You just suck at it
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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TheArchitect
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Whatever you say.....
Something I've been coming across on the net is this 'nu black', and their mentality is rather pathetic.These are the guys that talk about, 'well us black men, we can only get fat women and we can't get quality women of other races.' I never felt at a disadvantage when it came to women due to being black, and yet I see all these dudes talking about how hard they have it because they are black. Somebody must not have passed them on some understanding because I frankly don't understand their mentality.
I've never had a problem getting any women I wanted
Guys are always looking for excuses why they fail
Guys are always looking for excuses why they fail
The dating world seems all to be about selling yourself to a woman.
Back when I was younger and loved the limelight, I'd have like 100 females in my phone like 500 on Facebook, commentating liking my photos, going out chilling etc.
Women fighting over me and the like.
But now that I don't care about that ish, got like 7 total phone contacts
don't even partake in any form of social media like twitter, Instagram, Facebook. I look the same, talk the same, carry myself the same but my "status" isn't validated by others so to some iys 
Back when I was younger and loved the limelight, I'd have like 100 females in my phone like 500 on Facebook, commentating liking my photos, going out chilling etc.
Women fighting over me and the like.
But now that I don't care about that ish, got like 7 total phone contacts
don't even partake in any form of social media like twitter, Instagram, Facebook. I look the same, talk the same, carry myself the same but my "status" isn't validated by others so to some iys Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Avoid women who say they have a strong personality.A woman like this definitely won't let you be the man or leader in relationship.A woman that ?s everything should be avoided.
The dating world seems all to be about selling yourself to a woman.
Back when I was younger and loved the limelight, I'd have like 100 females in my phone like 500 on Facebook, commentating liking my photos, going out chilling etc.
Women fighting over me and the like.
But now that I don't care about that ish, got like 7 total phone contacts
And when you look back, where are all of those women today? All of the popularity contest stuff ultimately provided zero long-lasting effects on our lives. Most of those women we 'won over' couldn't care less about us today. As you get older, you find out only a few people really care about you enough to stay in constant contact with you. I think that's why it's so important men learn to appreciate a quality woman who actually makes effort to stay in touch, because you see all those women who were loving you back then couldn't care less about you existing. Interestingly enough, the women I still am in contact with are the ones I never tried to impress or to 'win over.'
Something I realized is that men need to stop 'selling themselves' to women as if they are some sort of queens that we are not worthy of. Instead of looking at women as these queens and ourselves as jesters who need to gain their approval, women should be looked at as someone who YOU are giving the opportunity to allow them to tag along. If she's a queen, you have to look at yourself as a king, and kings don't seek approval. Kings maintain their dignity and they oversee their kingdom.
The kind of thinking men need to give up is, "What do women like? Will a woman like if I do this? I'm going to do that because 'that's what women like."
The questions we should ask ourselves as men are: "Am I right with God?" "Am I a man that I can respect when I look in the mirror?" "Am I constantly making right choices with my life?"
Men simply need to come to the point of living completely fulfilled lives without the presence of a woman, because they are so transient today. You really do not know when they will be coming or when they will be going, so why invest in someone who has little staying power and who brings so little to the table? We need to realize that modern women are not bringing much to the table, so why all of the theatrics? When men come to the realization that, given they are living how they should be living, that THEY are the ones bringing the value to the table, they will stop these lame, thirsty antics and they will stop trying to win women over and instead let the reverse be true. What is this or that woman doing to be worthy of MY time?
As you learn to truly value yourself, you will stop asking questions like, "Man, what do I need to say to her? How can I make her like me?" You will eventually come to a point where you stop questioning yourself and you say whatever it is that is true to you to say and you let the cards fall where they may. You will realize that if she cannot value who you are at your essence enough to want to deal with you, then she is simply not worth dealing with period. This ties into the point about 'stop trying to win women over.' You should not waste mental cycles thinking of stunts and juggling tricks to do for women. Your mind should be focused on how you are tightening up your own life. Offer women the true version of yourself, don't question what you say and how you act to tailor it to some specific woman to 'win them' and let the cards fall where they may.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Like they say common sense isn't common.
Years ago I formed/crafted a set of rules/checklist that any women that I would even consider committing to would have to meet the set requirements. These guidelines have kept me grounded in my principles throughout the years in the cesspool known as the dating world as it conducts me to never be led astray by looks, wealth, status or any sort of connection/chemistry levels if caught up in the fog of dopamine/infatuation.
I can reflect on my entire dating history as well all the women I had even a tepid of interest in, different races, cultures, age ranges, social classes and in all my years on this earth and only a few women have received a passing grade.
The main guideline that kept jumping out at me time and time again was…….
Does she view you as a valuable?
“Her husband has full confidence in herand lacks nothing of value.”
If you have something valuable you will hold it dear to your heart and won't dare risk destruction or devalue of it. You’re not going to play catch with that Babe Ruth home run ball, or take that luxury car for maintenance to Tom dikk's & Harry Repair Shop are you? If you have that 70 inch LED Samsung at home that 40 inch Emerson at Walmart is not going to entice you. A woman that finds you valuable encompasses everything in my opinion. The odds of putting herself in uncompromising positions or falling to the temptations that may arise at her side are slim (nothing is impossible).
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
Loyalty, honesty, fidelity, trust will be her core character traits and she won't view you and the relationship you two share as disposable, she will motivate/encourage you when you are in the muck as well congratulate you in the downpour of blessings.
“Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
I can reflect on my entire dating history as well all the women I had even a tepid of interest in, different races, cultures, age ranges, social classes and in all my years on this earth and only a few women have received a passing grade.
The main guideline that kept jumping out at me time and time again was…….
Does she view you as a valuable?
“Her husband has full confidence in herand lacks nothing of value.”
If you have something valuable you will hold it dear to your heart and won't dare risk destruction or devalue of it. You’re not going to play catch with that Babe Ruth home run ball, or take that luxury car for maintenance to Tom dikk's & Harry Repair Shop are you? If you have that 70 inch LED Samsung at home that 40 inch Emerson at Walmart is not going to entice you. A woman that finds you valuable encompasses everything in my opinion. The odds of putting herself in uncompromising positions or falling to the temptations that may arise at her side are slim (nothing is impossible).
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
Loyalty, honesty, fidelity, trust will be her core character traits and she won't view you and the relationship you two share as disposable, she will motivate/encourage you when you are in the muck as well congratulate you in the downpour of blessings.
“Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
when you think of all the things/that guys question do fro female approval
Am I good in bed?
-s my penis too small?
Am I too short?
Do I have enough experience?
Do I make enough money?
Do I have enough friends?
Is my car nice enough?
Is my house big enough?
is my job cool enough?
Are my clothes cool enough?
for what?
I needed to read this breh, good lookin out.
I been trippin these past few months brehs, but this just sealed it for me. fukk walking a tightrope I'ma just say wtf is on my mind fukk how she feel about it. It's the only way I'ma liberate myself at this point. If she don't want me now she'll want me later when I'm doin big things.
KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
learn how to listen without actually listening
ex:
girl: [insert some irrelevant babble]
you: *playing Madden 2012*
girl: [insert more irrelevant sh*t]
you: "that's crazy"
girl: [says a statement that seeks affirmation from you]
you: word?
girl: i know right?
girl: [continues to go on & on about more irrelevant sh*t]
you: [rephrases the last few things she said into a question to make her think IGAF]
girl:exactly!!!
girl: [talks for the next 20 minutes]
its a skill brehs....
