Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I just checked my email and I got a email from HR at 4pm yesterday (friday) they want to take me toward the next step

have to fill out the criminal form, attach two photo ids and 3 references, brehs im crying :mjcry:

@Asantehene



Two years ago I was paying 800 a month for car insurance, had my ex draining my life my happiness, was just in a damn rut, thankful for my job but it was so far away from where I lived and I got shafted into a group where people tried to sabotage me, filled with anger and bitterness. Then :mjcry: God is so good :wow:, I've changed my whole life up, started working out twice a week, volunteering, tithing again in church, finally cut all ties with my ex, cut out toxic people out my life, let go off the hate and anger.

Now I'm so close to finally grasping what will turn my life totally around :wow:

never give up brehs, i cant lie i had zero faith i've been so used to disappointments,
 

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I wish we just had a "Journal" thread...

I took Girl #4 out tonight. Was supposed to hit up Ubar but I kept changing plans cause I was making $$$ late. Ended up cancelling on going to the club even tho we can a VIP table. ATL was tryna charge $20 for parking :damn: Parked a block down and got parking for $4 :comeon: fukking downtown ATL tryna tax nikkas.

Ended up hitting up Hard Rock Cafe. I thought it was a BW3's knock off. :snoop: The cheapest thing was $15. Bill was over $100 when I know damn well I told my main chick (#1) that we gonna git Benihana. :ufdup:
 

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I'm doin alright so I wanna see how I can help more instead of posting my recent successes here in Atlanta.

But this is Ground Zero. And to be a nikka really knockin these women off the way I am in a gold diggin city like the A make me feel like I can help instead of just posting my ongoings. So lets werk brehs.
 

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Note: If you don't have Usher's - Superstar in your fukk playlist early... no wonder you aint gettin no ass.

This shyt has been a common denominator for fine women that wanna fukk.

I'm tryna give as much up to date game as I can. Cuz I've been floating in p*ssy lately :manny:
 

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I'm not really sure what I want to do long-term with either girl I'm chillin and talkin with and I'm not stressin. I waited out Valentines Day. Did not want to go down that road. As you may recall after I was cheated on by my last gf I have been just taking things very slow and if they don't pan out who cares. My new perspective has changed things big time.

Few days ago I was at a different university working with this advocacy group and this Spanish girl was sitting by herself and I don't even know why I did it but I made a real lame jokey comment and she busted out laughing and I didn't even make a move, I kept walking along. Later in the day I see her again and she's looking over smiling so I just went right up and introduced myself and there ya go. Now I got another option. Wasn't even looking to make any moves that day.

I'm really liking being single right now.

Has your ex tried to get back to you afterwards?
 

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I'm doin alright so I wanna see how I can help more instead of posting my recent successes here in Atlanta.

But this is Ground Zero. And to be a nikka really knockin these women off the way I am in a gold diggin city like the A make me feel like I can help instead of just posting my ongoings. So lets werk brehs.

Its nothing wrong with posting success stories...

It just shows that it takes failures to get there...
 

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I wish we just had a "Journal" thread...

I took Girl #4 out tonight. Was supposed to hit up Ubar but I kept changing plans cause I was making $$$ late. Ended up cancelling on going to the club even tho we can a VIP table. ATL was tryna charge $20 for parking :damn: Parked a block down and got parking for $4 :comeon: fukking downtown ATL tryna tax nikkas.

Ended up hitting up Hard Rock Cafe. I thought it was a BW3's knock off. :snoop: The cheapest thing was $15. Bill was over $100 when I know damn well I told my main chick (#1) that we gonna git Benihana. :ufdup:

Man I just saw a report that its 80,000 more black women than black men in ATL. Man if I wasn't with my girl with my baby girl on the way I'd be down there quick. Are the women more aggressive there or is it the same as most places
 

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I just checked my email and I got a email from HR at 4pm yesterday (friday) they want to take me toward the next step

have to fill out the criminal form, attach two photo ids and 3 references, brehs im crying :mjcry:

@Asantehene



Two years ago I was paying 800 a month for car insurance, had my ex draining my life my happiness, was just in a damn rut, thankful for my job but it was so far away from where I lived and I got shafted into a group where people tried to sabotage me, filled with anger and bitterness. Then :mjcry: God is so good :wow:, I've changed my whole life up, started working out twice a week, volunteering, tithing again in church, finally cut all ties with my ex, cut out toxic people out my life, let go off the hate and anger.

Now I'm so close to finally grasping what will turn my life totally around :wow:

never give up brehs, i cant lie i had zero faith i've been so used to disappointments,

DAMN!
 

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I just checked my email and I got a email from HR at 4pm yesterday (friday) they want to take me toward the next step

have to fill out the criminal form, attach two photo ids and 3 references, brehs im crying :mjcry:

@Asantehene



Two years ago I was paying 800 a month for car insurance, had my ex draining my life my happiness, was just in a damn rut, thankful for my job but it was so far away from where I lived and I got shafted into a group where people tried to sabotage me, filled with anger and bitterness. Then :mjcry: God is so good :wow:, I've changed my whole life up, started working out twice a week, volunteering, tithing again in church, finally cut all ties with my ex, cut out toxic people out my life, let go off the hate and anger.

Now I'm so close to finally grasping what will turn my life totally around :wow:

never give up brehs, i cant lie i had zero faith i've been so used to disappointments,
crying for what :childplease:

and you should have your email synced to your phone :ufdup:

congrats breh. I know for sure theyre gonna be paying you greatly :salute:
 

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It's a lot of great knowledge being passed down here. We just have to remember though, all the knowledge in the world don't mean a thing unless we are able to apply it. I think too, sometimes we tend to over analyze women which prevents us from taking action. It's as if we become our own worst enemies in some situations. I've learned not to take women seriously and not become outcome dependent. Makes my interactions with women a lot easier.
 
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crying for what :childplease:

and you should have your email synced to your phone :ufdup:

congrats breh. I know for sure theyre gonna be paying you greatly :salute:

so used to disappointments
to finally sort of win for once :blessed:

not bad for a union gig :smugfavre:

just happy going from a 45 min drive to a max 15
 

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It's a lot a great knowledge being passed down here. We just have to remember though, all the knowledge in the world don't mean a thing unless we are able to apply it. I think too, sometimes we tend to over analyze women which prevents us from taking action. It's as if we become our own worst enemies in some situations. I've learned not to take women seriously and not become outcome dependent. Makes my interactions with women a lot easier.

There's no list of rules anyone can give you for the real world or dealing with women sometimes you have to improvise in the face of what you're confronted with.
Focus. Be 'appropriate'. Be fun and be defensive when it's appropriate.

While everyone is different, I've dated an array of women and when it comes down to it most are the same.
 

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There's no list of rules anyone can give you for the real world or dealing with women sometimes you have to improvise in the face of what you're confronted with.
Focus. Be 'appropriate'. Be fun and be defensive when it's appropriate.

While everyone is different, I've dated an array of women and when it comes down to it most are the same.

This is very true. Not all women are create equal so you definitely have to be on your toes at all times. I think for me, being in the Air Force and being overseas for 13 years, I've gained a bunch of experience from dealing with women so I'm able to be myself and not take interactions with them seriously and just go with the flow while at the same time maintaining a masculine frame.
 
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