, and she wanted an in to fall back on later if whatever new option didn't work out.

That's why I don't believe in putting forth all this effort to 'game' chicks. You do all of that work, and she doesn't like something about you and you don't particularly know what, or maybe you say some phrase she doesn't like and she just cuts you off or becomes busy. No real explanation. Just "I'm busy" if not outright silence. All of that work and nothing to show for it.

On the other hand, you just being you and not focusing on 'gaming women', you end up attracting a woman that likes you for you and it's not difficult to stay in contact with her. If it's not minimal stress, I don't want it.

 

[semtex]

Life truly is a sausage buffet for even the most average looking women

 

[Jahmal]

lotta socially awkward nikkas up in here

and you're one of them

 

[Jahmal]

Women that are into you aren't hard to get a hold of at all. It's only when they think you are trivial do they do things like ignore texts or calls... and very few of these women actually have manners these days, so they don't even attempt to give an explanation. They just cut you off without a word. That's why in the story with the woman who dumped the guy with the inheritance, I can respect him just shutting down the lanes of communication. Women want to discard you at their leisure, and she wanted an in to fall back on later if whatever new option didn't work out.

That's why I don't believe in putting forth all this effort to 'game' chicks. You do all of that work, and she doesn't like something about you and you don't particularly know what, or maybe you say some phrase she doesn't like and she just cuts you off or becomes busy. No real explanation. Just "I'm busy" if not outright silence. All of that work and nothing to show for it.

On the other hand, you just being you and not focusing on 'gaming women', you end up attracting a woman that likes you for you and it's not difficult to stay in contact with her. If it's not minimal stress, I don't want it.

I don't even give these flaky women a lane of communication.When I'm done with a female I block their phone number.