Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

fukk it. I'll just vent here. I'm feeling some type of way brehs. It's more of a feeling of jealousy simply because I feel like I"m lacking right now in terms of options. I feel jaded and honestly don't feel like going out of my way to get other females anyway. I try to convince myself I don't need that in my life and I should focus on money yadda yadda but dog there's nights where it's like I wish I had some warm female body to snuggle up with or be sticking my dikk in because it's DRY right now.

I'm not very outgoing socially so I'm not really out there hanging in bars and clubs or parties. I'm mostly with a small circle of people with specific reasons for being outside(going to the store or running errands.)

I don't care I know you guys will say "I told you so " or other things to verbally scold me but I fukked up a little by talking to my ex again even though nothing really happened. Just right now I came from her room because I came home from picking up my cousin and I was bored with nothing to do(Well I have things to do but knowing she's here made me want to see her) and I went to her room.




I texted her first asking if she's home and she said yea I asked if she's doing anything and she replied she's on the phone with her BF(She went back out with her ex bf and the dude she was messing with she doesn't mess with anymore.) Anyway I asked if she's going to stop talking when I come and she said he wants her to stay on the phone or something. I goes down there anyway against my better judgement and she's just talking while I'm standing beside her bed looking at my phone.



She then after like 10 minutes to hang up the phone and call him back since I kept kind of signaling her to hang up. I'm just there talking saying nonsense because I'm all up in my feelings. I'm sitting here saying shyt like "How do you feel seeing someone completely over you while they talk to their BF/GF and you still have some sort of feelings for them??" and she's just and while laying on her bed. I'm just there reiterating the same shyt and she starts to get sleepy and then says she's about to sleep.


I then foolishly say again "When you talking to him you don't get sleepy " and she's like "You talk too much ". I then AGAIN reiterate the same shyt to her about feeling some type of way and she's just as responsive as a doorknob laying in bed with her eyes closed. I say something like "So you back with him huh??" and she's like yea because she love him. It made me feel like more than to be honest. I then AGAIN like a fukking fool kept phrasing questions and talking to myself telling her one day she'll be in my shoes and she'll remember the stuff I said.

Honestly I feel like a fukking faggit right now. I'm calling it quits with this shyt man, I get too emotionally invested with these bytches once I find one. It's like I get desperate, jealous and needy even though I know that's what not to do. My gut feelings says otherwise. I end up talking too much and/or making myself look like a fukking simp. I pretty much feel kind of embarrassed. If I had some money right now I'd take a flight to somewhere far away and just chill out for a while to get my mind off of such frivolous affairs. It fukking sucks seeing my ex here and knowing she's cuddling and fukking her man right under the same roof as me.

Vent done.

life is filled with ups and downs, you just hvae to stop investing so much in things that bring no rewards ala women. I keep telling people you do not need "success with women" to validate who you are a man, women come and women go basing on your happiness, joy, success on whether you procure the services of one or many will always leave you messed up when they depart. If my only happiness is having a whole lot of money if I have none ima be , the same with women.

I told you how poisonous it is living under the same eroof as your ex, I've been there and it sucks, because they move on while your there like and and then angriness, you haven't had a tme to heal or get over it and its hard to do, its why I tell people to never date a coworker or even someone you live very close to because you will feel the same way when its over.

Stop asking about her life, her relationship could be going horrible but you only get the trailer of the film she wants you to see.

Look no lie your not even ready to date or be in a relationship you are like where I was years ago, Just dated and went out with women just to be like see I can get someone, or looking for someone to fill a void that I had in my life, the thing is only you can fill that void.

 

[MikelArteta]

Look I'm not even talking to any women right now, my phone hasn'tbuzed or rang in probably a week, but I'm not sitting around all , , I'm enjoying life I'm going away next week, college football tom and saturday, watching movies, writing, taking photos of scenery etc.

back in the past this would be me on dating sites, or facebook or hitting up old thots trying to fill a void I thought I had, I needed a woman to do that , now I could care less.

Life is what you make it and I try to be happy and joyful whenever I can, I can die today but if im going out I'm going out loving life, not worrying that I don't have some chick thinking about me

 

[kevm3]

http://www.breitbart.com/Breitbart-...iving-Up-On-Women-And-Checking-Out-Of-Society

Crazy how the younger generation is really feeling the effect of the 'social engineering'

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

fukk it. I'll just vent here. I'm feeling some type of way brehs. It's more of a feeling of jealousy simply because I feel like I"m lacking right now in terms of options. I feel jaded and honestly don't feel like going out of my way to get other females anyway. I try to convince myself I don't need that in my life and I should focus on money yadda yadda but dog there's nights where it's like I wish I had some warm female body to snuggle up with or be sticking my dikk in because it's DRY right now.

I'm not very outgoing socially so I'm not really out there hanging in bars and clubs or parties. I'm mostly with a small circle of people with specific reasons for being outside(going to the store or running errands.)

I don't care I know you guys will say "I told you so " or other things to verbally scold me but I fukked up a little by talking to my ex again even though nothing really happened. Just right now I came from her room because I came home from picking up my cousin and I was bored with nothing to do(Well I have things to do but knowing she's here made me want to see her) and I went to her room.




I texted her first asking if she's home and she said yea I asked if she's doing anything and she replied she's on the phone with her BF(She went back out with her ex bf and the dude she was messing with she doesn't mess with anymore.) Anyway I asked if she's going to stop talking when I come and she said he wants her to stay on the phone or something. I goes down there anyway against my better judgement and she's just talking while I'm standing beside her bed looking at my phone.



She then after like 10 minutes to hang up the phone and call him back since I kept kind of signaling her to hang up. I'm just there talking saying nonsense because I'm all up in my feelings. I'm sitting here saying shyt like "How do you feel seeing someone completely over you while they talk to their BF/GF and you still have some sort of feelings for them??" and she's just and while laying on her bed. I'm just there reiterating the same shyt and she starts to get sleepy and then says she's about to sleep.


I then foolishly say again "When you talking to him you don't get sleepy " and she's like "You talk too much ". I then AGAIN reiterate the same shyt to her about feeling some type of way and she's just as responsive as a doorknob laying in bed with her eyes closed. I say something like "So you back with him huh??" and she's like yea because she love him. It made me feel like more than to be honest. I then AGAIN like a fukking fool kept phrasing questions and talking to myself telling her one day she'll be in my shoes and she'll remember the stuff I said.

Honestly I feel like a fukking faggit right now. I'm calling it quits with this shyt man, I get too emotionally invested with these bytches once I find one. It's like I get desperate, jealous and needy even though I know that's what not to do. My gut feelings says otherwise. I end up talking too much and/or making myself look like a fukking simp. I pretty much feel kind of embarrassed. If I had some money right now I'd take a flight to somewhere far away and just chill out for a while to get my mind off of such frivolous affairs. It fukking sucks seeing my ex here and knowing she's cuddling and fukking her man right under the same roof as me.

Vent done.

breh

you just feeding yourself more L's.
you gotta let her out your memory and move around.
sitting there asking her about the other dude just gone fukk ya head up even more.
why you sweating this one chick like she's some top notch bytch?

 

[kevm3]

The fellas told you the real. Once a woman has checked out, she's checked out. She doesn't care about your feelings, how you're doing, any of that. Obviously you have some curiosity and you're wondering about why's or some elaborate reason. There is none. It's just that emotionally, she's found someone else. All you can do is completely move on. I would tell you to 'find another woman', but you're going to run into the same problem. Find completion without other people. More than anything, you need to focus on getting that top notch job so you can move out and you don't have to deal with the nonsense.

 

[Ohene]

I’m 29, uncertain about my boyfriend of 18 months’ proposal while we were in Germany last month.

I waffled and said I had to think about it. He’d bought a lovely engagement ring that he still has in his possession.

We don’t live together. He’s 32, a very sweet guy who’d do anything for me. He’s certain he wants to spend his life with me.

However, I don’t want to marry him. I’m a professional with a graduate degree; he’s a tradesman with no money. Though he kisses the ground I walk on, I don’t think I’d be happy long-term with him. I’d always wonder if I could’ve done better.

But I want to have children.

Should I settle for this man? Breaking up with him (as I did, before we got back together weeks later) would crush him. He has no hobbies and very little social life without me.

the most hurtful part is the fact that she knows who she is...has known and has gone on with the shenanigan perhaps to fill some sort of void she has or something. These girls are like that selfish child in school will use and discard you like a toy. Only when the toy is taken from them by another kid in the classroom or teacher do they want it back. It's sad.

The girl says she has a graduate degree (as if thats supposed to automatically equate to "money" when if anything it probably means a ton of debt). She says she would feel like she's settling etc but why have you been dating this guy for so long to the point that you guys are now thinking about marriage?

If you knew you wanted the corporate dude who drives a 7 series, wears Brooks Brothers suits to work and has a house on the hills then why the fukk would you date the neighborhood plumber? Why waste everyone's time? I cant speak for all males because dudes be on that shyt too...but one thing I try not to do is ever lead somebody on. If I dont see the girl as anything more than a girl to smash, she will know I aint interested in looking at her in a wifey. If I am feeling a girl but dont see myself going long term due to factors whether its religion, location, whatever she will know it. Its a dog eat dog world though. Everybody is out for themselves.

shyt like that makes it hard to appraise women. Even if that story is a fib, you know there are many dudes out there in the same situation and dont even know it.

 

[MikelArteta]

Trust Me its not easy to see a chick you loved at one point every day when you ain't together, you can't get over it because every time you see her some emotions come back.

You can't heal when the stitches keep getting ripped out.

I dated my ex for only 7 months but for 5 years after she was in my life I could never heal or properly move on ubtill I cut all ties.

breh

you just feeding yourself more L's.
you gotta let her out your memory and move around.
sitting there asking her about the other dude just gone fukk ya head up even more.
why you sweating this one chick like she's some top notch bytch?

 

[Mike Ock]

fukk it. I'll just vent here. I'm feeling some type of way brehs. It's more of a feeling of jealousy simply because I feel like I"m lacking right now in terms of options. I feel jaded and honestly don't feel like going out of my way to get other females anyway. I try to convince myself I don't need that in my life and I should focus on money yadda yadda but dog there's nights where it's like I wish I had some warm female body to snuggle up with or be sticking my dikk in because it's DRY right now.

I'm not very outgoing socially so I'm not really out there hanging in bars and clubs or parties. I'm mostly with a small circle of people with specific reasons for being outside(going to the store or running errands.)

I don't care I know you guys will say "I told you so " or other things to verbally scold me but I fukked up a little by talking to my ex again even though nothing really happened. Just right now I came from her room because I came home from picking up my cousin and I was bored with nothing to do(Well I have things to do but knowing she's here made me want to see her) and I went to her room.




I texted her first asking if she's home and she said yea I asked if she's doing anything and she replied she's on the phone with her BF(She went back out with her ex bf and the dude she was messing with she doesn't mess with anymore.) Anyway I asked if she's going to stop talking when I come and she said he wants her to stay on the phone or something. I goes down there anyway against my better judgement and she's just talking while I'm standing beside her bed looking at my phone.



She then after like 10 minutes to hang up the phone and call him back since I kept kind of signaling her to hang up. I'm just there talking saying nonsense because I'm all up in my feelings. I'm sitting here saying shyt like "How do you feel seeing someone completely over you while they talk to their BF/GF and you still have some sort of feelings for them??" and she's just and while laying on her bed. I'm just there reiterating the same shyt and she starts to get sleepy and then says she's about to sleep.


I then foolishly say again "When you talking to him you don't get sleepy " and she's like "You talk too much ". I then AGAIN reiterate the same shyt to her about feeling some type of way and she's just as responsive as a doorknob laying in bed with her eyes closed. I say something like "So you back with him huh??" and she's like yea because she love him. It made me feel like more than to be honest. I then AGAIN like a fukking fool kept phrasing questions and talking to myself telling her one day she'll be in my shoes and she'll remember the stuff I said.

Honestly I feel like a fukking faggit right now. I'm calling it quits with this shyt man, I get too emotionally invested with these bytches once I find one. It's like I get desperate, jealous and needy even though I know that's what not to do. My gut feelings says otherwise. I end up talking too much and/or making myself look like a fukking simp. I pretty much feel kind of embarrassed. If I had some money right now I'd take a flight to somewhere far away and just chill out for a while to get my mind off of such frivolous affairs. It fukking sucks seeing my ex here and knowing she's cuddling and fukking her man right under the same roof as me.

Vent done.

Do you need her to actually say to you "Just get over it" for you to fully understand that she done moved on? I mean geez bruh, she's fukin' another dude in ya damn house with ya fam, and you still have hope?

Maaan, I came close to negging you.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup we have all been there, when a woman is gone she is gone. You could have been her heart yesterday now you are nothing.

I've said it over and over again I've had ten women legit tell me to my face that they loved me, I've had countless more tell me that they cared about me and would be there and all that.

None are around None. I've had health scares I've almost died in a car accident and none cared, most women you will come across are just seasonal people here in the summer gone in fall or winter.

All you can do is let em go, even if its tearing you up on the inside maintain your dignity .

I've never buckled since my ex , many women since then have entered my life and when thry get cold and distant I don't even ask, actions speak louder than words and I make my exit dignity intact, no anger, no frustrating no disappointment.

The fellas told you the real. Once a woman has checked out, she's checked out. She doesn't care about your feelings, how you're doing, any of that. Obviously you have some curiosity and you're wondering about why's or some elaborate reason. There is none. It's just that emotionally, she's found someone else. All you can do is completely move on. I would tell you to 'find another woman', but you're going to run into the same problem. Find completion without other people. More than anything, you need to focus on getting that top notch job so you can move out and you don't have to deal with the nonsense.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Trust Me its not easy to see a chick you loved at one point every day when you ain't together, you can't get over it because every time you see her some emotions come back.

You can't heal when the stitches keep getting ripped out.

I dated my ex for only 7 months but for 5 years after she was in my life I could never heal or properly move on ubtill I cut all ties.

shyt he gotta go get other chicks.
not linger around her while she on the phone with another. Dude

 

[MikelArteta]

In the same context, if they aren't treating you like the most important thing in the world (aside from God), then you are wasting your time and energy and draining yourself emotionally.

It all ties down to if your woman does not view you as valuable or respect you its a waste because her eyes or heart will always think she can get something better.

Im about a loyal woman who I can trust and views me with respect and sees me as valuable I don't care how she makes anyone can get a better job if they strive towards that goal.

Even if dude wasa a lawyer it would be something else trust Me

the most hurtful part is the fact that she knows who she is...has known and has gone on with the shenanigan perhaps to fill some sort of void she has or something. These girls are like that selfish child in school will use and discard you like a toy. Only when the toy is taken from them by another kid in the classroom or teacher do they want it back. It's sad.

The girl says she has a graduate degree (as if thats supposed to automatically equate to "money" when if anything it probably means a ton of debt). She says she would feel like she's settling etc but why have you been dating this guy for so long to the point that you guys are now thinking about marriage?

If you knew you wanted the corporate dude who drives a 7 series, wears Brooks Brothers suits to work and has a house on the hills then why the fukk would you date the neighborhood plumber? Why waste everyone's time? I cant speak for all males because dudes be on that shyt too...but one thing I try not to do is ever lead somebody on. If I dont see the girl as anything more than a girl to smash, she will know I aint interested in looking at her in a wifey. If I am feeling a girl but dont see myself going long term due to factors whether its religion, location, whatever she will know it. Its a dog eat dog world though. Everybody is out for themselves.

shyt like that makes it hard to appraise women. Even if that story is a fib, you know there are many dudes out there in the same situation and dont even know it.

 

[MikelArteta]

It won't make a difference trust me. I've been in his situation and I dated and went on numerous dates even slept with like 12 women in a few months tryinf to fill my void of unhappiness.

You have to Focus on YOU, get yourself emotionally and physically healthy (takes time) and after a while, you'll no longer have those feelings

You can't expect women or sex to fix any problems.

If you want a emotionally stable relationship with a emotionally stable person you have to be emotionally stable yourself

shyt he gotta go get other chicks.
not linger around her while she on the phone with another. Dude

 

[MikelArteta]

I no longer expect anything from a woman I'm not related to.

Not a text, not a phone call, not a date, not a kiss, not sex, not fidelity, not respect, not sacrifice, not her caring about me, not love not anything

Thus I am never disappointed, frustrated, angry .

If I get all that cool you have exceeded my expectations if not shrugs

I'm not expecting a Christmas bonus this year but if I get one cool, if not shrugs I'm not going to be disappointed.

 

[The Frozen One]

The fellas told you the real. Once a woman has checked out, she's checked out. She doesn't care about your feelings, how you're doing, any of that. Obviously you have some curiosity and you're wondering about why's or some elaborate reason. There is none. It's just that emotionally, she's found someone else. All you can do is completely move on. I would tell you to 'find another woman', but you're going to run into the same problem. Find completion without other people. More than anything, you need to focus on getting that top notch job so you can move out and you don't have to deal with the nonsense.

Good point and it may not even be that she found someone else.. Its just that she isn't interested in you and you can bang your head, stress over it, worry about it all you want but no matter what you will not be able to change her mind.

Best thing to do is chalk it up to the game. Messaging her, calling her etc isn't gonna help..forget about the one girl.. Nothing special about her that you cant find from someone else.

 

[Ohene]

I no longer expect anything from a woman I'm not related to.

Not a text, not a phone call, not a date, not a kiss, not sex, not fidelity, not respect, not sacrifice, not her caring about me, not love not anything

Thus I am never disappointed, frustrated, angry .

If I get all that cool you have exceeded my expectations if not shrugs

I'm not expecting a Christmas bonus this year but if I get one cool, if not shrugs I'm not going to be disappointed.

real talk bro