was just going through this thread and came across some dope thigns
@Sharp posted
In a woman's mind, she will justify her mischievous actions before she sets out to do them. This is why it doesn't make sense to confront a woman in an attempt to make her see the error of her ways. She knows the error of her ways. She isn't dumb. They don't do things on the spur of the moment. They are very meticulous. Nothing is by mistake, accident, or coincidence when it comes to women. Keep this in mind.
You find condom's in your woman's purse, even though you guys have been in a relationship for 5 years. You confront her, and she'll tell you "I got these from my doctor when I went to get my checkup. It's routine." Then you'll be like "O, ok."
Women cover their bases thoroughly. It's not that they don't slip up. The real problem is that men, we are naive and make ourselves believe that our woman could never be that scandalous because that would affect our egos. This is why when most men find out their woman has cheated on them, they want to go fight the man instead of get rid of the woman.
Never put anything past a woman, and always trust your gut. Logic over emotion. If you think she's cheating, she probably is and has been for quite some time. And you'll never get the truth from her, so you have to make your judgments based on what you see and what inferences you can get from that.
A man who isn't afraid to leave a woman is a powerful man in the world of relationships.
And never ever simp..... Remember your goal is not to please a woman. Your goal is to effectively show a woman who you are, so that you won't ever have to encounter any discomfort while dealing with these woman because she fell for an image or your "representative"
We're under this false impression that we have to impress women. Don't expose women to a lifestyle that you don't normally live. If you don't do five star restaurants on your own or with your friends, then why would you take a date to one?
Trying to impress women is what prompts them to feel entitled. If you're the type of dude that likes to go to Joe's Crab shack and the shorty you are dating isn't with it, then cut her off because she isn't for you. Never alter your lifestyle, your activities, your comforts for a woman because she won't do the same.
Being able to leave a relationship that isn't working for you is the greatest advantage you have over a woman.
I've often been called aloof or detached simply because I can leave a bad situation without hard feelings.
Your world should never revolve around a woman. When you have different things going on in your life which interest and stimulate you, you will be sharper and clearer.
One thing about being in a relationship is that there is a lot of emotional attachment. You have to maintain your composure. As hard as it is, don't argue, scream, or get combative with her. Stick to your principles, discipline her if she disrespects the principles, and leave her if she brings more stress than pleasure.
All relationships do not have to be a stressful struggle. Don't believe the hype. Your relationship will be based on how well the personalities and ideologies of you and her mesh. In other words, find a woman who will compliment you.
Logic over emotions. Value what you see over what you feel. Cause your feelings will deceive you because you don't want to be hurt.
don't spend too much time thinking about what a woman is doing when she's not with you. continue to be a man and treat her with respect, and check her when she steps out of line. And once she violates, cut her off.
Before u get into a relationship, have an idea of what you expect to get out of it or benefit from it. If you take the time to do this, you will minimize the amount of relationships you have because you will realize that for most women the risk outweighs the reward. Some of them are just good for casual friends. U need to accept the fact that u don't have to wife every good looking chick u come across
They initially blind themselves and fail to read the signs because they underestimate the woman and overestimate the security of their relationship. If you know it could happen to you, you will always place reality over fantasy and u will make decisions based off of what u see, not what I foolishly believe. Those are the ones who always get done dirty.
Learn to read red flags to make future predictions. People do change, but it's gradual
The older you get, the more you will find that it is easier to meet and attract women of all ages. You will realize that there is a surplus of women out there. You will say damn, why did I ever sweat any bytch in the first place? And if you've done well for yourself in life, you will be a magnet to chicks, simply because you will be satisfied and confident in yourself and your abilities.
As long as you dodge getting the wrong women pregnant and set goals for yourself in life, you will inevitably win.
Being a gentleman is doing a nice gesture for a woman with no expectations. But at the same time, it is convenient for you. Never go out of your way for a woman, she won't do the same.
I always say don't do anything for a woman if you are expecting her to return the favor because it is unlikely.
1. Be in control your libido.
2. Always have an exit strategy.
3. Do not care what she thinks about you.
4. Read her body language and ignore her words.
Attraction is not based on logic. Being a great friend is not going to make a woman fall for you. Women like confident men, and a confident man is not going to allow himself to be ushered to the friendship zone.
If somebody wants to be with you, nothing can keep them away. But if somebody does not want to be with you, everything will keep them away.
your love is conditional. It is based upon how she treats you. Your love is a privilege not a right.
Because the key to having better relationships with women is not understanding them. The key to having better relationships with women is adhering to your principles, and getting rid of them at the first sign of nonsense that she refuses to correct.
Deal with women that have come to terms with their past relationship mistakes and failures and date you with optimism that you will be a good look.
Don't become a woman pleaser.
You should always deal with women in your natural state at all times
We're under this false impression that we have to impress women. Don't expose women to a lifestyle that you don't normally live. If you don't do five star restaurants on your own or with your friends, then why would you take a date to one?
Trying to impress women is what prompts them to feel entitled. If you're the type of dude that likes to go to Joe's Crab shack and the shorty you are dating isn't with it, then cut her off because she isn't for you. Never alter your lifestyle, your activities, your comforts for a woman because she won't do the same.
. and besides this thread do you have any other ones where you drop Gems on life?
So simple, yet so powerful. dont sacrifice your own happiness for someone else's.