Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Shameonyou
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ill post something
aight theres this girl I've been vibing with like very very in tune with one another...only thing is my shallow side is taking over, I feel I can get a better looking girl, however, I doubt we would click over me and the one im vibing with right now...
I dont know what to do man, I preach all this modest upstanding shyt in the quick gems thread, but im still fighting my shallow battles...should I go for the better looking chick? What should I do man.
I really like the other girl though, shes a sweetheart.
aight theres this girl I've been vibing with like very very in tune with one another...only thing is my shallow side is taking over, I feel I can get a better looking girl, however, I doubt we would click over me and the one im vibing with right now...
I dont know what to do man, I preach all this modest upstanding shyt in the quick gems thread, but im still fighting my shallow battles...should I go for the better looking chick? What should I do man.
I really like the other girl though, shes a sweetheart.
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
looks fade. personality (good or bad) is forever. date the chick that you click with.
Looks fade, the older you get the less somewhat looks matter. Not saying wifing a fat broad or a ugly looking broad, but a average 6ish with a great personality and morals trumps a better looking chick lacking those in the long run.
Many men and I have been one of them go for the better looking broad then as time goes on you realized you messed up.
Digs in crate from story from reincar past, posted this in another thread before
the great white buffalo yep
"and you dont know what you got till its gone"
man i remember i was like 19 and deathly sick one day and this chick took the bus over an hour to come and make me tea and soup. The sweetest girl I ever met, religious was waiting for marriage like i was at the time, wasn't a knockout but was very naturally pretty, but i was a demonic individual back then brehs I knew she liked me alot, but I,wasn't schooled in the game and all i cared about was looks and having the prettiest girl on my arm so i dumped her but she still was ok with being friends that sweet ol heart, however i remember it was just like yesterday breh the girl i just started dating told me at the time it was her or my great white buffalo and i chose her, so i stopped talking to the sweetest girl i ever met
Years later I stalked her fb and shes married now working in south america as a missionary with her husband and kids, while i'm single, living at home posting on message boards
I even messaged her a few years back and she was ah still so nice and told me to keep in touch but i never did
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Shameonyou
All Star
thanks for the wakeup call my dudes, sometimes I need to hear it from someone else
when your relationship is over its over. once it reaches that point and its ended anything you carry past that is baggage from the past including what you call heartbreak. you choose how you feel about your failed relationship you don't have to walk away with heartbreak you could just as easy walk away from a failed relationship with anger, hatred, and bitterness your heart and never feel heart break. you could walk away and feel relief also.
you set the parameter that you're not gonna feel ok about this till you get with all these other women. they have nothing to do with your failed relationship though and they aren't going to make you feel better. they can't replace what you had. you'll never have that exact same thing again. in the end its you who feels better because you decide to.
its like the person that says when i achieve x in life then i'll be happy. what they're really doing is stopping their own happiness and placing a stipulation on allowing themselves to feel that way.
Scustin Trillberlake
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The New ******
There was a time in the history of my country, when an entire demographic group was regularly pushed aside and disregarded legally and socially. That group had some but not all of the rights that were granted to the rest of society and the rights they did have were ignored and denied with shocking regularity. Each member of the lower class was socially valued by how well they were liked and how useful the were to their superiors, the privileged class.
Members of the lower class were best advised to mind their manners around their betters. It was best not to say things their superiors wouldnt like and in some cases it was advisable to avoid looking directly at them.
The lower class of people were expected to accept their treatment and some of them seemed to. It seems odd that anyone would accept their systemic mistreatment and abuse, but who could blame them, it was the safest thing to do. Those who fell in line and did their part to keep the superiors happy suffered less abuse than those who did not. It was easier to keep your head down and if asked a question or spoken to, it was safest to smile and say whatever the superior wanted to hear.
As is the case with any oppressed people the lower class became angry. Some of the lower class people became disobedient. They had the very laughable goal of equality. Those of the lower class who complained were troublemakers. Any member of the privileged class who supported those troublemakers were traitors.
There were words the upper class used to keep those lower beings in line, and check those whod forgotten their place. One of these words seemed more effective than the others.
******.
That was what they were, after all.
******s werent the same as human beings. They were legally and socially less than the privileged class. ******s could be harmed and the police probably wouldnt help them. ******s were subject to vigilante justice.
I dont know if it happened on a conscious level but I do not doubt that when a ****** was reminded that he was in fact a ******, he realized he had stepped out of bounds and if a privileged citizen decided to punish him, there would be no help for him. That little reminder must have done wonders to shut an uppity ****** up.
The word was used so often that, it seems, it lost its effectiveness. ******s learned to ignore the word, it didnt hurt as much and sometimes it simply made them angry. The magic was gone and it was just another word, like stupid, or ugly.
In that time of social unrest there was a member of that lower class named Melvin B. Tolson. If you dont know who that is, look up the Forensic Society Debaters of Wiley College and you will learn that he was a troublemaker who dared to think that lower class people should be allowed to hold civil debate with the privileged class.
It was a rather unpopular idea which met great opposition. However when he did succeed in arranging for the oppressed to debate their superiors, the lower class people won. Looking back that is not surprising, the lower class were morally correct. What I find most interesting about their victory is the amount of struggle it took for the matter to reach debate.
The privileged class seemed to believe that the lower class were just dumb ******s, but I believe that was an excuse. I think that the privileged people knew that the societal norms were wrong and that everyone would realize it if the lower class people were ever allowed to show their intelligence. If the lower class showed the public that they were not dumb and dangerous, the injustices against them would be unnecessary and cruel.
It would be revealed that the privileged upper class were the ignorant, dangerous fools.
The opposition to a simple debate came from a fear of exposure.
You may believe that such societal norms and treatment are a thing of the past. That sort of thing could never go unchallenged today. People are more enlightened now Right?
But I see it.
I see an entire class of people who can be harmed by a member of a privileged class and there is no help for them. They can be legally abused and everyone looks the other way. There are those members of the lower class who try to make themselves as useful to their superiors as possible or keep their heads down unless spoken to and then hed better say what ever pleases his superior, that is the safest way to behave.
I hear the privileged use a few words to try and keep the troublemakers in line. One seems to be a particular favorite.
Misogynist.
Misogynists arent the same as other human beings. You dont have to listen to anything a misogynist says. They arent allowed the same rights as everyone else. Debate with the superiors? Pfft, what for? They are just a bunch of angry misogynists after all.
Dont talk to me because you hate women ******.
Their misogynistic posters got torn down? Serves the ******s right!
Debate? No, they are dangerous nig- oops, I mean, misogynists.
Of course this refusal and opposition to the very idea of debate has NOTHING at all to do with the knowledge that the people they call misogynists really do have something to complain about. This opposition isnt fear this time right? Its legitimate concern that the people you so flagrantly antagonize, openly taunt and yet who have done nothing at all to harm you, will suddenly go ape-shyt and assault a helpless innocent member of the privileged class.
Its okay to wave weapons at them, because theyre misogynists.
Its okay to silence them. They are just misogynists.
Its totally cool to disregard them cause you know theyre misogynists, and everyone knows it.
You dont have to treat the misogynists like human beings, so it isnt bigotry. Everyone knows misogynists dont get rights.
I can only hope that using this word to silence and shame someone you disagree with someday reaches the same public regard as coming right out and calling your opponent ******.
The New ****** | A Voice for Men
The New ******
There was a time in the history of my country, when an entire demographic group was regularly pushed aside and disregarded legally and socially. That group had some but not all of the rights that were granted to the rest of society and the rights they did have were ignored and denied with shocking regularity. Each member of the lower class was socially valued by how well they were liked and how useful the were to their superiors, the privileged class.
Members of the lower class were best advised to mind their manners around their betters. It was best not to say things their superiors wouldnt like and in some cases it was advisable to avoid looking directly at them.
The lower class of people were expected to accept their treatment and some of them seemed to. It seems odd that anyone would accept their systemic mistreatment and abuse, but who could blame them, it was the safest thing to do. Those who fell in line and did their part to keep the superiors happy suffered less abuse than those who did not. It was easier to keep your head down and if asked a question or spoken to, it was safest to smile and say whatever the superior wanted to hear.
As is the case with any oppressed people the lower class became angry. Some of the lower class people became disobedient. They had the very laughable goal of equality. Those of the lower class who complained were troublemakers. Any member of the privileged class who supported those troublemakers were traitors.
There were words the upper class used to keep those lower beings in line, and check those whod forgotten their place. One of these words seemed more effective than the others.
******.
That was what they were, after all.
******s werent the same as human beings. They were legally and socially less than the privileged class. ******s could be harmed and the police probably wouldnt help them. ******s were subject to vigilante justice.
I dont know if it happened on a conscious level but I do not doubt that when a ****** was reminded that he was in fact a ******, he realized he had stepped out of bounds and if a privileged citizen decided to punish him, there would be no help for him. That little reminder must have done wonders to shut an uppity ****** up.
The word was used so often that, it seems, it lost its effectiveness. ******s learned to ignore the word, it didnt hurt as much and sometimes it simply made them angry. The magic was gone and it was just another word, like stupid, or ugly.
In that time of social unrest there was a member of that lower class named Melvin B. Tolson. If you dont know who that is, look up the Forensic Society Debaters of Wiley College and you will learn that he was a troublemaker who dared to think that lower class people should be allowed to hold civil debate with the privileged class.
It was a rather unpopular idea which met great opposition. However when he did succeed in arranging for the oppressed to debate their superiors, the lower class people won. Looking back that is not surprising, the lower class were morally correct. What I find most interesting about their victory is the amount of struggle it took for the matter to reach debate.
The privileged class seemed to believe that the lower class were just dumb ******s, but I believe that was an excuse. I think that the privileged people knew that the societal norms were wrong and that everyone would realize it if the lower class people were ever allowed to show their intelligence. If the lower class showed the public that they were not dumb and dangerous, the injustices against them would be unnecessary and cruel.
It would be revealed that the privileged upper class were the ignorant, dangerous fools.
The opposition to a simple debate came from a fear of exposure.
You may believe that such societal norms and treatment are a thing of the past. That sort of thing could never go unchallenged today. People are more enlightened now Right?
But I see it.
I see an entire class of people who can be harmed by a member of a privileged class and there is no help for them. They can be legally abused and everyone looks the other way. There are those members of the lower class who try to make themselves as useful to their superiors as possible or keep their heads down unless spoken to and then hed better say what ever pleases his superior, that is the safest way to behave.
I hear the privileged use a few words to try and keep the troublemakers in line. One seems to be a particular favorite.
Misogynist.
Misogynists arent the same as other human beings. You dont have to listen to anything a misogynist says. They arent allowed the same rights as everyone else. Debate with the superiors? Pfft, what for? They are just a bunch of angry misogynists after all.
Dont talk to me because you hate women ******.
Their misogynistic posters got torn down? Serves the ******s right!
Debate? No, they are dangerous nig- oops, I mean, misogynists.
Of course this refusal and opposition to the very idea of debate has NOTHING at all to do with the knowledge that the people they call misogynists really do have something to complain about. This opposition isnt fear this time right? Its legitimate concern that the people you so flagrantly antagonize, openly taunt and yet who have done nothing at all to harm you, will suddenly go ape-shyt and assault a helpless innocent member of the privileged class.
Its okay to wave weapons at them, because theyre misogynists.
Its okay to silence them. They are just misogynists.
Its totally cool to disregard them cause you know theyre misogynists, and everyone knows it.
You dont have to treat the misogynists like human beings, so it isnt bigotry. Everyone knows misogynists dont get rights.
I can only hope that using this word to silence and shame someone you disagree with someday reaches the same public regard as coming right out and calling your opponent ******.
The New ****** | A Voice for Men
listen,i've read some of your past posts. and i know where ur coming from. if i remember correctly, aren't u the same poster who walked in on his girl fuccking someone else?
see, i can imagine the trauma that must have done to u.
i dont live in a unrealistic world. i live in the world of reality. and reality states that if ur feeling broken hearted, moping around like a lil b1tch aint the way to go.
if ur with a b1tch and ur busy thinking of ur ex, then the b1tch ur with just wasn't fine enough. memories can be recreated...with the right person.
u can keep living ur life the way u have, but i'm telling u right now, it aint gon get u no where. from ur posts, i gather that u've resigned urself to a destiny of doom and ur trying to recruit others to follow suit. that's a sad way to live.
we've all been through heartache. but while life can be harsh on u at times, it can also be tremendously loving as well.
if you can, surround urself with high quality women and heartache will flee from u. if ur unable to get high quality women, surround urself with n1ggas who can. hang with the n1ggas women flock to. be around those n1ggas. i'm telling u man, im just a stranger to u on these forums. but given the number of posts from u that i have read, it is in ur best interest to change paths now!
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Women wanna be equal.Well shoot,be equal and pay 50% of this bill 
