Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

That's the way it should be

So easy, so effortless. When a girl is into you, you don't have to do anything. Just show up and have a good time

 

[MikelArteta]

If she's not into you then she's weighing her options, your not number 1 just a placeholder, never be a woman's placeholder.

If your not number 1

 

[Ohene]

It's impossible to read a woman's mind, so talk to her some more and make some invitation to remain in contact or to spend time together if you see she is receptive to your conversation

if she rejects you, oh well, there are a ton of other women out there. In other words, it's a waste of time to try to 'predict' what a woman is really thinking. you'll miss out on ones who may not be outwardly showy with their interest or you'll convince yourself she's not interested when she really is. You will never really know unless you make that move.

its that simple folks. stop overthinking stuff and just open your mouth to invite/converse with these girls. If they reject you got your answer and can keep it moving. If they accept then its all good. But your egotistical fear aside and just talk to em

 

[EA]

I was on the phone to my ex last night who's been asking for me to take her back for nearly a year now and she broke down crying saying that she can't get through life without me. It made me angry rather than sympathetic and now it's just made me realised I've become so cold and isolated

I don't even care about being alone at this point

 

[kevm3]

If she's not into you then she's weighing her options, your not number 1 just a placeholder, never be a woman's placeholder.

If your not number 1

Pretty much. Who wants to be the guy a woman falls back on while she's out there having fun with some other dude. When she's bored, magically she reappears for some of your time, only to leave without warning to go give the other guy attention when he wants it.

Making sure a woman respects you is always key. A lot of guys let themselves be the equivalent of a girl sticking around with a guy that beats her because she likes how he sexes her or some such nonsense. Most people would call her a low self-esteem girl. A lot of dudes are low-self esteem guys who let women psychologically beat them down just because they don't want to be lonely.

 

[Soundbwoy]

I was on the phone to my ex last night who's been asking for me to take her back for nearly a year now and she broke down crying saying that she can't get through life without me. It made me angry rather than sympathetic and now it's just made me realised I've become so cold and isolated

I don't even care about being alone at this point

why is she your ex?

 

[MikelArteta]

Why did you guys break up

I was on the phone to my ex last night who's been asking for me to take her back for nearly a year now and she broke down crying saying that she can't get through life without me. It made me angry rather than sympathetic and now it's just made me realised I've become so cold and isolated

I don't even care about being alone at this point

 

[EA]

why is she your ex?

Why did you guys break up

In her words, I wasn't committing to her in the way she was hoping for. Mainly, not pushing to meet her parents after she said that she only wants me to meet them if I'm thinking about proposing to her in the near future and not considering having kids early because she was having issues with her ovaries.

 

[MikelArteta]

In her words, I wasn't committing to her in the way she was hoping for. Mainly, not pushing to meet her parents after she said that she only wants me to meet them if I'm thinking about proposing to her in the near future and not considering having kids early because she was having issues with her ovaries.

 

[EA]

this was my exact reaction. She kept apologising and saying that she knows it was unreasonable to want to lock me in like that after only just over a year but that's not my problem. If anything, the fact she's been asking for me to take her back for nearly a year straight now makes me resent her even more.

 

[MikelArteta]

this was my exact reaction. She kept apologising and saying that she knows it was unreasonable to want to lock me in like that after only just over a year but that's not my problem. If anything, the fact she's been asking for me to take her back for nearly a year straight now makes me resent her even more.

pretty much, now switch the roles, this is what happens when you chase a girl who doesnt want to be chase it just makes her find you annoying etc.

 

[reserved_one]

My chick's homegirl lowkey just tried to holler at me on the phone.


Ol girl came over to use her phone to call her boyfriend but instead ended up calling me, sending me pics while she's in the next room watching TV with her daughter


My chick just found out and now she ready to beat her ass. The bytch stays right across the street. I told her to chill, but she's like "fukked that. I'm sending that bytch to the emergency room".
I don't even know this bytch and she telling me that she's my future wife. Just pure fukkery....these bytches are bold/slick as fukk. I ain't got no dog in this fight

 

[MikelArteta]

One thing I've noticed is that many people want a relationship but few are willing to do the work. Imagine being unemployed and finally getting a job, yet you show up and do nothing, how long do you think your going to last before you get fired. You have to do the work assigned etc. to meet the criteria to get paid. Now look at relationships everyone brings out that bs I'm loyal, loving, committed bla bla but few are willing to do the work. Talking to exes, talking to a gaggle of male friends, going out with the girls to the bar or club, posting photos on instagram daily to a harem of male followers.

And just because she's fine or sucks your dikk or gives you vagina that a bunch of other dudes have had your scared to check her,

 

[Music Fiend]

If anyone remembers, I was talking to a chick who was a good girl. She also a cheerleader at my uni, and an aerospace engineer. SO shes busy, but shes also a good girl. Virgin, doesn't party much at all, basically the wifey type. She shy and inexperienced so i gave her a lot of passes.

Well she started coming over alot to begin things, eventually it ended up with her staying over a lot, but she wouldn't let me hit. first she didn't wanna take any clothes off, then it was only the shirt, then it was topless, then it was pants. Took two months for her to relax enough to be sexual. Then she hit me with the she was waiting for marriage speech for actual sex and how she had to protect herself. Along with that came the what are we doing and how do you feel about me speech.

Although I was feeling her, I couldn't help but feel I was giving up my manhood. I would usually never let a chick stay over and not be getting the draws. I just told her, I was already showing her with my time, patience and openness. I told her it was ridiculous shes thinks it's okay for her to come over and not be busting it open and I've been patient but she's not getting a title til we smash.

Plus, while It was clear she was super interested. she wouldn't let me see her room (cuz it was always messy) and she lived only a few apts down yet she wants complete access to my life, leaving toothbrushes over and shyt. It just felt like I was inviting and sacrificing for someone in my life but she wasn't.

she starts ranting on "well if you can't tell me how you feel, I don't feel comfortable being naked around you"

I immediately hit the kicked her ass out , ignored everything from her. She saw me on an occasion some time after with another chick walking into my apt.

I did right bruhs, right?

No matter how moral she is, isn't that just crazy making?

 

[MikelArteta]

I think you did the right thing her path is different she wants to wait for marriage you want it now. Find someone who wants it now. If my oath isn't aligning with a woman then I'm wasting my time.

If anyone remembers, I was talking to a chick who was a good girl. She also a cheerleader at my uni, and an aerospace engineer. SO shes busy, but shes also a good girl. Virgin, doesn't party much at all, basically the wifey type. She shy and inexperienced so i gave her a lot of passes.

Well she started coming over alot to begin things, eventually it ended up with her staying over a lot, but she wouldn't let me hit. first she didn't wanna take any clothes off, then it was only the shirt, then it was topless, then it was pants. Took two months for her to relax enough to be sexual. Then she hit me with the she was waiting for marriage speech for actual sex and how she had to protect herself. Along with that came the what are we doing and how do you feel about me speech.

Although I was feeling her, I couldn't help but feel I was giving up my manhood. I would usually never let a chick stay over and not be getting the draws. I just told her, I was already showing her with my time, patience and openness. I told her it was ridiculous shes thinks it's okay for her to come over and not be busting it open and I've been patient but she's not getting a title til we smash.

Plus, while It was clear she was super interested. she wouldn't let me see her room (cuz it was always messy) and she lived only a few apts down yet she wants complete access to my life, leaving toothbrushes over and shyt. It just felt like I was inviting and sacrificing for someone in my life but she wasn't.

she starts ranting on "well if you can't tell me how you feel, I don't feel comfortable being naked around you"

I immediately hit the kicked her ass out , ignored everything from her. She saw me on an occasion some time after with another chick walking into my apt.

I did right bruhs, right?

No matter how moral she is, isn't that just crazy making?