Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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so whats your opinion on cold approaching in the streets
is it possible to find something serious this way, shyt feels like too much work
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its possible man i'm in the process right now.
just be honest with it and aggressive. Dont waste time sending petty texts. Meet her...follow up during the week, set something up for the weekend. All this should happen during the span of 2,3 weeks.
last time I tried it i simply went up to a girl and said excuse me while getting off the transit
she stopped and said hey, i said hows it going...
i then told her I dont mean to bother her but was wondering if I could talk to her for a moment. She said sure. I told her that i found her attractive so i felt the need to approach her so I wouldnt beat myself up for the rest of the night. She laughed, I told her my friend would be picking me up so I am kind of pressed for time but I was wondering if i could get her name and a number so that I could perhaps call her and have a real conversation of sorts.
She gave me the #.
She gave me the name. Then we continued chatting for a while about where shes from...what school, program, blah blah and we were on our way.
Texted her, had a decent convo...but Gonna call her tonight and set something up for the weekend.
The nigerian chick I mentioned earlier months back is my bread and butter though. I met her while riding the train home. I saw her outside the window and told myself i was a fakkit if i dont holler
. she walked past my seat and I called her to sit beside me. I fukk with this chick hard . Might wife her. Going out with her tomorrow if I can get the whip. Its been months and I cant wait to see her. 
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Take a woman out to a buffet. If she still tries to keep her portions small around all of that temptation, she is probably a keeper. If she hogs out and stacks five giant plates with about 8 cups of soda, no go. 
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so whats your opinion on cold approaching in the streets
is it possible to find something serious this way, shyt feels like too much work
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It's a fool's game mostly. You might get laid and you might meet a good girl from doing it. But be prepared for a lot of rejection. Even if you get a girls number you might text or call her later and she won't answer.
In my experience most women have their defences up when you approach them on the street. They just think you are trying to sleep with them and not actually form a relationship. I would say if you are looking for a girlfriend, ask your social group if they know anyone who is single, etc.
Street game sucks.
Yeah pretty much. If you can cold approach a girl, get her number, end up sleeping with her, then it's going to make you wonder who else is able to do that while she is out and about. If you eventually decide to take her serious, you will start thinking, she went for me, who was a complete stranger and she knew nothing about, so how high are her standards REALLY?
Now the best place to find a woman is a place you frequent regularly and you are able to establish a conversation with after she gets comfortable with your presence. Don't waste time picking up girls off the street and cold approaching them.
Now the best place to find a woman is a place you frequent regularly and you are able to establish a conversation with after she gets comfortable with your presence. Don't waste time picking up girls off the street and cold approaching them.
Cmon breh
Unless you mean she went for you without you even having to put in any work then its questionable but this is unfair thinking IMOWith this mindset the only places to get a chick then are:
Work
School/Library
Club
Friends or Through Friends(can be messy)
Define a place that you frequent (kev) and define street (jalamanta)
Once you graduate whats left?
I fukk with you nikkas but I think yall wrong on this one. Its definitely hit or miss but my batting average is probably like a .333 (2 for 6)
No HRs cause I've just started
A couple of strikeouts (one had a boyfriend she live with but i see her once a week anyway and she still gave me name just no number)--> (greatest pawg youve seeen in your life. Not a coli pawg but a real one nice enough to make me qestion if she had assplants breh)
And like i said one that theres real potential with. One thing I dont think I have on me is stopping a girl on an actual sidewalk and just talking to her...or while she's shopping in the mall or sumn. But my brehs have done it successfully so we'll see. I'd personally meet a girl through my ownhustle than through a friend. Ego thing i guess and I dont want friends knowing my business like that
Yeah, i randomly approached hot bytch, got her number, then met her but wasn't feeling her at all.
It was just a random person, i gave two fukks what she was talking about, as a matter of fact she annoyed the fukk out of me.
I then called her to set another date (like this shyt was obligatory
) and she said she wasn't sure about it, i was like 
well ok, goodbye then and hung up.
I was glad i can sit at home and read a book and listen to music that day.
Its been a year since my ex left me and i just feel kinda numb about women, like i understood what 99% of them are about and this shyt is boring
Like for example i texted a girl i studied at university with (its been a year since we finished) and met her. Turns out she has a child (1yr old)
and the father is gone. Then I was playing xbox and randomly texted her "wanna have sex?" (i didn't even implied sex when met her) and she said to come to her place at 10pm. So 10pm is approaching and I am playing forza 4 and i feel kinda i-dont-wanna-drive-40-minutes-to-fukk-that-bytch . So I texted her "maybe we won't do it, i don't feel right about it, no offence" 
and she was like "i am not offended, if you will make your mind just text me 
" I guess I'll need to fukk this hoe in the end. 
I want that soulmate though but this shyt is hard to find, can't be wasting my time with these worthless hoes, I'd rather have a cup of coffee and watch a movie
It was just a random person, i gave two fukks what she was talking about, as a matter of fact she annoyed the fukk out of me.
I then called her to set another date (like this shyt was obligatory
) and she said she wasn't sure about it, i was like well ok, goodbye then and hung up.I was glad i can sit at home and read a book and listen to music that day.
Its been a year since my ex left me and i just feel kinda numb about women, like i understood what 99% of them are about and this shyt is boring
Like for example i texted a girl i studied at university with (its been a year since we finished) and met her. Turns out she has a child (1yr old)
and the father is gone. Then I was playing xbox and randomly texted her "wanna have sex?" (i didn't even implied sex when met her) and she said to come to her place at 10pm. So 10pm is approaching and I am playing forza 4 and i feel kinda i-dont-wanna-drive-40-minutes-to-fukk-that-bytch . So I texted her "maybe we won't do it, i don't feel right about it, no offence" and she was like "i am not offended, if you will make your mind just text me " I guess I'll need to fukk this hoe in the end. I want that soulmate though but this shyt is hard to find, can't be wasting my time with these worthless hoes, I'd rather have a cup of coffee and watch a movie
Yeah, i randomly approached hot bytch, got her number, then met her but wasn't feeling her at all.
It was just a random person, i gave two fukks what she was talking about, as a matter of fact she annoyed the fukk out of me.
I then called her to set another date (like this shyt was obligatory ) and she said she wasn't sure about it, i was like well ok, goodbye then and hung up.
I was glad i can sit at home and read a book and listen to music that day.
Its been a year since my ex left me and i just feel kinda numb about women, like i understood what 99% of them are about and this shyt is boring
Like for example i texted a girl i studied at university with (its been a year since we finished) and met her. Turns out she has a child (1yr old) : : and the father is gone. Then I was playing xbox and randomly texted her "wanna have sex?" (i didn't even implied sex when met her) and she said to come to her place at 10pm. So 10pm is approaching and I am playing forza 4 and i feel kinda i-dont-wanna-drive-40-minutes-to-fukk-that-bytch
I want that soulmate though but this shyt is hard to find, can't be wasting my time with these worthless hoes, I'd rather have a cup of coffee and watch a movie
man i know how you feel only its been 18 months on my end. But I think I've found the replacement
Being a loner helps. I can listen to music and browse the coli all day and it doesnt bother me . Sprinkle some Madden in there too now and itll be even better when Fifa and 2k13 drop
Having to go through all that work to win the chick over and reach a position where you arent always pursuing...doing the outgoing calls, setting up plans etc is annoying and gets quick if you dont see progress. Toss those ones in the bushes.Tell me breh. Did you ex seem like the perfect one for you? Mine still does but at this point...its best I cut her off.
at "Wanna Have Sex?"...Ima try that shyt and get back on my old fukkshyt with these girls. Been a while since I was in that mindset. Nothing to lose 
man i know how you feel only its been 18 months on my end. But I think I've found the replacement
Being a loner helps. I can listen to music and browse the coli all day and it doesnt bother me . Sprinkle some Madden in there too now and itll be even better when Fifa and 2k13 drop
Tell me breh. Did you ex seem like the perfect one for you? Mine still does but at this point...its best I cut her off.
Yeah it felt like she was, but she became just another bytch to me.
I though it would be impossible to get over her but like a month ago I suddenly realised i felt nothing, like, completely nothing.
Its kinda sad in a twisted way cause you realise how temporary and worthless all this relationship bullshyt is.
btw when i texted her "wanna have sex" i felt like i was 
it feels like ing on a forum, being overly aggressive with bytches just to see their reaction but you don't take it personally cause you don't give a fukk
i guess its season
it feels like
ing on a forum, being overly aggressive with bytches just to see their reaction but you don't take it personally cause you don't give a fukki guess its
seasonPicking women up off the street is you see a woman walking on the sidewalk and maybe you pull up next to her in your ride and holla at her or you're walking around in the mall and you go up to her and just start hollaring at her. Or you're at a gas station and you just hollar at the girl and it's your first time seeing her. This is in context of something long-term. There is plenty of one nighter type material doing that, but I personally would avoid attempting anything more than a woman you've met in that manner.
One rule I hold in my mind is that my looks and my game is not unprecedented. I'm not doing something that hasn't been done before and I'm not the only good looking guy out there. If I can just up and approach a woman who has never met me, knows nothing about me and is just comfortable enough to move and groove with me, that raises up red flags in my mind. The only thing she knew about me was she felt how I looked and maybe she enjoyed a minor conversation with me. How many other guys that she thinks looks good and have a little bit of conversation can do the exact same thing?
From my observations, the best women usually are the sort of out of way gems that don't go out much, but you meet them through mutual friends or maybe at some sort of place you frequent and the two of you may not immediately hit it off but eventually grow comfortable with each other.
Can meeting a woman that you street approached work and you end up with a quality woman? Yeah, it can, but I wouldn't say that is a high probability way of doing things.
One rule I hold in my mind is that my looks and my game is not unprecedented. I'm not doing something that hasn't been done before and I'm not the only good looking guy out there. If I can just up and approach a woman who has never met me, knows nothing about me and is just comfortable enough to move and groove with me, that raises up red flags in my mind. The only thing she knew about me was she felt how I looked and maybe she enjoyed a minor conversation with me. How many other guys that she thinks looks good and have a little bit of conversation can do the exact same thing?
From my observations, the best women usually are the sort of out of way gems that don't go out much, but you meet them through mutual friends or maybe at some sort of place you frequent and the two of you may not immediately hit it off but eventually grow comfortable with each other.
Can meeting a woman that you street approached work and you end up with a quality woman? Yeah, it can, but I wouldn't say that is a high probability way of doing things.
btw when i texted her "wanna have sex" i felt like i was
it feels like
i guess its
Women love aggression as long as she likes you. The older I get, the simpler I see things as being.