Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cynical Thoughts]

How do you tell a women that the majority of problems in her life are largely due to her actions?

Or does she already know and just doing whatever she can to avoid it(playing victim, shifting blame, manipulation etc.). She'll through her kids under the bus to avoid the most minimum of accusations or win an argument.

Im like... the kids though.

 

[Turbulent]

How do you tell a women that the majority of problems in her life are largely due to her actions?

Or does she already know and just doing whatever she can to avoid it(playing victim, shifting blame, manipulation etc.). She'll through her kids under the bus to avoid the most minimum of accusations or win an argument.

just let her be. you don't need to tell her anything. she doesn't want to be saved.

 

[MarcMan]

Irreconcilable differences

There is nothing you can do if your woman wants to leave, money, status, power, great husband loving father means nothing.

The affair fog will have women caught up with some schmuck making 8 a hour washing dishes

Money has never bought fidelity

Women think with emotions and the heart not the mind and what's logical.

If a woman wants to cheat there is nothing you can do. Rich guys get cheated on and left just like poor dudes just like attractive dudes just like ugly dudes.

A broke man could get more loyalty and fidelity than a millionaire.

As well being monagamous Has nothing to do with being broke or not having options, its all about character. Even the brokest married man can hop on tinder or pay 50 bucks for a hooker, or start a emotional affair.

This isn't the great depression its never been easier to have an affair

I agree that there is nothing you can do if your woman wants to stray but that's kind of off the point.

No matter what type of women you're into: slutty, smart, chaste, Mother fukking Teresa. You will attract more of them, of greater quality, and with greater ease if you have resources and status. Men are hardwired to achieve in part because women are hardwired to be attracted to achievement.

On the flip side, women put in so much work to look good in part because men place so much value in looks when looking for a mate. We are all slaves to our biology I'm afraid.

 

[Rich Spirit]

How do you tell a women that the majority of problems in her life are largely due to her actions?

Or does she already know and just doing whatever she can to avoid it(playing victim, shifting blame, manipulation etc.). She'll through her kids under the bus to avoid the most minimum of accusations or win an argument.

Im like... the kids though.

women know exactly what they're doing

 

[MikelArteta]

Quantity not quality

You may attract a bunch of beautiful women doesn't mean they are quality.

You may attract a bunch of successful women doesn't mean they are of quality

I've dated beautiful women minus their beauty and the sex most had no reedeming quality. Same when I dated doctors, lawyers etc.

You can't buy love, fidelity, loyalty.

See in life if you plan on getting married having a family etc. All you need is ONE.

Quality not quanity.

Now yeah if you want to play the field, be a player, playboy etc. Then yeah you will attract a whole heap of women.

Most good women I've come across in life care about character and personalities more than how fat his pocket is or the car he drives.

I'm not a slave to biology everything I do in life is for myself, I don't chase, show off or nothing.

Ask Elliot Rodger how his money and status worked out for him

I agree that there is nothing you can do if your woman wants to stray but that's kind of off the point.

No matter what type of women you're into: slutty, smart, chaste, Mother fukking Teresa. You will attract more of them, of greater quality, and with greater ease if you have resources and status. Men are hardwired to achieve in part because women are hardwired to be attracted to achievement.

On the flip side, women put in so much work to look good in part because men place so much value in looks when looking for a mate. We are all slaves to our biology I'm afraid.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

u have to understand though, whether or not u choose to play a game doesn't mean you aren't in the game. u better play or get played.

even if a woman genuinely likes u at first, she can easily lose interest if u dont know how to act (especially if she's attractive). i'm not saying dont be urself. but if "urself" is a cornball, u better learn to reinvent it if u wanna be balls deep in fresh pusssy.

about 10 years ago. i was dating a chick around my age and another woman about 17 years older than me (at the same time). yup. she had a phat ass. the chick my age drew me in by first saying she loved me. after spending more time with her, i began to "love" her as well. to make a long story short, she realized how into her i had become, and she eventually lost interest. i remember always bringing her up to the older chick and the older chick said something that kinda stuck in my head. i was like, its amazing how a girl can go from saying she "loves" you, to just straight up breaking up and not calling or texting anymore. the older chick said "she probably feels, if she can get YOU wrapped around her finger, she can definitely do better". meaning, shes thinking she can get even "better" guys wrapped around her finger.

u goto understand, there's a boundary that exists, which cannot be seen, but is made apparent the minute a girl realizes the man she's dating has a take-it-or-leave-it attitude about her. when that boundary is drawn or established, if ur the man, u can rest assured this girl will do whatever u want. this is because, in her subconscious, she is not on ur level. she is on a level lower than urs. u are to be looked up to. and she will submit to you. i have seen it with my eyes and i have lived it and i am living it.

dudes need to realize how much a woman likes to hear a dude say "I ain't doing shyt!"

 

[Turbulent]

Irreconcilable differences

There is nothing you can do if your woman wants to leave, money, status, power, great husband loving father means nothing.

The affair fog will have women caught up with some schmuck making 8 a hour washing dishes

Money has never bought fidelity

Women think with emotions and the heart not the mind and what's logical.

If a woman wants to cheat there is nothing you can do. Rich guys get cheated on and left just like poor dudes just like attractive dudes just like ugly dudes.

A broke man could get more loyalty and fidelity than a millionaire.

As well being monagamous Has nothing to do with being broke or not having options, its all about character. Even the brokest married man can hop on tinder or pay 50 bucks for a hooker, or start a emotional affair.

This isn't the great depression its never been easier to have an affair

peep the lyrics y'all, Plies spitting that realness.

Spoiler

PLIES LYRICS

"If She Gon fukk"

[Chorus:]
If she gonna fukk, she gonna fukk
You can call that hoe a hundred times if you wanna
If she gonna fukk, she gonna fukk
You can't control that p*ssy from the joint
If she gonna fukk, she gonna fukk
You in that bytch stressin about nothing
If she gonna fukk, she gonna fukk
I been there, I done learned that from the joint
If she gonna fukk, she gonna fukk

You don't need to worry about a bytch 'cause she gonna do what she do
And if the hoe gonna ride, she gonna ride and that there's the truth
If she gonna let a nikka fukk, ain't nothing you can do
You think sweating a bytch gonna change something you lying to you
If she was fukking while you was out it, she gonna fukk while you gone
And if that bytch ain't really fukking she gonna ride that long
And if the bytch don't wanna talk then she ain't gonna answer the phone
And if the hoe don't come to see you she gonna act like something wrong
Like I told my nikka straight up ain't gonna sugarcoat shyt
We can talk about whatever, don't ask me nothing about your bytch
You ain't no rookie to this shyt, you already know how it go
Well, like a nikka told me, better let a hoe be a hoe

[Chorus]

If you gon'let these hoes stress you, they don't know what to tell you
If you ride, you better ride, nikka, get it together
I might be snapping by some shyt, but it ain't gon'be 'bout no p*ssy
Whether she is or she ain't, it don't make me no difference
They keep my comments every fool, bytch, and I'll be alright
YOu wanna see me, then come see me! You want it right, then you right
You wanna keep giggling with me, then I'm cool with that too
You wanna ride, you wanna wait, then fukk it, do what you do!
I'm gon'tell you how I feel 'bout it, I ain't even mad
Cause only real hoe gone ride and I ride with a nikka that ain't bad
I'da say out my mind, I already know what that mean
That's why As long as I'm free bytch, how you gon'feel?

[Chorus]

Hoes gn'be hoes and just like nikka gon'be nikka,
And my bytch know if she was locked up ain't keepin no dikk in no freezer
If she be looking out for me, then I be looking out for you
Off the top, if it's fukk me, you know I fukk you!
Some nikkas go distressing, go to loosing their way
'Cause they can't keep with their whole idea back in the day
If I ever let a bytch worry, it deserve to worry
If she stressing by the cash, then that's a whole other story cause most these hoes they won't ever love the air ya breath,
I already know ya game bytch, can't let you run it on me
It's a hand full that might rat to the bus stop
The rest you slime ass hoes know exactly what I'm talkin bout

[Chorus]

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

we gotta be more "hardheaded" brehs.

her: "you better call back too"
you: "I better not do shyt! I ain't gotta call"

her: "hold my purse right quick"
you: "you better hold ya own purse. Shot that's why you got it"

her: "ooo I need my phone bill payed but I ain't got enough money"
you: "well I guess its gone be off then"

I had this chick I was cool with on the phone with me. I was telling her about my new tattoo and she said "ooo pay for my tattoo". I told her "I'll be damned. Better ask ya dude to. shyt you got a job just like me". She kept blowing my phone up and making Facebook posts speaking about me on the slick after I hung up.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Am I wrong for wanting to hangout with a woman a couple of times before going on a serious date in which I open up the wallet? I actually like to get to know someone before I commit valuable time and money. I wanna make sure we can just chill before I splurge and wine and dine a woman? Some examples, maybe going on a jog together, beach day, a friendly lunch, farmers market etc.... Random activities you're interested where you want to have someone tag along. If I'm truly interested in a girl I need to get to know her first. I don't believe in meeting some random woman and then offering to take her out on the town UNLESS there's a serious spark between the two of you from the get go.... I've had that happened... It was fun but ended badly.

I see guys talking about "taking a woman out and spending money" from the get go...... That just seems like an awful idea. Also guys who think they have to spend money on a woman they ONLY want to fukk...... That doesn't make any sense to me either

What's everyone's thoughts on the above?

 

[MarcMan]

Quantity not quality

You may attract a bunch of beautiful women doesn't mean they are quality.

You may attract a bunch of successful women doesn't mean they are of quality

I've dated beautiful women minus their beauty and the sex most had no reedeming quality. Same when I dated doctors, lawyers etc.

You can't buy love, fidelity, loyalty.

See in life if you plan on getting married having a family etc. All you need is ONE.

Quality not quanity.

Now yeah if you want to play the field, be a player, playboy etc. Then yeah you will attract a whole heap of women.

Most good women I've come across in life care about character and personalities more than how fat his pocket is or the car he drives.

I'm not a slave to biology everything I do in life is for myself, I don't chase, show off or nothing.

Ask Elliot Rodger how his money and status worked out for him

Look, I'm not trying to be difficult here or feign ignorance to your point.

You're saying just because you can attract many women doesn't mean any are of "quality". Granted.
But just because someone can attract few doesn't mean any are quality either.

And all things being equal, the guy that has more to choose from has a higher likelihood of selecting a woman that fits his personal definition of "quality".

In regards to the biology point, to believe that your intrinsic rewards are wholly independent of outside stimuli is an amazing feat of naivete. But we're far off topic here.

 

[reserved_one]

So a chick told me earlier today during a conversation. “Your everything that I want in a man but honestly I feel like I don't deserve you“. Now when a chick says that...Yeah more than likely she probably doesn't deserve you lol. She's inferior in your presence (knows it) and has guilt for having low standards/interest in low quality men. Either she doesn't know how to treat me or the bytch doesn't think she's good enough. I would say both.

I then asked her "So you would much rather settle for less"?

*A long pause then a sigh* "Well, Yes"


Man, I just started laughing so hard in the inside. I got her to admit the truth.


These are the same women who cry and complain about not finding the right man . I see it all the damn time. They spend their time chasing guys who continuously treat them like trash while the gold (Good men) in the midst of it all are waiting to be scooped up. Its like these kind of women will rather settle for Bronze/silver medals instead of gold. Then right when their looks decline, the 3rd/4th baby is born and has lost all that swagger in their younger days...then thats when she tries to get her gold medal but its harder when she's competing against a younger, fresher, hotter young lady thats built for show and down to go.

Then that young lady will be getting the good man they all rejected years earlier because they outmatched.


I guess what Im trying to say is that ladies need to stop bullshytting and just settle for the right guy now rather than later.

That right guy that she turned down will be the right guy for another broad, But the chase is too addictive for these hoes.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Gotta start back reading this thread agsin

 

[Brandsdale]

When a chick likes you for you there is nothing you have to do.

You can spill ketchup on yourself and its cute

She'll hit you up without any pride or rule playing, it will be seem less easy.

You will wonder why you wasted all this time chasing women where you had to do this and that to even garner a iota of her attention


I watch this show the flash, and well the flash was in love with this chick forever, chasing doing seal tricks and never even got a kiss nothing.

Well gasp he found a chick that was into him, found his quirkiness funny, she didn't mind or care anything that they did unless they were together. Even though its just a TV show the premise is the same

When a woman is into you, it makes everything so much easier.

still havent peeped that episode but thats real shyt. No point in chasing an after Iris

 

[Brandsdale]

Spoiler

ya boy went from making $15.30 an hour ($31800 annually if prorated) one year ago to now a salary of $57K, 3 weeks vacation, 7 sick days and a flex benefit plan.

went from working in a dingy warehouse office to working in the same skyscraper that they film Suits at

hard work pays off. still got a ways to go to be where I wanna be but I'm finally on the right path.

my dawg

 

[MikelArteta]

I said it's the same for a attractive girl on a dating site she may get 800 guys msg but only a few are of worth.

If your a guy that just cares for eye candy and sex then yeah you will be winning

But money has never attracted females of worth not now not ever

Did Tim Duncan status and money get loyalty?

Did mike Tyson aggressive nature status and money procure loyalty?


Thays all I'm saying yes with more money and status you can attract more women but quality doesn't always mean quality.

Because all it takes is one

Look, I'm not trying to be difficult here or feign ignorance to your point.

You're saying just because you can attract many women doesn't mean any are of "quality". Granted.
But just because someone can attract few doesn't mean any are quality either.

And all things being equal, the guy that has more to choose from has a higher likelihood of selecting a woman that fits his personal definition of "quality".

In regards to the biology point, to believe that your intrinsic rewards are wholly independent of outside stimuli is an amazing feat of naivete. But we're far off topic here.