I like to see people pushing forward after heartbreak and failures. I like to see people being happy with a permanent moratorium on feeling down and out. I like to see people finding genuine true love that they deserve. I know first hand how heartbreak/relationships ending suck. I've been there - over and over and over again. And I know how much it can waver even an emotionally strong person. How you will have a streak of great days and yay finally over it then a trigger comes and your back feeling down and out. All I can say is keep pushing, statistically every failure brings you closer to success and oh that smile will come again.
At one point I could never fully fathom getting over the pain and disappointment to say the least as it would literally eat me up daily. How can I go from talking constantly to absolutely nothing at all, from strong emotions to having to neuter them. It became such a extreme shock to literally having to change my whole routine of life. However like all things in life, regardless of the good or the bad it truly passes if you so desire. Wallowing in the pits and mingling constantly with the negativity is easy - it's very simple and anyone can accomplish the feelings of just soaking in the hot tub of feeling sorry for yourself. However being happy, looking toward a future of genuine love, laughter, joy, peace and contentment takes work.
You don't need someone else to feel worthy or to feel complete. Life is its own beautiful venture regardless of your relationship status. When you are single you can be your own master. Do what you want to do, take your time if you don't feel like rushing into dating again or a relationship just because your friends are.
If you're a generally unhappy person at the moment, a relationship is not going to fix that. It will probably make it worse.
For a enriching relationship to work it takes two complete people. With both needing to mutually beneficial share their happiness together. Meaning each individual is responsible for bringing happiness to the table. Happiness that comes from within, not because of another. So forget what other individuals are doing. Other people always want everyone to be in their same situation and it's not always for the best of reasons. Instead take your time, learn from the experience that you have been through and build yourself up and refine yourself. Learn from whatever situation you find yourself in and exit it as a better individual, discover more values in people so you can build a more refined and complete concept of your ideal partner. Once you do that, strive to be the person you would expect your ideal partner would want - substance attracts substance. Finally go about your life doing as you please, live for yourself, keep a positive mindset and don't let old memories and emotions be a detriment or anchor on the present or the future. Just because one individual or a few does not want to be with you, should have no bearing on who you are as a person. You are great, caring and there is only one of you walking around. Don't let anger or hatred take up a spot in your heart and remember life is way too short for it to be wasted on someone who does not want you.
At one point I could never fully fathom getting over the pain and disappointment to say the least as it would literally eat me up daily. How can I go from talking constantly to absolutely nothing at all, from strong emotions to having to neuter them. It became such a extreme shock to literally having to change my whole routine of life. However like all things in life, regardless of the good or the bad it truly passes if you so desire. Wallowing in the pits and mingling constantly with the negativity is easy - it's very simple and anyone can accomplish the feelings of just soaking in the hot tub of feeling sorry for yourself. However being happy, looking toward a future of genuine love, laughter, joy, peace and contentment takes work.
You don't need someone else to feel worthy or to feel complete. Life is its own beautiful venture regardless of your relationship status. When you are single you can be your own master. Do what you want to do, take your time if you don't feel like rushing into dating again or a relationship just because your friends are.
If you're a generally unhappy person at the moment, a relationship is not going to fix that. It will probably make it worse.
For a enriching relationship to work it takes two complete people. With both needing to mutually beneficial share their happiness together. Meaning each individual is responsible for bringing happiness to the table. Happiness that comes from within, not because of another. So forget what other individuals are doing. Other people always want everyone to be in their same situation and it's not always for the best of reasons. Instead take your time, learn from the experience that you have been through and build yourself up and refine yourself. Learn from whatever situation you find yourself in and exit it as a better individual, discover more values in people so you can build a more refined and complete concept of your ideal partner. Once you do that, strive to be the person you would expect your ideal partner would want - substance attracts substance. Finally go about your life doing as you please, live for yourself, keep a positive mindset and don't let old memories and emotions be a detriment or anchor on the present or the future. Just because one individual or a few does not want to be with you, should have no bearing on who you are as a person. You are great, caring and there is only one of you walking around. Don't let anger or hatred take up a spot in your heart and remember life is way too short for it to be wasted on someone who does not want you.
, I've changed my whole life up, started working out twice a week, volunteering, tithing again in church, finally cut all ties with my ex, cut out toxic people out my life, let go off the hate and anger.
Parked a block down and got parking for $4 
fukking downtown ATL tryna tax nikkas. 
The cheapest thing was $15. Bill was over $100 when I know damn well I told my main chick (#1) that we gonna git Benihana. 
