Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Is it just me, or are there a shyt load of single women now? I have twitter, but it's mostly for NBA updates and some random shyt, I rarely say anything on there, but I have noticed a huge number of single women.

stats have shown ther are more single people in north america percentage wise in the 18-34 demographic than ever before.

the less you are to commit to a woman the more she tingles for you because you are what she can't have,

as a man when you think of it unless you have one of the few special women out there why be in a relationship? Sex? if your halfway decent looking you can get sex constantly from an array of woman. Any man out there can text or talk to 5-10 women at a time if he wants, its nothing to talk to these chicks on twitter, instagram, facebook etc. adding them im programs

love? muhaha yeah right, its getting rarer and rarer to find chicks that actually will love you and not your wallet or what you offer them, not to mention love is fleeting emotion to most chicks as every guy the yhave dated they "loved" and "never felt this spark" or "way before.

As well i think many guys are waking up, they realize there are no benefits to relationship you can talk to, have sex with a whole bunch of chicks without having to cheat or commit to so why do it?

again thi sis why as a man who is righteous and faithful and has morals and actually wants a relationship don't get frustrated now these chicks have no idea, they still think those 400 followers on twitter all want to wife them and walk them down the altar

 

[MikelArteta]

"What I’m about to say I’ve said before. 80% of all relationship problems are caused by the following problem:

Boy meets girl. They go on a few dates, have sex twice (at the most!), and the boy instantly gets oneitis. Boy says to the girl “I think we should be exclusive”. Girl says “But I just met you like two weeks ago…” but then catches herself and thinks “Wait a minute! If I agree to this, I can put ‘In A Relationship’ on my Facebook! I can tell everyone I have a BOYFRIEND! Awesome!” So she quickly corrects herself and says “Okay.”

They embrace and celebrate. She’s ecstatic she’s now someone’s “girlfriend”. He’s ecstatic that other guys won’t be fukking her. Just one small problem: they’re both wrong.

Two weeks ago they didn’t even know each other. Now they’re in a “relationship”. It’s stupid, insane, and ridiculous. It’s a recipe for disaster, but that’s exactly how most people do this.

They go on to experience a brief wonderful period of NRE followed by an extended period of jealousy, angst, drama, possibly boredom, and likely some cheating. They have an explosive breakup, go through a mourning period, then repeat the entire silly process with someone new.

What people should do is fukk someone for months and months, while fukking other people (using condoms) before even thinking about discussing the concept of exclusivity or boyfriend/girlfriend status. But no one wants to do that. They’d rather jump right into the swimming pool of drama and problems. Somehow this is “easier” to them.

All this chaos because of men’s strong desire for women to only fukk them and for women’s desire for the title of girlfriend."

Read more: Using The Terms “Girlfriend” or “Boyfriend” | The Blackdragon Blog

relationships are dead, as a man any girl is available even if shes in a relationship just wait it out odds are it won't last past 3 months

i used to get oneitis fast killing that was one of the best things i ever did, i then turned into the "a$$hole" according to women who would voluntarily suck my dikk in their car or get on top of me, never did i ask but because after all this i never had any feelings for them i "used them"

in a womans mind there is no such thing as free sex, women will give you sex as a downpayment to either a relationship, a favor or you buying her stuff etc., when you do none of that she gets upset

 

[Malta]

stats have shown ther are more single people in north america percentage wise in the 18-34 demographic than ever before.

the less you are to commit to a woman the more she tingles for you because you are what she can't have,

as a man when you think of it unless you have one of the few special women out there why be in a relationship? Sex? if your halfway decent looking you can get sex constantly from an array of woman. Any man out there can text or talk to 5-10 women at a time if he wants, its nothing to talk to these chicks on twitter, instagram, facebook etc. adding them im programs

love? muhaha yeah right, its getting rarer and rarer to find chicks that actually will love you and not your wallet or what you offer them, not to mention love is fleeting emotion to most chicks as every guy the yhave dated they "loved" and "never felt this spark" or "way before.

As well i think many guys are waking up, they realize there are no benefits to relationship you can talk to, have sex with a whole bunch of chicks without having to cheat or commit to so why do it?

again thi sis why as a man who is righteous and faithful and has morals and actually wants a relationship don't get frustrated now these chicks have no idea, they still think those 400 followers on twitter all want to wife them and walk them down the altar

I posted about my dude before, but his chick left him after 6 years, she led him on for months and made him think they were fine before finally breaking up with him like a week before Christmas out of the blue. This is a man she claimed she would die for, was the best man she ever met, and the man she wanted to marry and have kids with. Yet, she refused to give him another chance.

I told him to stop talking to her, she wanted to be friends and he tried, but then the games started. She would get mad at him for talking about getting back together, but told him "If we get back together, I want kids soon" . How you gonna get mad at someone for wanting you back, then tell them you want kids with them if you do get back, even though you're telling them you'll never have sex with them again. I had to tell him to leave it alone and he finally listened, just let her find out the harsh reality that most nikkas aren't shyt.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Don't be this guy:

 

[MikelArteta]

I posted about my dude before, but his chick left him after 6 years, she led him on for months and made him think they were fine before finally breaking up with him like a week before Christmas out of the blue. This is a man she claimed she would die for, was the best man she ever met, and the man she wanted to marry and have kids with. Yet, she refused to give him another chance.

I told him to stop talking to her, she wanted to be friends and he tried, but then the games started. She would get mad at him for talking about getting back together, but told him "If we get back together, I want kids soon" . How you gonna get mad at someone for wanting you back, then tell them you want kids with them if you do get back, even though you're telling them you'll never have sex with them again. I had to tell him to leave it alone and he finally listened, just let her find out the harsh reality that most nikkas aren't shyt.

yep let her go and rot, i always say think of all the men out there who just use women for sex, think of all the abusers, the liars, men living double lives, the players, the cheaters good luck. the thing is as a man if you are faithful and treat her good trust me she will be thikning of you when she gets played etc or when she realizes that most men ain't worth a damn, but as a man why would you go back to that?


i'm from canada and here are some stats

On average, every six days a woman in Canada is killed by her intimate partner. In 2009, 67 women were murdered by a current or former spouse or boyfriend.

1
On any given day in Canada, more than 3,000 women (along with their 2,500 children) are living in an emergency shelter to escape domestic violence.

2
Each year, over 40,000 arrests result from domestic violence—that’s about 12% of all violent crime in Canada.

3 Since only 22% of all incidents are reported to the police, the real number is much higher.

3,
In just one year in Canada, 427,000 women over the age of 15 reported they had been sexually assaulted. Since only about 10% of all sexual assaults are reported to the police, the actual number is much higher.

4
Half of all women in Canada have experienced at least one incident of physical or sexual violence since the age of 16.

5
About 80% of sex trafficking victims in Canada are women and girls.

6
61% of all Canadians say they personally know at least one woman who has been sexually or physically assaulted.

7
More than one in ten Canadian women say they have been stalked by someone in a way that made them fear for their life.12

good luck out there

 

[MikelArteta]

some american stats

One in four women (25%) has experienced domestic violence in her lifetime.

Between 600,000 and 6 million women are victims of domestic violence each year

Women ages 20-24 are at the greatest risk of nonfatal intimate partner violence.

Women of all races are about equally vulnerable to violence by an intimate partner.


Nearly 2.2 million people called a domestic violence crisis or hot line in 2004 to escape crisis situations, seek advice, or assist someone they thought might be victims.

Nearly three out of four (74%) of Americans personally know someone who is or has been a victim of domestic violence. 30% of Americans say they know a woman who has been physically abused by her husband or boyfriend in the past year.

On average, more than three women and one man are murdered by their intimate partners in this country every day. In 2000, 1,247 women were killed by an intimate partner.

On average, more than three women and one man are murdered by their intimate partners in this country every day. In 2000, 1,247 women were killed by an intimate partner.

Thirty-seven percent of women who sought treatment in emergency rooms for violence-related injuries in 1994 were injured by a current or former spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend

Dating violence

Approximately one in five female high school students reports being physically and/or sexually abused by a dating partner.

Forty percent of girls age 14 to 17 report knowing someone their age who has been hit or beaten by a boyfriend

One in five teens in a serious relationship reports having been hit, slapped, or pushed by a partner. 14% of teens report their boyfriend or girlfriend threatened to harm them or themselves to avoid a breakup. Many studies indicate that as a dating relationship becomes more serious, the potential for and nature of violent behavior also escalates.

Date rape accounts for almost 70% of sexual assaults reported by adolescent and college age women; 38% of those women are between 14 and 17 years old.

Three in four women (76%) who reported they had been raped and/or physically assaulted since age 18 said that an intimate partner (current or former husband, cohabiting partner, or date) committed the assault.

One in five (21%) women reported she had been raped or physically or sexually assaulted in her lifetime.

Annually in the United States, 503,485 women are stalked by an intimate partner.
Eighty percent of women who are stalked by former husbands are physically assaulted by that partner and 30 percent are sexually assaulted by that partner.

like i said, dont even stress over these broads, just wish them luck they will need it out there

 

[Malta]

yep let her go and rot, i always say think of all the men out there who just use women for sex, think of all the abusers, the liars, men living double lives, the players, the cheaters good luck. the thing is as a man if you are faithful and treat her good trust me she will be thikning of you when she gets played etc or when she realizes that most men ain't worth a damn, but as a man why would you go back to that?


i'm from canada and here are some stats



good luck out there

I normally don't give a shyt about other nikkas, but this is one of the few dudes who is a nikka I trust. I kept sending him texts "Let it go", he told me she's a good chick and nice to be around, didn't want to throw away all the years like that. To me, it seemed like she was trying to force him to propose and wanted kids ASAP, while he wanted to travel a bit more with her and live child free for a few more years. It makes her decision even more idiotic if she wants kids, considering he never cheated on her and is a standup dude.

She's going to end up having a kid with someone she doesn't know half as well, and will more than likely have to wait the same amount of time my boy wanted to wait regardless.

 

[Shameonyou]

Don't be this guy:

She's Too Good For Everyone - YouTube

aint that kristina from general hospital?

 

[jadillac]

Thanks for the advice fellas. One big thing i failed to mention is that 2 days after i met her brother i told her i wanted to talk about "us".. I got caught up in the moment and told her i didn't want to be single anymore. Keep in mind this is about a month after we started talking. That's when she hit me with the whole she's not ready to get serious talk. After i hit her with the "i wish you the best of luck", she said this diesn't mean i want to stop talking to you. So a part of me thinks i scared her away with the whole "us" talk so early.

j/k, I just wanted to use that. LOL

Nah, but you didnt do it too soon. A month in some things need to be addressed so ur not wasting YOUR time or getting the wrong idea.

You didn't need to use the "I dont wanna be single anymore" Kinda makes you sound wimpy/desperate. But hey, we all gotta learn what to say/not to say.

Now as far as her reponse of 'she still wants to talk to you", I'd leave her alone. If she REALLY wants to talk to you, then she'll hit you up....but dont wait for it. OR, you can ask her to hangout...and if she blows you off more than once, for whatever reason.....cut it altogether and dont look back.

If you think about it, if you want a relationship, and she doesnt, but still wats to talk to you.....then what's the point? You clearly want two different things.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

brehs im officially checking out of the dating game

going to stay focused on my gym
my job

and saving money

 

[Wild self]

Hypergamy is the real reason why the dating game is so fukked up. I wanted to make a thread about it but im type busy right now. Any else is open to expand on this topic.

80% of the female population is only attracted to the top 10% of the male sex.

Shyt like this is why I advocate men to travel to different parts of America and the world while being mysterious. Get ya ass in shape, dress sharp, be a funny ass dude that takes no bullshyt, and have actual hobbies so that you don't depend on a woman to make ya life complete.

Just fukk them and go, like a$$holes that they like :shake:

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Shyt like this is why I advocate men to travel to different parts of America and the world while being mysterious. Get ya ass in shape, dress sharp, be a funny ass dude that takes no bullshyt, and have actual hobbies so that you don't depend on a woman to make ya life complete.

Just fukk them and go, like a$$holes that they like :shake:

co sign.

took this chick out yesterday to boston pizza...watched football.ate,made her laugh

all she kept telling me was how nice i was and my based morals i have

deep down im like im going to hit it eventually

so i drop her off..i got a kiss on the lip



















woke up with early and she text me " hey im happy we met but right now im not ready for a relationship" i was

lol i was actually trying to seriously get to know her...smh


ohh and shes from trini

 

[Scotch Hall]

brehs im officially checking out of the dating game

going to stay focused on my gym
my job

and saving money

breh thats the perfect mindset
next thing u know some girls gonna be throwing that Pus @ U foreal

 

[Wild self]

co sign.

took this chick out yesterday to boston pizza...watched football.ate,made her laugh

all she kept telling me was how nice i was and my based morals i have

deep down im like im going to hit it eventually

so i drop her off..i got a kiss on the lip



















woke up with early and she text me " hey im happy we met but right now im not ready for a relationship" i was

lol i was actually trying to seriously get to know her...smh


ohh and shes from trini

I rather take her out to bowling, not simp at her at all, joke on her when I beat her ass in a game, and give her some ciroc berry to reveal everything.

I ain't feeding chicks, not kissing their ass by sucking up to their opinion, give any kind of advice, or ask bullshyt job interview-like questions. I established from the start that I'm looking for some fun and not looking for anything serious.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

lol at this simp wrote on this girls profile

that must hurt..nikka dated her for a 4mths