Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

what's the longest you guys have been in a relationship for?

and is anyone currently in one?

only 7 months and then she told me she was moving overseas so i checked out

 

[Atlrocafella]

we talked it out she's coming by today

Breh you fukking up.

1st- shes a POF chick.
2nd- she sent you nudes after just a few DAYS!!(speaks to her character)
3. She told you she doesn't have sex unless she's in a relationship(that's only to not make her sound like a hoe, the broad is sending nudes when she in the mood, but we suppose to believe she's not having sex when she's horny? )

You need to regulate this chick to JumpOff status right now or get rid of her.

Otherwise you will be in a world of headache soon enough

 

[Ohene]

Breh you fukking up.

1st- shes a POF chick.
2nd- she sent you nudes after just a few DAYS!!(speaks to her character)
3. She told you she doesn't have sex unless she's in a relationship(that's only to not make her sound like a hoe, the broad is sending nudes when she in the mood, but we suppose to believe she's not having sex when she's horny? )

You need to regulate this chick to JumpOff status right now or get rid of her.

Otherwise you will be in a world of headache soon enough

@EnzoG i hope youve put this girl in smash or dash territory

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh you fukking up.

1st- shes a POF chick.
2nd- she sent you nudes after just a few DAYS!!(speaks to her character)
3. She told you she doesn't have sex unless she's in a relationship(that's only to not make her sound like a hoe, the broad is sending nudes when she in the mood, but we suppose to believe she's not having sex when she's horny? )

You need to regulate this chick to JumpOff status right now or get rid of her.

Otherwise you will be in a world of headache soon enough

you know hes going to read over this, know its right, know its right in his gut but disregard it

 

[EnzoG]

Breh you fukking up.

1st- shes a POF chick.
2nd- she sent you nudes after just a few DAYS!!(speaks to her character)
3. She told you she doesn't have sex unless she's in a relationship(that's only to not make her sound like a hoe, the broad is sending nudes when she in the mood, but we suppose to believe she's not having sex when she's horny? )

You need to regulate this chick to JumpOff status right now or get rid of her.

Otherwise you will be in a world of headache soon enough

never said i was head over heels for her haven't really caught feelings for her i just got back from chilling with her it was straight nothing popped off tho I wanted to initiate something i was just playing it safe for now

 

[Atlrocafella]

never said i was head over heels for her haven't really caught feelings for her i just got back from chilling with her it was straight nothing popped off tho I wanted to initiate something i was just playing it safe for now

So if you manage to smash, than that bullshyt she kicked about not wanting to have sex until she's in a relationship was complete nonsense, which also means you weren't the only one who smashed her without getting in a relationship.

So you either trying to smash or actually feeling her enough to be in a relationship with this thot

 

[EnzoG]

So if you manage to smash, than that bullshyt she kicked about not wanting to have sex until she's in a relationship was complete nonsense, which also means you weren't the only one who smashed her without getting in a relationship.

So you either trying to smash or actually feeling her enough to be in a relationship with this thot

I'll take the former

 

[karim]

Breh you fukking up.

1st- shes a POF chick.
2nd- she sent you nudes after just a few DAYS!!(speaks to her character)
3. She told you she doesn't have sex unless she's in a relationship(that's only to not make her sound like a hoe, the broad is sending nudes when she in the mood, but we suppose to believe she's not having sex when she's horny? )

You need to regulate this chick to JumpOff status right now or get rid of her.

Otherwise you will be in a world of headache soon enough

He's one of these hopeless cases, like that J purp guy. Comes in here asking for advice, than does the complete opposite of what he was told.

 

[MikelArteta]

Men always think their situation is different its special but its not.

 

[karim]

I know. I made a thread about my breh who is ignoring every red flag imaginable a couple of days ago. I had the talk with him and his exact words were "you don't understand"

Men always think their situation is different its special but its not.

 

[MikelArteta]

I know. I made a thread about my breh who is ignoring every red flag imaginable a couple of days ago. I had the talk with him and his exact words were "you don't understand"

I've been that breh before, thinking what you have is special, you don't know her like I do man, the sparks, the chemistry,

i've dealt with enough women in my life and been in every situation imaginable to weed out the bs, clinging to the cliff of hope not I

 

[Fatboi1]

I just made my EX FURIOUS !

I come home from work( Nice job so far) and my cousin comes up to ask to borrow my car. Now she just got her provisional license anyway and she ain't that good of a driver so I kind of ask her where she's going. She says to the store around the corner. I then tell her she can't drive alone and she goes "Oh I'm going with your ex.". I look at her like and told her my ex IS NOT getting in my car. She laughs and then goes down and tells my ex. I'm coming down ready to leave and my ex right by the stairs next to my cousin yapping some shyt like "Oh I don't need to get in your car go head with yourself " and i'm just like . I told her ass to keep her ass in the house . She then said "And anyway I don't need your car I got my own ".




That bytch don't got no fukking car. She think cuz her current BF has a car then that means it's her. That nikka ain't een here



Left her ass in the crib. She thought she was about to catch a ride with her girlfriends.

 

[EQ.]

I've been that breh before, thinking what you have is special, you don't know her like I do man, the sparks, the chemistry,

i've dealt with enough women in my life and been in every situation imaginable to weed out the bs, clinging to the cliff of hope not I

"bu bu but she's different "

 

[nalej]

was just going through this thread and came across some dope thigns @Sharp posted

In a woman's mind, she will justify her mischievous actions before she sets out to do them. This is why it doesn't make sense to confront a woman in an attempt to make her see the error of her ways. She knows the error of her ways. She isn't dumb. They don't do things on the spur of the moment. They are very meticulous. Nothing is by mistake, accident, or coincidence when it comes to women. Keep this in mind.

You find condom's in your woman's purse, even though you guys have been in a relationship for 5 years. You confront her, and she'll tell you "I got these from my doctor when I went to get my checkup. It's routine." Then you'll be like "O, ok."

Women cover their bases thoroughly. It's not that they don't slip up. The real problem is that men, we are naive and make ourselves believe that our woman could never be that scandalous because that would affect our egos. This is why when most men find out their woman has cheated on them, they want to go fight the man instead of get rid of the woman.

Never put anything past a woman, and always trust your gut. Logic over emotion. If you think she's cheating, she probably is and has been for quite some time. And you'll never get the truth from her, so you have to make your judgments based on what you see and what inferences you can get from that.

A man who isn't afraid to leave a woman is a powerful man in the world of relationships.


And never ever simp..... Remember your goal is not to please a woman. Your goal is to effectively show a woman who you are, so that you won't ever have to encounter any discomfort while dealing with these woman because she fell for an image or your "representative"


We're under this false impression that we have to impress women. Don't expose women to a lifestyle that you don't normally live. If you don't do five star restaurants on your own or with your friends, then why would you take a date to one?

Trying to impress women is what prompts them to feel entitled. If you're the type of dude that likes to go to Joe's Crab shack and the shorty you are dating isn't with it, then cut her off because she isn't for you. Never alter your lifestyle, your activities, your comforts for a woman because she won't do the same.

Being able to leave a relationship that isn't working for you is the greatest advantage you have over a woman.


I've often been called aloof or detached simply because I can leave a bad situation without hard feelings.

Your world should never revolve around a woman. When you have different things going on in your life which interest and stimulate you, you will be sharper and clearer.

One thing about being in a relationship is that there is a lot of emotional attachment. You have to maintain your composure. As hard as it is, don't argue, scream, or get combative with her. Stick to your principles, discipline her if she disrespects the principles, and leave her if she brings more stress than pleasure.

All relationships do not have to be a stressful struggle. Don't believe the hype. Your relationship will be based on how well the personalities and ideologies of you and her mesh. In other words, find a woman who will compliment you.

Logic over emotions. Value what you see over what you feel. Cause your feelings will deceive you because you don't want to be hurt.

don't spend too much time thinking about what a woman is doing when she's not with you. continue to be a man and treat her with respect, and check her when she steps out of line. And once she violates, cut her off.

Before u get into a relationship, have an idea of what you expect to get out of it or benefit from it. If you take the time to do this, you will minimize the amount of relationships you have because you will realize that for most women the risk outweighs the reward. Some of them are just good for casual friends. U need to accept the fact that u don't have to wife every good looking chick u come across

They initially blind themselves and fail to read the signs because they underestimate the woman and overestimate the security of their relationship. If you know it could happen to you, you will always place reality over fantasy and u will make decisions based off of what u see, not what I foolishly believe. Those are the ones who always get done dirty.

Learn to read red flags to make future predictions. People do change, but it's gradual


The older you get, the more you will find that it is easier to meet and attract women of all ages. You will realize that there is a surplus of women out there. You will say damn, why did I ever sweat any bytch in the first place? And if you've done well for yourself in life, you will be a magnet to chicks, simply because you will be satisfied and confident in yourself and your abilities.

As long as you dodge getting the wrong women pregnant and set goals for yourself in life, you will inevitably win.

Being a gentleman is doing a nice gesture for a woman with no expectations. But at the same time, it is convenient for you. Never go out of your way for a woman, she won't do the same.

I always say don't do anything for a woman if you are expecting her to return the favor because it is unlikely.

1. Be in control your libido.
2. Always have an exit strategy.
3. Do not care what she thinks about you.
4. Read her body language and ignore her words.

Attraction is not based on logic. Being a great friend is not going to make a woman fall for you. Women like confident men, and a confident man is not going to allow himself to be ushered to the friendship zone.

If somebody wants to be with you, nothing can keep them away. But if somebody does not want to be with you, everything will keep them away.

your love is conditional. It is based upon how she treats you. Your love is a privilege not a right.

Because the key to having better relationships with women is not understanding them. The key to having better relationships with women is adhering to your principles, and getting rid of them at the first sign of nonsense that she refuses to correct.

Deal with women that have come to terms with their past relationship mistakes and failures and date you with optimism that you will be a good look.

Don't become a woman pleaser.

You should always deal with women in your natural state at all times

We're under this false impression that we have to impress women. Don't expose women to a lifestyle that you don't normally live. If you don't do five star restaurants on your own or with your friends, then why would you take a date to one?

Trying to impress women is what prompts them to feel entitled. If you're the type of dude that likes to go to Joe's Crab shack and the shorty you are dating isn't with it, then cut her off because she isn't for you. Never alter your lifestyle, your activities, your comforts for a woman because she won't do the same.

This is such a great post. It deserves it's own thread.

 

[kevm3]

So if you manage to smash, than that bullshyt she kicked about not wanting to have sex until she's in a relationship was complete nonsense, which also means you weren't the only one who smashed her without getting in a relationship.

So you either trying to smash or actually feeling her enough to be in a relationship with this thot

Exactly. if a broad tells you immediately she ain't doing this or that, she IS doing that. She's on a dating site basically known for hooking up. She sends him nudes without really knowing him, and then tells him, "I don't do that." Told him she deleted her profile and put it right back up, but she's a sweet woman to wife up? Women know who they can run game on.