Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DAlbert]

My new girl goes to a Methodist church multiple times a week and told me she hasn't dated anyone for 9 months and hasn't had sex in 18 months. I actually believe her too. We talked about what "going slow" was going to mean and she kinda said she'd like to go slow in all ways, which I can accept. However I STILL don't want to waste my time, but, I mean in this case we only started talking last Tuesday.

We got to talking a little bit last night and I think we're good. Next date is a local music festival on Saturday, should be a good time. This girl is really sweet and nice (and hot) so I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt in these early stages, because normally I tend to attract bytches.

On picking girls up for the first date etiquette, I like to meet there on the first date and then pick her up after that point.

 

[Action Mike]

I agree. Last year I was smashing this exchange student from Asia. She wanted to take it super slow so i did. At the same time I was dating this other chick. I made the decision to table exchange student's ass and talk to her on a weekly basis. Talk enough to establish myself as a possible lover in her mind but i never revealed too much of myself. I always kept her on her toes and kept that mystery. 2 months passby and we smashed. She didn't care i was smashing another chick.

What I'm saying is women are different and you have run game on them on a case by case basis. The girl I was dating, i moved quick like thunder and the side girl, she wanted to move slow do i adjusted accordingly. The side girl thought she was running game by not giving in to my advances (it did work, i was kinda feeling her) but at the end i kept my composure. The funny part was i told her i wanted to have fun and nothing else and she was cool with it.

Women aren't objects brehs, there is never a 100% set formula for running game lol. The only absolute rule in the dating game is to value yourself a great deal and being confident. Just my 2 cents over my limited experience in being back in the dating game.

Fair enough breh, the main thing i got from you experience was that she wasnt your only option. If that was the case it would have been a different story to a simping path. You treated her accordingly and thats why you won.

Sounds like she was just after the attention if she was cool with you smashing other chicks.

 

[jadillac]

So this, asst nurse at the eye doctors office I take my uncle to had the front desk lady slip me her number last time. She said she'd been eyeing me the past few times and wanted to give me her number.


So long story short, we text frequently for a few days and I hit her last Wed and asked if she'd like to hang out on Friday. She texted "Absolutely! (and bunch of Emoji heart-faces)" So we keep going back & forth the next day or so about what we're gonna do on the date(first she said dinner...then she suggested having drinks instead, but we never settled on where)....so Friday rolls around, I text her asking how her day is & if we're still on for this evening....she doesn't reply. I texted back a couple hrs later like, "You don't have to go if you don't want to." She says, "Go where?" At this point I'm like So she then again suggested going for Drinks, but never said anything else. No time, no place, nothing. So I was pretty much like

In my opinion, if you REALLY like someone and want to hang out with them, as long y'all have a genera idea of what ur doing, you can figure out details once you meet up.

So she never hit me back that evening or thru the wknd, therefore I deleted her number. But this Monday morn. she texts me like, "Morning, don't forget ur uncle has an apptmnt today."



I never even replied back.


I have no time for this type of BS. Chicks are in love one minute, then the next they're flaking out.

 

[Fatboi1]

So this, asst nurse at the eye doctors office I take my uncle to had the front desk lady slip me her number last time. She said she'd been eyeing me the past few times and wanted to give me her number.


So long story short, we text frequently for a few days and I hit her last Wed and asked if she'd like to hang out on Friday. She texted "Absolutely! (and bunch of Emoji heart-faces)" So we keep going back & forth the next day or so about what we're gonna do on the date(first she said dinner...then she suggested having drinks instead, but we never settled on where)....so Friday rolls around, I text her asking how her day is & if we're still on for this evening....she doesn't reply. I texted back a couple hrs later like, "You don't have to go if you don't want to." She says, "Go where?" At this point I'm like So she then again suggested going for Drinks, but never said anything else. No time, no place, nothing. So I was pretty much like

In my opinion, if you REALLY like someone and want to hang out with them, as long y'all have a genera idea of what ur doing, you can figure out details once you meet up.

So she never hit me back that evening or thru the wknd, therefore I deleted her number. But this Monday morn. she texts me like, "Morning, don't forget ur uncle has an apptmnt today."



I never even replied back.


I have no time for this type of BS. Chicks are in love one minute, then the next they're flaking out.

shyt like that would have me tight. I IMMEDIATELY back out when bullshyt tlike tthatt arises.

 

[Pyrexcup]

So this, asst nurse at the eye doctors office I take my uncle to had the front desk lady slip me her number last time. She said she'd been eyeing me the past few times and wanted to give me her number.


So long story short, we text frequently for a few days and I hit her last Wed and asked if she'd like to hang out on Friday. She texted "Absolutely! (and bunch of Emoji heart-faces)" So we keep going back & forth the next day or so about what we're gonna do on the date(first she said dinner...then she suggested having drinks instead, but we never settled on where)....so Friday rolls around, I text her asking how her day is & if we're still on for this evening....she doesn't reply. I texted back a couple hrs later like, "You don't have to go if you don't want to." She says, "Go where?" At this point I'm like So she then again suggested going for Drinks, but never said anything else. No time, no place, nothing. So I was pretty much like

In my opinion, if you REALLY like someone and want to hang out with them, as long y'all have a genera idea of what ur doing, you can figure out details once you meet up.

So she never hit me back that evening or thru the wknd, therefore I deleted her number. But this Monday morn. she texts me like, "Morning, don't forget ur uncle has an apptmnt today."



I never even replied back.


I have no time for this type of BS. Chicks are in love one minute, then the next they're flaking out.

you were her backup plan

 

[DAlbert]

So this, asst nurse at the eye doctors office I take my uncle to had the front desk lady slip me her number last time. She said she'd been eyeing me the past few times and wanted to give me her number.


So long story short, we text frequently for a few days and I hit her last Wed and asked if she'd like to hang out on Friday. She texted "Absolutely! (and bunch of Emoji heart-faces)" So we keep going back & forth the next day or so about what we're gonna do on the date(first she said dinner...then she suggested having drinks instead, but we never settled on where)....so Friday rolls around, I text her asking how her day is & if we're still on for this evening....she doesn't reply. I texted back a couple hrs later like, "You don't have to go if you don't want to." She says, "Go where?" At this point I'm like So she then again suggested going for Drinks, but never said anything else. No time, no place, nothing. So I was pretty much like

In my opinion, if you REALLY like someone and want to hang out with them, as long y'all have a genera idea of what ur doing, you can figure out details once you meet up.

So she never hit me back that evening or thru the wknd, therefore I deleted her number. But this Monday morn. she texts me like, "Morning, don't forget ur uncle has an apptmnt today."



I never even replied back.


I have no time for this type of BS. Chicks are in love one minute, then the next they're flaking out.

even when women show interest first

 

[RealAssanova]

So this, asst nurse at the eye doctors office I take my uncle to had the front desk lady slip me her number last time. She said she'd been eyeing me the past few times and wanted to give me her number.


So long story short, we text frequently for a few days and I hit her last Wed and asked if she'd like to hang out on Friday. She texted "Absolutely! (and bunch of Emoji heart-faces)" So we keep going back & forth the next day or so about what we're gonna do on the date(first she said dinner...then she suggested having drinks instead, but we never settled on where)....so Friday rolls around, I text her asking how her day is & if we're still on for this evening....she doesn't reply. I texted back a couple hrs later like, "You don't have to go if you don't want to." She says, "Go where?" At this point I'm like So she then again suggested going for Drinks, but never said anything else. No time, no place, nothing. So I was pretty much like

In my opinion, if you REALLY like someone and want to hang out with them, as long y'all have a genera idea of what ur doing, you can figure out details once you meet up.

So she never hit me back that evening or thru the wknd, therefore I deleted her number. But this Monday morn. she texts me like, "Morning, don't forget ur uncle has an apptmnt today."



I never even replied back.


I have no time for this type of BS. Chicks are in love one minute, then the next they're flaking out.

delete. Don't question it or yourself.

let her blow up your phone....but ignore that shyt and delete every text she sends you.

When you see her, be the coldest motherfukka she has ever seen and don't say shyt to her apart from medically related stuff.

 

[MikelArteta]

Trust me women don't forget no matter how busy they are.

It's just like deandre Jordan she got a better offer, Nd instead of informing you she just goes silent.

If there's one thing that I've come to realize for the most part all that texting and crap before a first date just kills it.

It's Monday your meeting her on Friday, tell her all right Friday at 7 I'll meet you at so and so. And then that's it.

Thursday comes around you'll be like hey just been busy wih work all week see you tomorrow at 7.

That's it if she goes silent she'll look bad as hell.

I remember what the breh @TRUEST said a while back don't ask Tell

And that morning text crap, women always pop up like jack in the box when a little guilt comes over them

So this, asst nurse at the eye doctors office I take my uncle to had the front desk lady slip me her number last time. She said she'd been eyeing me the past few times and wanted to give me her number.


So long story short, we text frequently for a few days and I hit her last Wed and asked if she'd like to hang out on Friday. She texted "Absolutely! (and bunch of Emoji heart-faces)" So we keep going back & forth the next day or so about what we're gonna do on the date(first she said dinner...then she suggested having drinks instead, but we never settled on where)....so Friday rolls around, I text her asking how her day is & if we're still on for this evening....she doesn't reply. I texted back a couple hrs later like, "You don't have to go if you don't want to." She says, "Go where?" At this point I'm like So she then again suggested going for Drinks, but never said anything else. No time, no place, nothing. So I was pretty much like

In my opinion, if you REALLY like someone and want to hang out with them, as long y'all have a genera idea of what ur doing, you can figure out details once you meet up.

So she never hit me back that evening or thru the wknd, therefore I deleted her number. But this Monday morn. she texts me like, "Morning, don't forget ur uncle has an apptmnt today."



I never even replied back.


I have no time for this type of BS. Chicks are in love one minute, then the next they're flaking out.

 

[wild cherry blossom]

Lol

 

[Rocket Scientist]

People come and go in your life let them go

 

[reserved_one]

Me and my girl just broke up.....
Apart me is Another part me is right now


Either way...I feel like it was the right move for the both of us. Its sucks...You put your all into someone just to go to waste.


I'll bounce back tho

 

[reserved_one]

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[Youseenmywork]

The man ...the myth ...the legend Rollo Tomassi



Best quote :"There is no quality women"
Best quote : "Ive been married for 19yrs but i know it could end tomorrow....and i wouldnt get married again"

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[NerdNash]

Me and my girl just broke up.....
Apart me is Another part me is right now


Either way...I feel like it was the right move for the both of us. Its sucks...You put your all into someone just to go to waste.


I'll bounce back tho

Lol good luck

 

[Action Mike]

Trust me women don't forget no matter how busy they are.

It's just like deandre Jordan she got a better offer, Nd instead of informing you she just goes silent.

If there's one thing that I've come to realize for the most part all that texting and crap before a first date just kills it.

It's Monday your meeting her on Friday, tell her all right Friday at 7 I'll meet you at so and so. And then that's it.

Thursday comes around you'll be like hey just been busy wih work all week see you tomorrow at 7.

That's it if she goes silent she'll look bad as hell.

I remember what the breh @TRUEST said a while back don't ask Tell

And that morning text crap, women always pop up like jack in the box when a little guilt comes over them

Yep, dap. @jadillac she was flakey but should have put it like, Let's meet x for drink at 8pm. Done.