Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

you should take that a step further and say never take any shyt from a woman.

if i woman ever gives you any shyt, flaking, complaining, whining, entitlement, demands, ultimatums just let her know she can either deal with it or get out of your life and either way it doesn't matter.

i feel like all the bad relationships i ever got into began when i started letting the women give me shyt in the early goings and i accepted it. had i had a zero bullshyt policy back then things would have probably gone totally different.

Most women are so nice in the beginning though that you think you wont need to use these "take no crap" tactics. They know to be on their complete best behavior

It usually isnt until it's too late(you start getting some feelings for them) that you recognize.

as i begin this realtionship I need to continue remembering this but it can be hard. I swear women like to pick up petty arguments just for fun

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep every woman is an so perfect in tr beginning, how were we do lucky to get such a goddess

 

[Ohene]

yea man. at times you may even try to just put out the fire for a quick resolution and let her even "win" so to speak. gotta nip it in the bud instead though

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[sixsixtwo]

"She said: 'Women don't tend to marry the guy they had great sex with. They marry for more 'sensible' attributes - like whether he'll be loyal and a good father. I get lots of emails from women saying they love their husbands but fantasise about sex with their exes.


'They don't regret not choosing them as long-term mates, but they do miss the great sex they had."

Women more nostalgic than men about sex with an ex - with over a THIRD saying sex with past partner was better | Mail Online

 

[Nintendough]

Fellas need to keep these chick in emotional arrears. Give them what they need, not what they want. Sometimes she needs to yelled at, have her intelligence questioned and brushed off. These days, you pretty much have to make her feel as if she has a flaw that doesn't actually exist in her. If she is wrapped up in you, and she is worried fixing something that isn't there than she wont have time to feed an actual flaw or temptation thats really in her.

 

[jadillac]

Yep every woman is an so perfect in tr beginning, how were we do lucky to get such a goddess

Just a few weeks ago, I was thinking, "man, I really outkicked my coverage with this girl....how did she fall thru the cracks....maybe this is meant to be"

 

[MikelArteta]

Just a few weeks ago, I was thinking, "man, I really outkicked my coverage with this girl....how did she fall thru the cracks....maybe this is meant to be"

We've all been there and it always happens. Even a few months ago I went out on a few dates and was talking to this 30 year old chick with her MBA living in a half a million dollar condo, knew 4 languages, making nearly 6 figures a year and a strong 7 in the looks department. Oh yeah religious to, I was thinking damn finally a girl wth it all together, few male friends, in shape, he'll making more than me. Then she goes cold and I find out shes delta with depression her whole life an is on pills.



Every girl I ever messed with somewhere in my mind I was like damn I'm blessed to be with this dime, then you realize once the facade stops, why she looks great seems to have her stuff together but was still single


There are still some rare gems out there, but few and far between

 

[sixsixtwo]

"What percentage of young men today can reasonably expect to find and marry a wife who fits these criteria? Five percent? One percent? Who knows. But it’s a very small number.

Outside of this select few, the archetypal American woman is still looking for marriage. Just not until her age, BMI and partner count are all cruising up into the mid-thirties and beyond.

The most obvious response for men to this state of affairs is simple: We can eschew marriage. We can live it up in our twenties, wallowing in non-committal debauchery. Then we can live it up in our thirties with the next generation of young girls, as they come fresh off the assembly line of feminist indoctrination and barbaric pop culture. We can rinse and repeat for as many decades as we like. We can get the snip."

Read more: The Christian Man’s Trilemma

 

[MikelArteta]

Came across this

A wise man told me once that as long as I searched for love, chasing it, desiring it, needing it, it would evade me.*

It took years for me to understand what he meant. I thought at the time that he was just telling me that the whole idea was pointless, and that love was only an illusion that does not really exist.*

I know better now.*

Love is not the beginning.*

Love is not what draws men to women, and women to men.*

Love is not the catalyst for stable relationships.*

Respect is the beginning.*

Physical Attraction is what draws men to women, and women to men.*

Maturity is the catalyst for stable relationships.*

When both man and women have respect, attraction, and maturity, and have shared these things with each other, love is the end result.*

As with everything in this toxic wasteland we live in, it seems that all men and women want the prize, but few men and hardly any women seem to want to run the race for it.




Just like sir Winb has been saying love is nothing, think of all the women who have said they love you, where are they now? Suckin some other dudes dikk not even thinking of you.

 

[TXTrill1]

My apologies if it's already been discussed but a little advice from my Coli fam would be gladly appreciated..

I'm a young, laid back dude who has never really been the type to walk up to a chick and just kick game (probably done it like once or twice in my life,if that.) My steez has always been to bait and let them come to me but I wanna step my approach game up. Any tips brehs?

 

[MikelArteta]

My apologies if it's already been discussed but a little advice from my Coli fam would be gladly appreciated..

I'm a young, laid back dude who has never really been the type to walk up to a chick and just kick game (probably done it like once or twice in my life,if that.) My steez has always been to bait and let them come to me but I wanna step my approach game up. Any tips brehs?

Just try talking to women without he intention of getting her number, small talk, say talking to the cashier at the supermarket, at the coffee shop, whose in like wth you at Walmart, then take the next step.

At the mall or whatever say like hey nice shoes, hey nice hair and smile and keep it moving, these scenarios you won't be rejected your not trying to hit or get their number just slowly expanding and gaining experience by talking to women who are strangers. Them you can take the next step, asking her name and number.

I used to be really really really shy,
And that's how I broke out of my shell with women talk to them anywhere and it broke down barriers then I took the next step then the next step.

I'd go grocery shopping checking out and be to the cashier hey how are you, having a good shift? , or in line at a store hey where did you get insert item is it on sale? Your not Hittin on them just breaking down barriers in your mind.

Or waitin for the bus a chick is there, nice shoes are they insert name, oh yes they are with a smile, I could tell you have good taste and I leave it at that, I'm destroying mental blocks in y mind little by little, it's like driving when you start it's hard your scared etf but after a while everything becomes second nature switching lanes etc.




Or you can just throw our picture on a dating site and wait

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Captain Crunch]

True, but one always has to remember that the party is over for women long before it is for us men; the kind of social power that women have when they are younger evaporates rather quickly given a little bit of time -- and this phenomena tends to leave them in a serious predicament as they get older.

Not only do they wind up being sexually marginalized, but they often end up having a number of very bad financial habits that they developed over the course of a couple of decades of sponging off of men -- and these habits have a way of rising up and biting them in the ass when they reach 35-40 or so.

And, this time, there is no white knight to save them from their own troubles.

If you are a a younger guy [which it sounds like], I don't blame you one bit for being upset that the game is so rigged in women's favor when y'all are still in your teens/twenties; on the other hand, as a somewhat older guy (36), I can testify that the balance of the game changes dramatically as you get older.

Just wait; I imagine that you'll find the shifting of the scales as humorous as the rest of us mature guys do; seriously, it's just hilarious watching women get more and more desperate as they hit 30/40.

As a guy, you will suffer from very little in the way of the time-pressure women are under; as we all know, a successful guy who has kept himself up has little to no difficulty with women even into his 50s and 60s -- and this cannot be said for women, eh?

By the time these skanks are middle-aged, pasty-faced blobs of lard, you will wind up having even more in the way of dating options that you do now; you can take the confirmed-bachelor route and (for instance) simply tool around some place like the Phillipines in a boat while checking out the local young women or, alternatively, settle down with some nice, young woman at the time of your choosing.

Women, on the other hand, have neither of these options -- and they older they get, the more that they realize this fact.

I suppose that's why so many aging women get bytchier and bytcher the more that Father Time takes his toll; nobody likes it when a good party is over, and that is precisely the bitter pill that Time forces women to swallow as their clocks wind down.

So, take heart my friend; as long as you can avoid doing something stupid like marrying a western woman, you are in for one hell of a laugh as time goes by.

Reincar is in his late 30's

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Hot women in their 20s grow up to be women in their 30s and 40s that all of a sudden wonder where all the nice guys went. This is usually after having shat out a couple of kids from some alpha-male type that she was stupidly seduced by in spite of common sense. Even then, who wants an older broad at this point? If you're in your late 30s, early 40s with no kids, wife up some hottie who's in her late 20s and got her partying out of her system.

I myself right now am on the way out of a relationship. Going to stay single for at least 10 years, then think about settling down MAYBE. If I feel like it. If I don't, then ZERO fukkS GIVEN. I'll just keep amassing money, buying awesome shyt, doing whatever the fukk I want with my day and not thinking about some stank ass kids or a wife that gained 30 pounds since I put a ring on it.

Never understood the people in such a fukkin' rush to have kids. In fact, it pisses me off. I mean, if you really only live once, would you want to know what it was like to really live?

1. Use a condom.
2. Smash and dash.
3. Use a fake name if you have to.
4. If you are sure you don't want kids, get a vasectomy.
5. Guard your money. It's the man's version of the p*ssy. Women are sluts for giving p*ssy easily. Men are chumps for getting fleeced. Difference is, you can run out of money. bytches don't run outta p*ssy.