Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm I the only one disgusted at the simping in movies and always working out in the end?

ths ish just emasculates men

I totally agree, it creates unrealistic ideas regarding what it takes for relationships to either start or work out in the long run.

I was watching Baggage Claim with my mum and I was totally miffed as to how a man can propose to a woman that he's never dated out of the blue just because he's been in love with her since they were kids...or why a woman would say yes simply because she feels her window is closing and she wants to settle down.
 

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what's the longest you guys have been in a relationship for?

and is anyone currently in one?
 

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although i feel like what kind of repsonses i'll get back for writing this but i've been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now we met on pof due to the fact she didn't like the dudes on there she deleted hers and gave me her number(no girl has ever deleted her pof for me before and i didn't tell her to). During those few days i was getting to know her and she ended up sending nudes because she was in the mood i told her she needed to take advantage of that she told she can't have sex with a dude she's not in relationship with. Last week we had a good week but saturday me and her set up plans to see each other yesterday so yesterday morning before i was gettting ready for work i was talking to her and she wasn't in the best mood for some reason and she left to go to work she got off at 4 i got off at 7 i told her we could hang out after i got off work she didn't even text me back once she got off so i just left it alone she's hits me up with "thanks for standing me up. i'm sorry i bothered you". I told her that did she not forget what time i got off she tells me how was she supposed to know i was off when i got off after her she texted me that message at 830 and she said she waited maybe like an hour later i get on pof and she puts her account back up she tries to blow me out the water with the fact i still have mine she told me she deleted hers(as of this morning she still has it up). And i told her i would delete it once we made things official between us she treated it as a backup plan. So if any brehs have any opinion on this i'd like to hear it because i think its in terms of interest level on this one and if she was interested she wouldn't have forgot about what time i got off.
 
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although i feel like what kind of repsonses i'll get back for writing this but i've been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now we met on pof due to the fact she didn't like the dudes on there she deleted hers and gave me her number(no girl has ever deleted her pof for me before and i didn't tell her to) during those few days i was getting to know her and she ended up sending nudes because she was in the mood i told her she needed to take advantage of that she told she can't have sex with a dude she's not in relationship with. last week we had a good week but saturday me and her set up plans to see each other yesterday so yesterday morning before i was gettting ready for work i was talking to her and she wasn't in the best mood for some reason and she left to go to work she got off at 4 i got off at 7 i told her we could hang out after i got off work she didn't even text me back once she got off so i just left it alone she's hits me up with "thanks for standing me up. i'm sorry i bothered you" i told her that did she not forget what time i got off she tells me how was she supposed to know i was off when i got off after her she texted me that message at 830 and she said she waited maybe like an hour later i get on pof and she puts her account back up she tries to blow me out the water with the fact i still have mine she told me she deleted hers(as of this morning she still has it up) and i told her i would delete it once we made things official between us she treated it as a backup plan so if any brehs have any opinion on this i'd like to hear it because i think its in terms of interest level on this one and if she was interested she wouldn't have forgot about what time i got off
Ain't nobody reading that shyt when you can't even put some punctuation in breh
 

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although i feel like what kind of repsonses i'll get back for writing this but i've been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now we met on pof due to the fact she didn't like the dudes on there she deleted hers and gave me her number(no girl has ever deleted her pof for me before and i didn't tell her to). During those few days i was getting to know her and she ended up sending nudes because she was in the mood i told her she needed to take advantage of that she told she can't have sex with a dude she's not in relationship with. Last week we had a good week but saturday me and her set up plans to see each other yesterday so yesterday morning before i was gettting ready for work i was talking to her and she wasn't in the best mood for some reason and she left to go to work she got off at 4 i got off at 7 i told her we could hang out after i got off work she didn't even text me back once she got off so i just left it alone she's hits me up with "thanks for standing me up. i'm sorry i bothered you". I told her that did she not forget what time i got off she tells me how was she supposed to know i was off when i got off after her she texted me that message at 830 and she said she waited maybe like an hour later i get on pof and she puts her account back up she tries to blow me out the water with the fact i still have mine she told me she deleted hers(as of this morning she still has it up). And i told her i would delete it once we made things official between us she treated it as a backup plan. So if any brehs have any opinion on this i'd like to hear it because i think its in terms of interest level on this one and if she was interested she wouldn't have forgot about what time i got off.

just drop that girl yo, don't pursue wishy washy women. you messed up saying that - thanks for standing me up text. u just have to keep it moving, put up your POF profile again and start looking for now girls.

Way too soon to have that official talk with her also
 

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I read it, its the classic fell to fast start to pull back not feeling the tingles and sparks women pull.

Eject now and trust your gut and find a woman who doesn't play games

If someone treats you like a option and not a priority don't waste your time.

Secondly never ask a girl to be official , wait till she drops the so what are we

Thirdly she put her profile back up because she's looking for new meat, and you caught her and whenever women are caught in a lie they will turn it to you.

Why is your profile up?

She cheats

Why did you go through my phone?

Blame shifting 101
 
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