Grano-Grano
The Bando
A true G let's a woman know the rules of the game before she plays them.
you should take that a step further and say never take any shyt from a woman.
if i woman ever gives you any shyt, flaking, complaining, whining, entitlement, demands, ultimatums just let her know she can either deal with it or get out of your life and either way it doesn't matter.
i feel like all the bad relationships i ever got into began when i started letting the women give me shyt in the early goings and i accepted it. had i had a zero bullshyt policy back then things would have probably gone totally different.
Most women are so nice in the beginning though that you think you wont need to use these "take no crap" tactics. They know to be on their complete best behavior
It usually isnt until it's too late(you start getting some feelings for them) that you recognize.
Yep every woman is an so perfect in tr beginning, how were we do lucky to get such a goddess
Just a few weeks ago, I was thinking, "man, I really outkicked my coverage with this girl....how did she fall thru the cracks....maybe this is meant to be"
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My apologies if it's already been discussed but a little advice from my Coli fam would be gladly appreciated..
I'm a young, laid back dude who has never really been the type to walk up to a chick and just kick game (probably done it like once or twice in my life,if that.) My steez has always been to bait and let them come to me but I wanna step my approach game up. Any tips brehs?
True, but one always has to remember that the party is over for women long before it is for us men; the kind of social power that women have when they are younger evaporates rather quickly given a little bit of time -- and this phenomena tends to leave them in a serious predicament as they get older.
Not only do they wind up being sexually marginalized, but they often end up having a number of very bad financial habits that they developed over the course of a couple of decades of sponging off of men -- and these habits have a way of rising up and biting them in the ass when they reach 35-40 or so.
And, this time, there is no white knight to save them from their own troubles.
If you are a a younger guy [which it sounds like], I don't blame you one bit for being upset that the game is so rigged in women's favor when y'all are still in your teens/twenties; on the other hand, as a somewhat older guy (36), I can testify that the balance of the game changes dramatically as you get older.
Just wait; I imagine that you'll find the shifting of the scales as humorous as the rest of us mature guys do; seriously, it's just hilarious watching women get more and more desperate as they hit 30/40.
As a guy, you will suffer from very little in the way of the time-pressure women are under; as we all know, a successful guy who has kept himself up has little to no difficulty with women even into his 50s and 60s -- and this cannot be said for women, eh?
By the time these skanks are middle-aged, pasty-faced blobs of lard, you will wind up having even more in the way of dating options that you do now; you can take the confirmed-bachelor route and (for instance) simply tool around some place like the Phillipines in a boat while checking out the local young women or, alternatively, settle down with some nice, young woman at the time of your choosing.
Women, on the other hand, have neither of these options -- and they older they get, the more that they realize this fact.
I suppose that's why so many aging women get bytchier and bytcher the more that Father Time takes his toll; nobody likes it when a good party is over, and that is precisely the bitter pill that Time forces women to swallow as their clocks wind down.
So, take heart my friend; as long as you can avoid doing something stupid like marrying a western woman, you are in for one hell of a laugh as time goes by.