Women are simply dopamine druggies in western society. It's sort of like when someone first does a drug, they experience a super high. Then they keep having to do more and more of that drug to experience that same feeling.
People here in the west are unbalanced emotionally, because ever since we are young, we're constantly bombarded by things that send our emotions swinging. We're fed food filled with all sorts of sugar, we constantly watch television shows that ramp up our emotions and then deprive us by ending on a cliffhanger. All of this constantly sets our emotions swinging. This is why people eventually become 'bipolar'. They are constantly exposed to material that sends their emotions swinging in extreme directions. Why do you think all the shows have 'extreme' this or that in the title? Because people need more and more extreme stuff to feel something. Think of some guy who is a porn addict. He's watched so much, the average stuff bores him, so he needs to see something extreme and depraved to feel something.
How does this relate to women? Many modern women have been exposed to these emotional swings, so stability has ZERO interest to them because they already have 10,000 sources to bail them out. What they crave now is some extreme form of entertainment, hence the reason why they chase guys who screw up their lives. These guys know how to cause the extreme emotional swings in them that they find entertaining. These women cannot stand 'boredom' because they've been exposed to all sorts of extreme stimuli since they were young and they get addicted and need more and more extreme stuff to 'feel anything.' These kind of women would never be happy in a monogamous relationship because "it's too predictable." "It's too boring. It's not thrilling enough." Essentially these women are looking for dopamine dealers, aka men who can provide them entertainment and unpredictability to get their emotions swinging. It explains a lot of the behavior and why it's hard to find a woman to 'settle down with.' They're not looking for stability. They want emotion swings and entertainment. The reality is that the 'nice guy' and the 'stable guy' is essentially looked at them as a resource to be used and discarded while they won't leave their 'bad boy' who is doing all kinds of negative things to them.
