Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What I noticed is that a lot of my boys, while in state, hardly had long-term women. They sort of did their thing with them and left them. All of a sudden, they leave the country and now they are with a woman for years. Obviously some highly westernized place is going to be similar to America, but from one of my boys who is over in Afghanistan right now, he tells me that the attitude from the Kenyan women he met on his job is completely different from what you get here.

:whoo:

America in General

People live to work. Life has no meaning without work. One is defined by their economic function.

Cost of living crazily expensive.

Women are selfish entitlement queens.

Gangsta-worshipping thug culture.

People are segregated and paranoid of each other.

Default ice barrier between strangers. Every man is an island. People are polite but distant. Lack of human connection. One feels "alone" amongst crowds.

Friendships are superficial and fleeting.* People drift apart easily.* Few people stick through thick and thin.

Smiles and greetings are fake, artificial and contrived.*

One must always pretend that everything is going great and that one is always "having a great day", even if it's not true.

Segregated competitive vibe makes one feel fragmented, stressed, alone and insecure.

Human relationships feel artificial and superficial, mostly based on usefulness.

Meeting people restricted to cliques, school and work. The average person does not know many people and their dating choices are very limited.

Women are conditioned to despise men and look down on them as fools, predators and criminals.

Females do not want to look or act feminine. They are angry, spoiled and self-centered.

Single men outnumber single women. (Possibly due to influx of male immigrant workers) Many studies and statistics confirm this. Thus there is an imbalance which leaves a lot of men out and intensifies competition among men.

Women have too many choices and become super picky, rejecting 99 percent of their admirers. They think they are too good for everyone and have unrealistic standards.

Attractive women always unavailable. Every attractive girl you meet tells you that she's taken or not looking.

Most women are overweight. Those that aren't are considered hot and nearly unattainable, as everyone wants them. So the choices for men suck.

Dating is unnatural and a constant uphill battle. You have to have "game" or master "techniques" to try to get women, or wait forever to "get lucky".

Quality attractive single women without emotional baggage or issues are rare or unattainable.

Women have an inner resistance toward relationships with men. Their subconscious attitude repels attachment to men.

Attractive girls cannot hold a real intelligent conversation. They act like airheads and have few interests. You have to "play games" to keep their attention.

Sex and getting laid with attractive women is difficult or near impossible.

Man-hating culture induces hatred of masculinity and men to act less masculine.

Men do not feel appreciated, wanted or needed.

Niceness is not rewarded. It is seen as a weakness to trample on. Women see it as weak, needy and desperate.

Women use "nice" to describe guys they are not interested in and have nothing good to say about.

People you meet online are usually overweight and unattractive, or losers with dysfunctional personalities. Experiences are almost always negative. Attractive women use them just to enjoy the attention.

Co-workers don't usually eat together during lunch, but go their separate ways.

Healthcare costs overpriced and out of control, many are not covered.

Foods are fatty, artificial, unhealthy, and contain processed white flour. Organic foods are expensive health which only the rich can afford. Some reports say that food has been genetically modified to make us sick, insane and tense.

Going out alone makes you look like a loser to others, and you stay alone.

When you move to a new place in the US, it can take months or years (or never) just to find a few regular friends.

A man is not allowed to signal interest in a woman unless she signals her interest first, or he will come across as creepish, perverted and inappropriate.

An ever growing number of people don't bother to make time for their friends or relatives.

When you have a mental/emotional breakdown, most or all of your friends will not want to hear about it, so you have to pay a therapist or counselor, who will often prescribe antidepressants, which is unheard of in the rest of the world.

Kids do not respect their parents or each other, but mock and downplay them. They rarely see their parents after they reach adulthood.
 

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Comparison to...

People work to LIVE! In Europe, Latin America and Australia, people live for experiences and adventure.

Cost of living affordable or cheap.

Women are easy...going.

Centuries of amazing history.

People are more open, inclusive and connected.

Natural connectedness and instant familiarity between strangers. Social atmosphere more flowing and inclusive. One doesn't feel alone even when physically alone.

Friendships are deeper and truer, more like the kind you see in Disney movies and stories.

Smiles are genuine if people choose to show one.

One is not required to always pretend that everything is great. One is allowed to feel whatever one truly feels.

Natural vibe makes one feel at ease with themselves and others, allowing you to "be yourself".

Human relationships feel truer and more natural, based on a feeling of "shared connection"

Meeting people is not restricted to cliques, school and work. The average person knows more people and their dating prospects are wider with more choices.

Women respect and need men. They love to provide support and tenderness to their man.

Females are proud to be look, act, and dress feminine. They are sweet and affectionate.

In poorer countries, single women outnumber single men, giving men more choices and driving up competition among women, thus giving men the upper hand, keeping women less spoiled, more feminine and beautiful.

Women value good men and do not think that everyone is not good enough for them. They are more down to earth and real about themselves and others.

You can always find attractive girls around who tell you they are single and available.

Overweight women are rare. Height and weight proportionate is the norm. So you can take it for granted that the females you meet will be too.

Dating occurs naturally and mutually - meeting, flirting, expressing interest, holding hands, kissing, etc. happens naturally with the flow.

Quality attractive single women without emotional baggage or issues are common.

Women dream of and long for a man to capture their heart whom they can love, support and cherish.

Attractive girls can hold a normal intelligent conversation and are down to earth. Interacting with them feels natural. They have more interests.

Sex and getting laid with attractive women comes more naturally.

Culture and women admire and respect men and masculinity.

Men feel appreciated, wanted and needed.

Niceness from men is appreciated and rewarded. It counts and wins actual points with women.

Being nice is a quality that counts, is appreciated and reciprocated.

It is common to meet quality sincere people online, including attractive females. There is no loser stigma associated with it. Experiences are usually positive, whether there is a "love connection" or not.

Co-workers usually eat together and congregate in a spirit of camaraderie.

Healthcare costs are a fraction of what they are in the US, and either affordable or free.

Food is more natural and wholesome. Even cheap food is usually healthy and organic, the equivalent of expensive health food in the US. You don't have to go to expensive health food stores to eat healthy like you do in the US.

Going out alone is ok and it is easy to meet people in casual public places.

When you go to a new place, making new friends is immediate, natural and part of the flow of things.

A man is allowed to signal interest in a woman first and expected to pursue her, and if he does it in a good manner, he comes across as charming and flattering.

People make time for their friends, family and relatives, no matter how busy they are.

When people have problems or feel depressed, they have a close friend/relative to talk to. No one has to see a mental health professional or take antidepressants. That is unheard of and primarily an "American thing".

Kids respect their parents and each other more than their American counterparts do. They remain close to their parents into adulthood and take care of them.
 

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aye reincar, you know what that girl told me that i dated that slept in the bed with the other dude when i told her she constantly craves male attention?

"you dont know what its like to be sexually molested at the age of 3"

i lol'ed
 

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aye reincar, you know what that girl told me that i dated that slept in the bed with the other dude when i told her she constantly craves male attention?

"you dont know what its like to be sexually molested at the age of 3"

i lol'ed

Women who have been molested or raped, view sex and cheating like nothing stay away
 

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"The key for guys to remember is that all women are net energy sinks; you will never get more out of them than you put into them (so don’t waste your energy on them).

Therefore, the only valuable position they can occupy in your life is one of employee; employed to help you do what you decide is important.

If you put your life in the hands of a woman, she will suck all the energy out of you and you will have nothing to show for it.

Being a man means never being afraid to tell a woman: “You're fired."
 

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:oooh: this thread has now reached legendary status. This shyt is bigger than getting bytches, if you think about it. Some of the things that Reincar said is true. Most of the chicks I dated was because I was introduced to by some other person.

Can't wait for me to go overseas next year.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
:oooh: this thread has now reached legendary status. This shyt is bigger than getting bytches, if you think about it. Some of the things that Reincar said is true. Most of the chicks I dated was because I was introduced to by some other person.

Can't wait for me to go overseas next year.


Going out of the country is eye opening, especially to places where the divorce rate is low and women outnumber men.
 

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" if a guy steps on a land mine and gets his leg blown off, it never grows back. The deep, overwhelming, all-consuming love that a young man is capable of feeling for a woman is only possible from a state of innocence and the ability to trust absolutely. Once a man has had that love used one too many times to exploit him and screw him over, he loses his ability to trust in it. Use something as a weapon against a man too many times, and he will find a way to disarm you."

:wow:
 

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Alot of women cannot make the connection between their actions in the moment and the consequences in the next

Women's big mistake has been in CHOOSING jerks, and then when the jerks jerk them around, bashing ALL men, including the less aggressive guys who stood by quietly wishing some of those girls would pay some attention to them, instead of the jerks. And, then rubbing salt in the wounds by using the nice guy as an emotional tampon to be the audience for their fine rendition of "the victim's lament" UNTIL the next jerk shows up for them to spread their legs for.

only one out of six chambers of the gun is loaded in Russian Roulette, but you still don't see everyone playing it. The 16.67% of getting your brains blown out is still far better than the approximately 40% chance a man has of having his life destroyed by a relationship with a woman.



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man every bytch likes a jerk/challenge

how do you find that fine balance between that

luckily ive never been a needy type but a nikka could use some pointers :aicmon:
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
man every bytch likes a jerk/challenge

how do you find that fine balance between that

luckily ive never been a needy type but a nikka could use some pointers :aicmon:

Just seem distant, you don't need to be a jerk if you're "mysterious" and "hard to read". If you're difficult to figure out, you're different from the rest.
 

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Why do some women try to strong arm you into a relationship?

I'd been dealing with this one girl a couple of months, she said she wanted to wait with the sex, cool no problem... Then she started acting all fukked up, being mad at me, passive aggressive n shyt, talkin bout "ur playing hard to get and cant make ur mind up" makin threats about leaving...

Im like :noah: ... and I let her go :to:
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
Why do some women try to strong arm you into a relationship?

I'd been dealing with this one girl a couple of months, she said she wanted to wait with the sex, cool no problem... Then she started acting all fukked up, being mad at me, passive aggressive n shyt, talkin bout "ur playing hard to get and cant make ur mind up" makin threats about leaving...

Im like :noah: ... and I let her go :to:


Hate to say it, but she probably found another dude and was just trying to come up with reasons to stop talking to you. That's why the flip switched and she tried to come up with reasons to get into a fight with you, she wanted to feel better about it so causing arguments is the way to go for them.
 
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