Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I'm approaching the end of day 1 and it hasn't been so bad. I try to just think about it like I'm moving on but there's an outside chance this will make her realize. I haven't really had the urge to contact her, but sometimes I'll see/hear something that reminds me of her and get a little nostalgic. At that point, I try to think about something negative, like for instance, how she wouldn't commit and has pretty much just strung me along even after I laid it all out on the table for her.

She texted me and sent some pics last night so at that point she already knows something is up when I'm not commenting on her sexy ass. This is basically me moving on though. 21 days w/ no contact just to see if that helps anything before I make it a permanent cut. It might be a little harder to get up in the morning for a while and a little lonely at night without her but there was no other alternative, aside from maybe getting played and destroyed emotionally.

Sure, I still love her and miss her and I'm doing this for both of us, but especially for me. Letting someone string you along is not loving yourself, and that's a pre-requisite for loving someone else, as well as overall success as someone who respects themselves.

I believe if you do the right thing then good things will follow. Stay strong!

I love women, but I love myself MORE!!!

Just keep strong man

 

[MikelArteta]

Whenever a woman is so "busy" shes just not that interested in you, women operate in the grey, rarely black or white.

 

[sfgiants]

aint nobody that damn busy. How many hrs do she work a week and how many credits she taking?

Full time work and I don't know about her class load but she's always working on some shyt for school. Like ive texted her at 1am when I'm getting home from somethin n she's up writing shyt
N she's always tired from both.

Sometimes irregular contact doesn't mean she doesn't like you.....cancelled plans are a bad sign though...

why not just ignore her and see what happens? people usually fold under the anxiety of being ignored and you can figure out where you stand forreal at least...

if she doesn't care that you never responded then she's not feeling you and you did the best thing AND you can always just try again in a few months.....women can be fickle.

Try a break maybe

Yea. I'm gona fall back, I don't like ppl canceling plans in general so I'm already annoyed. I don't even feel good about having backup options right now either
Actually what u said about hitting her up in a couple months is interesting I was just gona cut her off and listen to lost ones and then onto the next one for a week straight

 

[PeridotPuss]

Full time work and I don't know about her class load but she's always working on some shyt for school. Like ive texted her at 1am when I'm getting home from somethin n she's up writing shyt
N she's always tired from both.



Yea. I'm gona fall back, I don't like ppl canceling plans in general so I'm already annoyed. I don't even feel good about having backup options right now either
Actually what u said about hitting her up in a couple months is interesting I was just gona cut her off and listen to lost ones and then onto the next one for a week straight

Never burn bridges

 

[kevm3]

Yep, women are never THAT busy. Somehow they never miss their favorite show or things they really enjoy doing. Women that are infatuated with a man MAKE a way to spend a little time with the man they want because they don't want to lose him. We're in the technological age. It's utter nonsense that a woman can't take 5 seconds out of her day to send a text message or email.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep, women are never THAT busy. Somehow they never miss their favorite show or things they really enjoy doing. Women that are infatuated with a man MAKE a way to spend a little time with the man they want because they don't want to lose him. We're in the technological age. It's utter nonsense that a woman can't take 5 seconds out of her day to send a text message or email.

yep
these are the same people who wont miss love and hiphop, will text when there driving, will go clubbing on a work night, will go to that tyrese concert all while there "busy". And I'm sure there texting their best girl all day at work, checking their fb and instagram but they don't have time to even acknowledge your existence?


you know when you stand when a woman is 'busy"

 

[MikelArteta]

Full time work and I don't know about her class load but she's always working on some shyt for school. Like ive texted her at 1am when I'm getting home from somethin n she's up writing shyt
N she's always tired from both.



Yea. I'm gona fall back, I don't like ppl canceling plans in general so I'm already annoyed. I don't even feel good about having backup options right now either
Actually what u said about hitting her up in a couple months is interesting I was just gona cut her off and listen to lost ones and then onto the next one for a week straight

breh I dated a bay street (cdn equivalent of wall street) lawyer who worked like 70 hours a week, yet she still had time for me

people always make time for people they want to make time for

 

[fkthisgaysite]

Never burn bridges

You can burn bridges as long as you have the skill of building them imo.

 

[sfgiants]

breh I dated a bay street (cdn equivalent of wall street) lawyer who worked like 70 hours a week, yet she still had time for me

people always make time for people they want to make time for

Yep, women are never THAT busy. Somehow they never miss their favorite show or things they really enjoy doing. Women that are infatuated with a man MAKE a way to spend a little time with the man they want because they don't want to lose him. We're in the technological age. It's utter nonsense that a woman can't take 5 seconds out of her day to send a text message or email.

no fault in this reasoning.

 

[kevm3]

yep
these are the same people who wont miss love and hiphop, will text when there driving, will go clubbing on a work night, will go to that tyrese concert all while there "busy". And I'm sure there texting their best girl all day at work, checking their fb and instagram but they don't have time to even acknowledge your existence?


you know when you stand when a woman is 'busy"

Exactly. All I have to do now if I wanted to contact someone is select their name on the phone and send them a text, or I could hit them up over social network or via email. All of that takes less than ten seconds.

People who are too busy and disappear for weeks simply see you as a low priority. Second a quick message just to see how you are doing is NOT stopping anyone from studying or working.

 

[International Playa]

Women are never too busy mane. Women read and check celebrity gossip sites couple of times EVERYDAY.

Women will never tell you upfront they aint feeling you. They will give you excuses, hoping you get it.

 

[Action Mike]

Never burn bridges

This tactic rarely works, too many out there that would give you there time than playing games with the cold ones.

8/10 it's another dude, and whethers it's a jump off or wifey I ain't no second choice been.

I've reduced my 3 strike rule to 2.

Even times when girls flake, I've got something else to do so let them be busy, saved you time and did you a favour.

 

[Swamp-Thing]

Day 2 of no contact. She texted me again though. I'm feeling crazy, like half of me wants to call her back and have her stay over tonight and invite her to this festival next week. We were going to take her niece to the aquarium soon too and missing that also making me feel down. The other part of me, it's starting to sink in how much she toyed with me and didn't respect me and it hurts so bad because I love/d her. Why did she do me that way?

You can't be with someone who strings you along and sees you as a consolation prize. I heard Megan Fox demanded an open relationship from her man before they got married but I can't live that life, even for a bad bytch.

Unfortunately, I think this no-contact thing will just be the end for us. She's too stubborn to let this make her fold. Praise God because this other chick texted me out of the blue yesterday, and she's even hotter than the ex so I might just distract myself with her a little. Everything is kind of spinning for me now between work and these dames.

 

[NerdNash]

Day 9 no contact my brehs.

Her sis texted me again today

"She keeps asking me if u hit me up and I lie and say u haven't"

 

[MikelArteta]

Megan fox has only had sex with her husband breh.

Stay strong breh, women just love attention.

One thing I realized in life is we can't blame others, people treat us the way we allow them to.


All you have to do is kill the connection at this point , its the only thing keeping you attached to her.

Day 2 of no contact. She texted me again though. I'm feeling crazy, like half of me wants to call her back and have her stay over tonight and invite her to this festival next week. We were going to take her niece to the aquarium soon too and missing that also making me feel down. The other part of me, it's starting to sink in how much she toyed with me and didn't respect me and it hurts so bad because I love/d her. Why did she do me that way?

You can't be with someone who strings you along and sees you as a consolation prize. I heard Megan Fox demanded an open relationship from her man before they got married but I can't live that life, even for a bad bytch.

Unfortunately, I think this no-contact thing will just be the end for us. She's too stubborn to let this make her fold. Praise God because this other chick texted me out of the blue yesterday, and she's even hotter than the ex so I might just distract myself with her a little. Everything is kind of spinning for me now between work and these dames.