Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think we need to find some more decent examples of women, like how Tia Mowry got at her husband and stood by him even when he wasn't famous... or look at the attitude of Reginald Lewis's wife Loida Lewis.


There was also one about Nipsey Hustle going to Africa and how he was treated by women over there.

she was laying the game down THICK

"reginald...he's african american...facing racism, discrimination...he goes out into the world fighting monsters...when he comes home, he must have an oasis."
:banderas:
 

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I thought i was supposed to be the semi cold showing no emotion one.
This girl is a new breed
 

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you're right. on everything. i'm still missing her, second guessing shyt like what if I had visited more or stayed up later to talk one more time, shyt like that.. but it doesn't matter.

I know I'm going to move on and live my life.. I wish I had cut her off, but she called that shot and said it would be best if we didn't talk for awhile and that she hoped one day we could be close as friends again.

I know I shouldn't miss her, or want her even. I know all this. And yet here I am, listening to PartyNextDoor's Wednesday Night Interlude like a simp

i hope u find a lot of sexually attractive women u can use to drown ur sorrows away. if u can, trust, u'll forget about this woman very quickly. and by very, i mean within days.
 

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she was laying the game down THICK

"reginald...he's african american...facing racism, discrimination...he goes out into the world fighting monsters...when he comes home, he must have an oasis."
:banderas:

that's what i call proper home training. u know her parents raised her well!
 

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Never be friends with someone you have romantic feelings for

This one is going to hurt for a lot of dudes. Especially to those who think the strongest form of a relationship is friendship.

Straight up Brehs, Let chicks know that you're interested in that you wanna get to know them, but you not trying to be friends yet. all that friend shyt, skip that.
 

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Men should be demanding more for women. The problem now is that the average man has such a low perception of his own self-worth that he is afraid to demand a woman uphold any kind of standard. A Loida Lewis or a Tia Mowry type woman is what we should be demanding. What man except a loser wouldn't uphold his side of the bargain for a woman that upheld her role as a woman?
 

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Being perfectly honest, to me it seems like dealing with a lot of these westernized women is backwards. If you're not engaging in a pattern of behavior that might possibly end you in jail, they get bored and ready to explore other territory.

What irks me is how many women simply engage in utterly disrespectful behavior to 'test you', and if you don't pass these little tests in their eyes, you are weak. I'd rather simply cut them off. You come around ignoring my calls or making slick comments, I'm not going to argue with you. I'm going to eventually cut you off. What bothers me is why can't these women come with the mindset of making me happy instead of the mindset of seeing what they can get away with? It's like you're the coach of a football team and the players who join the team are players who see how many practices they can skip and how many plays off they can take before someone gets on them. Who wants to be surrounded by that?

To me, it's not even about 'nice guys' anymore. If you're a stable dude who wants to minimize drama and just enjoy life, that's 'too boring'. You almost have to be bipolar or somewhat of a sociopath to keep a lot of these women entertained enough to stick around. Even Chris Brown and 2pac talked about getting hit with that 'but you're too nice' rhetoric. It's like the only thing these women care about is their emotional rollercoaster.

That's why I get on negroes talking that nonsense about throwing their woman away because she isn't the best in bed, but she's perfect everywhere else. Watch what happens as soon as she leaves and you can't find a woman that wants to be around for you just being you.


And to build off this dialogue, It doesn't help matters that you have many within the Community pandering to these broads and feeding them "it's the man's'fault bullshyt just to receive a pat in the head or because their too cowardly to really tell the truth about these imbalanced ass women.

I applaud all the cats here for keeping it 100 here because these young men out here are in such desperate need for this information.
 

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Women demand so much from men, height, security, stability, humor this and that

Men will take anything


Men should be demanding more for women. The problem now is that the average man has such a low perception of his own self-worth that he is afraid to demand a woman uphold any kind of standard. A Loida Lewis or a Tia Mowry type woman is what we should be demanding. What man except a loser wouldn't uphold his side of the bargain for a woman that upheld her role as a woman?
 
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Women demand so much from men, height, security, stability, humor this and that

Men will take anything
women are on that jay z shyt..."my presence is charity." they demand so much out of us, but all they need to do is show up. nothing of substance, no virtues, nothing interesting, all they have is whats between their legs. and that aint enough for me.

the reason why the game is fukked up is because men dont value themselves and they dont demand more out of women. if dudes woke up and said enough is enough and asked broads to bring more to the table, this shyt would change overnight.
 

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Relationships of any form should not be instigating constant burden and mayhem in your existence. Lacerate poisonous individuals out of your life for your own sake. Remember it’s all emotions; it’s all in your head/heart. You have been set free from this relationship/person the door is open and you can either rot in the emotional jail cell of pandemonium or you can rise up and depart and work towards living a life of tranquility. No one is binding you in that situation but you.


Life is full of ups and downs and individuals/situations are constantly changing. Nothing in life is certain and etched in stone, feelings can fade, honesty can turn into lies. So don’t I repeat don’t attach your happiness and self worth to another. It's always a massive miscalculation, your happiness must come from within – thus it can never be taken away. Love yourself, value yourself, maintain your boundaries, remain positive and steadfast –keep the faith and push forward!
 

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I guess yu can blame Simps for that but why? :mindblown: Why have beta males made this much impact?

breakdown of a father figure, some of the biggest attention whores seeking validation, expecting all this and a bag of chips female were raised in broken homes, and some of the most emasculated nice guy simps as well. It's a two way street :wow:
 

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I'm glad to see the fellas in here starting to value themselves more. Look at what's going on in Japan. I'm not saying to take the Japanese approach, but it's more along the fact that they aren't giving women all the attention that a thirsty western man would give and thus you have those women over there actively seeking men out.

Men get treated like trash out in the West because we allow ourselves to. We have no 'standard of conduct' a woman must abide by if she is to be in our presence. The average guy's only mission is to get her time and he's willing to accept any abuse for it. You simply have to make your company 'select'. Anyone can't get into Harvard... you have to have certain qualifications for that. If we want quality women who treat us right, we simply have to be quality men, which gives us justification. Once we have justification, then we can demand that those women meet us at our level. It's time to stop dwelling in the gutter or letting anyone drag you down there.

That's one of my qualms with that PUA style stuff. Instead of demanding a woman step up to their level, they emulate this deviant concoction of manhood that comes from a modern woman's perverted desires. The less time you spend worrying about some alpha nonsense and whether you are 'demonstrating value' to a woman. The more time you actually spend building value and demanding a woman bring value to a table if she is to deal with you, the better. YOU run this, not her. She needs to mold herself to your standard, not the other way around.
 
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