Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

I'ma tell ya'll something and its gonna sound like a broken record but it cant be said enough. "Working on yourself is all you should be doing.." I havent even sniffed my first paycheck yet and I'm already feeling myself that much more.

During lunch I went to Futureshop (best buy for americans) to get a Microsd card for my new phone. I picked up the card and went to pay at the cashier. By surprise i saw some random shorty cashiering that I tried to spit at in public (out of boredom during lunch last fall, shes a 6.5/10 at best). Shorty took my number and didnt even call or text me.

I paid for my shyt, got out of there and couldnt help but think to myself, "what the hell was I doing hollering at this chick before " as I walked out the store. Like damn, that was the same job I had when I was 17 years old (six years ago)..

Even more now do I realize that I'm the real prize out here. Nevermind these women who although they look average, and work a menial job making $11 an hour got dudes (like me formerly) hollering at them just because they're horny; leading the girls to think theyre the shyt as a result. I simply cant be bothered and havent been bothered for a while to try and bag a chick who I don't see as being a quality person outside of her looks. And that aint even to sound like a snob but being in a different tax bracket puts things into perspective. I've worked hard to be in my position so I'll demand a similar level of quality from whomever I'm messing with. Doesn't matter if its wifey or a booty call either.

No longer will it ever be "how fat is her ass?" or "how nice is her weave?"

It's a matter of:

"What did she study in university?" - Sociology? ---- Chemistry?
"How much debt does she likely have?" She's paying it down every month? , She's letting it sit while buying designer clothing and eating out for dinner every day?
"What does she do in her spare time?" Attention whores on twitter and IG? , Volunteers and goes to the gym?
"Whats her bread game like?" Salary Low hourly wage?

This goes out to dudes like @RealAssanova . The ends must justify the means. Leave the finicky, time wasting girls alone and focus on yourself. 'Cause when you focus on yourself and get results A) nothing else will even seem relevant anymore and B) nobody can take your progress away from you the same way they can take your girl..

That pay raise I got...until we enter another recession I probably wont have to take anything less than $60K that ever again. And itll keep increasing.

That girl you might smashed a couple months ago and the fat nut you bust on her forehead...where is it/she now? Your first real girlfriend? Where is she at now? That money you spent to pay for dinner or valentines gifts? Where are the gifts and food at now?

The ends don't justify the means with most of these women.

i needed this fam. I. NEEDED. THIS.

you have no idea.

will rep when off recharge fam.

 

[TRUEST]

Right now my friend says that he is slowest with front end programming so I plan on learning some HTML5 and CSS.

Just a bit so when he goes through some roadblocks I can offer another POV. Also so theres another perspective on our team as far as things should look and be done.

I did all the mockups for the project using Balsamiq but he has freedom to change things as he sees fit.

there are so many places in the tech world that ur programming ability is needed. u really should go on computer job websites, type in various programming languages and see which one comes up the most often. study those.

i tell u man, not everyone can program. i chose it because i'm naturally gifted with creativity and there's no other place for that type of creativity other than in programming.

also, pick a programming language that u find easy to be proficient in.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

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[Godless Socialist CEO]

but why even have the thought of wining and dining in ya head ?
you should only have that thought after ya woman has proven herself as worthy.

I literally just wrote out to not spend any money on a woman until she proves herself.... I like that you agree with my stance, but I don't understand why you're quoting me like I didn't just say that

 

[kevm3]

Right now my friend says that he is slowest with front end programming so I plan on learning some HTML5 and CSS.

Just a bit so when he goes through some roadblocks I can offer another POV. Also so theres another perspective on our team as far as things should look and be done.

I did all the mockups for the project using Balsamiq but he has freedom to change things as he sees fit.

Keep it up man. You should check out the programming thread here:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/developer-programming-information-and-careers-thread.116488/page-44

 

[TRUEST]

just recently. i met up with some chick off okc, at a coffeeshop. i didn't buy her coffee. she had already gotten there before i did. so i just got myself something light to sip on. we hit it off and i'm sure she was into me. she really wasn't that pretty. she just had an ass that i liked. but she also has a weave and i really hate fake hair on women. like, i really hate it. anyway, i liked that we had chemistry. while we were chatting, a couple of women walked by that had some serious thickness to them. i had to look. lol. she got jealous and playfully chastised me to keep my eyes on her. the date was fun. I was willing to give her a chance.

anyway, at the end of the night, i told her we should meet up again. we set the date to be 2 days later. during those 2 days, it was evident from the texting that she was far into me than i was into her. which is good. i said very few words to her but enough to show i was "interested". if i didn't respond to a text, she'd hit me back with different variations of "helloooooo?".

so the day of the date arrived. she had sent me a text the night before but i wasn't able to reply because i had been occupied with another chick. and when that chick left, i was just too tired to be starting a convo so i went to sleep. anyway, the day of the agreed date arrived (the next day). and she texts me:

her: whats the plan for tonight
me: i dont know. im in the mood to dine out though. do u know of any good restaurants? im thinking olive garden
her: no, cheesecake factory
me: lol nah. u treating?
her: im old fashioned. i believe the man should treat the woman to the first date

*** this is where i just lost it. i was infuriated by that. if shes not treating, how dare she insist on going to a specific restaurant.***

me: oh yea convenient for u to say. u got some nerve saying that. i only suggested we go eat because im in the mood to dine, not to be "treating" u. u goto prove urself to be getting all that special treatment

her: dine? Olive Garden isn't a fine place for dinning. prove myself? ha, you requested my time for this evening, i'll take my nerve elsewhere since dining is "special treatment"

me: <this is where i hit her with the silence>

shortly after that, she removed her pictures from her OKC profile. lol. stupid b1tch. if she had just simply said yes to olive garden, i wouldn't have had an issue paying for her. none. but, her insisting on a specific place was just ridiculous.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

just recently. i met up with some chick off okc, at a coffeeshop. i didn't buy her coffee. she had already gotten there before i did. so i just got myself something light to sip on. we hit it off and i'm sure she was into me. she really wasn't that pretty. she just had an ass that i liked. but she also has a weave and i really hate fake hair on women. like, i really hate it. anyway, i liked that we had chemistry. while we were chatting, a couple of women walked by that had some serious thickness to them. i had to look. lol. she got jealous and playfully chastised me to keep my eyes on her. the date was fun. I was willing to give her a chance.

anyway, at the end of the night, i told her we should meet up again. we set the date to be 2 days later. during those 2 days, it was evident from the texting that she was far into me than i was into her. which is good. i said very few words to her but enough to show i was "interested". if i didn't respond to a text, she'd hit me back with different variations of "helloooooo?".

so the day of the date arrived. she had sent me a text the night before but i wasn't able to reply because i had been occupied with another chick. and when that chick left, i was just too tired to be starting a convo so i went to sleep. anyway, the day of the agreed date arrived (the next day). and she texts me:

her: whats the plan for tonight
me: i dont know. im in the mood to dine out though. do u know of any good restaurants? im thinking olive garden
her: no, cheesecake factory
me: lol nah. u treating?
her: im old fashioned. i believe the man should treat the woman to the first date

*** this is where i just lost it. i was infuriated by that. if shes not treating, how dare she insist on going to a specific restaurant.***

me: oh yea convenient for u to say. u got some nerve saying that. i only suggested we go eat because im in the mood to dine, not to be "treating" u. u goto prove urself to be getting all that special treatment

her: dine? Olive Garden isn't a fine place for dinning. prove myself? ha, you requested my time for this evening, i'll take my nerve elsewhere since dining is "special treatment"

me: <this is where i hit her with the silence>

shortly after that, she removed her pictures from her OKC profile. lol. stupid b1tch. if she had just simply said yes to olive garden, i wouldn't have had an issue paying for her. none. but, her insisting on a specific place was just ridiculous.

 

[MikelArteta]

He's all grown up Now

I'ma tell ya'll something and its gonna sound like a broken record but it cant be said enough. "Working on yourself is all you should be doing.." I havent even sniffed my first paycheck yet and I'm already feeling myself that much more.

During lunch I went to Futureshop (best buy for americans) to get a Microsd card for my new phone. I picked up the card and went to pay at the cashier. By surprise i saw some random shorty cashiering that I tried to spit at in public (out of boredom during lunch last fall, shes a 6.5/10 at best). Shorty took my number and didnt even call or text me.

I paid for my shyt, got out of there and couldnt help but think to myself, "what the hell was I doing hollering at this chick before " as I walked out the store. Even more now do I realize that I'm the real prize out here. Nevermind these women who although they look average, and work a menial job making $11 an hour got dudes (like me formerly) hollering at them just because they're horny and think theyre the shyt as a result. I simply cant be bothered and havent been bothered for a while to try and bag a chick who I don't see as being a quality person outside of her looks. And that aint even to sound like a snob but being in a different tax bracket puts things into perspective. I've worked hard to be in my position so I'll demand a similar level of quality from whomever I'm messing with. Doesn't matter if its wifey or a booty call either.

No longer will it ever be "how fat is her ass?" or "how nice is her weave?"

It's a matter of:

"What did she study in university?" - Sociology? ---- Chemistry?
"How much debt does she likely have?" She's paying it down every month? , She's letting it sit while buying designer clothing and eating out for dinner every day?
"What does she do in her spare time?" Attention whores on twitter and IG? , Volunteers and goes to the gym?
"Whats her bread game like?" Salary Low hourly wage?

This goes out to dudes like @RealAssanova . The ends must justify the means. Leave the finicky, time wasting girls alone and focus on yourself. 'Cause when you focus on yourself and get results A) nothing else will even seem relevant anymore and B) nobody can take your progress away from you the same way they can take your girl..

That pay raise I got...until we enter another recession I probably wont have to take anything less than $60K that ever again. And itll keep increasing.

That girl you might smashed a couple months ago and the fat nut you bust on her forehead...where is it/she now? Your first real girlfriend? Where is she at now? That money you spent to pay for dinner or valentines gifts? Where are the gifts and food at now?

The ends don't justify the means with most of these women

 

[MikelArteta]

That girl you might smashed a couple months ago and the fat nut you bust on her forehead...where is it/she now? Your first real girlfriend? Where is she at now? That money you spent to pay for dinner or valentines gifts? Where are the gifts and food at now?

ill tell you where in the arms of another man
married
money gone

nothing left but memories

investing in yourself you can never lose and will always have a reward,

 

[Turbulent]

just recently. i met up with some chick off okc, at a coffeeshop. i didn't buy her coffee. she had already gotten there before i did. so i just got myself something light to sip on. we hit it off and i'm sure she was into me. she really wasn't that pretty. she just had an ass that i liked. but she also has a weave and i really hate fake hair on women. like, i really hate it. anyway, i liked that we had chemistry. while we were chatting, a couple of women walked by that had some serious thickness to them. i had to look. lol. she got jealous and playfully chastised me to keep my eyes on her. the date was fun. I was willing to give her a chance.

anyway, at the end of the night, i told her we should meet up again. we set the date to be 2 days later. during those 2 days, it was evident from the texting that she was far into me than i was into her. which is good. i said very few words to her but enough to show i was "interested". if i didn't respond to a text, she'd hit me back with different variations of "helloooooo?".

so the day of the date arrived. she had sent me a text the night before but i wasn't able to reply because i had been occupied with another chick. and when that chick left, i was just too tired to be starting a convo so i went to sleep. anyway, the day of the agreed date arrived (the next day). and she texts me:

her: whats the plan for tonight
me: i dont know. im in the mood to dine out though. do u know of any good restaurants? im thinking olive garden
her: no, cheesecake factory
me: lol nah. u treating?
her: im old fashioned. i believe the man should treat the woman to the first date

*** this is where i just lost it. i was infuriated by that. if shes not treating, how dare she insist on going to a specific restaurant.***

me: oh yea convenient for u to say. u got some nerve saying that. i only suggested we go eat because im in the mood to dine, not to be "treating" u. u goto prove urself to be getting all that special treatment

her: dine? Olive Garden isn't a fine place for dinning. prove myself? ha, you requested my time for this evening, i'll take my nerve elsewhere since dining is "special treatment"

me: <this is where i hit her with the silence>

shortly after that, she removed her pictures from her OKC profile. lol. stupid b1tch. if she had just simply said yes to olive garden, i wouldn't have had an issue paying for her. none. but, her insisting on a specific place was just ridiculous.

i feel you but the red bold is where i would have very slowly changed the subject and proceed to gently drop her in the bushes but in a way to where she would wonder if it's because of that or not. i would let that shyt plague her mind. a more evil mind than mine would make her completely submit her mind body and soul if she even tries to come back

 

[MikelArteta]

I'ma tell ya'll something and its gonna sound like a broken record but it cant be said enough. "Working on yourself is all you should be doing.." I havent even sniffed my first paycheck yet and I'm already feeling myself that much more.

During lunch I went to Futureshop (best buy for americans) to get a Microsd card for my new phone. I picked up the card and went to pay at the cashier. By surprise i saw some random shorty cashiering that I tried to spit at in public (out of boredom during lunch last fall, shes a 6.5/10 at best). Shorty took my number and didnt even call or text me.

I paid for my shyt, got out of there and couldnt help but think to myself, "what the hell was I doing hollering at this chick before " as I walked out the store. Like damn, that was the same job I had when I was 17 years old (six years ago)..

Even more now do I realize that I'm the real prize out here. Nevermind these women who although they look average, and work a menial job making $11 an hour got dudes (like me formerly) hollering at them just because they're horny; leading the girls to think theyre the shyt as a result. I simply cant be bothered and havent been bothered for a while to try and bag a chick who I don't see as being a quality person outside of her looks. And that aint even to sound like a snob but being in a different tax bracket puts things into perspective. I've worked hard to be in my position so I'll demand a similar level of quality from whomever I'm messing with. Doesn't matter if its wifey or a booty call either.

No longer will it ever be "how fat is her ass?" or "how nice is her weave?"

It's a matter of:

"What did she study in university?" - Sociology? ---- Chemistry?
"How much debt does she likely have?" She's paying it down every month? , She's letting it sit while buying designer clothing and eating out for dinner every day?
"What does she do in her spare time?" Attention whores on twitter and IG? , Volunteers and goes to the gym?
"Whats her bread game like?" Salary Low hourly wage?

This goes out to dudes like @RealAssanova . The ends must justify the means. Leave the finicky, time wasting girls alone and focus on yourself. 'Cause when you focus on yourself and get results A) nothing else will even seem relevant anymore and B) nobody can take your progress away from you the same way they can take your girl..

That pay raise I got...until we enter another recession I probably wont have to take anything less than $60K that ever again. And itll keep increasing.

That girl you might smashed a couple months ago and the fat nut you bust on her forehead...where is it/she now? Your first real girlfriend? Where is she at now? That money you spent to pay for dinner or valentines gifts? Where are the gifts and food at now?

The ends don't justify the means with most of these women.

let me add to this
when you finally reach that stage its

your at the point whwere you sit back and realize what are these women offering besides looks and sex? what positives are they bringing to your life, if a relationship or women or anyhintg in life isn't adding positivity to your life what good is it?


Now I'm at the point in my life I won't even waste time messing with a chick who ain't a christian, or whose life isn't in order. Regardless if she's drop dead gorgeous, as i penned before chicks like these are just time wasters.

 

[jadillac]

Had my first date in 6 yrs with a non-black chick, last night. She was real cool and we had a good time.






I havent heard back from her today tho.

 

[TRUEST]

i feel you but the red bold is where i would have very slowly changed the subject and proceed to gently drop her in the bushes but in a way to where she would wonder if it's because of that or not. i would let that shyt plague her mind. a more evil mind than mine would make her completely submit her mind body and soul if she even tries to come back

i totally agree. the reason i blew up was i wasnt even into this chick. that nerve man. the nerve of her even suggesting that. but anyway, her having a weave was already a strike 1 and 2 and that was strike 3!

 

[Turbulent]

let me add to this
when you finally reach that stage its

your at the point whwere you sit back and realize what are these women offering besides looks and sex? what positives are they bringing to your life, if a relationship or women or anyhintg in life isn't adding positivity to your life what good is it?


Now I'm at the point in my life I won't even waste time messing with a chick who ain't a christian, or whose life isn't in order. Regardless if she's drop dead gorgeous, as i penned before chicks like these are just time wasters.

yup and there are no universal standards. i personally don't care that much how much a chick makes to be honest (cause i'm a simple guy myself). i know i could never get married with a chick that has a lot of debt though. as far as a chick's religion, i don't care that much either cause i'm not religious. but i could understand why someone would want a chick who makes a certain amount or who has the same religion. it's all about realizing that you have the right to set your own standard and criteria. and that you never have to settle. if the chick isn't bringing what you need, you don't have to pay her any attention at all. once you start paying attention to a woman, you're doing something for her, helping her get off. so choose wisely who you spend your attention on and base it on your own criteria and principles. do not cheapen the value of your attention by spreading it around freely to whoever. and above all, while the p*ssy gives them a sense of power, realize your own power. Your power is to withdraw the attention you once gave them. never let them feel entitled to your attention.

 

[MikelArteta]

yup and there are no universal standards. i personally don't care that much how much a chick makes to be honest (cause i'm a simple guy myself). i know i could never get married with a chick that has a lot of debt though. as far as a chick's religion, i don't care that much either cause i'm not religious. but i could understand why someone would want a chick who makes a certain amount or who has the same religion. it's all about realizing that you have the right to set your own standard and criteria. and that you never have to settle. if the chick isn't bringing what you need, you don't have to pay her any attention at all. once you start paying attention to a woman, you're doing something for her, helping her get off. so choose wisely who you spend your attention on and base it on your own criteria and principles. do not cheapen the value of your attention by spreading it around freely to whoever. and above all, while the p*ssy gives them a sense of power, realize your own power. Your power is to withdraw the attention you once gave them. never let them feel entitled to your attention.

yeah I don't care about what a woman makes, im frugal myself and i ain't no 6 figure guy. I care more about spending habits and debt, because anyone can upgrade themselves if necessary.

women think they are worth like 150 a barrel when in reality the sheer amount of them puts them in like domestic saudi Arabia oil prices