Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Malcolmxxx_23

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brehs been messing with this pawg older chick(35)

we met few times and hung out everything was all good and then ol girl just dissapeared


i kinda think she was married...:huhldup:
maybe i doged a bullet










































but im going to miss that ass:sadbron:
 

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an approach itself is almost meaningless. it doesn't empower a woman or even mean you want her. going back to clothing if you walk up to a shirt and pick up the hanger have you empowered or committed to wanting that shirt? are you locking into buying it? naw you just saw something that caught your eye and decided to investigate it a bit. you might pick it up and decide naw and put it back on the rack.

too many guys feel like if they approach a woman it means they want her and they have something to lose if she rejects them.

you go to a used car lot and you might approach 15 cars. it means nothing, doesn't even mean you want the car. somehow there people seen the real value of an approach but when it comes to approaching women men act like its got a much higher value.

Theoretically it doesn't matter WHERE you pick a woman up because you can find quality women in bars and clubs. Some men have been able to flip strippers into wives. That doesn't mean it's a high probability game.

I personally prefer a woman that has to at least have SOME familiarity with a guy before she starts handing out her personal information. I would deal with a woman who, maybe I meet her while I'm out and about, we just happen to have a very interesting conversation and I tell her I'd like to stay in touch with her, so let me get her number. But to deal with women and all you have to do is pop a little something like what's up babygirl, you are fine. Let me cop that number and she slides it to you is another thing. If all it takes is for you to look handsome to her for her to deal with you, then realistically, do you think that there aren't other guys who got that number just as easily?

People operate on HABITS. The way you get her is the way you lose her. I like women who have some level of caution when dealing with men. The reason I said I'd deal with a woman I met off a chance encounter while out after having a conversation with her because I didn't catch her off looks and I had to at least demonstrate respectable conversation and she had to gauge me as someone she would be comfortable around.
 

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brehs been messing with this pawg older chick(35)

we met few times and hung out everything was all good and then ol girl just dissapeared


i kinda think she was married...:huhldup:
maybe i doged a bullet










































but im going to miss that ass:sadbron:


If not married, she has another guy that she is dealing with. Could be an ex or whatever... and she used you to tide herself over before she went back to him.
 

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My boy was in a club yesterday, told me he approached a chick, talked to her then asked her number. She says she doesn't give numbers in clubs :troll:. Then 2 minutes later he sees her writing a number on a napkin to other dude. :bryan: Then 10 minutes later she is kissing with some another old dude :bryan:

bytch was 21 year old :bryan:. The attention these hoes getting must make them feel like they are truly exceptional. :steviej:
 

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Theoretically it doesn't matter WHERE you pick a woman up because you can find quality women in bars and clubs. Some men have been able to flip strippers into wives. That doesn't mean it's a high probability game.

I personally prefer a woman that has to at least have SOME familiarity with a guy before she starts handing out her personal information. I would deal with a woman who, maybe I meet her while I'm out and about, we just happen to have a very interesting conversation and I tell her I'd like to stay in touch with her, so let me get her number. But to deal with women and all you have to do is pop a little something like what's up babygirl, you are fine. Let me cop that number and she slides it to you is another thing. If all it takes is for you to look handsome to her for her to deal with you, then realistically, do you think that there aren't other guys who got that number just as easily?

People operate on HABITS. The way you get her is the way you lose her. I like women who have some level of caution when dealing with men. The reason I said I'd deal with a woman I met off a chance encounter while out after having a conversation with her because I didn't catch her off looks and I had to at least demonstrate respectable conversation and she had to gauge me as someone she would be comfortable around.
Just because that's how you met her doesn't mean she wouldn't talk to a random guy off the street. What you're saying is almost like the guy that takes 3 months to hit it thinking the woman that made him wait that long is cautious and careful about who she had sex with.
 

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Any woman that needs to "test" you at the beginning of a relationship is not the type of woman you should be with. That's cause to drop her right there, imo, or to at least not take her seriously.
 

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Any woman that needs to "test" you at the beginning of a relationship is not the type of woman you should be with. That's cause to drop her right there, imo, or to at least not take her seriously.
All women are gonna test you at the beginning. The question is is this a belligerent type of test where she's fighting for dominance or is it a normal test?

some women have to be dominated. If you do that they act cool but if you aren't a dominate male by default they'll fight you for control.

I'm not a dominate male I mean I'm not submissive either but I don't go around trying to force my will on people or control them so I constantly encounter belligerent black women that try to control me.
 

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All women are gonna test you at the beginning. The question is is this a belligerent type of test where she's fighting for dominance or is it a normal test?

some women have to be dominated. If you do that they act cool but if you aren't a dominate male by default they'll fight you for control.

I'm not a dominate male I mean I'm not submissive either but I don't go around trying to force my will on people or control them so I constantly encounter belligerent black women that try to control me.

Nah, I don't think this is true. The best relationship I've ever been in was with a woman who at no point in our time together ever tested me.

Most women test, not all. But, I guess that's why I'm not interested in most women outside of sex. I don't have time nor energy to prove myself to a woman.
 

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Nah, I don't think this is true. The best relationship I've ever been in was with a woman who at no point in our time together ever tested me.

Most women test, not all. But, I guess that's why I'm not interested in most women outside of sex. I don't have time nor energy to prove myself to a woman.

I think women test because there ARE so many shytty cats out here....the time they DON'T test was the time they got taken advantage of in their eyes...


in the same way that most nikkas don't want relationships because these shiftless ass females never took the time to learn and understand them and try to be the support and exponent to their life's. Instead they tried to change the Gods.


Vicious Cycle.
 

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Picking women up off the street is you see a woman walking on the sidewalk and maybe you pull up next to her in your ride and holla at her or you're walking around in the mall and you go up to her and just start hollaring at her. Or you're at a gas station and you just hollar at the girl and it's your first time seeing her. This is in context of something long-term. There is plenty of one nighter type material doing that, but I personally would avoid attempting anything more than a woman you've met in that manner.

One rule I hold in my mind is that my looks and my game is not unprecedented. I'm not doing something that hasn't been done before and I'm not the only good looking guy out there. If I can just up and approach a woman who has never met me, knows nothing about me and is just comfortable enough to move and groove with me, that raises up red flags in my mind. The only thing she knew about me was she felt how I looked and maybe she enjoyed a minor conversation with me. How many other guys that she thinks looks good and have a little bit of conversation can do the exact same thing?

From my observations, the best women usually are the sort of out of way gems that don't go out much, but you meet them through mutual friends or maybe at some sort of place you frequent and the two of you may not immediately hit it off but eventually grow comfortable with each other.

Can meeting a woman that you street approached work and you end up with a quality woman? Yeah, it can, but I wouldn't say that is a high probability way of doing things.

:what: that's how you meet people bruh lol...what makes you think a chick you met in a intimate setting ain't gon meet other nikkas in a intimate setting eventually that could look better and have better game?all u doing is delaying her bouncing to another dude down the line if that's the type of chick she is.

That's the way of thinking if you tryna make a woman "ya girl" after the first date...whether u meet her off the street or intimate setting the bytch got sum dikk in her phone,male friends/prospects.....its womanly thinking to assume she supposed to just cut off all male contact cuz she just met you:childplease:...that's naive,but women have that same thinking where they want you to cut off all side pieces and old female friends just cuz y'all went out a few times and fuked:rudy:

When u keep in the perspective that y'all are just friends and you seeing if it will go sumwhere you won't have these problems from either side....eventually y'all will grow to the point where the prospects start to dissapear one by one,and future prospects get shut down bcuz your in a happy relationship,well at least that's how most women feel when they find sumthing good....most nikkas still ain't turnin down no new puzzy:lolbron: but at least he gettin rid of the old puzzy:manny:


Agree that I hate busy bytches that go out ALL the time,we can't both have social lives...my baby mama is a homebody and that's worked out well cuz I don't like to be at home....I've cut back for a few months cuz she been complaining,now that I've stopped the bleeding I can take the bandaid off and start goin out again til the wound opens back up again,and by wound I mean her mouth.

But I realized a while ago you really shouldn't be worried about how frequently a woman goes out if she can make time for you and that's not a issue....you should be worried about WHO she's goin out with....if she hangin out with her cousins once or twice a week but they all birds that's gon be a problem...if she hangin out with good women all week or whatever consider yourself lucky...nothin is more detrimental to a relationship than a womans wack azz friends:snoop:most these women so easily infuenced and weak minded and don't even realize it...even the good ones can be easily swayed....the curse of lacking logic and being emotional creatures I guess:manny:
 
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