Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Going to the annual company party tonight. shyts going to be piff. On a boat with live djs three bars on deck and dinner being served. I wanted to take this Becky I used to work with but it seemed like she wanted to take her friend too :childplease:

Me- My work is having their company party Sunday night and I was wondering if you would like to be my date? Me and some co workers are probably going to hit the club afterwards.

Her - My friend and I were planning on heading to that club afterwards.

Me - I can only bring one date :francis:

Her- *long delay* Im going to a soccer game at 9:30 (the party starts at 8) .I'm sorry.

Me- Its cool. I just had an extra ticket and the girl I was supposed to take had something come up. (I'm lying about the other girl)

Her- Awe, that sucks. I'll probably see you at the club later then.

Me- Yeah, maybe I'll see you then.

I had the feeling that ol girl wanted her friend to go with her on some chaperone shyt :camby:

I had free passes for the club but I didn't tell her. I don't think Im going clubbing later after all . I got work in the morning and the night would turn into looking for her there. fukk that.

Hate how so many women nowadays would rather have their friends tag along on dates :stopitslime:
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf @Atlrocafella @kevm3 and a couple other brehs, I need ASAP advice..

I got this NY slim pretty petite chick (5'0") with a sex operator-type voice, that wants to come and drink at the crib. The only thing is, she's all the way in Acworth and I'm in the Cumberland ATL area (30 mins/23 miles one way).

She has no car :snoop:

I've flaked on this chick numerous times and yesterday she sent a pic of her in bra and panties :noah:
Shes cute but I got about 4 other women on the team, but she really likes me and this would be like taking candy from a baby. I just cant see myself driving out there today just to take her ass back. Especially not if she stays the night since I work ten hour days and shes out of the way.

Would yall go thru w/ it? If not, I need a damn good excuse cause shes not gonna wanna talk to me after this :manny:
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf @Atlrocafella @kevm3 and a couple other brehs, I need ASAP advice..

I got this NY slim pretty petite chick (5'0") with a sex operator-type voice, that wants to come and drink at the crib. The only thing is, she's all the way in Acworth and I'm in the Cumberland ATL area (30 mins/23 miles one way).

She has no car :snoop:

I've flaked on this chick numerous times and yesterday she sent a pic of her in bra and panties :noah:
Shes cute but I got about 4 other women on the team, but she really likes me and this would be like taking candy from a baby. I just cant see myself driving out there today just to take her ass back. Especially not if she stays the night since I work ten hour days and shes out of the way.

Would yall go thru w/ it? If not, I need a damn good excuse cause shes not gonna wanna talk to me after this :manny:

It's up to you man.
what do you have to lose half hour of your time and some gas?

the only danger to me would be making it a habit, ala your always going there picking her up etc. etc.

Life is short when opportunities present themselves take it
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf @Atlrocafella @kevm3 and a couple other brehs, I need ASAP advice..

I got this NY slim pretty petite chick (5'0") with a sex operator-type voice, that wants to come and drink at the crib. The only thing is, she's all the way in Acworth and I'm in the Cumberland ATL area (30 mins/23 miles one way).

She has no car :snoop:

I've flaked on this chick numerous times and yesterday she sent a pic of her in bra and panties :noah:
Shes cute but I got about 4 other women on the team, but she really likes me and this would be like taking candy from a baby. I just cant see myself driving out there today just to take her ass back. Especially not if she stays the night since I work ten hour days and shes out of the way.

Would yall go thru w/ it? If not, I need a damn good excuse cause shes not gonna wanna talk to me after this :manny:
youre overloaded right now with the roster, unless she can replace someone on the team I'd just cancel and say you coming down with the cold. Season changing and shyt :manny:

and burning that gas too? you not in desperate need cause you got other options.
 

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It's up to you man.
what do you have to lose half hour of your time and some gas?

the only danger to me would be making it a habit, ala your always going there picking her up etc. etc.

Life is short when opportunities present themselves take it
It's just I think I'm past the "notch on the belt" shyt.

Starting to demand more from these women. The same way these women talk all that "He needs to be a 6 foot educated street guy with $_____ salary and (insert unrealistic bullshyt here)"...

if they don't have a car then :childplease:
 
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youre overloaded right now with the roster, unless she can replace someone on the team I'd just cancel and say you coming down with the cold. Season changing and shyt :manny:

and burning that gas too? you not in desperate need cause you got other options.
Yeah she just called. Told her I got Kennesaw and Acworth mixed up and didnt feel like going back and forth twice. I had the depressed voice down pat :lolbron:

I just dont got the time. Appreciate the brehs comin thru during a clutch moment. :salute:
 

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I'm about to travel to Japan in about a week :blessed:.

The girl over there gonna just be an experience for the time being. I already told her that and she said so herself as she will be leaving JPN in a few years anyway to go study in AUS so she wouldn't be seeing me anyway. :yeshrug: I told her straight up that I'm sure she'll probably find someone else before she leaves for AUS anyway and I'll probably be a passing memory and she's like "I don't know...". Best to just leave these situations to whatever happens.


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You're handling that well man.

A few yrs back, i met some Australian chik at a happy hr. We hooked up that night and she end up spending all her remaining nights in town, over at my house. This was for like a full week before she left the states. She was pretty much traveling the world. So every place she went to after, she made sure that we's Skype. I was into her but not like she was into me. When she got back to Australia she kept asking me when I'd come out to see her. She was a real pretty chik and very cool and guarded when it came to guys, so once we had sex she really got attached. This was like 3yrs ago when me and my current girl were only friends. Well, time goes on and now we both are taken but from time to time we do chat. Nothing romantic at all, but we cherish those moment, it's all a part of life.

Life is all about making memories. There are so many people you will meet in the future. I say just take it as it comes and not to expect too much out of everyone. After 2 major relationships in my 20's, I started putting myself out there and enjoying life when it came to women. Started traveling more, and I won't even lie, knowing a chik somewhere distant was such a reason for me to take these trips. One of my fav and chilled vacas was about 5yrs ago when I was coming back from visiting my bro in FL, I sat next to this pretty chik and we just started chatting and hit it off. Exchanged info, cause she was catching a connecting flight in NYC to Africa. So after that day I never really thought about her and plus i lost her info that day. Randomly close to a year later she hoi me up on FB....next thing I know I book a flight to San Diego to check her. We went half on a nice hotel for 3 days in the little Italy part of San Diego, then 3 days at her house. Man she was cool as shyt and very good looking. Slender, flexible, Vegan, bud smoker and we had a lot of good sex. Great memories. So just take those travel opportunities and make the best of them.
 

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need an opinion on something: there was a girl i was fooling with a few weeks back who was "going through a divorce" with her husband(from her telling of it he pulled a knife out her and he's crazy) long story short we ended up meeting and she gave me a handjob in their car which i felt lowkey :merchant: about. We pretty much ceased contact after she told me she wanted something different it didn't really matter to me i went on her page just for kicks and turns out she's posting pictures of the dude meaning pretty much her dude got back together i wanted to know what made her make a decision like that :leostare:
 

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You're handling that well man.

A few yrs back, i met some Australian chik at a happy hr. We hooked up that night and she end up spending all her remaining nights in town, over at my house. This was for like a full week before she left the states. She was pretty much traveling the world. So every place she went to after, she made sure that we's Skype. I was into her but not like she was into me. When she got back to Australia she kept asking me when I'd come out to see her. She was a real pretty chik and very cool and guarded when it came to guys, so once we had sex she really got attached. This was like 3yrs ago when me and my current girl were only friends. Well, time goes on and now we both are taken but from time to time we do chat. Nothing romantic at all, but we cherish those moment, it's all a part of life.

Life is all about making memories. There are so many people you will meet in the future. I say just take it as it comes and not to expect too much out of everyone. After 2 major relationships in my 20's, I started putting myself out there and enjoying life when it came to women. Started traveling more, and I won't even lie, knowing a chik somewhere distant was such a reason for me to take these trips. One of my fav and chilled vacas was about 5yrs ago when I was coming back from visiting my bro in FL, I sat next to this pretty chik and we just started chatting and hit it off. Exchanged info, cause she was catching a connecting flight in NYC to Africa. So after that day I never really thought about her and plus i lost her info that day. Randomly close to a year later she hoi me up on FB....next thing I know I book a flight to San Diego to check her. We went half on a nice hotel for 3 days in the little Italy part of San Diego, then 3 days at her house. Man she was cool as shyt and very good looking. Slender, flexible, Vegan, bud smoker and we had a lot of good sex. Great memories. So just take those travel opportunities and make the best of them.

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I haven't lived the easiest life, however I am thankful for everything I have been through. Because everything has brought me to this point where right now I'm the most healthiest I've ever been in my life, I'm in the best shape I have ever been in, I'm about to make the most money I've ever made. I'm the wisest and smartest I may ever be at any point in my life right now. My level of confidence is at the highest peak ever in my life. I can literally get any woman I'm not bragging but that's the level I'm operating at right now.

Yet I'm the most humble I have ever been, I'm the most charitable I've ever been. My relationship with God is the closest it has ever been. My thirst for knowledge has never been this high, my love for others and appreciation of the little things in life have never been at this level. My circle of friends and people in my life has never been this small but I know everyone in that circle is genuine. I'm single by choice and don't even care to jump into the game so to speak, when it's time God will direct my path and until then this is a great life I've been blessed with. I've finally reached that level of happiness that peace beyond understanding the bible talks about and it's a great place to be.
 
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