DatMexican
Rookie
i'm 5'8"
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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The key is to really go out and stop worrying about life. Appreciate life for what you have. Most men get nervous around women because they have an 'objective' in mind, as if you have to 'game her' and if she doesn't accept you, it's a failure. I find when you couldn't care less about pulling the woman and just enjoy yourself, you'll be so comfortable that you'll have no problem interacting with a woman if necessary and you'll be able to tell if she's interested because the conversation flows so smoothly.
Do NOT make women your focus. A lot of these PUA dudes spend countless times learning strategies to 'game women' and then they end up getting older and wasted all that time when they could have been building a solid foundation in life. Do NOT chase women, because as soon as they leave, any benefit they brought with them disappears with them. Focus on building that foundation in life and putting yourself in a situation where the right woman can be invited in to experience the beautiful life you are living if she acts right.
You see Reincar with his new job, taking trips, writing. That's the kind of thing you should be focused on. You need to find completion outside of women, and when you are complete, you have a huge advantage in pulling them. In fact, you're going to wonder why you put up with such atrocious behavior from some of these women in the first place.
If you feel some weakness in your life, attack it head on. If you aren't social, FORCE yourself to get out, but don't go out with some specific 'goal'. Go out and just enjoy yourself. When you handle your business and get social, something like women come on their own. You got to put yourself in a situation where just your presence alone attracts women as opposed to sitting around all day trying to convince some woman to deal with you, and the main way to do that is to take your focus off of chasing women and seeking to complete and improve yourself.
Do NOT make women your focus. A lot of these PUA dudes spend countless times learning strategies to 'game women' and then they end up getting older and wasted all that time when they could have been building a solid foundation in life. Do NOT chase women, because as soon as they leave, any benefit they brought with them disappears with them. Focus on building that foundation in life and putting yourself in a situation where the right woman can be invited in to experience the beautiful life you are living if she acts right.
You see Reincar with his new job, taking trips, writing. That's the kind of thing you should be focused on. You need to find completion outside of women, and when you are complete, you have a huge advantage in pulling them. In fact, you're going to wonder why you put up with such atrocious behavior from some of these women in the first place.
If you feel some weakness in your life, attack it head on. If you aren't social, FORCE yourself to get out, but don't go out with some specific 'goal'. Go out and just enjoy yourself. When you handle your business and get social, something like women come on their own. You got to put yourself in a situation where just your presence alone attracts women as opposed to sitting around all day trying to convince some woman to deal with you, and the main way to do that is to take your focus off of chasing women and seeking to complete and improve yourself.
NormanConnors
Detroit/MSU Spartan Life
What is the age difference between ya'll ?Through her cousin who I was friends with, she had a crush on me and I thought she was gorgeous but too young. We were always orbiting each other, same social circle, going to the same parties and talking to one another while we were there. She came from a great family, was smart, sweet, cultured and a little bit of a tomboy which I like a lot, she asked her cousin about me often and I asked her cousin about herBasically I just asked her out to lunch oneday when she was visiting her Aunt (my friends mom) she said "finally" and that was that, she's my best friend and I honestly did luck out with her.
To the women who discarded me
Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you for allowing me to live a life I never thought was possible, thank you for showing me how to love and treat a woman.
Thank you for showing me I can get through anything and come out stronger.
Thank you for teaching me how to let go and forgive. Thank you for showing me the traits of what I should watch out for.
Thank you for igniting my passion to write again, thank you for allowing me to help others through my experiences, thank you for humbling my pride. Thank you for showing me how it feels to be in love, Thank you for the memories whether good or bad. Thank you for allowing me to fulfil my destiny.
Thank you
Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you for allowing me to live a life I never thought was possible, thank you for showing me how to love and treat a woman.
Thank you for showing me I can get through anything and come out stronger.
Thank you for teaching me how to let go and forgive. Thank you for showing me the traits of what I should watch out for.
Thank you for igniting my passion to write again, thank you for allowing me to help others through my experiences, thank you for humbling my pride. Thank you for showing me how it feels to be in love, Thank you for the memories whether good or bad. Thank you for allowing me to fulfil my destiny.
Thank you
Some brehette came through and locked you down?
nah still single and talking to no one.
Props on the travel pics. Just recently got out of state, myself... Gotta do that more.
travelling is amazing doesnt have to be a expensive, like I said before I gurnatee there is an area 3 hours north, south, west, east that you never been to
the breh @Emperor_ReinScarf be spot on with this shiit..I'm doing good right now with the main and ALL my exes are hitting me up right now.. I had one ex yesterday text me saying she had a dream about me, that we were on a date and shiit.. I had another ex just hit me now saying I was running through her mind and she just wanted to check up on me..I haven't heard from either of these chicks for months.
Black Cac
neg me if you love white women
There's this female at work who I talk to on some simple hi and bye type stuff. I don't flirt with her. She's just someone I see often so I speak to out of courtesy ya know? Well a coworker gave me her snap chat (that's the only social media I have) cause me and him were talking about...long story short 
I added her on snap chat and this bish send me a message on their saying "you could of just asked for my number lol"
How do I tell her I don't want her number without sounding rude? Cause when you ask for a females number its generally perceived as hitting on them. I don't mess with employees.
I added her on snap chat and this bish send me a message on their saying "you could of just asked for my number lol"How do I tell her I don't want her number without sounding rude? Cause when you ask for a females number its generally perceived as hitting on them. I don't mess with employees.
its like women know when they are "losing you", I don't know what it is intuition or what, but it always seems to happen. I don't even have social media so no one can peer into my life but even then its like boom. A chick can dump you, your heartbroken for weeks, months and as soon as you making progress getting over her your phone rings, a fb message pops up etc., or you can have ZEROOOOOOOOOOOOO options, then suddenly you talk to one girl and the leveys are broken with a rush of prospects. Or you don't hear from exes forever, suddenly your dating a new girl they are pushed farther and farther in the catacombs of your mind and its like the emotional or sexual bond you had with them starts flickering and boom.
its why I always say no matter what treat everyone with respect and love even if it doesn't work out if you are a good man you win.
Why add her on snap chat?There's this female at work who I talk to on some simple hi and bye type stuff. I don't flirt with her. She's just someone I see often so I speak to out of courtesy ya know? Well a coworker gave me her snap chat (that's the only social media I have) cause me and him were talking about...long story short
How do I tell her I don't want her number without sounding rude? Cause when you ask for a females number its generally perceived as hitting on them. I don't mess with employees.
Black Cac
neg me if you love white women
Same reason people add people they know on Facebook, twitter, etc.
Womb Raider
5* Gooneral
bruh just delete that shyt