Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

There will always be women, there wont always be good women.

If you can find a good righteous women while young great, the older you get the more failed relationships, more emotional baggage, more exes, more sexual partners. Yes a chick may be pretty but she's been through so much its not worth it, many of these older women out there your paying for the sins of all the losers they got with, or your just the "safe" guy she decided to settle with.

After my failed engagement, I plowed through women for awhile. I wish I took a different approach can't change the pass though , then my last ex wasted 5 years of back and forth, and probably taking years of my life.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you got this girl pregnant, do you think you would be happy with her being the mother of your child?

Realistically, the thing about being principled is that it is very difficult, but that's what establishes you as a man. You will have to forego some pleasure, but in return you will be able to look in the mirror and say you are a man that does what he says and lives by his code.

Ultimately, how can we expect women to be classy and wifey material if we don't hold ourselves to the same standard and go about a-whoring?

would you date a female version of yourself is what I always say

 

[kevm3]

would you date a female version of yourself is what I always say

A lot of women sit around questioning why even be a decent woman because dudes keep taking it for granted. They might have a decent girl, but still want to go out banging sluts on the side. Or you have these PUA dudes who are encouraging women to engage in slutty behavior, but then complain about being unable to find decent women when they are basically encouraging women to become what they detest. It's unpleasant, but as men, we have to start with self-accountability first and see what our own actions are doing to contribute to how things are. There is a ton of degenerate behavior from females out there, but there is just as much on the male side of the spectrum as well.

As much as we don't want to admit it, women generally will follow after what their men demand and will emulate our behavior. We're just at a point in time where men are unprincipled, constantly lying and doing anything and everything for sex and only sex, so the woman questions, "Why should I even be decent when this dude is going to cheat on me and he's sleeping with everyone and everything?"

 

[kevm3]

There will always be women, there wont always be good women.

If you can find a good righteous women while young great, the older you get the more failed relationships, more emotional baggage, more exes, more sexual partners. Yes a chick may be pretty but she's been through so much its not worth it, many of these older women out there your paying for the sins of all the losers they got with, or your just the "safe" guy she decided to settle with.

After my failed engagement, I plowed through women for awhile. I wish I took a different approach can't change the pass though , then my last ex wasted 5 years of back and forth, and probably taking years of my life.

What these youngns need to understand is a quality woman will still be by your side, while the only thing you have from all those sluts are some memories and maybe some stds and a bunch of drama if you had a kid with her. Sitting around and waiting until you are approaching your 30s to start looking for a quality woman and it's going to be HARD because dudes know quality when they see it and will do what they can to lock it down. A lot of what ends up being left over is fools gold... She knows how to pretend long enough to get you reeled in and then the REAL her comes out when she feels she has you hooked and you see why she's still single in her 30s. I'm not telling these young dudes to RUSH into a relationship with a woman because that can be problematic, but when you find quality, you better hold on to it because quality is rare now.

 

[MikelArteta]

What these youngns need to understand is a quality woman will still be by your side, while the only thing you have from all those sluts are some memories and maybe some stds and a bunch of drama if you had a kid with her. Sitting around and waiting until you are approaching your 30s to start looking for a quality woman and it's going to be HARD because dudes know quality when they see it and will do what they can to lock it down. A lot of what ends up being left over is fools gold... She knows how to pretend long enough to get you reeled in and then the REAL her comes out when she feels she has you hooked and you see why she's still single in her 30s. I'm not telling these young dudes to RUSH into a relationship with a woman because that can be problematic, but when you find quality, you better hold on to it because quality is rare now.

yep i'm 29 right now, the women my age and a few years older that are single had their "fun", ala rode the cock carousel, clubbed, drank, travelled witht eh girls but now they wnat to "settle down", or there are womenw ith children, women who have been divorced already

a good woman is a good woman, I can look at my sister. She never clubbed, bar hopped, she got married at 24 with only one previous bf before her husband and she married a virgin. She's 31 now with 3 kids and has been married for 7 years. And she married her husband when he had literally nothing.

Many of these single "dimes" will just hop form 3-7 month relationship time and time again, like you mention real you in and then once the mask is off its all fakeness

 

[eXodus]

What these youngns need to understand is a quality woman will still be by your side, while the only thing you have from all those sluts are some memories and maybe some stds and a bunch of drama if you had a kid with her. Sitting around and waiting until you are approaching your 30s to start looking for a quality woman and it's going to be HARD because dudes know quality when they see it and will do what they can to lock it down. A lot of what ends up being left over is fools gold... She knows how to pretend long enough to get you reeled in and then the REAL her comes out when she feels she has you hooked and you see why she's still single in her 30s. I'm not telling these young dudes to RUSH into a relationship with a woman because that can be problematic, but when you find quality, you better hold on to it because quality is rare now.

 

[TRUEST]

Oh.no you think I don't know no one is perfect?

I have boundaries and once they are crossed no turning back. You would take back a woman that disrespects you because your mind is all about puzzy mine is all about respect.

Secondly lol I've been with dimes all my life, if you really want to go ttoe to toe in terms of attractive women you've been with speak up


Old tricks? I changed my number for the first time in two years to start my new year of right, the image UPI concocted in your mind of me is wrong so just stop

your basing your life and your sex drive, and your situations and trying to say its right and throw it upon others, I guarantee you I've been with more women than you, more successful women than you, more beautiful women than you. Sex is always on your mind and that defines you and validates you, it doesn't me.

Stop trying to cast your lifestyle on others because you think its "right".

Stop thinking you know my life when you don't

dude, listen to me carefully. i stopped visiting this thread on a regular basis almost a year ago. i'd scann it here and there. but the one constant thing i keep seeing u post is the same sh1t of how this girl played u and how this other girl played u. i mean, dude, u need to step back and re-evaluate ur life man. this is too much dude. take my advice or not. i've point it out to you. its on u from this point on. obviously, whatever ur doing is not working.

i decided to caution u because ur actions and words reeks of someone who needs to be shown the light. and i dont mean that in any pejorative way. i mean that as a matter of fact. i mean, if i read correctly, u said u recently flew somewhere and the chick u were suppose to meet blew u off?? i mean, at some point u have to ask urself, what are u doing to make this type of thing a constant recurrence?

but anyway, i already said my piece dude. take a step back, re-evaluate ur life, take a year off or something and then come back.

im actually angry this thread has gone this long and very few people care to help u out. i see them picking on u, and calling u these silly names but no one really cared to tell u the facts man to man. i am now. trust me on this, re-evaluate ur life and stop with the unforgiving spirit. its not a good look!!!!!

 

[MikelArteta]

dude, listen to me carefully. i stopped visiting this thread on a regular basis almost a year ago. i'd scann it here and there. but the one constant thing i keep seeing u post is the same sh1t of how this girl played u and how this other girl played u. i mean, dude, u need to step back and re-evaluate ur life man. this is too much dude. take my advice or not. i've point it out to you. its on u from this point on. obviously, whatever ur doing is not working.

i decided to caution u because ur actions and words reeks of someone who needs to be shown the light. and i dont mean that in any pejorative way. i mean that as a matter of fact. i mean, if i read correctly, u said u recently flew somewhere and the chick u were suppose to meet blew u off?? i mean, at some point u have to ask urself, what are u doing to make this type of thing a constant recurrence?

but anyway, i already said my piece dude. take a step back, re-evaluate ur life, take a year off or something and then come back.

im actually angry this thread has gone this long and very few people care to help u out. i see them picking on u, and calling u these silly names but no one really cared to tell u the facts man to man. i am now. trust me on this, re-evaluate ur life and stop with the unforgiving spirit. its not a good look!!!!!

again you don't know me. I talk about my past because gasp I can.

Working for what? if I want a hot chick on my arm by the end of the week all I have to do is hop on tinder and give me 30 minutes.

the light? , you don't even know me or what I Desire in life. I went on vacation, if you read what I wrote I enjoyed myself nevertheless, your acting like I was dating this chick or in some long lasting relationship, we were friends.

thirdly unforgiving spirit? How about this the woman who "played me" I forgave, I forgave so much that i saved her from homelessness and she lived under my roof and I got her a job, so get the fukk outta here with that stupid accusation shyt your trying to throw my way. If anyone knows forgiveness it's me

you dont know me, you dont know my life, you've never walked a day in my shoes.

Your whole aura is just about sex and conquering women and your not even on my level in respect to that.

LIke I said post up your "attractive women" breh lets do this right now

Lol at help me out, I'm so far ahead of you breh you can't evne fathom, arent you the breh crying because a chick dumped you because she was taller than you?

 

[RealAssanova]

came across 2 girls today whose numbers i deleted.

the most recent one looked up at me while i was on the top of lecture hall stairs, wanted to say something to me...but i quickly looked the other way as if i didn't see her and she didn't say nothing This girl i wanted to smash, but she has my number if she ever wants to holla cuz i ain't.

other was that argentinian chick from last semester @Asantehene @Atlrocafella @Emperor_ReinScarf i turned round da corner, seen her and her friend walking together down da hall...corner of my eye, seen shorty put her head down..as if i'mma say summin to her and walked straight past da 2 of em without lookin at em or sayin a word.

 

[MikelArteta]

came across 2 girls today whose numbers i deleted.

the most recent one looked up at me while i was on the top of lecture hall stairs, wanted to say something to me...but i quickly looked the other way as if i didn't see her and she didn't say nothing This girl i wanted to smash, but she has my number if she ever wants to holla cuz i ain't.

other was that argentinian chick from last semester @Asantehene @Atlrocafella @Emperor_ReinScarf i turned round da corner, seen her and her friend walking together down da hall...corner of my eye, seen shorty put her head down..as if i'mma say summin to her and walked straight past da 2 of em without lookin at em or sayin a word.

they still miss their great friend @RealAssanova

 

[Atlrocafella]

came across 2 girls today whose numbers i deleted.

the most recent one looked up at me while i was on the top of lecture hall stairs, wanted to say something to me...but i quickly looked the other way as if i didn't see her and she didn't say nothing This girl i wanted to smash, but she has my number if she ever wants to holla cuz i ain't.

other was that argentinian chick from last semester @Asantehene @Atlrocafella @Emperor_ReinScarf i turned round da corner, seen her and her friend walking together down da hall...corner of my eye, seen shorty put her head down..as if i'mma say summin to her and walked straight past da 2 of em without lookin at em or sayin a word.

They know they felt that ether.

Didn't respond to one skeezer today, just looked at the text, laughed, and hit delete.

 

[RealAssanova]

they still miss their great friend @RealAssanova

not even breh.

although the 1st one....i'm still for....but at the same time, i ain't being made out to be a sucka

 

[MikelArteta]

not even breh.

although the 1st one....i'm still for....but at the same time, i ain't being made out to be a sucka

them toronto women


you dont canoodle and cavort with them woodbridge italians?

 

[RealAssanova]

them toronto women


you dont canoodle and cavort with them woodbridge italians?

nope.

pretentious, spoiled, entitled chicks on that

 

[MikelArteta]

nope.

pretentious, spoiled, entitled chicks on that

@Asantehene dont you like them italians

i used to chill a while back with this italian chick at rutherford and islington plaza, she worked at that restaurant basilico