Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

It won't make a difference trust me. I've been in his situation and I dated and went on numerous dates even slept with like 12 women in a few months tryinf to fill my void of unhappiness.

You have to Focus on YOU, get yourself emotionally and physically healthy (takes time) and after a while, you'll no longer have those feelings

You can't expect women or sex to fix any problems.

If you want a emotionally stable relationship with a emotionally stable person you have to be emotionally stable yourself

while i agree i think it is definitely helpful to have other girls around. it helps boosts one's self esteem.

every case is different because everybody has their own values in life. Some men value female attn more than others and until they no longer need it...that female attn will help. However in this case it seems like dude gets attached too easily so its hard to say. This is how dudes turn into TGLS mode though

 

[The Frozen One]

I strongly recommend for all nikkas to read Models by Mark Manson. Pm for the PDf.. Its a book that teaches how a man shoild act.. Not just to be better with women but to be a better personal overall and have success at every facet of your life.

 

[MikelArteta]

while i agree i think it is definitely helpful to have other girls around. it helps boosts one's self esteem.

every case is different because everybody has their own values in life. Some men value female attn more than others and until they no longer need it...that female attn will help. However in this case it seems like dude gets attached too easily so its hard to say. This is how dudes turn into TGLS mode though

its just putting a band aid on the solution.

The only reason he feels "down" is because he doesn't have women, while his ex has a man, so its like i'm i good enough i'm i worthy she is winning I am losing.

Like I said I've been there I had my ex living in my home for 3 months, I watched nikkaz come to my driveway and shed hop in their car, id watch her come home late at night, I seen it all and been there breh

if he gets a broad, he will be having a woman from a place a weakness he will be looking for her to fill a void, in the end he will be in the same position again and again.

 

[Ohene]

its just putting a band aid on the solution.

The only reason he feels "down" is because he doesn't have women, while his ex has a man, so its like i'm i good enough i'm i worthy she is winning I am losing.

Like I said I've been there I had my ex living in my home for 3 months, I watched nikkaz come to my driveway and shed hop in their car, id watch her come home late at night, I seen it all and been there breh

if he gets a broad, he will be having a woman from a place a weakness he will be looking for her to fill a void, in the end he will be in the same position again and again.

but so what? band-aids are sold for a reason, to provide protection on the wound while it heals properly. Nothing wrong with bandaids lol

is it better to put a bandaid on or wait while rain, smog, lotion chemicals, sunlight and a whole bunch of other shyt ruin the healing process?

 

[MikelArteta]

but so what? band-aids are sold for a reason, to provide protection on the wound while it heals properly. Nothing wrong with bandaids lol

is it better to put a bandaid on or wait while rain, smog, lotion chemicals, sunlight and a whole bunch of other shyt ruin the healing process?

 

[Ohene]

Yea breh. Key is just to know when the bandaid must be taken off and that too is "painful". But antibiotics, the ointment treatment in between bandaids, careful washing, sunscreen etc is essentially when working on yourself comes into play.

That's just how I see it...the bandaid is important

 

[Fatboi1]

Do you need her to actually say to you "Just get over it" for you to fully understand that she done moved on? I mean geez bruh, she's fukin' another dude in ya damn house with ya fam, and you still have hope?

Maaan, I came close to negging you.

Neg me

breh

you just feeding yourself more L's.
you gotta let her out your memory and move around.
sitting there asking her about the other dude just gone fukk ya head up even more.
why you sweating this one chick like she's some top notch bytch?

To be completely honest, I'm not losing sleep or meals over this chick but at that moment watching her talk on the phone calling her man(well it's her ex smh) "baby" and her smiling kind of made me feel like a cornball. After I left, I just went to study some Japanese so my mind was off of that for a while. The thought of her lingers in the back of my mind and usually what helps is to simply not contact her or see her. See no evil hear no evil basically. I was practically fine for the better part of the last two months actually. I'd see her and just simply say "hi" or "whats up?" when she passes but that was it. The thing that I'm going to cut out entirely is my fam always gassing shyt up. Like for instance I can go downstairs to ask my cousin something and she'll be like " I don't got it but your ex has it, go ask her " while my ex is standing right there. She does it because several times in the past we'd not be talking for a few days and she'd know it was just temporary and whatnot but now she thinks it's just us playing around acting mad at each other. I'm gonna tell them to cut that shyt out and stop bringing her up to me or referring me to her for stuff when I didn't ask. Next time they do that I'm gonna just let them know I'm not cool with that shyt and to stop it because it makes me look desperate.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

Why do women love attention so much?

 

[MikelArteta]

Why do women love attention so much?

it's their currency and their total validation is based on it.

 

[Bless't]

http://www.breitbart.com/Breitbart-...iving-Up-On-Women-And-Checking-Out-Of-Society

Crazy how the younger generation is really feeling the effect of the 'social engineering'

That was an excellent article. Its absolutely starting to become a societal epidemic. I cannot wait to see how society changes in the next 15 years, dear lord.

 

[MikelArteta]

That was an excellent article. Its absolutely starting to become a societal epidemic. I cannot wait to see how society changes in the next 15 years, dear lord.

It is a great article honestly wheny ou weigh the risk and the reward it's not even worth it.

Most men would love to get married and have a family but its all a sacrifice for men, and many times you can't even get teh basic loyalty/trust/monogamy

my two longest relationships

1. Ex fiance lied to me and had a abortion behind my back
2. Ex cheated


I put nothing past any woman who is not biological related to me, I don't care if people label me as "bitter", "misognyst". I've seen it all, married women cheating, women in relationships trowing themselves as me, women hopping in and out of relationship, feeling no remorse for being in a affair, leaving because they are "bored".

It's only long you can kick a dog before he bites back.

It's sad to say but besides sex many women offer nothing

 

[Fatboi1]

but so what? band-aids are sold for a reason, to provide protection on the wound while it heals properly. Nothing wrong with bandaids lol

is it better to put a bandaid on or wait while rain, smog, lotion chemicals, sunlight and a whole bunch of other shyt ruin the healing process?

I kind of had a band-aid so to peak during the beginning of the summer with my ex's friend(whom I met a few years prior but not through my ex) but band-aids again are temporary. They lose their adhesiveness.

 

[The D-List Vet]

its official @Emperor_ReinScarf people i talk with asked me if i even like women because i rather talk about other things besides p*ssy which they talk about everyday . I am living my life by your motto "if it happens it happens, if it does not happen oh well"

 

[MikelArteta]

its official @Emperor_ReinScarf people i talk with asked me if i even like women because i rather talk about other things besides p*ssy which they talk about everyday . I am living my life by your motto "if it happens it happens, if it does not happen oh well"

its like if your mind isn't fixated on puzzy or geting laid something is wrong with you when that's farther from the truth. Honestly my best success with women is when they were the furthest from my mind,just like a woman can pick up if you are desperate they can also pick up when you are the real you just living life.

 

[The D-List Vet]

its like if your mind isn't fixated on puzzy or geting laid something is wrong with you when that's farther from the truth. Honestly my best success with women is when they were the furthest from my mind,just like a woman can pick up if you are desperate they can also pick up when you are the real you just living life.

I am more focus on me then women right now. Focusing on my career and gaining more knowledge everyday . and besides this thread do you have any other ones where you drop Gems on life?