Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ProfessionallyTrill]

@Atlrocafella nikka they done kicked me out the thread cuz I done found a bad chick. But you got a main and you can still post your 2 cents

I'm bout to join this thread again. shyt aint all peaches and cream ALL the time.

 

[kevm3]

Man these broads ain't crying over you, so stop crying over them. They are out here talking to other dudes in an instant, making you a distant memory in the back of their mind. Keep focusing on your business and stop worrying about this or that woman. That woman that really wants you will find a way to stick around on her own volition.

You got two choices. You can sit around moping, crying, hollaring over some broads who could care less about you or you can focus on your business and eventually do things like take trips around the world and just enjoy life. When you got it together, you have more options. One woman doesn't want to stay down? There's several more ready to be put in that spot.

One thing I hate hearing dudes talk about is 'what women like' and how you need to do this and that because that's what women like. Modern women aren't bringing anything tot the table for you to be concerned with 'what they like'. Be yourself and focus on handling yours and let the women that like your style enter into your atmosphere. Shape-shifting and doing this and that because that's 'what women like' is a sure-fire recipe for you to live a confused, disappointing life.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Agreed sir. I learned long ago to just be yourself because eventually yourself will come anyway.

So all this "acting a certain way to impress females" shyt needs to go out the window because you wanna somebody who likes you for you even when you let your guard down.

You'll drive yourself crazy tryin to put on a front to impress these hoes.

 

[Atlrocafella]

@Atlrocafella nikka they done kicked me out the thread cuz I done found a bad chick. But you got a main and you can still post your 2 cents

I'm bout to join this thread again. shyt aint all peaches and cream ALL the time.

When they kick you out breh? This suppose to be an open forum as long as everyone keeps it respectful.

 

[Fatboi1]

ok dude. listen to me. there's hope here. but u need to start dating other women immediately. like NOW. like right this moment. like, RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and dont tell her u are. just keep yourself busy.

see, us men, our biggest problem is this. some of us really dont like hunting for women. some say they do but its bs. its too much work. so when we find a woman we like and who likes us back, we stop hitting on other women and we just stop searching in general.

however, u goto understand. women dont need to hit on men. if they're pretty enough or have anything appealing about them, they get hit on regularly....especially if they're an outgoing bunch.

so what can u, as a man (a regular man), do to safeguard your heart from these demonic episodes of jealousy? you must keep your time occupied. it'll be hella difficult to find the time to be stalking someone's social media when u've got 9 conversations on your phone u have to keep up with different girls.

and stop hitting this girl up. she already ended things on some lets be friends type things. and u just admitted that u clearly fuccked up by being too damn needy and controlling. so to a girl like that, who broke things up because of this, THE VERY FIRST THING U CAN DO TO CONFUSE HER IS TO GIVE HER DEAD SILENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i know its gonna be difficult. but stop all communication. whenever she hits u up after a couple of days or whatever, be like

"hey, great to hear from u. when are you free to get together?". if she gives u a bs answer or something that isn't straight forward, be like

"cool, why dont u get back in touch with me whenever your schedule frees up. it was really great hearing from u. keep in touch." then end it.

learn to control yourself man!

She's in Japan, I'm in the US. I don't think I should continue this shyt. No point when I can't even see the girl like that.

 

[sfgiants]

one thing i've read here a few times is dudes saying that you have to be aggressive and set up dates/meetings and shyt. which i agree with to an extent
but im naturally very aloof and coupled with my busy schedule i don't really have the time/energy to be setting shyt up with multiple women
in fact my apparent indifference works to my favor a lot of the time. i think i mentioned earlier how this girl i met wasn't really texting me at first, and i was like and then she must've noticed i wasn't texting her too, and she started with the good morning texts and shyt and eventually bought us tix to a baseball game, and then asked me out to get mexican food a week later. and she paid both times
i guess it works on a case by case basis, certain hos will be more drawn to a guy that appears to not give a shyt while others will shut out a guy who isn't aggressively pursuing them.

 

[twan83]

She's in Japan, I'm in the US. I don't think I should continue this shyt. No point when I can't even see the girl like that.

u did with ur insecurities tho and i went thru this shyt with somebody in japan i knew she would go out and dance and shyt i just didnt give a fukk i aint their

what did us in was cuz i was really well known out there and had tons of female friends they ratted her out so i called her and asked her bout it and she was like
i her no questions asked we were engaged keep in mind


the pic of tourist thing is 2 ways.

1. she shouldn't be taking pics with random as dudes in the first place shyt aint right
2. her friend asked her too as a favor and she did while not thinking it thru like a dumbass

and here is the big thing right here this is important
was it her friend page that upload it or was it hers cuz if its hers that shyt real quick
if its her friends thats on u whether or not u wanna work it out

 

[Fatboi1]

u did with ur insecurities tho and i went thru this shyt with somebody in japan i knew she would go out and dance and shyt i just didnt give a fukk i aint their

what did us in was cuz i was really well known out there and had tons of female friends they ratted her out so i called her and asked her bout it and she was like
i her no questions asked we were engaged keep in mind


the pic of tourist thing is 2 ways.

1. she shouldn't be taking pics with random as dudes in the first place shyt aint right
2. her friend asked her too as a favor and she did while not thinking it thru like a dumbass

and here is the big thing right here this is important
was it her friend page that upload it or was it hers cuz if its hers that shyt real quick
if its her friends thats on u whether or not u wanna work it out

It was on both her and her friends page. The guys were new friends to her and her friend she says. She met a lady and two guys. They were tourists from Europe.

 

[TRUEST]

She's in Japan, I'm in the US. I don't think I should continue this shyt. No point when I can't even see the girl like that.

you're going crazy over a chick in japan? wow.
just wow. damn. dude, wow. wtf????

 

[Fatboi1]

you're going crazy over a chick in japan? wow.
just wow. damn. dude, wow. wtf????

I met her already and smashed. I met her mom and family(as a friend though).

 

[MikelArteta]

The key is not to go crazy over any chick regardless of distance.

These women are not that special at all

 

[MikelArteta]

That's the thing with bonding with women emotionally and sexuslly, doesn't matter how far, the familiarity of the bond etc.

I met her already and smashed. I met her mom and family(as a friend though).

 

[twan83]

It was on both her and her friends page. The guys were new friends to her and her friend she says. She met a lady and two guys. They were tourists from Europe.

you're going crazy over a chick in japan? wow.
just wow. damn. dude, wow. wtf????

it depends on the situation where i can see y a guy would be upset read below to my comment

I met her already and smashed. I met her mom and family(as a friend though).

with mines i also met their family and smashed and was engaged so it was a big deal too me once i got back to the states she was gonna get picked up by me that summer and use that fiancé visa shyt then get married she fukked up and got


ur case shouldnt be on her page period. to be honest wouldnt have bothered me if no pic was involved or it being 2 guys cuz I'm not the insecure type or jealous type of dude u cant control whats gonna happen it will happen whether u like it or not u either trust her or u dont and thats on u
be no damn different if she was out at club dancing and shyt
if anything she should of kept that shyt too herself period no problems
the pic thing i dont like cuz why are u going out ur ways taking random pics of strangers with u sounds shady as hell too me

 

[TRUEST]

it depends on the situation where i can see y a guy would be upset read below to my comment


with mines i also met their family and smashed and was engaged so it was a big deal too me once i got back to the states she was gonna get picked up by me that summer and use that fiancé visa shyt then get married she fukked up and got


ur case shouldnt be on her page period. to be honest wouldnt have bothered me if no pic was involved or it being 2 guys cuz I'm not the insecure type or jealous type of dude u cant control whats gonna happen it will happen whether u like it or not u either trust her or u dont and thats on u
be no damn different if she was out at club dancing and shyt
if anything she should of kept that shyt too herself period no problems
the pic thing i dont like cuz why are u going out ur ways taking random pics of strangers with u sounds shady as hell too me

yeah she's in the wrong. its so sad to think of the power so many men would have if only they can just get to a place where they just dont give a sh1t. matter of fact, guys should learn to expect their women to act up and do this type of sh1t so if it happens, u remain unfazed.

i bet u, that chick sees absolutely nothing wrong with what she did. it'll take a well grounded female friend of hers to show her the errors of her ways. which is really pathetic.

 

[kevm3]

man if a broad is out clubbing and taking pics with other dudes, then how is that you being insecure? These broads want the best of all worlds. They'll keep you around in that relationship mode while they are out partying and clubbing and telling you this or that guy they are hanging with is just a bud, when in reality, he's doing his thing. Checking a woman on that is not 'insecure'. Women just have a way of flipping the script and making you think their out-of-pocket behavior is ok and that you're wrong for not accepting it. Most dudes ain't really insecure. It's just women doing funnystyle things and telling you 'it's nothing'... but let you be out clubbing and taking pics with other women and see if she doesn't say anything.