Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Action Mike

All praise..
Joined
Feb 24, 2014
Messages
6,694
Reputation
749
Daps
30,102
Trust me women don't forget no matter how busy they are.

It's just like deandre Jordan she got a better offer, Nd instead of informing you she just goes silent.

If there's one thing that I've come to realize for the most part all that texting and crap before a first date just kills it.

It's Monday your meeting her on Friday, tell her all right Friday at 7 I'll meet you at so and so. And then that's it.

Thursday comes around you'll be like hey just been busy wih work all week see you tomorrow at 7.

That's it if she goes silent she'll look bad as hell.

I remember what the breh @TRUEST said a while back don't ask Tell

And that morning text crap, women always pop up like jack in the box when a little guilt comes over them

Yep, dap. @jadillac she was flakey but should have put it like, Let's meet x for drink at 8pm. Done.
 

Kal El

All Star
Joined
May 18, 2012
Messages
2,860
Reputation
440
Daps
11,897
Reppin
USA



Damn :wow:

They won't wait for you to win :whew:






Okay just stop DAMN :wow::wow::wow:


This shyt is making me re-consider my date tonight.

Got matched up with this chick who has a master's & has her stuff together. Meanwhile I'm still working on my BA.

Fukk it, what do I have to lose.
Trust me women don't forget no matter how busy they are.

It's just like deandre Jordan she got a better offer, Nd instead of informing you she just goes silent.

If there's one thing that I've come to realize for the most part all that texting and crap before a first date just kills it.

It's Monday your meeting her on Friday, tell her all right Friday at 7 I'll meet you at so and so. And then that's it.

Thursday comes around you'll be like hey just been busy wih work all week see you tomorrow at 7.


That's it if she goes silent she'll look bad as hell.

I remember what the breh @TRUEST said a while back don't ask Tell

And that morning text crap, women always pop up like jack in the box when a little guilt comes over them
:ohhh:

Good lookin out. I've been wondering what to do in that 3-4 day waiting period when you set up a date early in the week.
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
258,981
Reputation
33,775
Daps
791,258
Reppin
Champions league
This shyt is making me re-consider my date tonight.

Got matched up with this chick who has a master's & has her stuff together. Meanwhile I'm still working on my BA.

Fukk it, what do I have to lose.

:ohhh:

Good lookin out. I've been wondering what to do in that 3-4 day waiting period when you set up a date early in the week.

the more you chit chat and talk it kills the mysterious and plus you may say something she doesnt like.

how was your day?

i was driving today from work and this person cut me off, these asian drivers they suck, lol.

oh my best friend is asian

:ufdup:
 

Action Mike

All praise..
Joined
Feb 24, 2014
Messages
6,694
Reputation
749
Daps
30,102
the more you chit chat and talk it kills the mysterious and plus you may say something she doesnt like.

how was your day?

i was driving today from work and this person cut me off, these asian drivers they suck, lol.

oh my best friend is asian

:ufdup:

:mjcry:

Happened recently.
 

NerdNash

Superstar
Joined
May 30, 2012
Messages
8,023
Reputation
567
Daps
16,761
Reppin
Delaware
This shyt is making me re-consider my date tonight.

Got matched up with this chick who has a master's & has her stuff together. Meanwhile I'm still working on my BA.

Fukk it, what do I have to lose.

:ohhh:

Yo that Twitter account is amazing and the website is even more amazing
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
258,981
Reputation
33,775
Daps
791,258
Reppin
Champions league
The funny thing is if your a man who doesn't conform to how things are and speak out your labelled bitter, frustrated, your gay you hate women, you don't get any puzzy. And all those other shaming language bs...


It's like hating doctors because they diagnose heart disease and cancer


Yo that Twitter account is amazing and the website is even more amazing
 

Easy-E

TSC's Ric Flair | Heel
Supporter
Joined
Jun 8, 2012
Messages
55,883
Reputation
10,113
Daps
165,939
Reppin
Negativity (Kayfabe)
This shyt is making me re-consider my date tonight.

Got matched up with this chick who has a master's & has her stuff together. Meanwhile I'm still working on my BA.

Fukk it, what do I have to lose.
I hear you, but; reading a blog a breh posted earlier, in the thread, (blackgirlsareeasy [I do not like the title BTW]) you prolly shouldn't be so insecure about still coming up.

She prolly can't find a man with a masters and aint trippin' off it.

Don't judge yourself based on material stuff--trust me, I'm struggling with it, now.

:sadcam: My Bachelors ain't got me a job, yet.
 

Virtuous_Brotha

Superstar
Joined
May 3, 2012
Messages
9,040
Reputation
1,397
Daps
20,613
Reppin
NULL
so this chick i've been texting for a few weeks (havent met yet) just blocked me on whatsapp because i wouldnt borrow her money and yesterday a chick i spoke with on tinder said i sounded white on a voicenote :what:
Chicks my age are something else man, got me sounding like im on some kent shyt but damn if you aint a hood dude or a hipster fakkit you dont stand a chance half the time.
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
258,981
Reputation
33,775
Daps
791,258
Reppin
Champions league
I hear you, but; reading a blog a breh posted earlier, in the thread, (blackgirlsareeasy [I do not like the title BTW]) you prolly shouldn't be so insecure about still coming up.

She prolly can't find a man with a masters and aint trippin' off it.

Don't judge yourself based on material stuff--trust me, I'm struggling with it, now.

:sadcam: My Bachelors ain't got me a job, yet.

material stuff can be here today and gone tomorrow

you can have a 6 figure job today and on monday your fired, tuesday you see a lump on your chest, wed your diagnosed with cancer, thursday your wife cant take it anymore and leaves you and friday you have to sell your house because you cant afford it anymore.

all these things are temporary meaningless
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
258,981
Reputation
33,775
Daps
791,258
Reppin
Champions league
so this chick i've been texting for a few weeks (havent met yet) just blocked me on whatsapp because i wouldnt borrow her money and yesterday a chick i spoke with on tinder said i sounded white on a voicenote :what:
Chicks my age are something else man, got me sounding like im on some kent shyt but damn if you aint a hood dude or a hipster fakkit you dont stand a chance half the time.

man once you start texting with these chicks meet asap or you just become mr text buddy, she blocked you on whatsapp over soem money already red flags, when seh unblocks you dont fall for her trap

again when it comes down to it a chick will like you or not like you, theres really nothing you can do.

if a chick likes you your white sounding voice is cute
if she doesn't you have a white sounding voice


ive gone out on a date where i probably only said 5 words because I was shy as hell back then, yet that chick found it cute as hell because she liked me

another chick who would not have been interested would have found me awkard lame etc.
 

DAlbert

All Star
Joined
Jan 12, 2014
Messages
5,095
Reputation
690
Daps
12,410
man once you start texting with these chicks meet asap or you just become mr text buddy, she blocked you on whatsapp over soem money already red flags, when seh unblocks you dont fall for her trap

again when it comes down to it a chick will like you or not like you, theres really nothing you can do.

if a chick likes you your white sounding voice is cute
if she doesn't you have a white sounding voice


ive gone out on a date where i probably only said 5 words because I was shy as hell back then, yet that chick found it cute as hell because she liked me

another chick who would not have been interested would have found me awkard lame etc.
all true.
 

Fatboi1

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
61,611
Reputation
8,160
Daps
112,890
so this chick i've been texting for a few weeks (havent met yet) just blocked me on whatsapp because i wouldnt borrow her money and yesterday a chick i spoke with on tinder said i sounded white on a voicenote :what:
Chicks my age are something else man, got me sounding like im on some kent shyt but damn if you aint a hood dude or a hipster fakkit you dont stand a chance half the time.
I'm sorry:dead: .
 

havoc

Superstar
Joined
Jun 29, 2012
Messages
11,097
Reputation
1,120
Daps
26,744
Reppin
Live your own life
Have any brethren come across any woman who likes to discuss finance and creating businesses? I'm noticing that is a rare quality in the women whom I encountered. I assuming it is my environment or maybe is not a common topic to discuss.
 

Fatboi1

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
61,611
Reputation
8,160
Daps
112,890
I don't know why but out of boredom I texted my ex on some bullshyt.

Basically nothing of substance came out of it. Just a how are you, I was thinking of you so I hit you up ordeal. It felt too friendly and safe so I ejected out the text once I caught myself texting just so. She sent the last text so I just left it there. If she don't hit me up again then:manny:

Honestly I feel like a sucka though :snoop:
 
Last edited:
Top