Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm all for girls persistently telling you that they want you (back) but when it's going on for the better part of a year, it becomes mentally draining.
 

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This year im building a circle of a certified squad strictly no fukk boys.

I just came home from a night out with these two guys both who always complain about not getting girls ect so we go to this bar they wanted to go since one of them starting hyping about how he was going to pull girls there which he didn't as normal. When we're about to leave i scope a group of 6 good looking girls, you know the type where literally everyone is at least a 6+ and doesn't have that fat or ugly friend and i see them talking to two guys fast forward i make my move and start spiting game to one of them everything is going good and i even convince 3 of them to roll with me and my boys to the next spot. We get to the next spot and one of them is like fukk them ect and i was like no we have them hooked (all thanks to my work) or they would have not split up and went with us. Long story short me another guy keeps dancing while another guy makes out with one fat chick.

Not even going to lie im mad these fukk boys fukked up a chance for all of us smashing a girl each while one guy got to make out with one another fat chick while me and the other guy stood around like dikkheads:francis:


Thank god im moving home soon I've been rolling with guys with no heart too much.
 

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how do you maintain the spark in a relationship?

i've been with my girl for more than a year now and there's complacency in our relationship, tonight I was honestly pretty bored, we just watched tv. i just don't want her to forget why she fell in love me. it's hard because she fell in love with me and I am who I am. girls always want the new and fresh feeling. i always remind her how much I love her.
 

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Do something different.

Relationships like anything that grows need nurturing.

Can be as little as say telling her to dress up and going out to dinner to a place you never been before, booking a hotel overnjhht downtwn or as big as a vacation.

Especially in this generation a bored women stuck in a routine is a dangerous thing .

Actions >>> words

I think that what happens with a lot of couples is when they get together, passion and lust are very strong between the two. But they have to work on other aspects of the relationship, because if you don't; once that passion and lust wears away and the honeymoon phase of the relationship ends, sometimes you're left looking at a total stranger. The goal should be, that when the honeymoon phase is over, you should be left looking at your best friend.





how do you maintain the spark in a relationship?

i've been with my girl for more than a year now and there's complacency in our relationship, tonight I was honestly pretty bored, we just watched tv. i just don't want her to forget why she fell in love me. it's hard because she fell in love with me and I am who I am. girls always want the new and fresh feeling. i always remind her how much I love her.
 

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if I was in a relationship or marriage I probably would hhave stuck with my old job. I'd be comfortable and take the safe route of keep my benefits, 4 weeks vacay and my years of job security and easy schedule (Friday half days), never having to stay later or do ot but now i have no benefits for awhile, probably wont get any vacation for a long ass while, my hours could be long as hell as its busy now

everything happens for a reason :blessed:

my goals of a new job getting in shape, writing more, volunteering, getting mor einvolved with church

all completed 2 months in :blessed:

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