Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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never trust a woman's words. Fukk what she thinks and what she says. If she says something, let her be about it..don't remind her, don't coerce her...don't do any of that. She knows wassup. You asked her when's a good time to kick it? She either answers your question or gives you some vague answer. If its vague, simply say aii, do your thing. At this point, some are gonna realize you bout to cut em off cuz of their BS excuse, so they gonna lie to you to keep you on the hook (ie. provide you perhaps with an alternative date in the future) so you can still entertain em or provide whatever it is you are providing without her having to give up anything in return (ie. meeting up to kick it)

"i miss you" :aicmon:

"how come we don't hang out no more" :rudy:

"i love you" :comeon:

its getting to the point where i cannot take a woman serious. Their words mean absolute jack shyt to me unless proven otherwise. :yeshrug:
 

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@kevm3 @Asantehene @Turbulent @CrossBones @Atlrocafella @Emperor_ReinScarf and any other nikka...

never trust a woman's words. Fukk what she thinks and what she says. If she says something, let her be about it..don't remind her, don't coerce her...don't do any of that. She knows wassup. You asked her when's a good time to kick it? She either answers your question or gives you some vague answer. If its vague, simply say aii, do your thing. At this point, some are gonna realize you bout to cut em off cuz of their BS excuse, so they gonna lie to you to keep you on the hook (ie. provide you perhaps with an alternative date in the future) so you can still entertain em or provide whatever it is you are providing without her having to give up anything in return (ie. meeting up to kick it)

"i miss you" :aicmon:

"how come we don't hang out no more" :rudy:

"i love you" :comeon:

its getting to the point where i cannot take a woman serious. Their words mean absolute jack shyt to me unless proven otherwise. :yeshrug:


actions always speak louder than words


females for the most part will tell you what you want to hear to calm your fears.

You want to hear your the only one check
you want to hear that she misses you and she was thinking of you check
 

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@kevm3 @Asantehene @Turbulent @CrossBones @Atlrocafella @Emperor_ReinScarf and any other nikka...

never trust a woman's words. Fukk what she thinks and what she says. If she says something, let her be about it..don't remind her, don't coerce her...don't do any of that. She knows wassup. You asked her when's a good time to kick it? She either answers your question or gives you some vague answer. If its vague, simply say aii, do your thing. At this point, some are gonna realize you bout to cut em off cuz of their BS excuse, so they gonna lie to you to keep you on the hook (ie. provide you perhaps with an alternative date in the future) so you can still entertain em or provide whatever it is you are providing without her having to give up anything in return (ie. meeting up to kick it)

"i miss you" :aicmon:

"how come we don't hang out no more" :rudy:

"i love you" :comeon:

its getting to the point where i cannot take a woman serious. Their words mean absolute jack shyt to me unless proven otherwise. :yeshrug:
pretty much.

what i do is i don't even ask them shyt. i just give the option myself. give her the time and date and ask her if she's coming or not. if she say she can't, even if she has a legit reason :manny:. see chances are a chick who really wants you will drop everything else. but say she gives you that good reason on why she can't come. check to see if she gives a counter offer. if not, bushes. if she really wanted to chill with you she would say "i really can't cause of XYZ but i really want to see you are you free tomorrow?"
 

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pretty much.

what i do is i don't even ask them shyt. i just give the option myself. give her the time and date and ask her if she's coming or not. if she say she can't, even if she has a legit reason :manny:. see chances are a chick who really wants you will drop everything else. but say she gives you that good reason on why she can't come. check to see if she gives a counter offer. if not, bushes. if she really wanted to chill with you she would say "i really can't cause of XYZ but i really want to see you are you free tomorrow?"

i was conversatin' with a shorty last night thru text....she tells me she missed me and how she needed to laugh, cuz i made her laugh :aicmon:. So i'm like,


me: when you good? we gotta kick it.
her: "honestly, let me see when i'm free, its going busy for the next little while though" :aicmon:

me: "aii, do your thing"

her: "when's your reading week?"

me: "feb 14th-20th..."

her: "how's that for you?"

me: "honestly, too far ahead to tell..but i guess we'll just have to wait and see"

her:
"not that far ahead, like 2-3 weeks"
me: "tomorrow ain't even garaunteed and you talmbout 2-3 weeks" :dahell:

her:
"but isn't it nice to have something to look forward to"
me: "you could say so :ehh:"

her: well i'm sayin so

me: sayin what? :heh:

her: its nice to have something to look forward to

me: reading week i am usually catching up on readings, so in that case..naa, it ain't.

her: lol ok. that's good, that's what you should be doing i guess

me: that tends not to happen though, but ye.

backstory...shorty told me last night she goin thru a divorce. She got a daughter, went to my college and was in my class in my last semester of college. She 28, and mixed...european and black. Pressed her 1st day and she went AWOL....so i was like :dahell:...long story short, after ignoring her 3/4 of da semester, she cracked.

I wanna fukk da shyt outta her, but i ain't pressing. I kno it ain't gonna happen, but this is what i was alluding to in my post up above about women and their words. :camby:
 

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actions always speak louder than words


females for the most part will tell you what you want to hear to calm your fears.

You want to hear your the only one check
you want to hear that she misses you and she was thinking of you check

also, if a chick randomly sends you some freak picture talking its for you, she sent it to other dudes also.

:ufdup:
 

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ackstory...shorty told me last night she goin thru a divorce. She got a daughter, went to my college and was in my class in my last semester of college. She 28, and mixed...european and black. Pressed her 1st day and she went AWOL....so i was like :dahell:...long story short, after ignoring her 3/4 of da semester, she cracked.

I wanna fukk da shyt outta her, but i ain't pressing. I kno it ain't gonna happen, but this is what i was alluding to in my post up above about women and their words.

:leon:

28 and divorced already

the women of today y'all
 

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life has just been down for these last 10 months. I see light at the end of the tunnel but a dude still be neurotic at times.

got an interview with KPMG in some days and I should be preparing but that gon have to wait til tmw. I just aint in the mood

everything happens when its suppose to happen :blessed:
 

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everything happens when its suppose to happen :blessed:
i dunno. I gotta get myself into that cheerful mindstate for that interview. It's probably my 8th or ninth since graduation. Theres not too much pressure because I'm employed and this company damn near begging me to come back but unless i move to headoffice in BC i dnt see it. I really want this KPMG job.

But man, this last 10 months has been punishing mentally. Lucky for me I have endured similar periods of trifeness and have always been some what of a lone shark but it can still be tough. I got some things to look forward too this spring/summer though. Thats what I'm waiting for
 

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i dunno. I gotta get myself into that cheerful mindstate for that interview. It's probably my 8th or ninth since graduation. Theres not too much pressure because I'm employed but I still really want this.

But man, this last 10 months has been punishing mentally. Lucky for me I have endured similar periods of trifeness and have always been some what of a lone shark but it can still be tough. I got some things to look forward too this spring/summer though. Thats what I'm waiting for

you got a job, good health, your young could always be worse
you'll ace that interview b :salute:
 
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