Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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If a woman REALLY wants to be with you as a man, she never makes excuses. She goes and does what it takes. I'd like all of these fellas getting the I'm too busy excuse from women to imagine what that woman would do if Trey Songz called her phone and said, "Say baby, I'm at the hotel for one night only. I want you to come through. Ya'll think she's going to be 'too busy'?' She'll be down there with the speed of light. If a woman is really trying to deal with you, she'll go the distance. She'll do a ton for the guy she really likes. How was she never too busy to deal with all these so called losers that didn't appreciate her?
Now what these women REALLY want to do is lock ya'll negroes into the favor buddy category. One of the WORST things a woman can say about you is, "Awww you're so sweet."
Let me put ya'll onto something. If a woman only wants to just be buds with you or is too busy, then you become too busy to do favors for her or listen to her whine about life when she swings around for her dose of attention. Women be acting like this because fellas allow them to. If you get the notion she is trying to use you, let her use the door and excuse herself out of your life.
Now what these women REALLY want to do is lock ya'll negroes into the favor buddy category. One of the WORST things a woman can say about you is, "Awww you're so sweet."
Let me put ya'll onto something. If a woman only wants to just be buds with you or is too busy, then you become too busy to do favors for her or listen to her whine about life when she swings around for her dose of attention. Women be acting like this because fellas allow them to. If you get the notion she is trying to use you, let her use the door and excuse herself out of your life.
"Having female acquaintances is fine if shes your buddys girlfriend or you work with her or something, but having female friends should be a punishment reserved for females. To use yet another quote I dont know the origin of: Women have boyfriends and they have girlfriends. If youre not fukking her, youre her girlfriend. Playing the entertainer, listening ear, supporter, and soft-hearted emotional tampon is for chumps - and theres not a woman alive out there who doesnt expect at least one or more of those services from her super awesome guy friends at least every now and then.
Mentus Seventh Law of dikkatry: Any woman who truly cares about you will fulfill your desire for sexual attention when you fulfill her desire for emotional attention.
Mentus Eighth Law of dikkatry: Your willingness to befriend a woman in a sexless arena exposes your inability to sex a woman in a friendless arena.
Mentus Ninth Law of dikkatry: Any time you encounter a woman over the legal age of consent, you have entered the sexual marketplace. Ignore the rules of the SMP, and they will automatically work against you."
Read more: UMan - Blog - Having female friends is for*females.
Mentus Seventh Law of dikkatry: Any woman who truly cares about you will fulfill your desire for sexual attention when you fulfill her desire for emotional attention.
Mentus Eighth Law of dikkatry: Your willingness to befriend a woman in a sexless arena exposes your inability to sex a woman in a friendless arena.
Mentus Ninth Law of dikkatry: Any time you encounter a woman over the legal age of consent, you have entered the sexual marketplace. Ignore the rules of the SMP, and they will automatically work against you."
Read more: UMan - Blog - Having female friends is for*females.
its hard to look at yourself and realize you're the guy she calls when shyt hits the fan and that's the only reason you're even in her life. its easier to look at a woman and see her positive reaction towards you and think she really wants you.
I'm the fall back guy to my Godsons mom.
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every time the fall back guy plays that role deep down he knows what he's doing. he knows something is wrong. he's usually either in denial about it or his emotions are overpowering him. the signs are always there.
starts at about 26 minutes in. here Tariq Nasheed brings up a valid point. why a woman is choosing you is just as important as the fact that she's choosing you. in fact its probably more important. lots of guys are just so happy to get choose they don't pay attention to why. guys out here playing the game with their egos don't even ask why a female is choosing them. they have the need to feel they're the best man alive and so she must want them its only natural.
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very true. people always need to ask themselves, how many times have u said no to a chick u really liked? the answer is most likely 0! unless its some mighty family related responsibility that ur beholden to, u will make that date happen.
Exactly, ESP if you are in the early stages of a relationship or forming a relationship this is when women have butterflies and can't wait to see you. Every chick I've ever been with who liked me in the beginning could not wait to see me next. "so when are we going to han out again" "when's the next date" etc.
If she's making excuses already? Run.
what does i don't wanna be single anymore really even mean? does it mean i'm ready to settle with whatever looks interesting that comes my way? i mean if you're single aren't you looking for a particular type girl to get with? if you haven't found what you're looking for then is saying i don't wanna be single anymore kinda like saying i'll take whatever i can get rather than saying if i don't encounter what i want i'll keep looking?
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I cut off about five female friends this summer because of this(i think this thread helped me see the light about them).
They would always tell me how "sweet" and "nice" that i am. Or the most patronizing of them all, "You're such a great guy, i can't believe that you are single" Last summer one of them even asked me to help them move after not talking to me for three months...what kind of friendship is that?
I didn't delete their numbers i just stopped forcing a one way friendship...it's been a liberating feeling not bending backwards for people that don't really like me at all.
It's great to, because when they text me they say shyt like "You are awkward now, what happened" or "You seem so bitter" "I never hear from you anymore"
Some of them know i have caught on to the game now and treat me with more respect, they know the ride is over...the guilt in their tone is incredible as well, they knew damn well what they were doing.
Great feeling not tap dancing for female approval, i do what i want, when i want and i help out my true friends.
Sorry ladies, I'm closed.
"What I’m about to say I’ve said before. 80% of all relationship problems are caused by the following problem:
Boy meets girl. They go on a few dates, have sex twice (at the most!), and the boy instantly gets oneitis. Boy says to the girl “I think we should be exclusive”. Girl says “But I just met you like two weeks ago…” but then catches herself and thinks “Wait a minute! If I agree to this, I can put ‘In A Relationship’ on my Facebook! I can tell everyone I have a BOYFRIEND! Awesome!” So she quickly corrects herself and says “Okay.”
They embrace and celebrate. She’s ecstatic she’s now someone’s “girlfriend”. He’s ecstatic that other guys won’t be fukking her. Just one small problem: they’re both wrong.
Two weeks ago they didn’t even know each other. Now they’re in a “relationship”. It’s stupid, insane, and ridiculous. It’s a recipe for disaster, but that’s exactly how most people do this.
They go on to experience a brief wonderful period of NRE followed by an extended period of jealousy, angst, drama, possibly boredom, and likely some cheating. They have an explosive breakup, go through a mourning period, then repeat the entire silly process with someone new.
What people should do is fukk someone for months and months, while fukking other people (using condoms) before even thinking about discussing the concept of exclusivity or boyfriend/girlfriend status. But no one wants to do that. They’d rather jump right into the swimming pool of drama and problems. Somehow this is “easier” to them.
All this chaos because of men’s strong desire for women to only fukk them and for women’s desire for the title of girlfriend."
Read more: Using The Terms “Girlfriend” or “Boyfriend” | The Blackdragon Blog
Boy meets girl. They go on a few dates, have sex twice (at the most!), and the boy instantly gets oneitis. Boy says to the girl “I think we should be exclusive”. Girl says “But I just met you like two weeks ago…” but then catches herself and thinks “Wait a minute! If I agree to this, I can put ‘In A Relationship’ on my Facebook! I can tell everyone I have a BOYFRIEND! Awesome!” So she quickly corrects herself and says “Okay.”
They embrace and celebrate. She’s ecstatic she’s now someone’s “girlfriend”. He’s ecstatic that other guys won’t be fukking her. Just one small problem: they’re both wrong.
Two weeks ago they didn’t even know each other. Now they’re in a “relationship”. It’s stupid, insane, and ridiculous. It’s a recipe for disaster, but that’s exactly how most people do this.
They go on to experience a brief wonderful period of NRE followed by an extended period of jealousy, angst, drama, possibly boredom, and likely some cheating. They have an explosive breakup, go through a mourning period, then repeat the entire silly process with someone new.
What people should do is fukk someone for months and months, while fukking other people (using condoms) before even thinking about discussing the concept of exclusivity or boyfriend/girlfriend status. But no one wants to do that. They’d rather jump right into the swimming pool of drama and problems. Somehow this is “easier” to them.
All this chaos because of men’s strong desire for women to only fukk them and for women’s desire for the title of girlfriend."
Read more: Using The Terms “Girlfriend” or “Boyfriend” | The Blackdragon Blog
Hypergamy is the real reason why the dating game is so fukked up. I wanted to make a thread about it but im type busy right now. Any else is open to expand on this topic.
80% of the female population is only attracted to the top 10% of the male sex.
80% of the female population is only attracted to the top 10% of the male sex.
Hypergamy is the real reason why the dating game is so fukked up. I wanted to make a thread about it but im type busy right now. Any else is open to expand on this topic.
80% of the female population is only attracted to the top 10% of the male sex.
Actually its more than 90
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I'm the same way, the thing is Its not even about sex or relationships for me, it's just the blatant disregard and disrespect.
Women will use you and suck you dry and when you finally say no mas you are bitter a loser, why are you acting like this to try and guilt you back into nice guy emotion friend comfort
How many times will a "female friend" ask you how your day is without it going into a favor of some sort
this year i really got serious with it, i changed my number deactivated my fb and told no one, the few chicks that actually had my new number, when they would text me i wouldnt even reply, i dont have caller id so the other day one of them called me and said oh i thought you were dead or something im like nah and before even asking me how my life was, "omg I have something to tell you" i lied and said i was driving and i'd call her back and never did
i'm not dr phil, im not a shoulder to cry on, im not a bank or a sugar daddy, i don't want to hear about your day, help you move, help you paint, drive you to the mall or pick you up from the club no thank you
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