Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Fam I beg you, listen to this show from 47:00-1:00. It's only a 13 minute listen but tell me what your thoughts are.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sttone/2014/11/24/repeat-the-dreaded-friend-zone

:snoop::snoop::snoop: That dude this chick is talking about is a straight up bytch. There's so much revealing shyt in those few minutes that I think all dudes really need to hear and take heed. This is the kind of shyt we're up against and people wonder why some of us talk the way we do.
lol I'm listening...might comment later

i hope it works out but dude in for a rude awakening
 
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people always say put your ego/pride aside and fight for your relationship or chase this chick...fukk that your ego was there with you from day one....where the fukk was this bytch? your ego will always protect you in terms of dealing with a woman because if you "put pride aside" all the damn time...your woman will have nothing to be proud of when she looks at you.
 

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lol I'm listening...might comment later

i hope it works out but dude in for a rude awakening

Rude awakening is an understatement....dude is gonna get the shock of his life. She almost sounds like she despises the dude much less even like him. What kind of dude gets engaged to a woman who hasn't once let him hit, treated him like shyt throughout and doesn't even cook?! :mindblown:

Weak ass simp deserves what he gets I'm sorry. Dude should have seen it from miles away. SMH
 

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Its all horse dung, if a woman wants to be with you she will there is no reason to fight.

Same with chasing if a woman wants you, you don't have to chase.




people always say put your ego/pride aside and fight for your relationship or chase this chick...fukk that your ego was there with you from day one....where the fukk was this bytch? your ego will always protect you in terms of dealing with a woman because if you "put pride aside" all the damn time...your woman will have nothing to be proud of when she looks at you.
 

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Fam I beg you, listen to this show from 47:00-1:00. It's only a 13 minute listen but tell me what your thoughts are.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sttone/2014/11/24/repeat-the-dreaded-friend-zone

:snoop::snoop::snoop: That dude this chick is talking about is a straight up bytch. There's so much revealing shyt in those few minutes that I think all dudes really need to hear and take heed. This is the kind of shyt we're up against and people wonder why some of us talk the way we do.

:ohhh:.....:damn:

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Rude awakening is an understatement....dude is gonna get the shock of his life. She almost sounds like she despises the dude much less even like him. What kind of dude gets engaged to a woman who hasn't once let him hit, treated him like shyt throughout and doesn't even cook?! :mindblown:

Weak ass simp deserves what he gets I'm sorry. Dude should have seen it from miles away. SMH
honestly the reason I haven't commented is because i don't know where to start. but I've spoken to many girls about this including exes.

essentially, a women wants to find a guy who checks all the boxes off on her "list" ...a list that includes such frivolous things such as height (I'm 6-1 so I aint mad) and arbitrary things like, "how much money he has". (I'm making 45K at age 23 which isn't amazing but decent so I aint mad) :laugh: But with this guy being so great and amazing he still has to be the one to go out of HIS way to try and holla at you...and only holla if given the opportunity :mjlol:

Nevermind the fact that there are billions of people in this world, millions in a person's respective state, city, region or whatever. Somehow, someway...a dude with all these checkboxes is going exist, to be lucky enough to be in the same vicinity as you at a particular moment, see you, recognize the signs you're giving him as actual "signs", muster up the gumption to holla at you and finally say all the right things so he doesn't get cast off as a dweeb, aggressive, thirsty, swag less or whatever else . From a probability standpoint its just stupid.

The funniest thing though is when you break it down like this, they'll acknowledge you're right and still go back to their foolishness. Like damn, if I'm a dude thats 6 foot 3, I make a great amount of $ for my age, got a nice place, dress well, am very attractive, cook, dikk game on point...etc etc...why would I go out my way to settle when plenty of girls should and would be getting in line to pursue me

Just call it what it is, it has nothing to do with a guys confidence or assertion and everything to do with the individual woman being too insecure / scared to go for what they want.
 

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honestly the reason I haven't commented is because i don't know where to start. but I've spoken to many girls about this including exes.

essentially, a women wants to find a guy who checks all the boxes off on her "list" ...a list that includes such frivolous things such as height (I'm 6-1 so I aint mad) and arbitrary things like, "how much money he has". (I'm making 45K at age 23 which isn't amazing but decent so I aint mad) :laugh: But with this guy being so great and amazing he still has to be the one to go out of HIS way to try and holla at you...and only holla if given the opportunity :mjlol:

Nevermind the fact that there are billions of people in this world, millions in a person's respective state, city, region or whatever. Somehow, someway...a dude with all these checkboxes is going exist, to be lucky enough to be in the same vicinity as you at a particular moment, see you, recognize the signs you're giving him as actual "signs", muster up the gumption to holla at you and finally say all the right things so he doesn't get cast off as a dweeb, aggressive, thirsty, swag less or whatever else . From a probability standpoint its just stupid.

The funniest thing though is when you break it down like this, they'll acknowledge you're right and still go back to their foolishness. Like damn, if I'm a dude thats 6 foot 3, I make a great amount of $ for my age, got a nice place, dress well, am very attractive, cook, dikk game on point...etc etc...why would I go out my way to settle when plenty of girls should and would be getting in line to pursue me

Just call it what it is, it has nothing to do with a guys confidence or assertion and everything to do with the individual woman being too insecure / scared to go for what they want.

Amen.

What also perplexes me is the audacity and arrogance in thinking that superman with all those qualities is checking for her, women like this know full well they aint shyt. What is she bringing to the table, good convo?

On top of all that he aint hit yet, she proudly says she cant cook, picked out a ring with him (you know that rock is heavy) and is shytting on this solider on a public forum:wtf:

Fathers raise your sons.
 

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Ibe learned to stop caring what a chick says she wants.

You can be dead broke a hs dropout but if she can't fight emotions she will rationalize


Ibe shared this story on here before one of my friends who I'd an accountant, went to Jamaica on vacation and fell for a resort worker , went back like 3 more times, got married and now they ha e a kid.

This was a woman who had that long list of what she desired in a male but couldn't fight the emotions.




honestly the reason I haven't commented is because i don't know where to start. but I've spoken to many girls about this including exes.

essentially, a women wants to find a guy who checks all the boxes off on her "list" ...a list that includes such frivolous things such as height (I'm 6-1 so I aint mad) and arbitrary things like, "how much money he has". (I'm making 45K at age 23 which isn't amazing but decent so I aint mad) :laugh: But with this guy being so great and amazing he still has to be the one to go out of HIS way to try and holla at you...and only holla if given the opportunity :mjlol:

Nevermind the fact that there are billions of people in this world, millions in a person's respective state, city, region or whatever. Somehow, someway...a dude with all these checkboxes is going exist, to be lucky enough to be in the same vicinity as you at a particular moment, see you, recognize the signs you're giving him as actual "signs", muster up the gumption to holla at you and finally say all the right things so he doesn't get cast off as a dweeb, aggressive, thirsty, swag less or whatever else . From a probability standpoint its just stupid.

The funniest thing though is when you break it down like this, they'll acknowledge you're right and still go back to their foolishness. Like damn, if I'm a dude thats 6 foot 3, I make a great amount of $ for my age, got a nice place, dress well, am very attractive, cook, dikk game on point...etc etc...why would I go out my way to settle when plenty of girls should and would be getting in line to pursue me

Just call it what it is, it has nothing to do with a guys confidence or assertion and everything to do with the individual woman being too insecure / scared to go for what they want.
 

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Amen.

What also perplexes me is the audacity and arrogance in thinking that superman with all those qualities is checking for her, women like this know full well they aint shyt. What is she bringing to the table, good convo?

On top of all that he aint hit yet, she proudly says she cant cook, picked out a ring with him (you know that rock is heavy) and is shytting on this solider on a public forum:wtf:

Fathers raise your sons.
isn't dude 6 years younger too :why:

nah...hes a goner
 

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Fam I beg you, listen to this show from 47:00-1:00. It's only a 13 minute listen but tell me what your thoughts are.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sttone/2014/11/24/repeat-the-dreaded-friend-zone

:snoop::snoop::snoop: That dude this chick is talking about is a straight up bytch. There's so much revealing shyt in those few minutes that I think all dudes really need to hear and take heed. This is the kind of shyt we're up against and people wonder why some of us talk the way we do.


She also dropped that she has kids, which are not his, since he aint even touched her pusssy yet
 
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