My sister was over and used my laptp i and took a look at her facebook (she has my ex on it), took a look at my exes facebook, didn't even feel that "stomach churning in the gut" or hate or anger that I used to feel, when your finally over it 


My sister was over and used my laptp i and took a look at her facebook (she has my ex on it), took a look at my exes facebook, didn't even feel that "stomach churning in the gut" or hate or anger that I used to feel, when your finally over it![]()
why would you do that?why would you do that?
, I didn't really care and well it had no effect on me, it just felt like closing the last chapterBecause despite of what he says on here, he is still not fully over her.why would you do that?

Because despite of what he says on here, he is still not fully over her.
Actually I am.
Because I looked at an ex fb profile for like 20 seconds I'm not over her![]()
but that body and personality tho 
I spent the night at this new girls crib a few nights ago and everything went well. Didn't smash but I didn't want to... we kissed and what not before I left and talked a lot the next day but now it seem like she ignoring and flakin on a nikka. Really wanna hit her wit thebut that body and personality tho
I'm gettin tired of these females man... these bytches be actin brand new.
Anytime a woman gets flaky I just take it someone else peaked her interest more . just gotta take that L cut your losses and try not to fret or get angry.
Should I text now or wait three days to show I`m not desperate?
Should I take on the role of an aloof mysterious personality and shun who I really am?
Should I juggle a bunch of individuals to show my desirability?
Should I use manipulation/jealously tactics to "win"?
Should I be stone cold emotionless and be a challenge to figure out?
Sure if all you want is hookups, casual on/off relationships and bouts of drama and confrontation, with lack of communication then by all means indulge in games, morph into a different character and "win" in the short run.
Because yes truthfully these tactics can keep the dopamine levels elevated and in this day and age that is what many people crave; the tingles, the novelty, the honeymoon infatuation period, the new car smell. And stability and familiarity well it slowly destroys the dopamine levels, the thrill and the rush slowly evaporates and next thing you know you are having that `talk`.
However the issue is if you desire a stable long term relationship built on solid foundation; it cannot be built on a chemical high, because once that high becomes placid the foundation crumbles. This is why it is imperative to choose your partner wisely and not just base of the butterflies in your belly. Observe and listen when they speak, be understanding, show empathy, communicate, have boundaries if needed, maintain a close friendship, be loyal and honest and realize that all relationships will have peaks and valleys.
Aight I feel you fam
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Honestly it had no effect on me, I didn't care. I just looked and closed it.
Laugh it off or deny deny deny, but as men, especially giving advice to men, nikkas need to know it's normal to have brief moments of vulnerability or curiosity (with yourself, not a bytch)
We giving gems so cats can be MEN in here, not sociopaths 