Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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When the one you let get away hits you back
Alright, new girl, new questions.
She was texting me a lot and talking about funny / sexual sh!t but also she really wanted to go slowwww. Two dates later but I'm kind of like. I mean we have plans for Saturday but still something seems off or maybe I'm overthinking and paranoid from my ex. Maybe I just don't understand the "go slow" concept.
I mean this new one, she is sexy as hell but I'm not trying to waste my time. What's your standard operating procedure when you detect maybe she's not that interested, yet there are still dates being scheduled?
I know there's no guide book but I'm trying to be proactive and in the past I probably wouldn't even pick up the signs or would be in denial. At this point, I'm kind of like, well let's see where it goes.
It's a good thing when someone says they want to go slow. It's about being cautious as well. To me it shows they like you enough and to want to get to know you better and see where things lead. I told a guy I was dating last year that I wanted to take things slow, meaning not rush into a relationship. I like him allllooootttttttt but I needed to make sure I got to know him as a person and not build too many castles in the sky. Maybe you should ask her to clarify what she means by "going slow"; is it sex, seeing each other too often, relationship, etc. Find out where her mind is sooner rather than later and this should hopefully help you on where to place things.
I was channel surfing and came across Jerry Springer giving his final thought. Whoever wrote this one was dropping gems. "You can't compete for the heart, it goes where it wants to be."
jerry jerry jerry
life is simple as hell when you follow that, and its true man it's true. I remember when I fixated on my ex it didn't matter what chicks would do, call me all the time, pour out their feelings even if they were beautiful my heart was set and fixated on one girl and I wasted time and opportunities. Never again!!
if someone wants to be with you they will and nothing will stop them and if someone doesn't everything will stop them.
pretty much even if someone gets married and have kids etc. it means nothing, just the other day my moms good friend my mom is in her 50s and so is her friend married her hs sweetheart from like almost 40 years ago, the yboth married had children got divorced and found each other again like some cheesy romantic comedy, but it just goes to show no one can say whats going to happen tomorrow or next year we don't know, you can go outside righ tnow just to check the mailbox and bump into a woman who may be your wife, or you could reconnect with an ex down the line who knows, no one knows the future.
sometimes the best things in lives are unaswered prayers
not even that, imagine if you die tomorrow you would have spent the last few months of your life chasing someone who doesn't want you in that capacity, no one knows when it will be thier last day. I've had friends die in their 20s of cancer, diseases, car crashes etc. Thats why I say to enjoy life, travel, stop putting things off. I'm thankful I'm still alive and breathing, and yeah my life may not be what I imagined at 30 when I was younger but that ain't going to steal my joy or my smile.
At least if I was to croak today, No one can say I haven't enjoyed the last few years of my life, i've been all around by myself just soaking in life, doing what I enjoy,.
When the one you let get away hits you back
Gotta be an amazing feeling lmao
Youseenmywork
KING
What else can I say about this guy...besides write a book
Youseenmywork
KING
I followed that account. shyt had me in my bed like
You have to check out his blog site it. His post are very well thought out .
www.illimitablemen.com
It's like this if there is a fancy restaurant in a low income area, no matter how great your food is, the demographic doesn't have the $$$ nor the acquired taste to buy/appreciate the 70 dollar steak or the expensive bottle of wine on the menu. If no one appreciates that then to make ends meet to excel than the restaurant owner will have to lower his standards/change it's menu to fit in with the mcdonalds, and 4 dollar chinese restaurant special to survive in the area he's in.
if we keep exalting the mcdonalds and chinese take out spots, then the exquisite restaurants will start turning into burger kings and jeremy's fish and chips.
TheArchitect
All Star
Hmmm.....
-Fall/winter right around the corner (in other words, cuffing season_)
-So sexually repressed and isolated from female attention that it's literally starting to HURT?
-I'm still practically a virgin?
Yeah, I think I'd better pull something QUICK...Not gonna fukk up like last time, and get in a relationshyt just because....
-Fall/winter right around the corner (in other words, cuffing season_)
-So sexually repressed and isolated from female attention that it's literally starting to HURT?
-I'm still practically a virgin?
Yeah, I think I'd better pull something QUICK...Not gonna fukk up like last time, and get in a relationshyt just because....
Youseenmywork
KING
Women are irrational and inconsistent, they have a capacity for logic but they are not naturally inclined to reason with it. Women must exert concentrated effort to be logical as it is not their factory setting, unlike men who are, most of the time, rational in nature. A logical woman is easily baited into becoming emotional. Regardless of her intellect women are much more likely to lose lucidity due to their hormonal composition and natural preference for emotion. It is thus by extension of this that we observe they are more easily compromised than men are. Their decisions are based on their current emotional state rather than logic. Once overwhelmed by the feeling of the moment and riding on a tidal wave of emotion, even if an awareness of what is fair and rational remains intact in the woman, she shall opt to ignore it in favour of indulging “what feels right.” Ever witnessed a woman hear something reasonable and in her emotion say “I don’t care!” and then crazily mutter something that makes no sense to anybody but her? This is a prime example of the feminine propensity to “reason” with emotion. Being ruled by emotion, there is thus a proclivity to change erratically and impulsively, leading women to often behave inconsistently and contradictorily in comparison to previous claims and behaviours they have made and exhibited. Watch what she does, not what she says, for women are fickle.
-illimitablemen.com
This guy
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OaklandCertified
Town Business
Breh there is no such thing as going slow or waiting with a woman. She'll be ready to give it up as soon as you get her in her feelings. That's the thing with women, they'll tell you all this bullshyt, but if you sit back and peep game, none of that shyt adds up with their actions. She'll tell one guy she's waiting til marriage, but will bust it open on the first night if she meets the right guy.
DonFrancisco
Your Favorite Tio!
I have question and it weird:
Does anyone just attract a certain nationality of women? I attract two specific nationalities and both are next to each other hahaha. I'm wondering if that has happen to anyone. I guess this would boil down to types of women I attract.
Does anyone just attract a certain nationality of women? I attract two specific nationalities and both are next to each other hahaha. I'm wondering if that has happen to anyone. I guess this would boil down to types of women I attract.
Life seems so much easier when you just srop worrying about women or relationships and just live it.
Whatever happens happens, get that passport plan for a trip and
Dudes be wasting their time trying to model women and figure out how they can readjust themselves to produce a loyal outcome in women. A woman is going to do whatever it's in her mind to do. If she's moral and loyal, hopefully she'll stick around. Otherwise, you don't know where or when she'll choose to dip out.
No need to sit around wasting your life and making your joy dependent on what a woman may or may not do. If she's going to be down with me, cool. If not, cool, I'm going to still enjoy my life.
Men need to stop building their self worth around the attention they are getting from women.