Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

One major thing that I learnt from this thread and it played out in my life. Modern day women get off on a roller coaster of emotions. Most women will require you to play with their emotions. Make them cry, make them happy, make them angry etc. Most nice guys are always trying to make a woman happy, that woman will quickly get bored.

I learnt this lesson during summer with this lady I was seeing. I'm a calm and collected dude and takes a lot to get me angry. This chick pushed me to my limits. She disrespected me in front of friends. Later that night, just the two of us, we cursed each other out and had an aggressive argument for like two straight hours. She had never seen that side of me. After the argument, things were resolved. The next week,this chick was calling me everyday, begging me to spend the night at hers,cooking (even though she is one of these modern woman who hates cooking) the meals I love and fukking me like a mad woman starving for d1ck.

It was a real enlightenment, however I'm not gonna fake arguments or create situations so a woman gets her rocks off. However I learnt if a female needs checking, she will get checked with a firm hand. Dont be always out to make a woman happy, give her what she deserves. Thats why these woman stay running back to dudes who make her cry, feel like sh!t, make her laugh, ignore her, make her happy. Play with a girls emotions,these chicks love living in their emotions. Thats why the best movies can make us cry, laugh, happy, angry in one movie, these modern type women get off that. If you always trying to make a modern woman happy all the time, you losing. The modern day woman will find you boring.

 

[MikelArteta]

One major thing that I learnt from this thread and it played out in my life. Modern day women get off on a roller coaster of emotions. Most women will require you to play with their emotions. Make them cry, make them happy, make them angry etc. Most nice guys are always trying to make a woman is always happy, that woman will quickly get bored.

I learnt this lesson during summer with this lady I was seeing. I'm a calm and collected dude and takes a lot to get me angry. This chick pushed me to my limits. She disrespected me in front of friends. Later that night, just the two of us, we cursed each other out and had an aggressive argument for like two straight hours. She had never seen that side of me. After the argument, things were resolved. The next week,this chick was calling me everyday, begging me to spend the night at hers,cooking (even though she is one of these modern woman who hates cooking) the meals I love and fukking me like a mad woman starving for d1ck.

It was a real enlightenment, however I'm not gonna fake arguments or create situations so a woman gets her rocks off. However I learnt if a female needs checking, she will get checked with a firm hand. Dont be always out to make a woman happy, give her what she deserves. Thats why these woman stay running back to dudes who make her cry, feel like sh!t, make her laugh, ignore her, make her happy. Play with a girls emotions,these chicks love living in their emotions. Thats why the best movies can make us cry, laugh, happy, angry in one movie, these modern type women get off that. If you always trying to make a modern woman happy all the time, you losing. The modern day woman will find you boring.

there is a reason why soaps are catered to women, and r&b etc., the drama, the discord, the emotional highs. It's why they stick with cheaters, abusers, "bad boys" because they never know what side they going to get.

when it comes down to it, i'd rather be single and find someone like me (yes they do exist in rare qualities), than to get with a chick and stir up all these emotional highs.

I'm a "nice guy" not in the realm of being a doormat, just that I treat people with respect have a heart for others, I'm slow to anger and by slow I mean really really slow, if a woman disrespects me, I'll bring it to the forefront and if I don't like what I[m seeing I'm gone and I'll never utter another word till death.

Like I said before the girl i was dating last year, she thought I was the pushover nice guy simp she was probably used to because she looked pretty and I'm a laid back dude at my core, but once she disrespected me and got distant that was it, no fight or arguement, no asking why, i just vanished

There is so much power in silence - Silence is a key negotiation technique. Silence tends to make people feel uncomfortable

Women want to draw you in and test you and see you get angry and argue, but I don't fall for them traps. I love silence because I never have to apologize or take back something said at a emotional state of outburst

 

[International Playa]

I prefer to read books over podcasts. I've been reading mostly programming books lately, so I doubt they'd have general interest to most people here. Besides the Bible, the one book I do really enjoy that might have general interest is "Weapons of Mass Instruction". It pretty much talks about how the schooling system is used to turn students into consumers and people who are there to follow orders.

Sorry this aint women related. Im a christian but struggle to tithe. How do you feel about tithing? Do you tithe 10% of your earnings?

 

[MikelArteta]

Sorry this aint women related. Im a christian but struggle to tithe. How do you feel about tithing? Do you tithe 10% of your earnings?

I'm a christian as well, i struggle to tithe but I do when I can. Although some may laugh but I know when I've been a faithful tither my finances were in order and even a surplus when I've gone times without it I've struggled on some paycheck to paycheck ish

i'm more of a offering type like a 50 here or there but I'm trying as I get older to give my 10%

 

[Jesus]

if you had a girl you'd probably wouldn't have jumped at the opportunity that presented itself.

Ever since I've been single I've been to so many places, hope you enjoy it life can change in a instant!!!

was thinking of putting a ring on it just to lock her down and have her come with me.

 

[MikelArteta]

was thinking of putting a ring on it just to lock her down and have her come with me.

if she's worth it

 

[kevm3]

Sorry this aint women related. Im a christian but struggle to tithe. How do you feel about tithing? Do you tithe 10% of your earnings?

I give what's in my heart to give. If you feel you need to give 10%, then do that. A lot of churches impose a Jesus tax though where they say you had better give 10% or else, which I don't agree with.

2 Corinthians 9:7
7Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.


http://www.gotquestions.org/tithing-Christian.html

 

[Action Mike]

was thinking of putting a ring on it just to lock her down and have her come with me.

 

[kevm3]

As men, we have to realize we were given the role as 'head of the household' by God, and therefore, we are gatekeepers of the culture. Like it or not, women respond to the quality of men they meet. In our society, the problem is that manhood was never really taught. Most young men were reared by school and television, and the agendas in those two environments were to teach boys to become anything and everything EXCEPT a man. I see a ton of confusion out there today, and the reason is because men have no standard that they abide by. They are double-minded, meaning they easily waver to-and-fro depending on the situation. One day they want to be a blood, the next day they are a crip.

James 1:8
8 A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.

Something important that a man should have is a STANDARD, which is a set of laws that he does NOT deviate from, regardless of the circumstances. it's this lack of a standard in a man that causes so much confusion.

 

[b_priest9mm]

Pre-emptive .

Just letting y'all know in advance that I don't espouse this, just trying to get a gage on what the coli thinks:

Girl I know blurted out, "why don't more guys ask us what we like in bed?"

On the outside, I played along and was like .

Inside:

Anyway what do y'all think? Should you "just know"? Or does it hurt to ask?

 

[Gus Money]

Girl I dated in college (who gave me that first etherous taste of being dumped) sent me a friend request on Facebook the other day. Then she sent me a message asking how I've been. We haven't spoken in years so I'm not sure why she would reach out to me.

I should have just rejected the friend request and/or ignored that message but I didnt. We exchanged a few responses and the convo fizzled out once she started sending super short responses. Now I have to keep reminding myself of the bad times to get her out of my mind.

I know better than this

 

[MikelArteta]

After my ex fiance I've realized I've been dating the same girls just with different names and faces.

It can't be a coincendence that every girl since has come from a broken home, dad was a alcoholic , mom never remarried, self esteem and anger issues. Beautiful as hell but just messed up royally inside.

Why would I ever expect the situations to have a different result that's insanity

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't have Facebook, but its proven that exes stalk past lovers and people they date, many times to just check up, inflate their ego or start an affair

Its always a risky road especially if there are still feelings there

Girl I dated in college (who gave me that first etherous taste of being dumped) sent me a friend request on Facebook the other day. Then she sent me a message asking how I've been. We haven't spoken in years so I'm not sure why she would reach out to me.

I should have just rejected the friend request and/or ignored that message but I didnt. We exchanged a few responses and the convo fizzled out once she started sending super short responses. Now I have to keep reminding myself of the bad times to get her out of my mind.

I know better than this

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I don't have Facebook, but its proven that exes stalk past lovers and people they date, many times to just check up, inflate their ego or start an affair

Its always a risky road especially if there are still feelings there

My ex stalks my social media. This chick dump me to be a hoe and now she's blowing up my phone telling me yu better not be talking to these hoes she even dm one of these girls liking my pics on IG telling her she wanted to fight.

 

[MikelArteta]

They don't want you but they don't want anyone else to.

I stalked an ex on fb for like 6 months every damn day

I don't have any social media accounts now so

My ex stalks my social media. This chick dump me to be a hoe and now she's blowing up my phone telling me yu better not be talking to these hoes she even dm one of these girls liking my pics on IG telling her she wanted to fight.