Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malta]

just going through my online banking statement

i see that purchase of 82$ money i could of spend elsewhere

cotdamn simp life is horrid

Groupon.com my man.

 

[thelonious21]

did i say something stupid?

 

[PrnzHakeem]

we need a thread about GROWN men in relationships.. not jus trying to fukk.. im WAAAAAAAAAAAAY past that..

Right now im fighting with this "good man" shyt.. im hearing about what the next man would do.. or how shyt should go/ b in the relationship.. and its like.. where does she get her P.O.V.? like is there some good man manual she reading from that i am not following..

Being a good man is not relationship specific, so dont worry about the specific she wants out of you. Just make sure you are on point for your own sake.

For alot of women, the man they want does not line up with the man they need. So don't listen to them.

Just be a stand up dude with goals, principals, morals, self respect and a healthy outlook on life. Don't get caught up in trying to be whatever random nikka they saw on BET's Single Ladies or The Game.

 

[MikelArteta]

breh they never leave pof.i see the same females from 2009

Lol I know what you mean. I'd never get serious with a woman from a free online dating site


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[Malta]

Shame this movie never came out -

 

[thelonious21]

Never listen to women in regards to what they say about men or how men should act.

The sad thing is being a good man with most of these women out there will brig you nothing but heartache, a empty wallet, stress and pain.

The thing is as a good woman you are snatched up and wife early in life, as
A good man you will be played and cheated on and then as your in your thirties is when the reformed hos and career women will finally want you..


Screw te definition of what a chick says is a good man. I'm a man whose never cheated, never used a female for sex, never transmitted diseases, never lied about my intentions. Never hit a woman, I'm a man who coached a little league softball team filled with boys from single mother households and bought every mom flowers for mothers day, not because I'm a simp but to just to show that their kids appreciate them even though they couldn't afford it.

I'm also a man who has been lied to, cheated on, mocked, taking advantage of etc etc, I've heard every lie in te book from chicks, to where I'm at the point in my life I don't believe a single world the majority of them say.






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on da real.. i had to speak with some of my married brehs to be like.. DF am i doing wrong i mean i cant say i was a stand up cat like u have written.. as far as not cheating and so forth.. but its like i keep hearing about how relationships are supposed to be this way and we argue and i dont do this and i dont do that... but i DO these things.. they may not be as often as it happens in the movies and shyt.. but i do my part.. and having no reference point is whats fukkin me up.. .. my dude dropped a line on me saying.. WOmen have higher EXPECTATIONS on us then we do them... and i was like .. you right my nikka... cuz in my world im fighting that shyt.. she hasnt cooked/ cleaned in months for me.. but she will fix her lips to say i havent taken her out.

 

[winb83]

Never give up your leverage aka other chicks. Especially for a guy, any abg chick can have guys chasing after her for a man it takes tkme to build up your bullpen.

Best believe when meeting girls online they ain't deleting their profile they hide it or create a new one and keep it hidden. The luster of attention is to much to give up

If your girl for fb with a bunch f guy friends, twitter instagram or you met her online watch out


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I've come to understand male female relations are all about leverage. It doesn't matter how much you like a woman your attitude has to always be there's the door if you don't like it bye bye. Always be indifferent to the outcome. Like DeNiro said it Heat never let yourself get to attached to something that you won't walk out on it in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner. Most guys lose all leverage by showing a woman they'll tolerate her bullshyt.

 

[The ADD]

I've come to understand male female relations are all about leverage. It doesn't matter how much you like a woman your attitude has to always be there's the door if you don't like it bye bye. Always be indifferent to the outcome. Like DeNiro said it Heat never let yourself get to attached to something that you won't walk out on it in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner. Most guys lose all leverage by showing a woman they'll tolerate her bullshyt.

Are you really applying that to meaningful man/woman relationships?

 

[PrnzHakeem]

on da real.. i had to speak with some of my married brehs to be like.. DF am i doing wrong i mean i cant say i was a stand up cat like u have written.. as far as not cheating and so forth.. but its like i keep hearing about how relationships are supposed to be this way and we argue and i dont do this and i dont do that... but i DO these things.. they may not be as often as it happens in the movies and shyt.. but i do my part.. and having no reference point is whats fukkin me up.. .. my dude dropped a line on me saying.. WOmen have higher EXPECTATIONS on us then we do them... and i was like .. you right my nikka... cuz in my world im fighting that shyt.. she hasnt cooked/ cleaned in months for me.. but she will fix her lips to say i havent taken her out.

Well, its time for you to start speaking out about what expectations she's not living up to. Squeaky wheels get oiled, so speak up. Tell her straight up the relationship isn't all about her, and that you'd like her to cook and what not. Do yall live together?

Ask yourself this: For all that she is expecting you to do for her, what is she bringing to the table? If the only answer is p*ssy and companionship, tell her she can keep that

 

[thelonious21]

Are you really applying that to meaningful man/woman relationships?

im still waiting for you to address what was worthy in my post

 

[The ADD]

im still waiting for you to address what was worthy in my post

It wasn't your post so much breh, be easy

 

[thelonious21]

It wasn't your post so much breh, be easy

 

[The ADD]

That said Nukka is on point with the advice. You seem to be catching hell while she isn't doing much.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Well, its time for you to start speaking out about what expectations she's not living up to. Squeaky wheels get oiled, so speak up. Tell her straight up the relationship isn't all about her, and that you'd like her to cook and what not. Do yall live together?

Ask yourself this: For all that she is expecting you to do for her, what is she bringing to the table? If the only answer is p*ssy and companionship, tell her she can keep that

so how did you meet your wife?

 

[jadillac]

After the past few months, the way I see it is, if ur a younger man(20s-early 30s) and you've got a goal or goals ur pursuing for yourself, unless you already have a good woman and y'all are established, I'd say leave them alone.

I can't speak for every man, but for me dealing with women is a distraction from what I'm trying to do in my life at the time. Either ur thinking about them too much in a positive way, or ur thinking about them too much in a negative way(lack of trust, her attitude, trying to figure her out, etc). Both are not good and both can/will throw you off ur focus.

There's no haze over ur mind when ur single.

Just because they are there, and ur single, doesn't mean you have to involve urself with them.