Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I bash on Reincar's approach towards women alot but there is alot of good advice in this thread.
The comment about learning to be single/alone so you don't tolerate bullshyt from the women you're dating is true.
One thing I will say for the guys who are getting mixed messages or confusion from the actions or (lack thereof) of the women they're dating is that when it comes to dating and interacting with men:
Women do everything for a reason.
Give her the benefit of doubt once, but also realize whatever she did or didn't do was on purpose. If she aint call you back, its cuz she purposefully did not call you back/answer your texts etc. Women aren't like men who don't do shyt for no reason or out of absent mindedness.
If you ask a chick for a 2nd date, and she says that time is no good or she has a conflict (AND SHE DOESN'T OFFER AN ALTERNATIVE TIME OR DATE), She's not interested and leave it at that.
Women will make time and put in effort to hang out with the people they want to. If they're serious about wanting a "nice guy", they will date them.
If a chick says "you're too good to be true", believe her and leave her alone. Don't let her lowered expectations of what her mate should be, blind you to the fact that she will stick to whatever level of mate she is comfortable with...or she will sully your good values and try to bring you down to the level of mate she is comfortable with.
Anyways, despite all that there are good women out there. Me personally, I found one and tomorrow we celebrate our 3rd wedding anniversary.
The comment about learning to be single/alone so you don't tolerate bullshyt from the women you're dating is true.
One thing I will say for the guys who are getting mixed messages or confusion from the actions or (lack thereof) of the women they're dating is that when it comes to dating and interacting with men:
Women do everything for a reason.
Give her the benefit of doubt once, but also realize whatever she did or didn't do was on purpose. If she aint call you back, its cuz she purposefully did not call you back/answer your texts etc. Women aren't like men who don't do shyt for no reason or out of absent mindedness.
If you ask a chick for a 2nd date, and she says that time is no good or she has a conflict (AND SHE DOESN'T OFFER AN ALTERNATIVE TIME OR DATE), She's not interested and leave it at that.
Women will make time and put in effort to hang out with the people they want to. If they're serious about wanting a "nice guy", they will date them.
If a chick says "you're too good to be true", believe her and leave her alone. Don't let her lowered expectations of what her mate should be, blind you to the fact that she will stick to whatever level of mate she is comfortable with...or she will sully your good values and try to bring you down to the level of mate she is comfortable with.
Anyways, despite all that there are good women out there. Me personally, I found one and tomorrow we celebrate our 3rd wedding anniversary.
I don't see the purpose of dating other chicks as purely a response to her potentially doing that. If you want to date around do it, if not don't. Trying to play the game and one up her situation is going to lead to more trouble than its worth especially since from what you have said there is no reason to think she is playing you at this point.
All of that said, if you aren't going to see other chicks you can't let her become so much of a focus that your mind gets messed up. Keep living your life and doing what you enjoy and any time you interact with her is just a single element of your overall life, not a huge portion until/if you both get to that point.
Seth Brundle
Sick with it
Same thing happened to me.
Except it was after two dates, the thing is the second she starts making excuses or ignorin just delete the number and get on.
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Same thing happened to me.
Except it was after two dates, the thing is the second she starts making excuses or ignorin just delete the number and get on.
The thing that screws with your mind is now you think did I do something or say something
Nezt time you go out on a date don't text or call afterwards just go cold let her panic
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Word. Straight up go igloo on her hot ass. She probably ain't used to some shyt like that from a nikka. Man I can't wait to give this girl theSame thing happened to me.
Except it was after two dates, the thing is the second she starts making excuses or ignorin just delete the number and get on.
The thing that screws with your mind is now you think did I do something or say something
Nezt time you go out on a date don't text or call afterwards just go cold let her panic
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when she try to talk. She probably gonna open her legs right then and there 
Sounds like what I JUST came out of
Met girl on POF, we texted everyday for over two months, hung out several times, talked on phone, emailing funny pictures of us a kids, made lil comments towards each that I THOUGHT would indicate we were at least exclusive and potentially serious down the road. To me, talking everyday for 8-9 weeks made me think we were together.
I cut off all my other chicks - because I truly liked this girl, she got my jokes, I got hers, we laughed....liked the same songs....we just clicked on nearly every aspect. Had me like
She had began going back to college/school this semester, and she got a part time job as well. But anyway, slowly, the excuses started. "Sorry, I can't make plans", etc. Which was valid givn her schedule, but the thing is, after awhile, I know she wasn't working THAT much and she was hanging out w/ her "friends". Which too was valid also at first to me...I didnt wanna take up all of her free time or be selfish to think she had to spend it all with me.
But my gut was telling me she wasn't being 100 with me.......Fortunately I kept an ace in the hole b/c I was watching already her twitter.
unbeknownst to her. And let's just say one day it became obvious that she was talking to some other dude on the low.
This is the same girl who looked me in the face less than a week earlier and told me lies about how we were together, and how she's very trustworthy in relationships.
Soooo, I say all this to say, if you already know shes seeing other dudes, just drop her. You can't make her drop the other dudes just b/c you like her. She may not like you the way you think she does.
And if I didn't have that girls twitter, she could've kept jerking me around b/c I had no proof of her cheating....even though I had a feeling in my gut telling me she was being shady.
So go with your gut.
happened to me this saturday..how you gonna flood my text inbox and then just randomly disappear..im stillSame thing happened to me.
Except it was after two dates, the thing is the second she starts making excuses or ignorin just delete the number and get on.
The thing that screws with your mind is now you think did I do something or say something
Nezt time you go out on a date don't text or call afterwards just go cold let her panic
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i honestly believe most of these chicks just want a free dinner
im now convinced
real talk i just deleted every female i had on my cell fukk chasing these hoes
..i feel free
"Perfect man? What women want? What are we searching for? Are we willing to know what does it mean “the perfect man” or what women “want” – only to be BETTER SLAVES? Are we so blinded by steam from our gonads that no matter what we know, we still stumble ignorantly/ in semi comatose state, into relationships with women and we are still willing to do everything just to have p*ssy?
Mastery of women means that we are no longer their tools as we have been designed (natural state of man is slavery to women – pure evolution) but we have our mission, our freedom and our peace of mind. According to my experiences – once you have those things, you honestly do not give a fukk about what women want and what is their perfect man. Once you really understand them you know that they are not worthy of deeper interest or consideration. You are living your own life and enjoying them as long as YOU want, on YOUR terms and as long as they behave.
My relationship towards them is like that of a mature man to children. I enjoy interactions with children. Their games are cute, they are amusing creatures. it is the same with women. I understand the pain necessary to digest this knowledge, but once digested, what is the reason for bitterness, anger or any other destructive emotions? They have been made that way and given their mission – ensure procreation in this meat market, it was necessary. It is up to us to FINALLY understand them and behave accordingly."
Mastery of women means that we are no longer their tools as we have been designed (natural state of man is slavery to women – pure evolution) but we have our mission, our freedom and our peace of mind. According to my experiences – once you have those things, you honestly do not give a fukk about what women want and what is their perfect man. Once you really understand them you know that they are not worthy of deeper interest or consideration. You are living your own life and enjoying them as long as YOU want, on YOUR terms and as long as they behave.
My relationship towards them is like that of a mature man to children. I enjoy interactions with children. Their games are cute, they are amusing creatures. it is the same with women. I understand the pain necessary to digest this knowledge, but once digested, what is the reason for bitterness, anger or any other destructive emotions? They have been made that way and given their mission – ensure procreation in this meat market, it was necessary. It is up to us to FINALLY understand them and behave accordingly."
here's one i thought of this morning:
when women give up the p*ssy the first time, it's usually the combinations of two things (usually one more than the other but you can't always tell which one it is the most)
1. She's horny and finds you attractive.
2. deep down she thinks you're better than her and she's starting to feel like she's running out of tricks and silly games to keep you chasing her. Basically she feels like you bring more to the table than her so she's scared that you'll wise up and realize you,re better than her. but since she's not used to playing with guys she feels are better than her, she feels like she has no other effective weapons besides her p*ssy.
So that's what she ends up giving up to stay at the high stakes table. Its almost like she feels like she's been getting away with murder but she better cash out while she's ahead cuz her luck is bound to turn pretty soon. but for her to think that way, she has to truly believe that you,re a better poker player than her. if she thinks your bluffing she'll start calling it and once you're caught she'll start milking you for all you got (time, attention, dates, material) until you're just out of chips or until she finds a new table with higher stakes. and once she finds that table, she'll tell you she'd rather go at the big boys table cause it's a better use of her time. Now she has the confidence to move up, she don't need you anymore and she'd rather play to win higher but risk losing more than waste time on the easy wins (but smaller chips) she'd get at your table. And now you gotta start all over with small chips and rebuild yourself from nothing.
Don't bluff. the girl might move on to the other table but at least you still got your chips and some other chicks will come to play at your table...
when women give up the p*ssy the first time, it's usually the combinations of two things (usually one more than the other but you can't always tell which one it is the most)
1. She's horny and finds you attractive.
2. deep down she thinks you're better than her and she's starting to feel like she's running out of tricks and silly games to keep you chasing her. Basically she feels like you bring more to the table than her so she's scared that you'll wise up and realize you,re better than her. but since she's not used to playing with guys she feels are better than her, she feels like she has no other effective weapons besides her p*ssy.
So that's what she ends up giving up to stay at the high stakes table. Its almost like she feels like she's been getting away with murder but she better cash out while she's ahead cuz her luck is bound to turn pretty soon. but for her to think that way, she has to truly believe that you,re a better poker player than her. if she thinks your bluffing she'll start calling it and once you're caught she'll start milking you for all you got (time, attention, dates, material) until you're just out of chips or until she finds a new table with higher stakes. and once she finds that table, she'll tell you she'd rather go at the big boys table cause it's a better use of her time. Now she has the confidence to move up, she don't need you anymore and she'd rather play to win higher but risk losing more than waste time on the easy wins (but smaller chips) she'd get at your table. And now you gotta start all over with small chips and rebuild yourself from nothing.
Don't bluff. the girl might move on to the other table but at least you still got your chips and some other chicks will come to play at your table...
im really on my 
when it comes to females now...
im going back to messing with them old broads from pof..i was eating then
..a lot of these young chicks are fukking indecisive as fukk
when it comes to females now...im going back to messing with them old broads from pof..i was eating then
..a lot of these young chicks are fukking indecisive as fukk
skimmed through your post Turb but I know what you mean. If you tell a chick you aint gonna talk to her no more because she acting a fool not even just fronting on the puss but playing games in general...you better do that or else the games will persist. Cold turkey. Delete number and cut off all contact so you at least still have your dignity in tact.
otherwise you gonna be stuck in a certain zone and it will be hard to prove that you "aint the one" so to speak. At that point you already lost so still...cold turkey
otherwise you gonna be stuck in a certain zone and it will be hard to prove that you "aint the one" so to speak. At that point you already lost so still...cold turkey
Sounds like what I JUST came out of
Met girl on POF, we texted everyday for over two months, hung out several times, talked on phone, emailing funny pictures of us a kids, made lil comments towards each that I THOUGHT would indicate we were at least exclusive and potentially serious down the road. To me, talking everyday for 8-9 weeks made me think we were together.
I cut off all my other chicks - because I truly liked this girl, she got my jokes, I got hers, we laughed....liked the same songs....we just clicked on nearly every aspect. Had me like
She had began going back to college/school this semester, and she got a part time job as well. But anyway, slowly, the excuses started. "Sorry, I can't make plans", etc. Which was valid givn her schedule, but the thing is, after awhile, I know she wasn't working THAT much and she was hanging out w/ her "friends". Which too was valid also at first to me...I didnt wanna take up all of her free time or be selfish to think she had to spend it all with me.
But my gut was telling me she wasn't being 100 with me.......Fortunately I kept an ace in the hole b/c I was watching already her twitter.
And let's just say one day it became obvious that she was talking to some other dude on the low.
This is the same girl who looked me in the face less than a week earlier and told me lies about how we were together, and how she's very trustworthy in relationships.
Soooo, I say all this to say, if you already know shes seeing other dudes, just drop her. You can't make her drop the other dudes just b/c you like her. She may not like you the way you think she does.
And if I didn't have that girls twitter, she could've kept jerking me around b/c I had no proof of her cheating....even though I had a feeling in my gut telling me she was being shady.
So go with your gut.
breh 8-9 weeks..pls tell me you smashed?
jadilica my breh you come off a nice guy that shyt dont work in north america..you would probably eat so much outside of north america