Anyone familiar with Chicago women? 
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
bytch who flaked on me last night been blowin me up all day cause I ain't answering her texts. She gettin sent to the fukkin d-league.
I'm just gettin tired of women period, no homo. Feel like I need to fall back and concentrate on my goals and not let the p*ssy distract me so damn much.
I really believe in aura/energy/ law of attraction. Soon as you start focusing on your goals in a righteous manner you'll exude this energy that will attract the right people bruh. i know it sounds goofy but i am sure in your life you've met people who had magnetic personalities who draw you in without trying and you can feel a sense of "they're comfortable in their skin" type energy from em. Gettin to that point is
cause everything you do and everyone you meet are seemingly helping you improve as a person.
I really believe in aura/energy/ law of attraction. Soon as you start focusing on your goals in a righteous manner you'll exude this energy that will attract the right people bruh. i know it sounds goofy but i am sure in your life you've met people who had magnetic personalities who draw you in without trying and you can feel a sense of "they're comfortable in their skin" type energy from em. Gettin to that point is
Life is never constant. People change and so do their feelings.
Do not waste the good years of your life worried about things you cannot control. Control what you can which is YOU.
Get healthy.
Love yourself.
Hang out with friends/family
travel
Find new hobbies.
Things you will never see me do (again?) that you should not do either 1.0
Wallow in grief/wait for someone who walks out of your life
Whenever an individual walks away/flakes/dumps or any other definition of bye bye, it basically comes down to….
So in theory why should/would any rational person sit around being bound by the shackles of hope waiting anxiously for someone to alter their feelings; all the while someone who views you as valuable and is more compatible with you will never receive the chance as long as your emotional ties and thoughts are consumed on the wrong person. My mindset is now If someone does not view me as number one...well no hard feelings, no anger, no frustration, no disappointment, thank you for no longer wasting anymore of my time and allowing me to concentrate on finding the right match for me.
The beauty/curse of life is that it is never unchanging. Individuals change and so can any affections they may have toward you. And through the years I have learned/seen how precious life is to waste worrying/thinking about things I cannot control. Learn to live and let go!
Wallow in grief/wait for someone who walks out of your life
Whenever an individual walks away/flakes/dumps or any other definition of bye bye, it basically comes down to….
- They are just not feeling the circumstances or just not into you
- They perceive they can do better than you
- They have many options so why be “saddled” or “settle”
So in theory why should/would any rational person sit around being bound by the shackles of hope waiting anxiously for someone to alter their feelings; all the while someone who views you as valuable and is more compatible with you will never receive the chance as long as your emotional ties and thoughts are consumed on the wrong person. My mindset is now If someone does not view me as number one...well no hard feelings, no anger, no frustration, no disappointment, thank you for no longer wasting anymore of my time and allowing me to concentrate on finding the right match for me.
The beauty/curse of life is that it is never unchanging. Individuals change and so can any affections they may have toward you. And through the years I have learned/seen how precious life is to waste worrying/thinking about things I cannot control. Learn to live and let go!
never be scared to ask how your girl or any girl last relationship ended the same way she probably ended it will be the way she does with you. I remmeber talking to a girl and she told me how she had a emotional affair with her first boyfriend then she told me her next relationship she broke up with the dude, then she told me she was talking to some dude for like ten months and he just dissappeared on her
while piecing it together in my mind she pulled hte same steps over and over again, with her second bf she broke up with him in october, yet she started talking to that dude in august
Basically another emotional affair
same script same song same dance
but past is the past beh hop in
while piecing it together in my mind she pulled hte same steps over and over again, with her second bf she broke up with him in october, yet she started talking to that dude in august
Basically another emotional affair
same script same song same dance
but past is the past beh hop in
I’m 29, uncertain about my boyfriend of 18 months’ proposal while we were in Germany last month.
I waffled and said I had to think about it. He’d bought a lovely engagement ring that he still has in his possession.
We don’t live together. He’s 32, a very sweet guy who’d do anything for me. He’s certain he wants to spend his life with me.
However, I don’t want to marry him. I’m a professional with a graduate degree; he’s a tradesman with no money. Though he kisses the ground I walk on, I don’t think I’d be happy long-term with him. I’d always wonder if I could’ve done better.
But I want to have children.
Should I settle for this man? Breaking up with him (as I did, before we got back together weeks later) would crush him. He has no hobbies and very little social life without me.
I waffled and said I had to think about it. He’d bought a lovely engagement ring that he still has in his possession.
We don’t live together. He’s 32, a very sweet guy who’d do anything for me. He’s certain he wants to spend his life with me.
However, I don’t want to marry him. I’m a professional with a graduate degree; he’s a tradesman with no money. Though he kisses the ground I walk on, I don’t think I’d be happy long-term with him. I’d always wonder if I could’ve done better.
But I want to have children.
Should I settle for this man? Breaking up with him (as I did, before we got back together weeks later) would crush him. He has no hobbies and very little social life without me.
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
I’m 29, uncertain about my boyfriend of 18 months’ proposal while we were in Germany last month.
I waffled and said I had to think about it. He’d bought a lovely engagement ring that he still has in his possession.
We don’t live together. He’s 32, a very sweet guy who’d do anything for me. He’s certain he wants to spend his life with me.
However, I don’t want to marry him. I’m a professional with a graduate degree; he’s a tradesman with no money. Though he kisses the ground I walk on, I don’t think I’d be happy long-term with him. I’d always wonder if I could’ve done better.
But I want to have children.
Should I settle for this man? Breaking up with him (as I did, before we got back together weeks later) would crush him. He has no hobbies and very little social life without me.
she's gonna leave him regardless. might not be this week or this month but eventually.
Lemme stop lying. It was the ex. *sigh*
Nah not the ex..
Just random thoughts..
Nothing serious happen but I feel like I'm slowly creeping back in.
#HOH #HardOnHoes
KingTut
Green diamonds like a dill pickle
fukk it. I'll just vent here. I'm feeling some type of way brehs. It's more of a feeling of jealousy simply because I feel like I"m lacking right now in terms of options. I feel jaded and honestly don't feel like going out of my way to get other females anyway. I try to convince myself I don't need that in my life and I should focus on money yadda yadda but dog there's nights where it's like I wish I had some warm female body to snuggle up with or be sticking my dikk in because it's DRY right now. 
I'm not very outgoing socially so I'm not really out there hanging in bars and clubs or parties. I'm mostly with a small circle of people with specific reasons for being outside(going to the store or running errands.)
I don't care I know you guys will say "I told you so
" or other things to verbally scold me but I fukked up a little by talking to my ex again even though nothing really happened. Just right now I came from her room because I came home from picking up my cousin and I was bored with nothing to do(Well I have things to do but knowing she's here made me want to see her) and I went to her room.
I texted her first asking if she's home and she said yea I asked if she's doing anything and she replied she's on the phone with her BF(She went back out with her ex bf and the dude she was messing with she doesn't mess with anymore.) Anyway I asked if she's going to stop talking when I come and she said he wants her to stay on the phone or something. I goes down there anyway against my better judgement and she's just talking while I'm standing beside her bed looking at my phone.
She then after like 10 minutes to hang up the phone and call him back since I kept kind of signaling her to hang up. I'm just there talking saying nonsense because I'm all up in my feelings. I'm sitting here saying shyt like "How do you feel seeing someone completely over you while they talk to their BF/GF and you still have some sort of feelings for them??" and she's just
and 
while laying on her bed. I'm just there reiterating the same shyt and she starts to get sleepy and then says she's about to sleep.
I then foolishly say again "When you talking to him you don't get sleepy
" and she's like "You talk too much 
". I then AGAIN reiterate the same shyt to her about feeling some type of way and she's just as responsive as a doorknob laying in bed with her eyes closed. I say something like "So you back with him huh??" and she's like yea because she love him. It made me feel like 
more than 
to be honest. I then AGAIN like a fukking fool kept phrasing questions and talking to myself telling her one day she'll be in my shoes and she'll remember the stuff I said.
Honestly I feel like a fukking faggit right now. I'm calling it quits with this shyt man, I get too emotionally invested with these bytches once I find one. It's like I get desperate, jealous and needy even though I know that's what not to do. My gut feelings says otherwise. I end up talking too much and/or making myself look like a fukking simp. I pretty much feel kind of embarrassed. If I had some money right now I'd take a flight to somewhere far away and just chill out for a while to get my mind off of such frivolous affairs. It fukking sucks seeing my ex here and knowing she's cuddling and fukking her man right under the same roof as me.
Vent done.
I'm not very outgoing socially so I'm not really out there hanging in bars and clubs or parties. I'm mostly with a small circle of people with specific reasons for being outside(going to the store or running errands.)
I don't care I know you guys will say "I told you so
" or other things to verbally scold me but I fukked up a little by talking to my ex again even though nothing really happened. Just right now I came from her room because I came home from picking up my cousin and I was bored with nothing to do(Well I have things to do but knowing she's here made me want to see her) and I went to her room.I texted her first asking if she's home and she said yea I asked if she's doing anything and she replied she's on the phone with her BF(She went back out with her ex bf and the dude she was messing with she doesn't mess with anymore.) Anyway I asked if she's going to stop talking when I come and she said he wants her to stay on the phone or something. I goes down there anyway against my better judgement and she's just talking while I'm standing beside her bed looking at my phone.
She then after like 10 minutes to hang up the phone and call him back since I kept kind of signaling her to hang up. I'm just there talking saying nonsense because I'm all up in my feelings. I'm sitting here saying shyt like "How do you feel seeing someone completely over you while they talk to their BF/GF and you still have some sort of feelings for them??" and she's just
and while laying on her bed. I'm just there reiterating the same shyt and she starts to get sleepy and then says she's about to sleep. I then foolishly say again "When you talking to him you don't get sleepy
" and she's like "You talk too much ". I then AGAIN reiterate the same shyt to her about feeling some type of way and she's just as responsive as a doorknob laying in bed with her eyes closed. I say something like "So you back with him huh??" and she's like yea because she love him. It made me feel like more than to be honest. I then AGAIN like a fukking fool kept phrasing questions and talking to myself telling her one day she'll be in my shoes and she'll remember the stuff I said. Honestly I feel like a fukking faggit right now. I'm calling it quits with this shyt man, I get too emotionally invested with these bytches once I find one. It's like I get desperate, jealous and needy even though I know that's what not to do. My gut feelings says otherwise. I end up talking too much and/or making myself look like a fukking simp. I pretty much feel kind of embarrassed. If I had some money right now I'd take a flight to somewhere far away and just chill out for a while to get my mind off of such frivolous affairs. It fukking sucks seeing my ex here and knowing she's cuddling and fukking her man right under the same roof as me.
Vent done.