Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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and women need to stop with that bs to make friends, its the attention they love.

This is the type of women to cheat on her husband and post on a forum, filth like

I had a great marraige a great husband, two wonderful kids I never thought I would be here, everything was going great but my husband stopped giving me attention, we had just moved halfway across the country and I was literally bored out of my mind while he went to work all the time. So I downloaded tinder just to meet new "Friends" around the area, and to my amazement this girl still got it. One thing led toa nother and I matched with Phil, phil has been wow great, he makes me feel so alive in ways my husband never did. Phil always calls me beautiful and always has time for me, at least twice a week we meet up for hot passionate sex. My husband has no idea yet, I really want to leave him and go with Phil, I can't believe my husband pushed me this far.

yes this is the type of filth thats posted every day on infidelity forums, women know exactly what they are doing but they plan ahea.
 

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The more I look at western society the more this bible verse rings true

"You shall not take a wife for yourself nor have sons or daughters in this place."
Jeremiah 16:2

It's amazing that I've pretty much been thinking along those lines of that Bible verse without knowing it

I simply cannot see myself getting married here or wanting to raise kids here. The culture has decayed too much. In fact, there was a verse talking about 'flee Babylon'. I have a feeling America is Babylon 2.0.
 

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It's amazing that I've pretty much been thinking along those lines of that Bible verse without knowing it

I simply cannot see myself getting married here or wanting to raise kids here. The culture has decayed too much. In fact, there was a verse talking about 'flee Babylon'. I have a feeling America is Babylon 2.0.

Babylon means confused right. America is the land of confused.
 
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Hey brehs, Decided this year I was going to keep my resolutions, So since I'm already losing weight(got 32 pounds left) and got a new job(which is a crappy target job) now I'm going to focus on getting out of the house/ getting a girl.

So I am about to sign up to POF and I got two questions:
1. should I mention that I am a asocial/shy?
2. how can I make sure my lack of experience doesn't scare off too many women?
 

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Hey brehs, Decided this year I was going to keep my resolutions, So since I'm already losing weight(got 32 pounds left) and got a new job(which is a crappy target job) now I'm going to focus on getting out of the house/ getting a girl.

So I am about to sign up to POF and I got two questions:
1. should I mention that I am a asocial/shy?
2. how can I make sure my lack of experience doesn't scare off too many women?
first off, congrats on setting goals and accomplishing them.

to answer your questions, i wouldn't mention that i'm anti-social/shy. as far as your second question, the trick is to not let your "lack of experience" bother you. if you focus about your perceived lack of experience, they will focus and care about it as well. you will make mistakes. so will they. it's not that serious. don't view it like a job interview or you trying to impress them. by the way, a few questions, what do you mean by lack of experience? how old are you? and do you know what you want from a chick (is it just sex or a girlfriend?) to be honest, looking for a potential girlfriend on POF might not be the best move breh...
 

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first off, congrats on setting goals and accomplishing them.

to answer your questions, i wouldn't mention that i'm anti-social/shy. as far as your second question, the trick is to not let your "lack of experience" bother you. if you focus about your perceived lack of experience, they will focus and care about it as well. you will make mistakes. so will they. it's not that serious. don't view it like a job interview or you trying to impress them. by the way, a few questions, what do you mean by lack of experience? how old are you? and do you know what you want from a chick (is it just sex or a girlfriend?) to be honest, looking for a potential girlfriend on POF might not be the best move breh...

I'm 22, and outside of making out, I'm completely inexperienced. Severe social anxiety killed any chance of dating/sex in my teens. Not looking for anything serious right now though. Even though my SA has died down, I still prefer being by myself 90% of the time.
 

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Has anyone had a relationship with Vietnamese women?

I know most women are largely the same, but are there barriers with that culture compared to any other east-Asian culture?
 

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Hey brehs, Decided this year I was going to keep my resolutions, So since I'm already losing weight(got 32 pounds left) and got a new job(which is a crappy target job) now I'm going to focus on getting out of the house/ getting a girl.

So I am about to sign up to POF and I got two questions:
1. should I mention that I am a asocial/shy?
2. how can I make sure my lack of experience doesn't scare off too many women?

no need to mention that your shy

just throw your photos up a nice description and send out some msgs

your job or your weight should never be a obstacle in the dating field,
 

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and when she dates the a$$hole she gets lied cheated on then cries for a nice guy

women want hot ice

who cares about damaged drama filled women like this

i know it may sound like something bad to say but this is wy i dnt feel sympathy for most women when they are in dire circumstances they pass up on decent men and then when the consequences are being paid they cry
 

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and when she dates the a$$hole she gets lied cheated on then cries for a nice guy

women want hot ice

who cares about damaged drama filled women like this

i know it may sound like something bad to say but this is wy i dnt feel sympathy for most women when they are in dire circumstances they pass up on decent men and then when the consequences are being paid they cry
yup

thankfully they aint all like this. just gotta get the good ones early. ima inbox you later
 

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Women are simply dopamine druggies in western society. It's sort of like when someone first does a drug, they experience a super high. Then they keep having to do more and more of that drug to experience that same feeling.

People here in the west are unbalanced emotionally, because ever since we are young, we're constantly bombarded by things that send our emotions swinging. We're fed food filled with all sorts of sugar, we constantly watch television shows that ramp up our emotions and then deprive us by ending on a cliffhanger. All of this constantly sets our emotions swinging. This is why people eventually become 'bipolar'. They are constantly exposed to material that sends their emotions swinging in extreme directions. Why do you think all the shows have 'extreme' this or that in the title? Because people need more and more extreme stuff to feel something. Think of some guy who is a porn addict. He's watched so much, the average stuff bores him, so he needs to see something extreme and depraved to feel something.

How does this relate to women? Many modern women have been exposed to these emotional swings, so stability has ZERO interest to them because they already have 10,000 sources to bail them out. What they crave now is some extreme form of entertainment, hence the reason why they chase guys who screw up their lives. These guys know how to cause the extreme emotional swings in them that they find entertaining. These women cannot stand 'boredom' because they've been exposed to all sorts of extreme stimuli since they were young and they get addicted and need more and more extreme stuff to 'feel anything.' These kind of women would never be happy in a monogamous relationship because "it's too predictable." "It's too boring. It's not thrilling enough." Essentially these women are looking for dopamine dealers, aka men who can provide them entertainment and unpredictability to get their emotions swinging. It explains a lot of the behavior and why it's hard to find a woman to 'settle down with.' They're not looking for stability. They want emotion swings and entertainment. The reality is that the 'nice guy' and the 'stable guy' is essentially looked at them as a resource to be used and discarded while they won't leave their 'bad boy' who is doing all kinds of negative things to them.
 
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