Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Sounds like what I JUST came out of

Met girl on POF, we texted everyday for over two months, hung out several times, talked on phone, emailing funny pictures of us a kids, made lil comments towards each that I THOUGHT would indicate we were at least exclusive and potentially serious down the road. To me, talking everyday for 8-9 weeks made me think we were together.

I cut off all my other chicks - because I truly liked this girl, she got my jokes, I got hers, we laughed....liked the same songs....we just clicked on nearly every aspect. Had me like

She had began going back to college/school this semester, and she got a part time job as well. But anyway, slowly, the excuses started. "Sorry, I can't make plans", etc. Which was valid givn her schedule, but the thing is, after awhile, I know she wasn't working THAT much and she was hanging out w/ her "friends". Which too was valid also at first to me...I didnt wanna take up all of her free time or be selfish to think she had to spend it all with me.

But my gut was telling me she wasn't being 100 with me.......Fortunately I kept an ace in the hole b/c I was watching already her twitter. unbeknownst to her.
And let's just say one day it became obvious that she was talking to some other dude on the low.

This is the same girl who looked me in the face less than a week earlier and told me lies about how we were together, and how she's very trustworthy in relationships.

Soooo, I say all this to say, if you already know shes seeing other dudes, just drop her. You can't make her drop the other dudes just b/c you like her. She may not like you the way you think she does.

And if I didn't have that girls twitter, she could've kept jerking me around b/c I had no proof of her cheating....even though I had a feeling in my gut telling me she was being shady.

So go with your gut.

breh 8-9 weeks..pls tell me you smashed?

jadilica my breh you come off a nice guy
that shyt dont work in north america..you would probably eat so much outside of north america

 

[Malta]

If me and my girl breakup, I'm done with long term relationships, no way in hell will I find another woman like this in America and no way in hell I'm going to put in the time to get to know another chick. I feel for you single dudes that actually want a quality chick, even in NYC where women outnumber men it's hard for these dudes cause all these bytches want to pretend they're living a Sex in the City lifestyle of brunch, lunch, dinner and broadway show everynight. All these bytches want to do is go out every night in some way shape or form, it's like can't you sit home one night and just chill? Does every night have to be some get together.

I hear these stories from my girls' friends and these bytches are truly clueless as to why they're single. They will tell me they wish they had someone like me, and I quickly tell them we wouldn't last two weeks, I'm not about to take you out to dinner every fukking night or go to the club so you can pose for the same picture you took last week at the very same club. These are the type of women that want to be seen by other men, even when they're out with you, just in case Victor Cruz happens to be at the club that night

 

[MikelArteta]

Sounds like what I JUST came out of

Met girl on POF, we texted everyday for over two months, hung out several times, talked on phone, emailing funny pictures of us a kids, made lil comments towards each that I THOUGHT would indicate we were at least exclusive and potentially serious down the road. To me, talking everyday for 8-9 weeks made me think we were together.

I cut off all my other chicks - because I truly liked this girl, she got my jokes, I got hers, we laughed....liked the same songs....we just clicked on nearly every aspect. Had me like

She had began going back to college/school this semester, and she got a part time job as well. But anyway, slowly, the excuses started. "Sorry, I can't make plans", etc. Which was valid givn her schedule, but the thing is, after awhile, I know she wasn't working THAT much and she was hanging out w/ her "friends". Which too was valid also at first to me...I didnt wanna take up all of her free time or be selfish to think she had to spend it all with me.

But my gut was telling me she wasn't being 100 with me.......Fortunately I kept an ace in the hole b/c I was watching already her twitter. unbeknownst to her.
And let's just say one day it became obvious that she was talking to some other dude on the low.

This is the same girl who looked me in the face less than a week earlier and told me lies about how we were together, and how she's very trustworthy in relationships.

Soooo, I say all this to say, if you already know shes seeing other dudes, just drop her. You can't make her drop the other dudes just b/c you like her. She may not like you the way you think she does.

And if I didn't have that girls twitter, she could've kept jerking me around b/c I had no proof of her cheating....even though I had a feeling in my gut telling me she was being shady.

So go with your gut.

Never give up your leverage aka other chicks. Especially for a guy, any abg chick can have guys chasing after her for a man it takes tkme to build up your bullpen.

Best believe when meeting girls online they ain't deleting their profile they hide it or create a new one and keep it hidden. The luster of attention is to much to give up

If your girl for fb with a bunch f guy friends, twitter instagram or you met her online watch out


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[thelonious21]

"Perfect man? What women want? What are we searching for? Are we willing to know what does it mean “the perfect man” or what women “want” – only to be BETTER SLAVES? Are we so blinded by steam from our gonads that no matter what we know, we still stumble ignorantly/ in semi comatose state, into relationships with women and we are still willing to do everything just to have p*ssy?

Mastery of women means that we are no longer their tools as we have been designed (natural state of man is slavery to women – pure evolution) but we have our mission, our freedom and our peace of mind. According to my experiences – once you have those things, you honestly do not give a fukk about what women want and what is their perfect man. Once you really understand them you know that they are not worthy of deeper interest or consideration. You are living your own life and enjoying them as long as YOU want, on YOUR terms and as long as they behave.

My relationship towards them is like that of a mature man to children. I enjoy interactions with children. Their games are cute, they are amusing creatures. it is the same with women. I understand the pain necessary to digest this knowledge, but once digested, what is the reason for bitterness, anger or any other destructive emotions? They have been made that way and given their mission – ensure procreation in this meat market, it was necessary. It is up to us to FINALLY understand them and behave accordingly."

 

[MikelArteta]

If me and my girl breakup, I'm done with long term relationships, no way in hell will I find another woman like this in America and no way in hell I'm going to put in the time to get to know another chick. I feel for you single dudes that actually want a quality chick, even in NYC where women outnumber men it's hard for these dudes cause all these bytches want to pretend they're living a Sex in the City lifestyle of brunch, lunch, dinner and broadway show everynight. All these bytches want to do is go out every night in some way shape or form, it's like can't you sit home one night and just chill? Does every night have to be some get together.

I hear these stories from my girls' friends and these bytches are truly clueless as to why they're single. They will tell me they wish they had someone like me, and I quickly tell them we wouldn't last two weeks, I'm not about to take you out to dinner every fukking night or go to the club so you can pose for the same picture you took last week at the very same club. These are the type of women that want to be seen by other men, even when they're out with you, just in case Victor Cruz happens to be at the club that night

Daps, like I've said in this thread I'm done. I have no dating profile no fb, no twitter. I don't club, drink smoke etc. my requirements are so high for relationships that when folk here it esp women they hate it.




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[thelonious21]

we need a thread about GROWN men in relationships.. not jus trying to fukk.. im WAAAAAAAAAAAAY past that..

Right now im fighting with this "good man" shyt.. im hearing about what the next man would do.. or how shyt should go/ b in the relationship.. and its like.. where does she get her P.O.V.? like is there some good man manual she reading from that i am not following..

 

[MikelArteta]

I bash on Reincar's approach towards women alot but there is alot of good advice in this thread.

The comment about learning to be single/alone so you don't tolerate bullshyt from the women you're dating is true.

One thing I will say for the guys who are getting mixed messages or confusion from the actions or (lack thereof) of the women they're dating is that when it comes to dating and interacting with men:

Women do everything for a reason.

Give her the benefit of doubt once, but also realize whatever she did or didn't do was on purpose. If she aint call you back, its cuz she purposefully did not call you back/answer your texts etc. Women aren't like men who don't do shyt for no reason or out of absent mindedness.

If you ask a chick for a 2nd date, and she says that time is no good or she has a conflict (AND SHE DOESN'T OFFER AN ALTERNATIVE TIME OR DATE), She's not interested and leave it at that.

Women will make time and put in effort to hang out with the people they want to. If they're serious about wanting a "nice guy", they will date them.

If a chick says "you're too good to be true", believe her and leave her alone. Don't let her lowered expectations of what her mate should be, blind you to the fact that she will stick to whatever level of mate she is comfortable with...or she will sully your good values and try to bring you down to the level of mate she is comfortable with.

Anyways, despite all that there are good women out there. Me personally, I found one and tomorrow we celebrate our 3rd wedding anniversary.

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[Malta]

Daps, like I've said in this thread I'm done. I have no dating profile no fb, no twitter. I don't club, drink smoke etc. my requirements are so high for relationships that when folk here it esp women they hate it.




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I just got back on twitter, don't drink/club/smoke either, what I expect is through the damn roof. I have only met two women that met them, my current girl, and the chick I was seeing in Brazil, everyone else has failed miserably.

*Neither of these women were raised in America.

we need a thread about GROWN men in relationships.. not jus trying to fukk.. im WAAAAAAAAAAAAY past that..

Right now im fighting with this "good man" shyt.. im hearing about what the next man would do.. or how shyt should go/ b in the relationship.. and its like.. where does she get her P.O.V.? like is there some good man manual she reading from that i am not following..

Tell her if she wants the next man, find someone better, a good man is a flawed man, expecting perfection in any way is silly. Tell her to stop listening to her single friends and address the issue with you, and how you two can work on it.

 

[Not By Bread Alone]

I have no dating profile no fb, no twitter. I don't club, drink smoke etc. my requirements are so high for relationships that when folk here it esp women they hate it.

I am in a similar situation with regards to lifestyle, but what are your "requirements" that you said?

 

[Turbulent]

"Perfect man? What women want? What are we searching for? Are we willing to know what does it mean “the perfect man” or what women “want” – only to be BETTER SLAVES? Are we so blinded by steam from our gonads that no matter what we know, we still stumble ignorantly/ in semi comatose state, into relationships with women and we are still willing to do everything just to have p*ssy?

Mastery of women means that we are no longer their tools as we have been designed (natural state of man is slavery to women – pure evolution) but we have our mission, our freedom and our peace of mind. According to my experiences – once you have those things, you honestly do not give a fukk about what women want and what is their perfect man. Once you really understand them you know that they are not worthy of deeper interest or consideration. You are living your own life and enjoying them as long as YOU want, on YOUR terms and as long as they behave.

My relationship towards them is like that of a mature man to children. I enjoy interactions with children. Their games are cute, they are amusing creatures. it is the same with women. I understand the pain necessary to digest this knowledge, but once digested, what is the reason for bitterness, anger or any other destructive emotions? They have been made that way and given their mission – ensure procreation in this meat market, it was necessary. It is up to us to FINALLY understand them and behave accordingly."

this dude knows!!! CHUCH!!

fukk what they want. it's about what YOU want and then telling them. if they don't want to do what you want, you give them the choice to leave. IF they start doing what you want and stop halfway, you tell them to leave. You're movie is the most important piece of art ever being created. You gotta be Stanley Kubrick type ruthless as fr as what performance you're getting from your actors. fukk their feelings, And if they leave or don't do what they're suppose to do, you fire them and get the understudy to fill in!!

 

[The ADD]

we need a thread about GROWN men in relationships.. not jus trying to fukk.. im WAAAAAAAAAAAAY past that..

Right now im fighting with this "good man" shyt.. im hearing about what the next man would do.. or how shyt should go/ b in the relationship.. and its like.. where does she get her P.O.V.? like is there some good man manual she reading from that i am not following..

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Never give up your leverage aka other chicks. Especially for a guy, any abg chick can have guys chasing after her for a man it takes tkme to build up your bullpen.

Best believe when meeting girls online they ain't deleting their profile they hide it or create a new one and keep it hidden. The luster of attention is to much to give up

If your girl for fb with a bunch f guy friends, twitter instagram or you met her online watch out


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breh they never leave pof.i see the same females from 2009

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

just going through my online banking statement

i see that purchase of 82$ money i could of spend elsewhere

cotdamn simp life is horrid

 

[MikelArteta]

we need a thread about GROWN men in relationships.. not jus trying to fukk.. im WAAAAAAAAAAAAY past that..

Right now im fighting with this "good man" shyt.. im hearing about what the next man would do.. or how shyt should go/ b in the relationship.. and its like.. where does she get her P.O.V.? like is there some good man manual she reading from that i am not following..

Never listen to women in regards to what they say about men or how men should act.

The sad thing is being a good man with most of these women out there will brig you nothing but heartache, a empty wallet, stress and pain.

The thing is as a good woman you are snatched up and wife early in life, as
A good man you will be played and cheated on and then as your in your thirties is when the reformed hos and career women will finally want you..


Screw te definition of what a chick says is a good man. I'm a man whose never cheated, never used a female for sex, never transmitted diseases, never lied about my intentions. Never hit a woman, I'm a man who coached a little league softball team filled with boys from single mother households and bought every mom flowers for mothers day, not because I'm a simp but to just to show that their kids appreciate them even though they couldn't afford it.

I'm also a man who has been lied to, cheated on, mocked, taking advantage of etc etc, I've heard every lie in te book from chicks, to where I'm at the point in my life I don't believe a single world the majority of them say.






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[MikelArteta]

just going through my online banking statement

i see that purchase of 82$ money i could of spend elsewhere

cotdamn simp life is horrid

Might as well went to a rub and tug


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