Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CASHAPP]

I didn't understand the chicken nugget analogy....seemed kind of random lol

 

[A.V.]

I didn't understand the chicken nugget analogy....seemed kind of random lol

He's basically stating that some cats will go to great lengths to contact, pursue, or placate a woman, but won't make those same strides in doing necessary things for themselves.

If the analogy was that hard to catch, you might need to stay out this thread and work on some other skills, brehbreh

 

[CASHAPP]

He's basically stating that some cats will go to great lengths to contact, pursue, or placate a woman, but won't make those same strides in doing necessary things for themselves.

If the analogy was that hard to catch, you might need to stay out this thread and work on some other skills, brehbreh

No breh the theme was easy to understand. I got that right away. but I meant the random mention of "chicken nuggets"...not even a healthy food

 

[kevm3]

No breh the theme was easy to understand. I got that right away. but I meant the random mention of "chicken nuggets"...not even a healthy food

The meaning is that people won't expend excessive effort for something of little value, such as spending hours riding a bike to get chicken nuggets, but yet most of the women a dude deals with is bringing little to no value and dudes are doing the MOST to procure their time and attention.

 

[kevm3]

It's ok breh. It's ok to have a moment of vulnerability or "curiosity" due to whatever reasons we've internalized and overcome. It might not have affected you at all one way or another, but you still had that brief curiosity there, no? A curiosity you probably fought with for a long time and that became less and less over time?


Lol. fukk it Laugh it off or deny deny deny, but as men, especially giving advice to men, nikkas need to know it's normal to have brief moments of vulnerability or curiosity (with yourself, not a bytch) We giving gems so cats can be MEN in here, not sociopaths

That's a real point. Most of us will have emotions for a woman that we were once very close to. Realistically, our emotions won't go from 100 to zero. What we end up doing is keeping our emotions under control and dampening them so that it doesn't end up affecting us too much. I think as men, we got to realize it's alright to have emotions, but to not be emotional, meaning to let our emotions control us.

 

[A.V.]

No breh the theme was easy to understand. I got that right away. but I meant the random mention of "chicken nuggets"...not even a healthy food

The meaning is that people won't expend excessive effort for something of little value, such as spending hours riding a bike to get chicken nuggets, but yet most of the women a dude deals with is bringing little to no value and dudes are doing the MOST to procure their time and attention.

I stand slightly corrected.

 

[Ohene]

It's ok breh. It's ok to have a moment of vulnerability or "curiosity" due to whatever reasons we've internalized and overcome. It might not have affected you at all one way or another, but you still had that brief curiosity there, no? A curiosity you probably fought with for a long time and that became less and less over time?


Lol. fukk it Laugh it off or deny deny deny, but as men, especially giving advice to men, nikkas need to know it's normal to have brief moments of vulnerability or curiosity (with yourself, not a bytch) We giving gems so cats can be MEN in here, not sociopaths

real shyt. Reincar dont make me put you on that summer jam screen

 

[Ohene]

The meaning is that people won't expend excessive effort for something of little value, such as spending hours riding a bike to get chicken nuggets, but yet most of the women a dude deals with is bringing little to no value and dudes are doing the MOST to procure their time and attention.

I dunno. Its' safe to say that men value sex and in some cases that emotional connection. it's an innate human need after all.

whether or not they value it too much however is another story

 

[A.V.]

real shyt. Reincar dont make me put you on that summer jam screen

That's still the homie. @Emperor_ReinScarf good wit me

 

[kevm3]

I dunno. Its' safe to say that men value sex and in some cases that emotional connection. it's an innate human need after all.

whether or not they value it too much however is another story

Men have an attraction to women, but the problem is the modern woman. So many of them have been warped by society that they aren't even living up to what a high value woman is. The younger dudes have grown up dealing with this kind of woman, so that's all they are used to, but what you're seeing today from a woman really isn't how this thing should go.

A woman provides value as a woman by BEING a woman and not the pseudoman that feminist society wants them to be. A woman of high value looks out for her man, she isn't afraid to cook and clean for him, is loyal, is stable, is sweet, etc. THAT kind of woman is rare and has high value. I point cats to this video of Loida Lewis, who was the wife of Reginald Lewis, the first african american with a net worth of a billion dollars


She was very educated herself and yet she had NO problem with doing what a woman should do for a man.

On the other hand, let's be real. How many women out there really bring THAT kind of value as opposed to being bar hoppers or women who have 10 different dudes in their roster who they are rotating in and out?

If men value sex, there are BILLIONS of women on the planet, so why do jumping jacks and somersaults for one particular one who isn't paying you much mind? Emotional Connection? That's true, but you can't form a lasting emotional connection with a broad that is cool for two days, disappears into the lagoon and then pops back up a month later. You'll drive yourself crazy. If a broad is playing ice games with me off the bat, she'll get replaced. I'm not going to put in effort to try to 'earn' her attention or to try to distinguish myself from the 15 other guys she is messaging right now. If the only thing a woman you're dealing with is bringing to the table is vagina that several of other men have already been inside, why is a dude putting in all of this effort to procure that? If she can't even be bothered to be cordial and fairly consistent in dealing with you, this woman isn't even worth sweating over. A lot of the problem in the modern dating scene is men keep sweating over women who aren't sweating over, wifing up women who aren't wife-worthy and bonding emotionally with women who only 'want to have fun.'

Me personally, I'm ALL about value. If something is worth the price, I'll pay that price, but I don't deal with low quality. I'd rather go without than deal with low quality, especially if that low quality is exorbitantly priced. That goes for just about anything I deal with, not only women.

 

[MikelArteta]

real shyt. Reincar dont make me put you on that summer jam screen

 

[Ohene]

Men have an attraction to women, but the problem is the modern woman. So many of them have been warped by society that they aren't even living up to what a high value woman is. The younger dudes have grown up dealing with this kind of woman, so that's all they are used to, but what you're seeing today from a woman really isn't how this thing should go.

A woman provides value as a woman by BEING a woman and not the pseudoman that feminist society wants them to be. A woman of high value looks out for her man, she isn't afraid to cook and clean for him, is loyal, is stable, is sweet, etc. THAT kind of woman is rare and has high value. I point cats to this video of Loida Lewis, who was the wife of Reginald Lewis, the first african american with a net worth of a billion dollars


She was very educated herself and yet she had NO problem with doing what a woman should do for a man.

On the other hand, let's be real. How many women out there really bring THAT kind of value as opposed to being bar hoppers or women who have 10 different dudes in their roster who they are rotating in and out?

If men value sex, there are BILLIONS of women on the planet, so why do jumping jacks and somersaults for one particular one who isn't paying you much mind? Emotional Connection? That's true, but you can't form a lasting emotional connection with a broad that is cool for two days, disappears into the lagoon and then pops back up a month later. You'll drive yourself crazy. If a broad is playing ice games with me off the bat, she'll get replaced. I'm not going to put in effort to try to 'earn' her attention or to try to distinguish myself from the 15 other guys she is messaging right now. If the only thing a woman you're dealing with is bringing to the table is vagina that several of other men have already been inside, why is a dude putting in all of this effort to procure that? If she can't even be bothered to be cordial and fairly consistent in dealing with you, this woman isn't even worth sweating over. A lot of the problem in the modern dating scene is men keep sweating over women who aren't sweating over, wifing up women who aren't wife-worthy and bonding emotionally with women who only 'want to have fun.'

Me personally, I'm ALL about value. If something is worth the price, I'll pay that price, but I don't deal with low quality. I'd rather go without than deal with low quality, especially if that low quality is exorbitantly priced. That goes for just about anything I deal with, not only women.

*sigh* i basically agree with everything you wrote

why these girls gotta be so flaky nowadays

 

[MikelArteta]

All these games and the player lifestyle will attract quanity buy not quality, the worthless and ratchet women who go for that stimulant are not the ones you want to build with.

In relationships successful ones you are the captain of the ship have ideas of what you deem acceptable in how you are treated and If she ever breaks that threshold to cur her off.

Never be the backup, never settle and never morph into a image selling your soul to get sex.

 

[kevm3]

Go to around the 18 minute mark. Nipsey tells the real

 

[aboss4real24]

i was talking to this bytch on tagged, had a nice convo

then i jerked off

all of a sudden i lost interest