Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Dudes are so scared of saying anything for being labelled insecure or whatever


I don't attempt to control anyone, if you want to go run with the hyenas don't expect to be allowed to come back.

It goes back to getting a girl who sees you as valuable. Just like if your work announces they are going to make cuts that job is valuable to you, you won't come in late, won't call in sick. You'll work hard.

Thats the same way your chick needs to view you. As sharp said this is a gawt damn privilege.

There will always be other applicants. Your not special brehettes

Could understand a girls night out.

But a girls night out across state lines / the border? Come on...

 

[Rocket Scientist]

It goes back to getting a girl who sees you as valuable. Just like if your work announces they are going to make cuts that job is valuable to you, you won't come in late, won't call in sick. You'll work hard.

 

[MikelArteta]

Bread gets quantity not quality.

Tim Duncan got played, so did that billionaire.

Only on the coli is it get your bread up hogwash. I worked in a family law court and the majority of men getting dem thangs dropped on them were making 75k and above.

That dude at Walmart making 8 a hour may get more loyalty than a 7 figure Dude

Got a Korean housewive patient. Was tellin me how she and her friend went to Europe for a week to "get away and have fun." All but told me she was gettin her walls rearranged across the Atlantic. Husband a surgeon. Two kids.

Keep thinkin big bread is a safety net

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This is why I always say they know what they are doing when they get with ballers,rappers.All about $tatus to them

 

[MikelArteta]

.y sister married her husband when he was working overnight at a warehouse and in school. Dude was unemployed for a year and a half. And only my sister worked.

My sister was told she could not have babies.

7 years later. 3 healthy kids and my bro in law is making 125k a year.

How many women out there would build ? Few.

But who reaped the rewards.

This is why I always say they know what they are doing when they get with ballers,rappers.All about $tatus to them

 

[Rocket Scientist]

.y sister married her husband when he was working overnight at a warehouse and in school. Dude was unemployed for a year and a half. And only my sister worked.

My sister was told she could not have babies.

7 years later. 3 healthy kids and my bro in law is making 125k a year.

How many women out there would build ? Few.

But who reaped the rewards.

I made a thread about Potential in that Salon place just to see where these women's minds were at at most of them said a man's potential means nothing. to your sister for being loyal,patient and willing to build. That's the American dream

 

[MikelArteta]

How many of those women are single

I made a thread about Potential in that Salon place just to see where these women's minds were at at most of them said a man's potential means nothing. to your sister for being loyal,patient and willing to build. That's the American dream

 

[Rocket Scientist]

How many of those women are single

probably all of them

 

[Jesus]

Ehhh dating someone on their potential....then you're not ready to date. You have nothing to offer. Wait until you get your bread up. Lot of potential talent can be busts. I don't blame women for that.

 

[MikelArteta]

What are these women offering?

Finances can change like that from getting a good job to being unemployed.

Just 9 years ago I was making like 8.50 a hour now I make like almost quadrupole that.

However I could lose my job tomorrow and be back making min wage.

That's the thing with these brehettes all they care about is your status and what you offer.

Ehhh dating someone on their potential....then you're not ready to date. You have nothing to offer. Wait until you get your bread up. Lot of potential talent can be busts. I don't blame women for that.

 

[MercuryHayes]

I made a thread about Potential in that Salon place just to see where these women's minds were at at most of them said a man's potential means nothing. to your sister for being loyal,patient and willing to build. That's the American dream

Hope you not putting stock in 8 women on the coli breh

 

[LordTaskForce]

I have something else to tell you brehs

stand firm on your morals, your principles, what you believe is right, and be the best man you can be.

I'm only saying this because my sister ran into my ex and they talked and my sister told me how she realizes now how she blew something great, and I was the only guy that actually cared about her

I was the faithful loyal schmuck in her eyes, who took her into my home and saved her time and time again, whose family treated her better than the trashy family she grew up with but my pearls were before swine and she had no respect for it

I was the loyal lion but she wanted to run with the hyenas, club, party, and sleep with mad dudes who discarded her and treated her like trash.

Do I feel sympathy? I feel sympathy in the sense that I wish that every man and woman knows their value minus that nope.

No I will never speak to her again, associate with her again or anything.

All I'm saying is know your value brehs and don't waste any of it it like I did on chicks who don't deserve it.

Looking back thats the only thing I'm upset at myself about is wasting my precious time, my kind genuine heart on some low quality brehette who did not deserve it.

I have a question. Did all of that happen while you two were dating? Or was that something that happened before you all were together

 

[MikelArteta]

First time I saved her from.homelessness we were together. Second time we weren't she lost her job was on unemployment about to ran out and I fixed up her resume and applied for jobs. Yeah like going to websites and filling out the information. All she had was like hs education but I got her a job paying like 50k a year she was making 12 a hour at the job she lost.

And no I wasn't doing this to get in her pants or for props or whatever. I never touched her again not even a hug after I found out she cheated on me.


I never even got a thanks to this day, instead I was accused of harrssing her because she owed me money and instead of paying me back bought a car.

Haven't spoken to her in almost a year and a half and never will again

For a long while I hated her and wished her the worst then I forgave and got on with my life and I'll never go back not even to talking cordially.

Dudes would see her and thought I was winning but nah I was losing big time.

I have a question. Did all of that happen while you two were dating? Or was that something that happened before you all were together

 

[Jesus]

What are these women offering?

Finances can change like that from getting a good job to being unemployed.

Just 9 years ago I was making like 8.50 a hour now I make like almost quadrupole that.

However I could lose my job tomorrow and be back making min wage.

That's the thing with these brehettes all they care about is your status and what you offer.

I feel you on that. Personally I won't date women with a large sum of debt or a poor credit score...just as much baggage as a kid. Her income level isn't as important.

Just want a woman with the same financial goals as me, just as with spiritual beliefs and other things.

 

[MikelArteta]

Meh all subjective. I dated a Dr before and she had school loans over 6 figures.

Poor credit, I've had poor credit when I cosigned for my cousin .

I take things on a case to case basis.

But I get what your saying

I feel you on that. Personally I won't date women with a large sum of debt or a poor credit score...just as much baggage as a kid. Her income level isn't as important.

Just want a woman with the same financial goals as me, just as with spiritual beliefs and other things.