Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Welcome to the world of female entitlement where you should break your neck looking out for her simply because she has a vagina and in return she gives you the pleasure of getting to deal with her and maybe if you're lucky you get sex.The funny thing is i asked a lot of these girls why they never considered going out with me, or never saw me as more than i friend. They would say "You just need to have more confidence, you are too shy" or "To be honest i think you are kind of a doormat" or "You are just too nice"
So then i build inner confidence, and this new confidence doesn't benefit my female friends, then guess what happens?
"You are so angry now" or "You are so bitter now" or "You seem like you hate women"
Women treat nice guys like dirt but when he finally notices he is being treated like dirt, they treat him like a criminal for not being their personal errand boy.
Yeah man, if they were on some real friendship, they'd hit you out of nowhere seeing how you were doing, but they never do. They only hit you up when they need something, to where they are as sweet as sugar. As soon as they get the favor, they start avoiding you and being 'super busy' until you stop attempting to get a hold of them. Some of them WILL try to pull that you're angry, you're bitter card or what happened. You did the right thing. All you did was cut out users from your life.
Seth Brundle
Sick with it
Alright brehs, I dropped a little knowledge earlier as a divorced dude. Now I come seeking knowledge.
I dropped this one girl I work with after her blowing me off on a 'hang out' invite for the second time. Have to have scruples, not accept shabby behavior, all that good stuff.
So I subsequently started messing with this girl from an online dating site, and she's pretty chill. One thing is she's a teacher, and we started meeting up etc right in the middle of her exam period. So she's crazy busy and says we can catch up after the exams are done.
We've hung out twice, but I'm pretty sure she's dating other dudes. Which she can. We're certainly not exclusive at this early, early stage.
My thing is, though, I'm not dating any other broads. I'm interested in this girl. And I'm thinking all of this time she's busy working on exams, surely some of that time is dedicated to trial dates with other cats.
Am I antiquated in my thinking? Should I be chasing skeezers off on the side? I should mention this teacher and I, we text daily. We talk on the phone every other day. She got liquored and texted me saying she liked me. Things are positive.
And if I'm being honest, modern women being so wretched, I just don't have the energy or patience to pretend to like the ones I don't, when I genuinely quite like this one and want to smash for the right reasons (ie not out of a sick, desperate loneliness).
Thoughts?
I dropped this one girl I work with after her blowing me off on a 'hang out' invite for the second time. Have to have scruples, not accept shabby behavior, all that good stuff.
So I subsequently started messing with this girl from an online dating site, and she's pretty chill. One thing is she's a teacher, and we started meeting up etc right in the middle of her exam period. So she's crazy busy and says we can catch up after the exams are done.
We've hung out twice, but I'm pretty sure she's dating other dudes. Which she can. We're certainly not exclusive at this early, early stage.
My thing is, though, I'm not dating any other broads. I'm interested in this girl. And I'm thinking all of this time she's busy working on exams, surely some of that time is dedicated to trial dates with other cats.
Am I antiquated in my thinking? Should I be chasing skeezers off on the side? I should mention this teacher and I, we text daily. We talk on the phone every other day. She got liquored and texted me saying she liked me. Things are positive.
And if I'm being honest, modern women being so wretched, I just don't have the energy or patience to pretend to like the ones I don't, when I genuinely quite like this one and want to smash for the right reasons (ie not out of a sick, desperate loneliness).
Thoughts?
my humble advice. if you're tying to get puss, go after everything. go after skeezers, go after that teacher, go after all chicks you find attractive.
but you have to go after the teacher with the mentality of "if she won't fukk, someone else will". don't even need to be a dikk. just truly feel that and it will be in your swag and attitude. just don't be thirsty (this is where going after other chicks helps cause then she doesn't become your sole focus where you overthink things with her)
if for whatever reason, you already want her to be your girl, your best bet is to get the puss. once you get the puss keep fukking her but while focusing on getting puss from other chicks. eventually if she likes you she'll develop feelings. but you're in a bad spot cause it seems like you developed feelings before her (kinda like the roles are reversed). that's why i still think you should get other p*ssy to get your mind right and to not give off the thirsty vibe.
Seth Brundle
Sick with it
When you really start being attractive to women is when you couldn't care any less if you have one or not. You're just enjoying your life to the fullest. For some reason they just pick up on that and want to enter into your life. When you've learned to be alone, you will also accept a lot less deviant behavior, which will also get you more respect.
Women are the most dishonest creatures in the world brehs.
I went on a date with this chick, a kindergarten teacher. Went well, did all the right things. At the end of the night, she said "I had a really great time, thanks so much". I asked her if she was up for hanging out again, and she said absolutely. Cool. She gets home and is texting me all night. She brings up the second date. Alright, she's feelin me, that's cool, let's see where it goes.
Next three days, nothing lol. No responses to my texts. "How's your day goin?". Nothin lol.
It's fine if she doesn't wanna go out again, not like I caught feelings. But don't say you wanna go out again if you don't. I'm a grown man, don't play games. I can handle the truth.
These hoes man, these hoes.
I went on a date with this chick, a kindergarten teacher. Went well, did all the right things. At the end of the night, she said "I had a really great time, thanks so much". I asked her if she was up for hanging out again, and she said absolutely. Cool. She gets home and is texting me all night. She brings up the second date. Alright, she's feelin me, that's cool, let's see where it goes.
Next three days, nothing lol. No responses to my texts. "How's your day goin?". Nothin lol.
It's fine if she doesn't wanna go out again, not like I caught feelings. But don't say you wanna go out again if you don't. I'm a grown man, don't play games. I can handle the truth.
These hoes man, these hoes.
Seth Brundle
Sick with it
Yeah, and I guess since divorcing and that I figured I was there. But I guess I fukk myself up when broads come along.
My bad, brehs.
Man that's why I say I'm not really too interested in 'having' a woman. Most of these American women aren't worth more than the face time you're having with them. You sit back and thinking you are building with them and they are trying to set you up as a favor buddy of some sort. Honestly, it's like these women want you to treat them like they are hoes, as if they are low worth and are but one of many women you are dealing with. It's unfortunate that you are actually PUNISHED for being decent and responsible when it comes to women. It's crazy that it's actually the opposite when it comes to women. The worst she speaks of you, the more she thinks of you. "Oh I can't stand him. He's such a jerk. He treats me so bad." That's when you know she's on you. On the other hand, "He's so sweet." That means she doesn't want to see you again other than for favors. It's so stupid that any man with sense doesn't want to deal with it.
Shameonyou
All Star
My thoughts? I think a true woman of value knows how to be alone....
I am big on developing a relationship with a woman solo...which means, im not looking, and shes not looking....if she cant handle not having male attention, thats someone I cant roll with because she will translate that into the relationship when we are together....I can tell already by reading your post, shes the type that cant be trusted, but will lure you to sleep with her fake genuine aura
our society is just so lazy in self discipline that we allow women to "have options" so they can basically pick a color when it comes to men...
I understand its early, but I dont see how a woman looks at herself in the mirror knowing shes emotionally giving herself to more than one dude....
to me a ho is someone who cant live without male attention..
only deal with women that can deal with one man at a time PERIOD....
those are the ones that deserve emotional energy.
Im going through this shyt right now.
how many texts did you send in the next 3 days?
women's minds are fickle like that. the fukked up thing is that maybe she wasn't even lying. she probably did feel like seeing you again that night at that specific moment. but maybe you sent her too many texts and she got turned off.
or maybe it has nothing to do with you. cause say she feels good about you on date night so she wants to see you again. but the next day, some other guy that she's feeling more asked her out (could be the guy she sees everyday at work, could be the guy she gave her number to a week ago, could be the cute buff guy at the gym) so now someone is offering something she perceives as better to her. could also be that ex she never got over that called her and fukked her and now she's feeling him.
who really knows. the point is, don't be thirsty, don't trust words over actions, remember they have fickle minds so don't even take it personal and always be ready to replace their ass.
Seth Brundle
Sick with it
I want to give her the benefit of the doubt so I'm not projecting my unfaithful ex-wife onto her, but if it can seem like a good thing and it's not the only good thing for her then I'd prolly best cut and run.
Shameonyou
All Star
I want to give her the benefit of the doubt so I'm not projecting my unfaithful ex-wife onto her, but if it can seem like a good thing and it's not the only good thing for her then I'd prolly best cut and run.
At the end of the day do what you feel makes you MOST AT EASE throughout your day....
you live longer when you are not worrying....if this chic makes you feel insecure in how comfortable you can be being happy with the idea of you and her...bounce before you get drawn into that mudhole.
As sad as it is, im convincing myself that a woman cant be completely loved by a man, we need to love God more, our ambitions more, and ourSELVES more......
what we have to offer a woman isnt our love, but should be our time and energy....make sure a woman has earned THAT from you.