Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I've come to the realization long ago that the woman I want is almost extinct in this generation.

At least I'm at a part in my life km content being by myself and just stacking bread and traveling.

Reasons like this is why i avoid relationships. You give someone else the ability to play you.

Women are fukkin leeches. They suck the life, emotion and resources out of you...all to "wake up and realize i don't deserve them" one day.

 

[MikelArteta]

She's a thot. If you don't follow societal norms you'll always be viewed as weird.

I've drank like twice in my life never smoked, I don't even curse. I don't do social media no Facebook, I don't keep a roster or talk to a bunch of women I'd rather be single than settle with a brehette like I did in the past, I've passed up sex numerous times, kicked hot women who offered nothkng else to the bushes.

Women expect you to be the reg guy, simp, pour out your emotions, pin, have sex with every woman out there

I don't understand why having such a low body count is a bad thing. According to this thot I smashed awhile ago, I'm suspect because I'm not banging alot of bytches. I care about myself way too much to be out here sticking my dikk in everything. There's too many of my own people that falls victim to diseases for being too sexually active with alot of different partners. Compared to her....I know she's well in the 100's and is currently pregnant with a community baby. She gets gang raped weekly just like an saturday episode of soul train. Sucks her uncle's dikk for money
I remember this one chick I was talking to...I told her how many women I had slept with and she gave me the as if I was strange or something. Some were one niters, some were fukk buddies while the majority of them were while I was in relationships.


Of course most women would think its great that I haven't fukked around alot and stay to myself, but yes you got some that do get turned out to the fact your out here Wilt Chamberlainin hoes and wanna be the next one up to get posterized. But that don't really bother me....just wanted to share that thought.

 

[MikelArteta]

She's a thot. If you don't follow societal norms you'll always be viewed as weird.

I've drank like twice in my life never smoked, I don't even curse. I don't do social media no Facebook, I don't keep a roster or talk to a bunch of women I'd rather be single than settle with a brehette like I did in the past, I've passed up sex numerous times, kicked hot women who offered nothkng else to the bushes.

Women expect you to be the reg guy, simp, pour out your emotions, pin, have sex with every woman out there

I don't understand why having such a low body count is a bad thing. According to this thot I smashed awhile ago, I'm suspect because I'm not banging alot of bytches. I care about myself way too much to be out here sticking my dikk in everything. There's too many of my own people that falls victim to diseases for being too sexually active with alot of different partners. Compared to her....I know she's well in the 100's and is currently pregnant with a community baby. She gets gang raped weekly just like an saturday episode of soul train. Sucks her uncle's dikk for money
I remember this one chick I was talking to...I told her how many women I had slept with and she gave me the as if I was strange or something. Some were one niters, some were fukk buddies while the majority of them were while I was in relationships.


Of course most women would think its great that I haven't fukked around alot and stay to myself, but yes you got some that do get turned out to the fact your out here Wilt Chamberlainin hoes and wanna be the next one up to get posterized. But that don't really bother me....just wanted to share that thought.

 

[Turbulent]

I'm replying to emperor saying if a woman wants you, she'll do it all.

she can want you but is waiting on you to make the first move. (like they always do

i get that. what i meant by my reply is why worry about them?

some chicks who want you will do it all. some who want you will be shy and wait until you make a move. some will want you to make all the moves. and some will even want you to take them out on multiple dates. and there's all sorts of girls in between. you choose one and once you figure out what type of chick you're dealing with, you can either choose to play by her rules or dip. but if reincar or anyone else is into chicks that do it all and happens to meet a chick that is waiting on him to do the first move, why worry about what she wants or expects if that's not what he wants? that's why i said "what about them?" cause that shyt ends up taking care of itself. he'll just not make a move and she will either adjust and do all the moves OR she'll just dip. either she wants you enough to change her M.O. or you simply don't get the girl. either way it's

 

[Rich Spirit]

We have these mandatory trainings for my job every 3-6 months or so. We see people we know from different offices in our classes sometimes. So I'm in class with a woman that I met a couple of trainings ago. She has a boyfriend but I can feel she has some sort of attraction to me. I'm not gonna lie, I want to fukk her. She is very sexy, the way she talks, moves, her body etc.. I never tried anything because she had a BF. So, lunchtime rolls around and she walks over to my desk and sits on it and ask me where I'm going for lunch. I tell her and she says "Let's go". I say "let's go then" we proceed to my car.

So we're having lunch, talking about our lives since we last seen each other. then she mentions she broke up with her BF. Then she says "well not really broken up yet" I ask her what she means. She says she knows she's going to leave him in six months, but she has to save her money up to get her own spot. Breh doesn't have the slightest idea. She's about to make this dude take her to a concert knowing she doesn't love him.

Her reason for leaving was she woke up one day and realized that he didn't deserve her and she didn't see a future with him. They had been dating for about 4 years. She says he's a good dude though.. needless to say I don't want to fukk anymore.

fukk these hoes..

straight up evil

 

[MikelArteta]

i get that. what i meant by my reply is why worry about them?

some chicks who want you will do it all. some who want you will be shy and wait until you make a move. some will want you to make all the moves. and some will even want you to take them out on multiple dates. and there's all sorts of girls in between. you choose one and once you figure out what type of chick you're dealing with, you can either choose to play by her rules or dip. but if reincar or anyone else is into chicks that do it all and happens to meet a chick that is waiting on him to do the first move, why worry about what she wants or expects if that's not what he wants? that's why i said "what about them?" cause that shyt ends up taking care of itself. he'll just not make a move and she will either adjust and do all the moves OR she'll just dip. either she wants you enough to change her M.O. or you simply don't get the girl. either way it's

i dont change myself for any woman. I tell em straight up from the jump who I am, they got a problem with it, theres other guys out there. This is who I've always been, I'm not shy its just my demeanour.

Every girl I've been except the model has kissed me first, or made the first move or brought up sexual talk I never have

 

[Turbulent]

i dont change myself for any woman. I tell em straight up from the jump who I am, they got a problem with it, theres other guys out there. This is who I've always been, I'm not shy its just my demeanour.

Every girl I've been except the model has kissed me first, or made the first move or brought up sexual talk I never have

i feel like the problem a lot of us have is that we view girls as puzzles we have to solve. it's like we gotta have them all. if we like a girl and she's giving us a little bit of play, we have to find a way to have her even if it means changing our approach or style. but why though? fukk that shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

i feel like the problem a lot of us have is that we view girls as puzzles we have to solve. it's like we gotta have them all. if we like a girl and she's giving us a little bit of play, we have to find a way to have her even if it means changing our approach or style. but why though? fukk that shyt.

Life is to damn short to waste time on a chick that doesn't view you as valuable
@Sharp said something in this thread

"if someone wants to be with you, nothing can keep them away. but if somebody does not want to be with you, everything will keep them away"

its that simple, girls who wanted me made it be known, they called, they texted, weeks, months even years could go by but they would still remember me, I never had to do ANYTHING.

And i've also been on the other end, seeing chicks I wanted treating em good and ish and some slimy nikka who did nothing was getting it all

and thats what sticks to me to this day, ive been on both sides and I know when a woman wants you, you don't have to "figure her out", you dont have to spend money, sell yourself try and impress its natural you don't have to do ish except be yourself.

If one woman doesnt like it ditto another one will

 

[Turbulent]

Life is to damn short to waste time on a chick that doesn't view you as valuable
@Sharp said something in this thread

"if someone wants to be with you, nothing can keep them away. but if somebody does not want to be with you, everything will keep them away"

its that simple, girls who wanted me made it be known, they called, they texted, weeks, months even years could go by but they would still remember me, I never had to do ANYTHING.

And i've also been on the other end, seeing chicks I wanted treating em good and ish and some slimy nikka who did nothing was getting it all

and thats what sticks to me to this day, ive been on both sides and I know when a woman wants you, you don't have to "figure her out", you dont have to spend money, sell yourself try and impress its natural you don't have to do ish except be yourself.

If one woman doesnt like it ditto another one will[/QUOTE]but see that's not good enough for a lot of us. we have too much ego.

 

[MikelArteta]

All these brehettes selling the same product, of loyalty, honesty, being there for their man its all hogwash, anyone can say they are whatever, but until the qualifications are shown and until they are certified they are not!

I've been on dates with prob hundreds of women in my lifetime, beautiful women, successfull women, different backgrounds, many were from when i dabbled online. I'm not saying this to brag or anything because 99% were worthless all were selling the same script, great woman, accomplishing their goals, sick of the party/club scene, family orientated, values and morals and extremely loyal .

Words mean nothing its all about that action dawg. I';m a quiet person but I don't haev to proclaim it that I'm quiet. I never cheated ever in my life but I don't have to proclaim my integrity and badge of monogamy to the masses.

To many brehettes out there declaring themselves proverbs 31 woman when thats rarer than rubies.

 

[MikelArteta]

for me its good enough.

I've told this story numerous times i went out with this chick a few times, everything was going great, im talking about dates starting at like 7pm and ending at 2am. Then she never contacted me again, of course I was somewhat frustrated did I say anything did I do anything bla bla bla, i googled her e-mail address and it led to her blog and she was battling depression and was on pills and ish.

I didn't need that ish in my life, but imagine if I never knew and continued hanging out and that bond grew more and more I would have been in far more than I wanted to.

Even with my last demon ex, a month in I had a major out she wasn't sure of us, but i was so enchanted by her beauty that I "simped" and we got back together and it took me almost 5 years to get rid of her stain as she destroyed everything good in my life.

So now when a chick rejects me , i just look at it like God like reinscarf you've been through enough to last a lifetime with women, and I know this one would not be good for you so im severing the ties.

I take every rejection as blessings,

 

[EA]

If you keep giving a girl an out to leave you alone and pursue other men because you don't feel right for a relationship and she refuses to go, at what point do consider he pursuits as genuine?

Considering she's my ex, I refuse to believe that her pursuit is genuine otherwise she wouldn't have broken up with me nearly 2 years ago when she claimed that I "didn't have a plan for us." Her trying to be with me again doesn't feel right considering I'm working now and she's having family problems.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you keep giving a girl an out to leave you alone and pursue other men because you don't feel right for a relationship and she refuses to go, at what point do consider he pursuits as genuine?

Considering she's my ex, I refuse to believe that her pursuit is genuine otherwise she wouldn't have broken up with me nearly 2 years ago when she claimed that I "didn't have a plan for us." Her trying to be with me again doesn't feel right considering I'm working now and she's having family problems.

as i always say if you treated a woman good, regardless of how it ended and you left with your head held high you will always be her "safety net". The one guy when shes in problems or in need se wants to reach out to.

If her life was going good, you think she would saying hey ea?

I don't give exes antoher chance just mainly for the fact, i'll never allow soemone the opportunity to break my heart the second time

 

[EA]

as i always say if you treated a woman good, regardless of how it ended and you left with your head held high you will always be her "safety net". The one guy when shes in problems or in need se wants to reach out to.

If her life was going good, you think she would saying hey ea?

I don't give exes antoher chance just mainly for the fact, i'll never allow soemone the opportunity to break my heart the second time

This is what I've been thinking too. She got upset when we broke up because I cut her off when in her words, she was hoping that I would fight for her. Apparently, the fact that I was solely focused on graduating and getting a good job made her think that I just saw her as an accessory and she was hoping that the prospect of losing her would make me "step up" but she says she's never stopped loving me and she's ben depressed these past 2 years without me (she is the super clingy type so this doesn't even surprise me).

I dunno man, my mind is still winning the battle and I've created my distance but I feel myself hard exterior wanting to fall off and it's draining me.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is what I've been thinking too. She got upset when we broke up because I cut her off when in her words, she was hoping that I would fight for her. Apparently, the fact that I was solely focused on graduating and getting a good job made her think that I just saw her as an accessory and she was hoping that the prospect of losing her would make me "step up" but she says she's never stopped loving me and she's ben depressed these past 2 years without me (she is the super clingy type so this doesn't even surprise me).

I dunno man, my mind is still winning the battle and I've created my distance but I feel myself hard exterior wanting to fall off and it's draining me.

ah there it is, if you fought for her and poured out your heart she would prob lose respect for you. Isn't it amazing , I've been there a girl got angry at me because she stopped talking to me and I made no effort to contact her . I'll never chase a woman or pin for a woman that isn't my family. Why should you fight for anyone? if soemone doesn't want to be with me then allright I accept your decision.SEe woman ant you to be friends after, so they can have their cake, be on tinder, talk to new guys, dating, suck new dikk, but still have their good ol buddy who they lost emotions for.

I wouldn't even entertain talking to her, that part of your life is over, you hae a new job in your career, why waste any time on a woman from your past who discarded you? Who cares about her situation now this is what she waned always remind yourself.

When my sister told me my ex was in the hospital, or a car crash, or depressed, or always getting cheated on I said nothing, its not my concern anymore. That's the life she wanted, to run with the wolves.