Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I said it's the same for a attractive girl on a dating site she may get 800 guys msg but only a few are of worth.

If your a guy that just cares for eye candy and sex then yeah you will be winning

But money has never attracted females of worth not now not ever

Did Tim Duncan status and money get loyalty?

Did mike Tyson aggressive nature status and money procure loyalty?


Thays all I'm saying yes with more money and status you can attract more women but quality doesn't always mean quality.

Because all it takes is one





Look, I'm not trying to be difficult here or feign ignorance to your point.

You're saying just because you can attract many women doesn't mean any are of "quality". Granted.
But just because someone can attract few doesn't mean any are quality either.

And all things being equal, the guy that has more to choose from has a higher likelihood of selecting a woman that fits his personal definition of "quality".

In regards to the biology point, to believe that your intrinsic rewards are wholly independent of outside stimuli is an amazing feat of naivete. But we're far off topic here.
 
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Brehs the girl I been talking to on her period :francis:. She still want to get up valentines tho :francis:. My team is looking real slim right now so I might have to bite the bullet :francis:
fukk with girls with bfs brehs
 

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Installed tinder as a joke last week to troll for valentines day...wow ive been missing out:gladbron:.

I know you guys say the hype died, but ive only been on a week and im feasting. I could only imagine how you guys were feasting off it when it was at its height. There are a ton of bots but ive had WAY more legit matches. I basically use it to field test openers lol.
 

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In its hey day it was great

Bots and everyone on it now killed it.


Installed tinder as a joke last week to troll for valentines day...wow ive been missing out:gladbron:.

I know you guys say the hype died, but ive only been on a week and im feasting. I could only imagine how you guys were feasting off it when it was at its height. There are a ton of bots but ive had WAY more legit matches. I basically use it to field test openers lol.
 

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I said it's the same for am attractive girl on a dating site she may get 800 guys msg but only a few are of worth.

If your guy that just cares for eye candy and sex then yeah you will be winning

But money has never attracted females of worth not how not ever

Did Tim Duncan status and money get loyalty?

Did mike Tyson aggressive nature status and money procure loyalty?


Thays all I'm saying yes with more money and status you can attract more women but quality doesn't always mean quality.

Because all it takes is one

Only thing money and fame will get you is women who want to be around for the money and fame. As soon as they get their paycheck locked in, they will dip and go move on to more exciting pastures.

Loyalty comes down to one's personal moral make-up, which is why I don't buy into that whole biological thing. The biological imperative is the lust of the flesh, which you have power to resist. Most people choose not to in this day and age.

One simply has to find a moral woman who is into him for him and no other reason. Very difficult to do, but it's the only way to really make it last.
 

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Yup pretty much.

Its why so many successful people who are Stoll in a successful marriage are married to their hs sweethearts or women who were there at the beg of the assembly line.




Only thing money and fame will get you is women who want to be around for the money and fame. As soon as they get their paycheck locked in, they will dip and go move on to more exciting pastures.

Loyalty comes down to one's personal moral make-up, which is why I don't buy into that whole biological thing. The biological imperative is the lust of the flesh, which you have power to resist. Most people choose not to in this day and age.

One simply has to find a moral woman who is into him for him and no other reason. Very difficult to do, but it's the only way to really make it last.
 

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Am I wrong for wanting to hangout with a woman a couple of times before going on a serious date in which I open up the wallet? I actually like to get to know someone before I commit valuable time and money. I wanna make sure we can just chill before I splurge and wine and dine a woman? Some examples, maybe going on a jog together, beach day, a friendly lunch, farmers market etc.... Random activities you're interested where you want to have someone tag along. If I'm truly interested in a girl I need to get to know her first. I don't believe in meeting some random woman and then offering to take her out on the town UNLESS there's a serious spark between the two of you from the get go.... I've had that happened... It was fun but ended badly.

I see guys talking about "taking a woman out and spending money" from the get go...... That just seems like an awful idea. Also guys who think they have to spend money on a woman they ONLY want to fukk...... That doesn't make any sense to me either

What's everyone's thoughts on the above?

I think you tryna doo too much breh.
why wine and dine females that's not your woman?

You gone end up in the "walking ATM machine" category.

"I'm bored and hungry. Lemme text him and tell him how much much I miss him"

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What? The entire point of my post was to NOT wine and dine some random female you just meet. I'm basically saying you shouldn't spend a dime on her until you know she's worthy of it. The process should be mutual you shouldn't have to spend money for her attention
 

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What? The entire point of my post was to NOT wine and dine some random female you just meet. I'm basically saying you shouldn't spend a dime on her until you know she's worthy of it. The process should be mutual you shouldn't have to spend money for her attention

after you've met a chick at, say , a coffee shop. if u two hit it off and u ask her to come by ur place the next time yall hang out, and she doesn't, u goto hit em with the silence.
personally i like to wine and dine...but i only do that with chicks i've already been with.
 
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